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I don't think you're allowed to say that here! :)
Spitkicker Wrote:
I bet the lay rate goes up. ALOT.
i bet you half the people here are virgins... lol
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uh..if I go out with the boys or even with social circle and not care about getting girls I end up not approaching much, if at all, and certainly not attracting or closing. never got laid with this frame
but frame of "I gotta get laid tonight" sucks too. I think the frame of having fun sarging and practicing your game is the best
but frame of "I gotta get laid tonight" sucks too. I think the frame of having fun sarging and practicing your game is the best
minor adjustment to the attitude: 'not wanting it = getting it'.
Try adopting the philosophy that "only wantig it with girls who are of a certain standard and who have proven themselfs (through qualifying themselfs to you) are worthy of your sexual prowess = getting more'.
Women arnt attracted to non sexual guys. If you adopt your original attitude and get to a f-close situation you can almost come accfross as incongruent.
Be a sex god, but only for those whom are worthy.
bar up brother,
Science~
Try adopting the philosophy that "only wantig it with girls who are of a certain standard and who have proven themselfs (through qualifying themselfs to you) are worthy of your sexual prowess = getting more'.
Women arnt attracted to non sexual guys. If you adopt your original attitude and get to a f-close situation you can almost come accfross as incongruent.
Be a sex god, but only for those whom are worthy.
bar up brother,
Science~
IMO it's not about NOT wanting it
it's about wanting other things (fun, dancing, talking) MORE at a club/bar than to fuck a girl
and being in alignment with those other things, because then you will become value giver by your presence. Exactly the type of guy that girls will seek validation from and the guy girls will be attracted to.
it's about wanting other things (fun, dancing, talking) MORE at a club/bar than to fuck a girl
and being in alignment with those other things, because then you will become value giver by your presence. Exactly the type of guy that girls will seek validation from and the guy girls will be attracted to.
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Inch-by-inch.
Not whanting it wtf is that ???
I do Fucking (letherly) want it, but the thing is I DONT NEAD IT.
Also, if a girl is too far out of my standars, shes has no shance
30% of my qualifications= 1 night stand
50-75% of my qualifications = Fuck buddy
75-100% of my qualifications = Girl friend
When i dont nead it, I dont limit my personality for bitch, i dont come across as a try hard, or anything like that.
I do Fucking (letherly) want it, but the thing is I DONT NEAD IT.
Also, if a girl is too far out of my standars, shes has no shance
30% of my qualifications= 1 night stand
50-75% of my qualifications = Fuck buddy
75-100% of my qualifications = Girl friend
When i dont nead it, I dont limit my personality for bitch, i dont come across as a try hard, or anything like that.
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Head forward, dont be afraid of falling little boy..
I think i see what you are saying but completely not wanting it at your core would mean that you are a eunich. I like what focus said -Put your attention on fun and entertainment more than you want to touch boobies.
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Bootcamp alumni Nov. '07
thanks Alex.
Bootcamp alumni Nov. '07
thanks Alex.
I think Kahem and Spitkicker got it right, you can "want" it, just don't "need" it.
You're supposed to "want" it, you're a man, that's your job.
But "need" it? "Need" implies lack, and it's that lack that's the turnoff.
An interesting post nonetheless, it's managed to in some way encapsulate the method I've been working with since I came back from San Diego in December. imo Brent's stuff is for real. He gets alot of flack for looking like a male model. Without a doubt he gets allowed a higher margin for error but imo his theories and principles are sound.
You're supposed to "want" it, you're a man, that's your job.
But "need" it? "Need" implies lack, and it's that lack that's the turnoff.
An interesting post nonetheless, it's managed to in some way encapsulate the method I've been working with since I came back from San Diego in December. imo Brent's stuff is for real. He gets alot of flack for looking like a male model. Without a doubt he gets allowed a higher margin for error but imo his theories and principles are sound.
I remember I had an unexpected awesome night with that mindset a while ago. Nice reminder.
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Spitkicker
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Join Date: 02/04/2007 | Posts: 135
it drives girls away
then they find a great board like this, or in my case a guy named b t a year back and they were told "stop wanting it"
So now, they go out and think "alright man, if i want to land a chick tonight, I have to not want it" and then they focus on "not wanting it"
It doesn't work, they come back to the community and say "fuck that..MUST...WORK...HARDER"
What's wrong here?
THE EXPECTATION THAT NOT WANTING 'IT' WILL GET YOU 'IT'
If you aren't getting results already, why not try this for real. just one night.
Rise above it and dedicate yourself instead to your friends and just having a great time. Get this shit off your mind..
TRULY DONT WANT IT
in fact, when a girl tries to show you how bad she wants it...dont give it to her..because you don't want it
dont act like an ashsole
dont be mean to people
dont act arrogant or aloof
just at your core, know that this night is your break from all of this self improvement crap and girls have nothing to do with the game plan
The first time i did this I got laid, and I didn't run game. The second time i did this i got laid, without running game. The third time i did this i got laid, without running game...
Just go out and try this ONE NIGHT. Just ONE NIGHT.
I was in the community for 2 years before just trying this.
Let's make this friday the official celibacy night for RSD forum - everyone goes out to party with their boys. Nothing else.
I bet the lay rate goes up. ALOT.