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go to happy hour, day game malls anywere with lots of people. whats wrong with gaming on campus?
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killthemquick Wrote:
go to happy hour, day game malls anywere with lots of people. whats wrong with gaming on campus?
yeah, I was figuring happy hour for later when I'm working would help. Still a matter of time, though, I gotta squeeze in working, and gym, and sarging and preferably a couple other hobbies in there.
My experience with malls varies. Some have a lot of sets, some don't. I guess in the future I could spend weekend afternoons doing mass day-game, that'll certainly help get the field work up. I guess there's definitely places to game when I graduate, but I'm just worried I won't find time just like I don't find enough time now
I occasionally open on campus, but doing so less recently because I'm busy doing all sorts of shit during the day. Also my day sets (at bus stops, walking in same direction, etc.) last at most a few mins simply because they got to go somewhere, so it's never enough time to attract and qualify. Not to mention I've done 900 daygame sets and kind of found it mostly a waste of time, I've hardly improved in my daygame or gotten anywhere. Also there are much fewer daygame chicks than at night social events so not that good from a practice perspective.
couple things: grad school might actualy be the opposite. I'm pretty sure you have more time the first while at least before you really have to start pounding out the thesis (i'm not sure though, i'm still undergrad).
Also, you might want to try going more direct, if not entirely direct, in day game. As you know, I am a huge proponent of indirect method, but even M-M condones going direct in the daytime (judging by Si-nn's piece in Magic Bullets). Her accepting you going direct happens more often because it takes balls to open direct in the daytime, and it puts you almost immediately into qualification, and saves you all the trouble you've been having that I've told you about where the girl has no idea what the fuck she should be doing. good luck as always
Also, you might want to try going more direct, if not entirely direct, in day game. As you know, I am a huge proponent of indirect method, but even M-M condones going direct in the daytime (judging by Si-nn's piece in Magic Bullets). Her accepting you going direct happens more often because it takes balls to open direct in the daytime, and it puts you almost immediately into qualification, and saves you all the trouble you've been having that I've told you about where the girl has no idea what the fuck she should be doing. good luck as always
speaking for myself and not the principles this community is based on (or so I feel) I wouldn't want to drop my goals.
Grad school, work, projects, all things you want to do and accomplish... these are part of you and things that you want to do. These are the things that create your value. These are the things that make you a wonderful human being.
Do what you do - be a successful human. The Pussy will fall in line.
Try to look for higher quality time out rather than higher quantity.
This, again, is only my advice, and advice that I live by. My priorities are school, work, and my project goals. Women come in someplace after that.
If one of your desires is more free time, however, then by all means follow that desire.
Just food for thought.
Grad school, work, projects, all things you want to do and accomplish... these are part of you and things that you want to do. These are the things that create your value. These are the things that make you a wonderful human being.
Do what you do - be a successful human. The Pussy will fall in line.
Try to look for higher quality time out rather than higher quantity.
This, again, is only my advice, and advice that I live by. My priorities are school, work, and my project goals. Women come in someplace after that.
If one of your desires is more free time, however, then by all means follow that desire.
Just food for thought.
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ware_ru Wrote:
couple things: grad school might actualy be the opposite. I'm pretty sure you have more time the first while at least before you really have to start pounding out the thesis (i'm not sure though, i'm still undergrad).
Also, you might want to try going more direct, if not entirely direct, in day game. As you know, I am a huge proponent of indirect method, but even M-M condones going direct in the daytime (judging by Si-nn's piece in Magic Bullets). Her accepting you going direct happens more often because it takes balls to open direct in the daytime, and it puts you almost immediately into qualification, and saves you all the trouble you've been having that I've told you about where the girl has no idea what the fuck she should be doing. good luck as always
If I can open situationally not sure why going direct would be better, though I guess at least for situations where I can't think of an opener and don't want to go canned I could go with this. Going direct is definitely not something I like, but I guess with a lot of practice I could make it work. The early part of the summer I should be able to do a lot of day game again. I guess I should give it a try at school too a few times, tho I'm kind of thinking my first few dozen attempts could be blowouts while I calibrate, though I guess that doesn't matter if I'm outta here soon
Jack Diesel Wrote:
speaking for myself and not the principles this community is based on (or so I feel) I wouldn't want to drop my goals.
Grad school, work, projects, all things you want to do and accomplish... these are part of you and things that you want to do. These are the things that create your value. These are the things that make you a wonderful human being.
Do what you do - be a successful human. The Pussy will fall in line.
No, man. Pussy doesn't fall in line. Pussy comes when I exert determined effort in getting better at getting pussy and go about getting it. And it does take a lot of time to get good at it, most of the RSD guys have gone a few years of going out 5-7 nights a week, I just want to find a year to do it.
And I know that if I dont get this at least somewhat figured out I would not be focused enough in grad school cause I'll be worrying about not getting pussy all the time. Hell it hurt my undergrad grades
Try to look for higher quality time out rather than higher quantity.
can you be more specific?
This, again, is only my advice, and advice that I live by. My priorities are school, work, and my project goals. Women come in someplace after that.
If one of your desires is more free time, however, then by all means follow that desire.
Just food for thought.
What's your goal, dude?
You said you wanna get good, but what specifically does "good" mean to you?
Not sure if this is an issue for you, (as it definitely was for me) but a lot of guys seem to come into this stuff with a vague notion of wanting to "get good", but they're not clear on WHAT that means to them, or what it is that they really want. They're not specific.
