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December 9th, 2016
Watching Porno.... Negative Affects?
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Snyper

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I wanted to get some other opinions on this. Has anyone else found that watching porno frequently can have adverse, subconscious affects to their game?

The notion of fantasizing and sexually fulfilling one's self to the image of a hb's naked would make them appear 'higher value' in person, thus increasing anxiety of approach.

What does everyone think on this matter?
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Sharktooth

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why are you watching porno in your room instead of getting out there in the field?
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Personally that shit just motivates me.. shrug



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oh yeah... watch it with your GF or FB if she is a freak...

bootcamp in one hour.... it's showtime baby... shades
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that's always a good way to intimidate the girl shades

I think i just watch WAYYY too much porn.. If only i could find a parental block for firefox ;(
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Sharktooth Wrote:
oh yeah... watch it with your GF or FB


Why watch porn when you can make porn with her... :p
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Slojodan

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Hey guys,

I've experimented with different levels of this, and here is what I found:

Lose the porn, but keep whacking off.

A number of guys I've spoken to have relayed that they have trouble keeping it up or finishing off during sex. They actually end up turning porn on during sex to finish the job.

A lot of the time, porn can dull your associations from orgasm to sex. After all, if you're orgasming to movies of girls licking whipped cream out of each other's ____, well you know. An example of this is of the main magician guru in Neil's book "The Game." He started fixating on lesbian porn, and eventually couldn't keep it up unless it was a threesome or he was watching lesbian porn at the time.

Once you give up porn, you force yourself to allign your sexual fantasies to the normal sexual reality. The fantasies of screwing the waitress in the kitchen with the cooks tossing you food shaped sex toys slowly shifts into fantasies of you with a quality girl in your bedroom. It's hard at first, and a little frustrating, but I do believe it's healthier.

It's also far more motivating, when you're not looking at porn all the time.

Personally, I decided I was not going to look at any porn until I get laid again, so I installed porn-blocker software on my computer, deleted all the porn, and gave my roommate the password, which he is forbidden to provide until I get laid.

Extreme measures, but that's wha is sometimes necessary for the right results.

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Slojodan Wrote:
Hey guys,

I've experimented with different levels of this, and here is what I found:

Lose the porn, but keep whacking off.

A number of guys I've spoken to have relayed that they have trouble keeping it up or finishing off during sex. They actually end up turning porn on during sex to finish the job.

A lot of the time, porn can dull your associations from orgasm to sex. After all, if you're orgasming to movies of girls licking whipped cream out of each other's ____, well you know. An example of this is of the main magician guru in Neil's book "The Game." He started fixating on lesbian porn, and eventually couldn't keep it up unless it was a threesome or he was watching lesbian porn at the time.

Once you give up porn, you force yourself to allign your sexual fantasies to the normal sexual reality. The fantasies of screwing the waitress in the kitchen with the cooks tossing you food shaped sex toys slowly shifts into fantasies of you with a quality girl in your bedroom. It's hard at first, and a little frustrating, but I do believe it's healthier.

It's also far more motivating, when you're not looking at porn all the time.

Personally, I decided I was not going to look at any porn until I get laid again, so I installed porn-blocker software on my computer, deleted all the porn, and gave my roommate the password, which he is forbidden to provide until I get laid.

Extreme measures, but that's wha is sometimes necessary for the right results.

--Dan


LOL! Thanks man, that's some solid advice.

I actually tried to do that porn blocker thing with my roomate last year, but i couldnt manage to find a free porn blocker that worked on Firefox..

It's so true tho. Porn makes me have these crazy fantasies and shit when im with my gf. Makes me lose respect for women in general, too. Sometimes i cant stop myself from thinking about them as big walking vag's, or envision fucking every hotty i see. It's a hard habit to kick, though.

How are the extreme measure working with you so far?

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LOL! Thanks man, that's some solid advice.

I actually tried to do that porn blocker thing with my roomate last year, but i couldnt manage to find a free porn blocker that worked on Firefox..


Go to download.com, and set the filter on the licence section so it's only FREE . You'll find some good ones for firefox.

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How are the extreme measure working with you so far?


It gets challenging when you're having a tough day, feeling needy, you know you're in no shape to game that night, and all you want it to turn on some unreal looking girls on your computer screen. But 95% of the time, it isn't too bad. It helps you push for the next level a lot more, instead of walking away after a pleasant interaction. Meaning, regardless of the validation you have from the girls you're sarging, you'll keep pushing until you can't go any farther, and learn a lot more.

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Slojodan Wrote:
Once you give up porn, you force yourself to allign your sexual fantasies to the normal sexual reality. The fantasies of screwing the waitress in the kitchen with the cooks tossing you food shaped sex toys slowly shifts into fantasies of you with a quality girl in your bedroom. It's hard at first, and a little frustrating, but I do believe it's healthier.


--Dan


amen to that. i have also tried going celibate for a couple of weeks and i always get laid after that. it is too much. my body wants a girl and my body knows that i wont give in until i get laid. then eventually the opportunity would present itself. sometimes i just get laid with fb´s, etc.

this sex thing is very powerful. it doesnt work for everybody though. some people with higher testosterone levels will need to jack off all the time. there are some extreme cases outthere.

the main thing with porn is that it becomes a sub for the real thing..to the point that the guy would seek satisfaction through porn and not through a real girl. that´s how porn addiction grows, etc. people with addictive personalities should not do it. however, other people would just find it motivating and it would not have such a negative effect. that´s why we say as a general rule: "dont do porn, go out". but may be for some people it is not a big deal. i think as a rule of thumb is probably not a good idea.
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Apart from Caller ID, and those paper toilet seat covers they have in public restrooms, I think porn is man's greatest invention EVER. If I'm ever feeling lazy, all I have to do is click on a few pictures of gorgeous naked chicks taking blotter shots to the face. It makes me think, if these beautiful chicks are willing to do shit like this on camera for everyone to see, a BJ behind closed doors should be no problem. Shit always gets me up off the couch and to the closest Target, Starbucks, Barnes and Noble.

BTW, check out allinternal.com. Shit is way educational. I feel like a Board Certified gynocologist.
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