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Distant Light

Distant Light

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Join Date: 08/22/2006 | Posts: 2390

Everyone who approaches women and are actually out there constantly I must give props, because I'm about to out and just say fuck this and everything else.

Who knew talking to women would be so hard and all they are, are human beings. I'm at the point where I realized I wasted so much fucking time. I probably knew about this community for maybe 4 years! An there isn't shit that I could say has happened besides me being more positive, but I think I was better off being how I was before.

So I said I was going to start approaching constantly. Girl from school is sitting by me and you know what I did...

...I talked for about 1 minute like any girl and then instantly talk to my male friend for about 1 hour. (Yep only a gay person would do that)

So what was the rest of the day like...me staring at girls chest because its hot out and thinking "Wow I'd hit it?" How in the world would I hit it if I can even get her...

...But then a girl happens to sit within proxmity. (My Booth!) She even pours me a drink and speaks to me and I didn't do a thing. But wait do I do anything...hell no after that 1 minute I speak to my friends until she leaves.

Then going home nothing but girls, girls, girls. Guys with hot girls. An me going home.

I then realized guys who are actually out I respect big time because out of all the dumb shit and wild stuff I'd do and try, when it comes to girls that isn't the case.

I'm about to just stop thinking about girls and even thinking about getting anymore. I'll go back to my old serious, WAR BUFF, wannabe military guy, and end up just going into the military and forget everything else. This was a waste of about 4 years, I haven't even kissed a girl since my gf in 8th grade! Sad but true. Much Respect to the guys actually living the lifestyle.

Edit - I also realize it makes no sense to not even waste my money on a bootcamp why? Because I won't do shit. I really think me being good with women has to do with my ego, because deep down I don't think I need women, I don't even think I need because it really seems like this was something to stroke my ego. I'm never really thinking about women. (Yep I must be gay)
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Rich~

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Join Date: 09/19/2006 | Posts: 1573

Re-read that quote in your signature dude.
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Jack Diesel

Jack Diesel

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Join Date: 01/02/2007 | Posts: 1087

DL,

Chin up, man! I think you are on the right track, don't fret now!

Who cares how much time you 'wasted?' you are here now, and dwelling on the past will never move you forward. We have all missed many opportunities and wasted much time on so many different things, but the only thing you can do is make sure you take opportunity as it comes up in the future, or at least try to!

It's good that you were even able to talk to these girls for one whole minute. Alot of guys aren't even able to do THAT.

Can I ask you if you have ever done a Boot Camp?

I'd reckon that if you have the testicular fortitude to grab your rifle and put some lead in a dude's skull at one hundred paces, that you can switch that dedication and discipline to improving in your life what you really want to improve.

Before you go off and do the Boot Camp with Guns, see if you can save up some cash and take yourself a three day vacation to do a Boot Camp with Tits.

The instructers are FUCKING PROFESSIONAL and A HALF. If anyone can help you push past this, it would be them.

-JD
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Distant Light

Distant Light

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Join Date: 08/22/2006 | Posts: 2390

Fuck it its either get laid or die trying. I'm sitting here thinking "Fuck no I can't out on this shit."

Fuck it I'm on some "Get laid or die tryin" shit. Like stuart once told me "Get blown or blown out" I'm going to escalate tomorrow. I'm going to actually push myself.

This whole time I was basically running on the sidelines afraid to just jump into the fucking end zone. Like seriously I need to focus in on this stuff because I'm not fully committed.

So tomorrow I shall escalate and escalate no matter what. I will push myself in some way shape or form.

An no I've never taken a bootcamp but part of me always knew it would knock down the fucking walls that are holding me back, because when I was real young I was a natural dude...but once high school hit I created so many limiting beliefs that half of them I don't even know.

Wait until tomorrow...
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peacekeeper

peacekeeper

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Join Date: 09/20/2006 | Posts: 403

Distant Light Wrote:


Edit - I also realize it makes no sense to not even waste my money on a bootcamp why? Because I won't do shit.


I wouldn't say that about a boot camp.

The only reason you think it would be a waste of money, is because you've already deemed it as a failure. When I went to my bootcamp 2 weekends ago, I thought that "This is the biggest waste of money" the entire drive to LA. But seriously the instructors make pick-up something really easy, and fun. You'd be really surprised in the ways your character changes in such little time.

Honesty you don't just learn pick-up, you also learn how to tool guys. At first I didn't think I really needed to learn how to do this, but I'm already doing it naturaly, and guys back down instantly.

But if you want to think boot camp is a waste, more power to you brother. I'm just telling you, that you should judge something you have no knowledge about. But judging by your additude you're probably not going to listen to me, so the only advice I can give you that you'll even remotly consider is find a wingman.