And if you don't know WHAT, then HOW is gonna be pretty damn fuzzy.
It's awesome that we live in an age where you can log on to a fucking INTERNET WEBSITE, and have some dude on the other side of the PLANET give you advice on how to get more pussy.
But the dark side of having all this knowledge at our fingertips is that it can be SO easy to lose sight of what you wanted in the first place. Going out becomes all about trying out this new kickass technique, instead of about you getting what you wanted.
But I digress...
In my personal experience, the more clear and specific I've become on what I want, the better results I've gotten.
Again, this was my case. It might not be yours, but just some food for thought...
You said you wanna get good, but what specifically does "good" mean to you?
Not sure if this is an issue for you, (as it definitely was for me) but a lot of guys seem to come into this stuff with a vague notion of wanting to "get good", but they're not clear on WHAT that means to them, or what it is that they really want. They're not specific.
And if you don't know WHAT, then HOW is gonna be pretty damn fuzzy.
It's awesome that we live in an age where you can log on to a fucking INTERNET WEBSITE, and have some dude on the other side of the PLANET give you advice on how to get more pussy.
But the dark side of having all this knowledge at our fingertips is that it can be SO easy to lose sight of what you wanted in the first place. Going out becomes all about trying out this new kickass technique, instead of about you getting what you wanted.
But I digress...
In my personal experience, the more clear and specific I've become on what I want, the better results I've gotten.
Again, this was my case. It might not be yours, but just some food for thought...
I'm pretty clear with myself as to what I want.
Although it depends on time frame. I mean you can always get better.
So right now I would be happy with a fuck buddy or two and a ONS every once in a while (maybe once every few weeks).
But half a dozen FBs and a ONS a week would be even better
but a harem of bisexual chicks and a ONS whenever I go out even better than that
but the first is easier and more likely in the near future than the last one. But the general theme is fuck buddies and exciting ONSs. I have absolutely no interest in relationships
specifically for chicks, my main standards are a hot body and sexually adventerous. other than that being affectionate and sweet/cuddly and doing shit for me are 2nd tier preferences. and a cute face, but that's less important than body.
Although it depends on time frame. I mean you can always get better.
So right now I would be happy with a fuck buddy or two and a ONS every once in a while (maybe once every few weeks).
But half a dozen FBs and a ONS a week would be even better
but a harem of bisexual chicks and a ONS whenever I go out even better than that
but the first is easier and more likely in the near future than the last one. But the general theme is fuck buddies and exciting ONSs. I have absolutely no interest in relationships
specifically for chicks, my main standards are a hot body and sexually adventerous. other than that being affectionate and sweet/cuddly and doing shit for me are 2nd tier preferences. and a cute face, but that's less important than body.
oh also, a hypnotic but kinda sing-songy voice and sexy grace of movement (think dancers) turns me on. Also hot body means slightly below my height, curvy (nice T-A) with athletic (thick but not fat) legs. face I prefer exotic.
I could go on, but generally I do have a good idea of what I want
Cucumber,
My library's really crowded. basically the studying places are just tables with shitloads of people studying. you'd be a dickhead to talk out loud with anyone for any length of time there (not to mention the added social pressure)
I could go on, but generally I do have a good idea of what I want
Cucumber,
My library's really crowded. basically the studying places are just tables with shitloads of people studying. you'd be a dickhead to talk out loud with anyone for any length of time there (not to mention the added social pressure)
Don't separate "sarging" and "hanging out with friends".
Hanging out with friends at uni for me includes going to clubs, fucking around and opening girls at least 3 or more times a week (usually more) or at the very least meeting new girls in extended social circle and taking it from there.
For me this meant actively seeking out and making cool friends who won't get in the way when you approach, and preferably will join in and contribute to the partyness. It also meant cutting certain ties with people who conflict with that - you only have so much free time so spend it socialising with people who have the same idea of what a "good night" is.
The "sarging" frame is horrible - the ideal frame is going out with a group of friends to generate partyness and pull girls into it, and escalating hardcore.
Hanging out with friends at uni for me includes going to clubs, fucking around and opening girls at least 3 or more times a week (usually more) or at the very least meeting new girls in extended social circle and taking it from there.
For me this meant actively seeking out and making cool friends who won't get in the way when you approach, and preferably will join in and contribute to the partyness. It also meant cutting certain ties with people who conflict with that - you only have so much free time so spend it socialising with people who have the same idea of what a "good night" is.
The "sarging" frame is horrible - the ideal frame is going out with a group of friends to generate partyness and pull girls into it, and escalating hardcore.
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And I have the fear that it won't get any more later. I plan to take a year off before grad school and work somewhere and I'm searching hard for a job with low and flexible hours (practically impossible to find!) so I can go out 5-7 nights a week for a year. And afterwards (or if I can't take a year off) I fear grad school would be worse time wise
And I really gotta step up my field work to get better. Part of it is that I can just get much better time management, which I do need to work on, but any other general advice would help. Also now I'm in a small university so access and knowledge of parties is important but later I can just go to bars/clubs which could help, but I still would have to not get up early/have tons of work to accomplish to do that every night
I wanna get good, but I got this whole life/career/school thing getting in the way! Any and all general advice would be great. How did you RSD guys who went ou 4-7 nights a week for a while get that done?