I went to a party, a few random things that happened with questions:
1) In general, and this has been the case recently in social situations a lot, I've been very low energy and not talkative. but I'm not being non-positive, I'm generally nonreactive, and it's not like I'm filtering what I'm saying, in fact often, and in this case, I just don't give a fuck about keeping conversation alive. There was a time when I was talking to two chicks and it trailed off and I didn't care but after a while they got kinda uncomfortable and one said "someone say something!". I guess I should probably force being more high energy but how do you force it without being try-hard?
2) at one point a chick talked to me and she really hit me, she was purty, and she kept asking answering and seeming quite interested in whatever I answered. we had a little moment, I guess. but at some point she went to get a drink and I she wasn't there long
3) this is the most interesting episode that I could use some thoughts on. I get a booty call from a BJB and I say I'm down and she says she'll call when she's back. then my buddy's FB is there and she's fucked up and she says she's going and I can go with her if I want. I think "oh!" now she's fucked up so she's not really turning me on and she's hard to read, and also she's my friend's FB. I get a call from BJB, I screen it out. I'm thinking a new girl is better than an old girl, and to give this a go and put BJB on backup. But on the other hand 1) I like this BJB, she's being well-behaved and took a while to convert into anything mildly regular and I don't want to discourage her bootycalls and 2) it can show low value to pass up someone for her right there. What do you think?
and 3) what do you think of digging in your friend's team? is that straight secret society shit, or too scarcity mindset? personally I don't care if a friend fucks someone I'm fucking but perhaps some guys would think differently?
Anyway she asks if I want to get food I tell her I have food. I sort of have food. We start watching shit on my laptop, I get a bit cuddly but she pulls the "I'm too tired, I think I'm gonna go" pretty quick and I just let her go. Don't bother #Cing (IME if it doesn't happen on first night when logistics are good, it won't happen)
So I go visit BJB after this chick leaves. She's horny as fuck and I get like 2 hours of sleep because I keep doing stuff to her while she spasms.
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1) In general, and this has been the case recently in social situations a lot, I've been very low energy and not talkative. but I'm not being non-positive, I'm generally nonreactive, and it's not like I'm filtering what I'm saying, in fact often, and in this case, I just don't give a fuck about keeping conversation alive. There was a time when I was talking to two chicks and it trailed off and I didn't care but after a while they got kinda uncomfortable and one said "someone say something!". I guess I should probably force being more high energy but how do you force it without being try-hard?
2) at one point a chick talked to me and she really hit me, she was purty, and she kept asking answering and seeming quite interested in whatever I answered. we had a little moment, I guess. but at some point she went to get a drink and I she wasn't there long
3) this is the most interesting episode that I could use some thoughts on. I get a booty call from a BJB and I say I'm down and she says she'll call when she's back. then my buddy's FB is there and she's fucked up and she says she's going and I can go with her if I want. I think "oh!" now she's fucked up so she's not really turning me on and she's hard to read, and also she's my friend's FB. I get a call from BJB, I screen it out. I'm thinking a new girl is better than an old girl, and to give this a go and put BJB on backup. But on the other hand 1) I like this BJB, she's being well-behaved and took a while to convert into anything mildly regular and I don't want to discourage her bootycalls and 2) it can show low value to pass up someone for her right there. What do you think?
and 3) what do you think of digging in your friend's team? is that straight secret society shit, or too scarcity mindset? personally I don't care if a friend fucks someone I'm fucking but perhaps some guys would think differently?
Anyway she asks if I want to get food I tell her I have food. I sort of have food. We start watching shit on my laptop, I get a bit cuddly but she pulls the "I'm too tired, I think I'm gonna go" pretty quick and I just let her go. Don't bother #Cing (IME if it doesn't happen on first night when logistics are good, it won't happen)
So I go visit BJB after this chick leaves. She's horny as fuck and I get like 2 hours of sleep because I keep doing stuff to her while she spasms.