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December 6th, 2016
Journal of Post HOTSEAT Dylan
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Dylan..

Dylan..

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11/12/2013

After having my mindblown, and THE HOTSEAT was over, I felt like I knew what good game looked like and had fully invested in it. However I wanted to know how to practice and actually become good at this. I asked Julien and he kind of drove it home for me, the dude has been in the game for 7 years and is clearly extremely passionate about it, after the HOTSEAT go out for  30 minutes a day and approach at least 3 sets, and go out on the weekends! practice certain concepts but always go for the close, follow the process, LEARN THE SHIT you will get there............. I hope.

ATLEAST: 3 sets a day, 2 nights a week, practice certain concepts, go for the close

I have approached Friday, Saturday, Sunday and monday next I must approach today...will I.....

So far today I have been to the gym and back, on the way I pretty much just started talking to people and flirting a bit casually to get me in state. Though I don't really count any of those as approaches. I am going up to uni now I I will get into some approaches there: 3 hopefully.

Well I ended up approaching 3 all together today and just being super friendly in general. I was clear in my inent and calibrated after the fact, and went for the close after leading the interaction to plan C. Things to work on include being able to approach any girl, for some reason I stop my self a lil, but I'll work on that "theres no reason why i'm not enough" etc.

Edit: I decided to start a new journal, new beginnings ;) http://www.rsdnation.com/node/566201/forum
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http://www.rsdnation.com/node/502484 (11 Dec 2013 - 12 April 2015)
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/566201/forum (April 13 2015 - May 18 2015) (5 month hiatus due to LTR) (October 6 2015- Present)


 
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Dylan..

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DAY 5

So I have been working on clarity of intent + freedom from outcome (self amusement/love) coming from the frame of there is no reason why i'm not enough. And it has been going really well, my game has sky rocketed this week after HOTSEAT. Just be super friendly TO EVERYONE literally and you will feel awesome, just talk, relax give...AND THEN BAM  clarity of intent + freedom from outcome (self amusement/love).

I went to the gym and a job interview which went really well and hadn't got my approaches done. So I met up with one of my wings and had some beers. Gamed two south Korean chicks and did really well at practicing the above, dictating the rhythm, plowing and applying investment = compliance. I then approached some sets and went to this house, met some average chick and practiced sharpening the blade lol INTENT.

So in town I then simply practiced being super friendly and cool, focusing on self amusement. Working the club, and being awesome in general I became free from outcome and simply led the average chick out the front door and pulled for the reference, I feel like a fucking charity haha.

And to add on to this, in all of my interactions I practice breaking rapport and strong eye contact. Short sentences dictating the interaction.
 
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http://www.rsdnation.com/node/502484 (11 Dec 2013 - 12 April 2015)
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/566201/forum (April 13 2015 - May 18 2015) (5 month hiatus due to LTR) (October 6 2015- Present)


 
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Whats up dude. You got your first official reader. ;) 
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Dylan..

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Cheers mate! haha
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http://www.rsdnation.com/node/502484 (11 Dec 2013 - 12 April 2015)
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DAY 6

Today I woke up extremely hungover from last night, after pulling that girl home I attempted to kick her out...but it turns out i'm to nice. So I end up waking her up in the morning at 7am, and pushing her to get outta here. The main reason for this is that I have my final management exam tomorrow! Work hard, Play hard

I kick the charity case out and feel like my karma is amazing haha, Then I realized my hangover is kicking in AND I need to study all fucking day... So I strip my bed (my weird thing about cleaning my sheets after sex) have a good fucking shower and go up stairs for breakfast. Now nutrition is extremely fucking important for life in general I have a coffee, protein shake, sencha green tea, frozen veggies, frozen mixed berries and oats in water. This shit keeps me going all day, I slack off on my nutrition today but it's ok, I didn't gym (cardio day lol)

As I think about the tiny wee things I do every day that contribute to my quality of life (Game, Meditation, Read, Write, Gym, Nutrition, Study, be fucking happy and awesome) I realize that they all interconnect and together make you fucking awesome! so get that shit in order and you will feel like a boss! 