Anyways, you'll figure it out

Peace.
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Distant Light

Distant Light

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Join Date: 08/22/2006 | Posts: 2390

I know a bootcamp would help me but I was kind of pissed...and the funny thing is today wasn't even really as bad as I made it seem.

But I was reading up on low sex drive and stuff like that because I really thought I was asexual. (I know I'm not gay:D) But the thing I realized is I never really had that sexual and lustful desire when it comes to sex and that is why I haven't really tried escalating and why "I couldn't get it up"

For a long time I had a hard time showing emotions and I always used to be considered "Emotionless". I never showed any expression as one girl says.

The reason why I think I haven't gone far is because I didn't have the desire to pickup. It was fun at times but I didn't have the burning desire to pickup or to even get laid. I'll probably start working on this and see if I have my old sex drive and to see if I actually push myself.

Because I remember before I knew about the community I was a beast. I wanted and I was always going for it. I'd put my dick on girls or take there hands and put it on my dick. I'd be real close and all that stuff, but I had stopped that. But no more...
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shackleton

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Join Date: 02/27/2007 | Posts: 49

i think you are depressed. hence no emotion, feeling like things are going to fail before you try, lacking sex drive etc.
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theLog

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Join Date: 09/21/2006 | Posts: 840

Maybe you've just never had sex with a girl who knew how to turn you on. Some girls I've been with - even if attractive - just didn't have much sex appeal.

A bootcamp would get you in a balanced mindset, so you wouldn't be as confused as you are now - like a woman.

Few of these threads lately... lets all quit and go back to sitting on death row with our beers in hand, talking about football.... hmm.... dude, this is the HARDEST part (getting the ball rolling)

- Dan
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Kaleidoscope

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Join Date: 09/20/2006 | Posts: 2063

Dude you haven't wasted four years. Ive known about RSD for two, and been on the forum for nearly 6 months, and I haven't made any 'material' progress apart from becoming cooler, more positive and having a more empowering concept of reality. To be totally honest it won't be anytime soon that I get laid. IMO high school can fcuk you up big time, and it can take years to 'unlearn' the chodely attitudes and behaviours that become ingrained, even if you were cool as a kid. Hang in there dude.
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Kakánr1

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Join Date: 01/08/2007 | Posts: 923

"This whole time I was basically running on the sidelines afraid to just jump into the fucking end zone." Yeah well the thing IS. There is no "fucking end zone". Wtf. Just go have fun! That´s the only way you´ll get laid anyways. And yeah I can think, too, that taking a pause is a GOOD thing. It´s time wasted if you´re obsessed with this all day long. I know because what I did a year ago when I was really really desperate was that I....this is so fucked up but I mentally rehearsed meeting girls all day long and got a scarcity mindset IN MY HEAD and started seeing myself fail all the time. I´m not sure how it happened but I´m pretty DAMN sure it had something to do with my not being able concentrate on other stuff, ever (for that time).

Hey, and if you´re low on sex drive...Yeah, do what you used to do, sounds good! But to amplify it even more - what you could do - try putting on some rocking music...rock out as hard as you can every morning before work. I - atleast - get a crazy-like-high from this. It´s like I can explode with happiness :). It´s pretty FUCKING hard to be depressed or low on energy when in that state.
Also! Take on the mindset "I´m here to fuck and dominate" for a period of time. Don´t TRY to do it, just like say the it to yourself and don´t think of it. Just let it affect you. It´s crazy.

Hope this have helped! GOOD LUCK! shades
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Magnum~

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Join Date: 04/24/2007 | Posts: 39

hey guys,

I hate reading this shit. I've been there. This is only opinion based, take it at your own discretion.

Im the result of some terrible parenting, one of my siblings is a drug dealer the other is clinically obese.

Through school i had few friends and was often down-right rejected. Buuuut, like all the guys im here i had a decent brain and cognition. Everyone on here is vrey intelligent.

Your brain is like a muscle... the more you use it the more it grows! Exercise it properly it will gain reistance endurance and resilliance. It will be trained. Be strong.

Human beings are unique from the rest of the world. we can change in a whim and adapt to our surround becuase of our higher cognition. And, as a free added in bonus, we can adapt our external physicallity to suit our environment.

I have two great girlfriends, and heaps of great friends and many sexual experiences under my belt. This can all be learnt.

Go and hire the movie hitch and think of Albert. These sorts of things happen. you know the beauty of [thinking you have] no success? There is only one way out... and that is upwards.

I cant accept that you will down tools and resign. Join a multisex club where you are forced to talk to girls! You are a man... its your right to enjoy female company.

We expect to hear back from you soon. there is only one way out of here bro,

Magnum~
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