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December 7th, 2016
Groupie Game
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Tyler

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It's funny because when I see guys having a hard time getting laid it always blows me away. I get it in theory and I used to BE in that situation. But it still blows me away.

Here's a quick nugget for you guys to play with --> Groupie Game.

This is for ADVANCED guys who are calibrated ONLY... Everyone else, do not touch this post... It's not the be-all-end-all, but if you are not calibrated it will come off bad.

Alright, here we go...

Go out with a buddy and open the first hot girls you see. Open and hook STRONG... Then once you hook and you know that she's SUPER into you, do something to slightly cross her personal line.

For example, and it could be anything really, yell out (top of your lungs) "GROUP HUG!!! GROUP MOTHERFUCKING HUG!!"

You and your wing get on each side of her and put her in the middle like a sandwich. Push this over the line a bit (ie: do it a bit too long, almost uncalibrated style), so that she's actually slightly uncomfortable but allows you to keep doing it. Keep conversing with your buddy WHILE holding her in the hug position, as if she's not in the middle of you.

NOTE: This can ONLY work if you have hooked REALLY well -- and more importantly, if you've been perfectly calibrated the entire time so that she can't conceive you could be ill-calibrated. Otherwise she will bail you out right then and there and you will be CHODED.

Once you do that just go on talking to your friend as if she isn't there. Because she has allowed you to cross a personal boundary she will rationalize that you must be an awesome guy to have allowed you to do it, and follow you around the club desperate to get into YOUR group.

Keep making her work to get into your party. Draw boundaries on her, like "Karen, WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING?!?! You said you'd be cool!! Keep it ON THE LEVEL Karen!! Baby you know we love you.. We love you Karen.. Look at me Karen.. We love you.. You love us right? Baby, you're sweet, but WHAT THE FUCK IS WITH THIS?! Baby I don't know if I can trust you.. You're on our team right? I feel like, on one level it's like you're on our team... But on another level, maybe you're doing blah blah blah..........."

All classic push/pull type stuff. Keep the party going in YOUR group. That means keep the convo going so that she's trying to follow it and she's getting invested in it.

At the end of the night it's like "LET'S GO..WE'RE GOING!!" and it's off to your house for whatever you want to do.

Always remember -- this is for HOT girls.. and hot girls LOVE this stuff because most guys are so predictable and boring.. No challenge whatsoever.. Girls like playing the role of chasing once in a while.. It's a game to them.


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Leisure Suit Larry

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Thats all good but how do I HOOK STRONG in the first place. This is relly what Im having trouble doing using no routiens (not that I ever used routines alot in the first place Ive always been trying to do it natural style as know itll pay off in the loooooooong run). I can open quite well now got good BL etc the girls laugh at my funny approach and facial expressions/eccentric tendencies but after a min or two I mostly fuck up and the turn away or gime the usual shit lines.

Maybe its cos I go into value taking. I often will SOI right after the opener/on the opener but that seems to fuck me up so Im gonna stop doing that. My calibration Id say was good and once I get them interested in participating in the convo I have no problem rolling but I keep fucking up the first 5 mins somehow...Sorry does this jack your post? Ill repost it.
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Tyler Wrote:

For example, and it could be anything really, yell out (top of your lungs) "GROUP HUG!!! GROUP MOTHERFUCKING HUG!!"

Once you do that just go on talking to your friend as if she isn't there. Because she has allowed you to cross a personal boundary she will rationalize that you must be an awesome guy to have allowed you to do it, and follow you around the club desperate to get into YOUR group.

Keep making her work to get into your party. Draw boundaries on her, like "Karen, WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING?!?! You said you'd be cool!! Keep it ON THE LEVEL Karen!! Baby you know we love you.. We love you Karen.. Look at me Karen.. We love you.. You love us right? Baby, you're sweet, but WHAT THE FUCK IS WITH THIS?! Baby I don't know if I can trust you.. You're on our team right? I feel like, on one level it's like you're on our team... But on another level, maybe you're doing blah blah blah..........."

All classic push/pull type stuff. Keep the party going in YOUR group. That means keep the convo going so that she's trying to follow it and she's getting invested in it.



Mutha-FuckinG-Awesome.



cheers,
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This awesome. I'm excited about this. Not only is it sucking her into the reality that she's there WITH you in YOUR group, but she has to earn her stay and qualify herself. Sweet.
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Lowrider69 Wrote:
Mutha-FuckinG-Awesome.
cheers,
Lowrider


You're the guy I wrote this post for, incidentally.


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Haha i've done this before actually, and it did work pretty good. I didn't even know what i was doing I was just massively in state and hopped up on like 4 red bulls so I was just going on a whim!

I think it can help to be just a little bit crazy lol
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This is cool, I was on another program (Doctor Pauls) and the instructors did this same thing in demos. Except they would make out with the girl instead of hug her... which backfired once. They used the same terminology too. I forgot about this, but the "boundaries" talk reminded me. It sets a very strong frame.

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Love the concept. Its like getting girls in a heard mentality and putting them into a position where they're expected to follow. Great shit.
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Tyler Wrote:
You're the guy I wrote this post for, incidentally.

Tyler



Cool, much appreciated man.

I think there are couple reasons i'm not converting at the moment...

1) Not pushing interactions (ejecting pullable sets)
2) Giving them subtle validation so they lose interest


"I AM PARTY" frame combined with push/pull will ROCK!!


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Tyler

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Nice. Get back to me on it. I really believe that you can analyze ALL your interactions through the "was I the party or not?" lens and see basically everything you need to know.


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Tyler Wrote:
Nice. Get back to me on it. I really believe that you can analyze ALL your interactions through the "was I the party or not?" lens and see basically everything you need to know.


Tyler


I think cam'ron and the dipset analyze their "groupie game" through the lens of "suck it or not...."
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