Now the reason I am focusing on these other aspects is because I just studied all day and did no approaches, like a pussy. There are really no excuses and you will make time for the things you truly want to do, and do them!. though I accept that I needed to focus on studying today being congruent and following my purpose

Funny story though... Last night while I was gaming this girl I had a chode making it rain on us in some kind of weird attempt at getting the girl to like him. She would later tell me he said to her "I know you are going to have sex with him tonight, he is super friendly and cool, and doens't seemed bothered by a thing" - Never take for granted the skills we develop here, there is truly no reason why we are not enough

I am going to pimp it hard tomorrow night...let the summer of adventure and magical glory begin!

 
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My journey...so far:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/502484 (11 Dec 2013 - 12 April 2015)
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/566201/forum (April 13 2015 - May 18 2015) (5 month hiatus due to LTR) (October 6 2015- Present)


 
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DAY 7

Yo pimpsss

So today I wake up tired as fuck for my exam, have my breakfast, preworkout, exam, gym and then TOWN!

Meet up with one of my wings who is pretty good, but different personality to me. We head in, I do a lot of self amusement shit, self amusement leads to freedom from outcome.
I start approaching and follow the process whilst focusing on clarity of intent + freedom from outcome. Interactions get better and better, till one with a hot girl from New York. I use a direct line and it clicks. However I fuck it up by thinking "shit I wasn't going to approach her" meaning I didn't feel entitled.

LESSON: Be entitled to all girls especially the hot ones, because I am the man

I also had two girls trying to pull me, but wasn't keen for one and one was too drunk, should have gone for the reference. 

The big game ender here is that I LOST MY FUCKING LICENCE :(
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My journey...so far:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/502484 (11 Dec 2013 - 12 April 2015)
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/566201/forum (April 13 2015 - May 18 2015) (5 month hiatus due to LTR) (October 6 2015- Present)


 
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DAY 8

So I ended up losing my licence last night, sucks but fuck it i'm going to the gym (it's 9pm) then i'm hitting up street game, one of my homies is going to come and wing me, mainly practicing intent and freedom from outcome again, going to hit it up son!

Part 1: Went to gym. Began approaching, was shit, no intent and outcome seeking. then slowly evolved got better, better. Got into club by being super friendly with bouncers

Saw New York girl from before, forgot it was New York girl, ruined set by forgetting it was her :(

Approached more sets, good intent, more free from outcome, still not enough approaching. Did street game, like a pussy, first time solo, no intent lol. shit.

My advanced mate was coming into town but he hadnt txt till 2am I went home.

Part 2: So I came home, but then, I realized, fuck this is some shit, I attended HOTSEAT I know what the game looks like...fucking implement it...and so with that I returned back into the night!!!

Part 3: Begin hitting up sets strong intent, lil outcome seeking. My advanced mate comes: we hit up sets, more intent and more free from outcome. A lot of self amusing.

- Talk to two brunette girls, the girl becomes quiet and attentive.
- Attempt to game a girl two guys at once. Promoting a 3sum, attempt to have 3sum, number close with the intent of having a 3sum lol
- Accidentally hit a huge Maori guy in the face , nearly get the fucking shit kicked out of me
- Lead two girls down to the boardwalk. Advanced dude takes his into an open resturaunt. Mine has a bf but is opening up ;) glory. the owner comes, we run away.
- Come back from boardwalk, keep approaching. Met girl, say nice things to girl, nice things work. Take her to get food. lead her to my house. On way stupid drunk friend txts (always disable phone)

LESSONS: 
Approach immediately, show intent, express (positive + negative), be aware of surroundings, self amusement, freedom from outcome

Clear in intent plus free from outcome


 
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My journey...so far:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/502484 (11 Dec 2013 - 12 April 2015)
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/566201/forum (April 13 2015 - May 18 2015) (5 month hiatus due to LTR) (October 6 2015- Present)


 
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DAY 9 (First day of choding)

I wake up on no sleep. feel like shit. have breakfast, shower, and go straight back out into it after my night of glory.

However. I am super stifled, and fail to follow the process of just talking to people and having fun....

