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December 3rd, 2016
**The Most Legit Natural Game Technique**
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Spitkicker

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Join Date: 02/04/2007 | Posts: 135

Ok guys, this is a big one, listen up.

As many of you may or may not know, i run 100% natural game and do very little to "manufacture" attraction.

There is ONE element though, present in nearly every pickup that hooks chicks like CRACK and pumps up there attraction.

The best part is...it takes ZERO effort.

Let's call it hot/cold for our purpose.

The general principle is you come in warm and approval giving, and then after the first thirty positive seconds, go cold.

Not mean, just loose interest.

So:

In line for coffee

Natural: Haha I'd never eat anything that looked like that!
them: Hahah I knoww, its crazy looking.
Natural: Wait, are you from brazil?
them: noooo i wish i was.
natural: Oh, wow..i was way off..i just met a brazillian girl last week and you sound like her...hah oh well...turn away and act disinterested.

What you have done is provided her with a friendly, pleasurable interaction.

Now, you take it away. Don't do it in a mean way, just lose all intesrest.

You have essentially validated her and then taken that validation away..she will now begin the chase and if you can hold normal conversation you can close her.

This works for many reasons and on many levels.

Displays interest not desire
The contrast of going from warm to cold intensifies both emotional responses.

Establishes you as the giver of approval.


I have used it hundreds of times and it's just a very natural way to come in friendly, be yourself, and at the same time be a challenge.

Essentially it's a reverse 'neg'.

After 3 years or so doing this stuff...it's the only 'strategy' i would recommend.

Enjoy fellas.

Spitkicker
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Mike Jones

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Join Date: 09/20/2006 | Posts: 126

HOLY SH T! I was doing this the whole time, and I didn't even know what it was... thanks for opening my eyes there man!

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Red Leader

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Join Date: 08/22/2006 | Posts: 1729

yeah i do this fairly often... it's pretty much my whole game. Hot and cold. I get warm, then I take it away. It's kind of like playing with a toy. When I played with my army toys in the dirt I didn't just annhiliate the enemy, I had it pretty even and had one side winning then the other side winning and kept it dynamic with explosions coming out of nowhere, then silence, then planes came over... lol funny analogy, but I like to keep my sets in a pretty big dynamic as well... I'm the puppetmaster of the interaction and I like to have fun, but because I'm an awesome guy, people like to play with me and I don't abuse the interaction.
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redshirt

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Join Date: 09/20/2006 | Posts: 707

That's an interesting technique. If you want to extend it further, create an open loop or two in there and then go cold, and watch them try to pick the interaction back up again ;)
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Slowmo

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Join Date: 12/30/2006 | Posts: 118

hehe, I can see how this is golden for places like work, school, classes etc. but I don't know about in a starbucks for example.

You: Walking 20 feet from your table and open them warm.

They: Positive for 30 sec.

You: Turn cold after 30 sec. and turning your back, still standing there.... Lol.

essentially just places where you have to go out of your way to open.
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framecontrol

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Join Date: 04/29/2007 | Posts: 184

i defiantly like this and i have been doing it unconsciously.
you cant let it slip to far or else it will seem that you got siked out by her.
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ware_ru

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Join Date: 09/21/2006 | Posts: 327

What if she doesn't reinitiate with you?
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Black Irish

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Join Date: 03/18/2007 | Posts: 157

ware_ru Wrote:
What if she doesn't reinitiate with you?


Go to the next one!
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MySelf

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Join Date: 09/10/2006 | Posts: 168

Yeah, this is awesome. It's like you go around planting seeds, just being the cool social guy.

To the guys who said "going out of your way to open" and "what if she doesn't reinitiate?" - the whole point of this is that you aren't really TRYING to pick them up. You're not sitting in starbucks thinking "OMG! That girl's sooo hot, I'm gonna get her number."

You're just standing in line and saying what's on your mind; being pro-social. If you hit it off with that girl, great! If not, there's billions more out there, no worries.
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ware_ru

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Join Date: 09/21/2006 | Posts: 327

MySelf Wrote:
Yeah, this is awesome. It's like you go around planting seeds, just being the cool social guy.

To the guys who said "going out of your way to open" and "what if she doesn't reinitiate?" - the whole point of this is that you aren't really TRYING to pick them up. You're not sitting in starbucks thinking "OMG! That girl's sooo hot, I'm gonna get her number."

You're just standing in line and saying what's on your mind; being pro-social. If you hit it off with that girl, great! If not, there's billions more out there, no worries.


That's ridiculous. You are saying to only go for the girls who are interested in you within the first 30 seconds of the interaction. That's not what pickup is about.

If this is just a "social" technique - whatever that means - sure. But the title of the thread says GAME technique. The purpose of GAME is to have sex with girls. If being social is conducive to it (and it is!) then that's fantastic. But the purpose of a GAME technique is to pickup girls and have sex with them.

It's like the point Tyler makes in every other one of his archive posts - all those guys who improve their game and are like "fuck this shit, I don't need GAAAAME" and then they lose their skills and stop having sex with girls.
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#10

therion

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Join Date: 08/22/2006 | Posts: 10

You can see Brad Pitt doing this ALL THE TIME in both Fight Club and Ocean's Eleven. Watch those movies again with this in mind. Notice the fucking vacuum it is creating.
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