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December 3rd, 2016
Men are selectors aka my attraction theory
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Spitkicker

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Join Date: 02/04/2007 | Posts: 135

Ok so all the literature says that women select. bullshit i say.

A woman has no idea waht she wants, how then can she select?

She selects based on one thing: Does he KNOW that he can and will fuck me.

That is what creates attraction. That is all. Game OVER.

So lets look at this...

A man walks up to a woman and runs game. He is conveying one of two things a.) I can sleep with you but not tonight b.)I can sleep with you tonight c.) I want to but can't.

A woman is helplessly attracted to a man who KNOWS he can sleep with them.

That's it. It's such a head trip. Their criteria is "Does he KNOW that he can fuck me"

Every little piece of game is just conveying this.

Now, back to the whole selection thing.

Women can't help being drawn into this. They don't select who feels this way and who doesnt. In fact a woman may initially be attracted to a hot guy and after see that he doesnt KNOW that he can fuck her, she loses attraction and even after she conciously thinks to hersefl "i have to fuck him hes so hot" she loses all attraction and is repelled.

If women selected, then the biggest pig of a woman could select a hot guy. But she can't. The biggest PIG of a man, however, CAN select.

He just has to think "I KNOW I Can fuck her" and that's it.

Women's attractiveness is predetermined from birth +/- maintenance in the form of makeup nose jobs etc.

Man's attractivess is determined in the lowest region of his brains.

We select who we attract.

Ultimately we are the selectors.

Women? They are selected by the guys who, for whateve reason, KNOW that they can fuck them.

I've always had this uneasy fealing that women would leave their man before a man would leave their woman. That the woman is not the selector, but the man. And this all now confrims this very notion.

Would it make sense in an entire planet dominated by the male species that the woman would have the greatest power of all? It didnt make sense to me. But now i realize that she doesnt have this power, the men do.

I know it doesn't sound great breaking. but really, it is. throw this all around in your brain for a minute.

This is all raw, unpolished thinking. Please chew on it for a second, you'll love how it tastses.
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jus' chris cph

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I agree!

Really it's quite logical - if women were the choosers they would chase us, as the rule - not the exception!

But I think women might be the choosers, with betamales...
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Spitkicker

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maybe tyler reads mine and changes his mind. who knows. :)

its all just semantics in the end..
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Ro_Bert

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I think it's the whole asset. If you have a mindset thinking "I know I can fuck her" you act different. It's subconcious. I kind of agree with this theory but you need to do something to let the girl know that you "know that you can fuck her".

Face this; You enter a set with the mindset; "this is going to be horrible, I'm going to get blown out hard", while thinking that (in your head) you will never are gonna close her.

After you changed her mindset unconciously they are ready to close. So yes, this is kind of what the game is about.

But still this doesn't work: Open a set with the opener; "I know I can fuck you!", you'll get blown out. So it's the total picture, not only this.
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Kalevala

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My selection hierarchy looks like this:

~Alpha males
~Women
~Beta males


If you're in a social setting (and particularly a club) virtually any woman will be able to sleep with any of the betas of her choosing. And the most alpha, most socially dominant males will have their choice of the women.

Among seals, about 10% of the males will basically hoard all the females, and physically attack and harass the more uppity betas, and only a lucky few of the bottom 90% will get some sloppy seconds. And among humans it's not much different - although our élite, our alpha stratum is much smaller (maybe 1-3%), in less civilized times our betas would probably get much less action than they enjoy today.

Woman (as in most other mammal species) are the selectors, usually, though a PUA who knows his shit will ultimately have the highest social status, and greatest selective capability.
The men without game will have to beg for every scrap, and the alphas get a 24 hr. buffet of the world's finest food.
Why are they so picky? Because they're programmed to hold out for an Alpha to come along and fuck their brains out. Make sure that guy is YOU.
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Tha-Playah

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In my mind, both need each other. It just depends on the mindset. Both select.
Why does it have to be male or female, why not both?
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jus' chris cph

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Tha-Playah Wrote:
In my mind, both need each other. It just depends on the mindset. Both select.
Why does it have to be male or female, why not both?


Just go in with the frame that you've been pre-selected!
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Tha-Playah

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Yeah. Instead of saying "In my mind" I should have said "In reality"... ACTUAL reality, not my reality.
I guess I need to shift my thinkin a bit eh :)

Its USEFUL to be faithful holding believe that you are preselected. Definitely
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Spitkicker

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Ro_Bert - Someone who opened up with "I could fuck you" clearly doesnt think he can, he wouldnt feel the need to open with that. Now, if he really could, and he had the balls to saay that ,then yes he could pull it off.

Most people trying this approach would come in from a frame of overcompensation.

Now, yes, of course subcommunication is at play --> I assumed that we were all clear on that! :)
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Tyler

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Yeah definitely a semantics thing.

It depends on how you're wording it.

I know with "the claw" it definitely comes across that YOU are the selector --> just pick the girl you want, grab her over, and oftentimes she winds up doing most of the talking and qualifying herself to you.

So it depends on how you're wording it.


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Manwhore

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Spitkicker Wrote:

She selects based on one thing: Does he KNOW that he can and will fuck me.

A man walks up to a woman and runs game. He is conveying one of two things a.) I can sleep with you but not tonight b.)I can sleep with you tonight c.) I want to but can't.

A woman is helplessly attracted to a man who KNOWS he can sleep with them.

That's it. It's such a head trip. Their criteria is "Does he KNOW that he can fuck me"


Wow.. fantastic thread. Very powerful and true mentality to have and adopt. I think that's going on the background of my cellphone
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