In short I walk aaround for 3 hours. I buy some nice shoes for my job interview :)...but see "no hot girls that I want to approach" and act like a in general. Fuck that just talk to everyone.

LESSONS: Follow the process, be super friendly, pick up is fun, it's what I do, I run game on everyone every girls a chance to sharpen the blade ;)
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My journey...so far:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/502484 (11 Dec 2013 - 12 April 2015)
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/566201/forum (April 13 2015 - May 18 2015) (5 month hiatus due to LTR) (October 6 2015- Present)


 
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DAY 10

Yo!
I just started a job doing door to door sales over summer! (doing my masters next year, in management).

I woke up at 11, this was the day after my chode day gaming session. And had to be there at one...short story short got there at 1, got back here at 11 and didn't go out... I have to get my three cold approaches done every day...You have to practice if you want to get good at this because feild experience is king

LESSONS: No matter how fucking tired you are or what kind of fucking state you are in, you control your actions!...you don't get McDonalds because you are there and it isss late at night...you get it because you are a lazy fuck who has not monopolised your emotions son. 

Moral of the story, you will do what you need to do each day, If you want it bad enough you will do it. Discipline, Courage, Perserverence etc.

Peace.
 
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My journey...so far:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/502484 (11 Dec 2013 - 12 April 2015)
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/566201/forum (April 13 2015 - May 18 2015) (5 month hiatus due to LTR) (October 6 2015- Present)


 
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DAY 11

Woke up at 8am and forced myself to get up. Had breakfast, went and got a haircut with some mates, we planned on going to the gym....but got held up for 3 hours trying to sort my licence, didn't even order it in the end...

Anyway I meet up with my wing. We just chill out and relax, it's a sunny day and we kind of just relax into it. Hit up a seated set "are you guys German" they are and we sit down and end up talking to them for an hour. I noticed that I forgot to lead and bounce them somewhere else dictate the rythm of the interaction and always be leading!

We number close and carry on, I end up opening a couple more sets direct "hey, I just saw you, thought you were cute, and wanted to meet you" but the girls just became very stifled and went into flight mode haha

LESSONS: 
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Lead!
-fun!
-approach straight away


 
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My journey...so far:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/502484 (11 Dec 2013 - 12 April 2015)
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/566201/forum (April 13 2015 - May 18 2015) (5 month hiatus due to LTR) (October 6 2015- Present)


 
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DAY  12

Go out job hunting and daygame with some homies, so i'm a bit stressed out because I need a job, but I just relax into it. It ends up being very sunny so I go for a bit of a swim after I hand in some CVs and hit up some sets.  get home do my reading, writing, study, meditation, gym, nutrition. Go back out for nightgame super tired!

SETS:
Day:

-Stop a Canadaian chick, ends up having a boyfriend (weak intent)
-Stop a vet girl, stronger intent, better leading of the interaction, don't number close, good subcomms (as always ;))
-Stop a seated set, strong intent, strong freedom from outcome, strong leading....but need to be more normal, I number close this one (my friend actually comes in and takes a picture haha!) so many shit tests omg...
Night:
(can't remember all approaches, was to many just the important ones)
- Approach German girl, being way to logical, my wing is doing much better (super illogical and self ammusing)
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Approach on dance floor, strong intent, strong freedom from outcome, reapproach multiple times, white knight keeps coming in LOL 
- Approach two hot german girls on our way out the door, strong intent, illogical, self ammusing, fredom from outcome, leading STRONGGGGG She asks "are you guys staying!?!?!?!"
- Do a running approach, it hooks right away, strong intent, leading, (controlled, flowing, purposeful, self ammused) friend pulls her away
- Re-approach a cute Chinese girl from earlier in the night get instant bambi eyes freedom from outcome (self-ammusing) + intent and being normal

LESSONS:
- Be the oak
- Be normal
- Be more illogical and self ammusing
- Lead, Lead, Lead



 
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My journey...so far:
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/502484 (11 Dec 2013 - 12 April 2015)
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/566201/forum (April 13 2015 - May 18 2015) (5 month hiatus due to LTR) (October 6 2015- Present)


 
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