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December 6th, 2016
How Many Girls Are You Seeing?
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jlaix

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Right now, as of last night, I'm up to 19. I'm actively banging 8 of them, and the other 11 are largely "in the bag" (trust me, I'm very honest and objective with myself about this after all these years in the game) but I just haven't got around to it because of scheduling concerns.

Thing is, the drama is starting to gear up now. When I left for Spain at the beginning of the year, there was drama everywhere I went in SF. Being away for a couple months gave everything time to settle down. When I returned, all was well. I could go to bars and not see 3 girls I was sleeping with. It was magical.

Well, as you know, I am a dirty dog and it wasn't before long that I began accruing girls despite my attempts at celibacy. I just can't turn this shit off now. High quality problems, I know. But the craziness is starting up again and it may be time to get the fuck out of Dodge for a couple months again.

I think leaving town for a few months every year is a GREAT idea, especially if you are a hardcore player. It's like hitting the "reset" button on your notoriety, taking the boiling pot off the heat, whatever.

Anyway, the point of this is to elicit YOUR stories on this topic. How many girls are you seeing? How many girls are TOO MANY? Any tips on handling large rotations? Let's hear it!
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torch6413

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great job man, i wish i had your problems.
i cant say as i have any FB of my own yet:(
maybe a few i have a chance with but havent yet closed.
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TooManifesto

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How many?.. one.
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Jet-69

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You're a lucky man.

I'm seeing exactly one, and that's one more than I would have expected six months ago. The only other banging that's going on is another girl who keeps banging on my window around midnight through the week, after I stopped returning her calls. She drinks a lot.

( I know it's not luck. I'll see ya at the top in about three years.)
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As of today, 30th Oct, 2006, Monday,1:00pm PST, None.

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Jet-69

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Jlaix, if I were in your position I'd organise a party, inviting all nineteen. What would happen?
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jlaix

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I've done that before. Multiple times. It starts with them fighting EACH OTHER, then ME, and usually ends with me escaping into the night on my bicycle down side streets.
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entropy

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At my best I only had three.

But in all seriousness, that was too many! At the time, anyway, although I'd probably feel differently about it now. I didn't set them all up with the proper expectations, and I was a little wayward with my juggling, so that may have also contributed to my displeasure with the situation.

Honestly, I don't see how you can see that many women concurrently. I don't know that I envy your particular set of circumstances, but I am nevertheless impressed! That's amazing.

Could you please elucidate your strategy, if only briefly? I'm guessing that it's not sustainable for you either which is why you 1) query the board for any good tidbits of info, and 2) feel the need to leave Dodge every so often.

Haha, but I'd love to read a book about your adventures!
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jlaix Wrote:
I've done that before. Multiple times. It starts with them fighting EACH OTHER, then ME, and usually ends with me escaping into the night on my bicycle down side streets.


haha that is a very vivid description.

Generally, this year I've been seeing two girls at once. Each "relationship" would last about four months before I ran out of steam with one of them, so I'd be down to one girl for a few weeks, then another would magically come along.

What seemed a bit weird to me was that two girls at once is like a stable relationship state for me. When I'm down to one (or none) girl, another magically turns up weeks later. When I have two, it seems that I can make friends with new girls as easily as ever, but I can't hook strongly enough.

Weirdness.

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Jlaix, or anybody who is actively banging a LOT of chicks, have you ever had the experience where you're in the middle of fucking one of them, then another kocks at the door of your house for a suprise visit? Like she was shopping, and thought of you, so she decided to bring you food or something?
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TooMuch Wrote:
How many?.. one.


Me too. And I really like this one.

I made a commitment to myself to have a good solid, exclusive LTR (something I've never had before. Actually, never had women interested in me before finding this community) and it's working out great. I still practice though, to keep my skills sharp and maintain my attractiveness for the one girlfriend.

Once this ends, I may do MLTRs. I want to try having three girlfriends at the same time. I think that'll be pretty good for me. :)

haha, good luck with that jlaix. holy shit!
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jlaix

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entropy Wrote:

Honestly, I don't see how you can see that many women concurrently. I don't know that I envy your particular set of circumstances, but I am nevertheless impressed! That's amazing.

Could you please elucidate your strategy, if only briefly? I'm guessing that it's not sustainable for you either which is why you 1) query the board for any good tidbits of info, and 2) feel the need to leave Dodge every so often.

Haha, but I'd love to read a book about your adventures!



You know, I really wasn't searching for envy or compliments here, my ego is gargantuan enough already. I do hope to inspire. After all, if I could learn how to do this shit, literally anybody can.

My strategy involves setting crystal clear expectations from the very very beginning. It is obvious I am a player. However, I am also extremely valuable and I try to be a great friend to all my women (i.e. help them in times of need, etc.) and I truly do love them and tell them this all the time.

There is also a lot of text messaging involved. A LOT.

As far as getting out of town goes, that's, again, to let the pot settle. Women's emotional tides shouldn't affect you, you should let it wash over you unreactive, but sometimes the seas do get a little TOO choppy, in which case it's time to bail. Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

By the way, I am working on my book and it should be done next year. The working title is "Nine Ball." You heard it here first.
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