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March 29th, 2017
Is it just me or are nightgame numbers very flakey?
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whoareyou3

whoareyou3

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Join Date: 04/26/2012 | Posts: 81

It seems like every time I get a number from nightgame she almost never texts me back when I text her the next day. Even if I have an amazing interaction with her that is fairly lengthy 20-40 mins it seems they just never care to text back. I'll usually text them this "It was nice meeting you last night... you seem like a really cool girl. Hopefully we'll run into each other again sometime."or"You're definitely the coolest girl I met all night... hopefully we'll run into each other again sometime"I figure it's a nice way to show her you like her without being overly needy. Apparently they don't give a fuck lol... Any thoughts on getting less flakey numbers?
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Majik218

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Join Date: 10/24/2013 | Posts: 443

It really depends on how "amazing" the interaction was. You might see the interaction as amazing because a really hot girl is actually talking to you or whatever made you think it is amazing... which is completely fine. But the thing is, you don't know how the girl actually thinks the interaction went... And you can't control what she's thinking about you when you walk away. My question I usually ask students I work with is "Why didn't you pull her then?" So seriously... ask yourself that. If she was really that into you, why didn't you pull her? Why did you stop at getting her phone number? If you give me some more details about what actually happened and on several different occassions, I might be able to drill down to where your actual problem is. Honestly, I think the initial text you are using is pretty lame for starters. You could try something like this... "Hey I had a really great time last night. It made me appreciate how rare it is to find someone who's funny, genuinely attractive, and just all around cool to hang out with. But enough about me. Tell me something about yourself. :)" or Just text her your name right when you get her phone number...  Could be a million different things man. 
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SexyMachine

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It's just you.  Everyone else are getting real solid numbers.  Solid as a Rock BABY!!!
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whoareyou3

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Majik218 wrote:
It really depends on how "amazing" the interaction was. You might see the interaction as amazing because a really hot girl is actually talking to you or whatever made you think it is amazing... which is completely fine. But the thing is, you don't know how the girl actually thinks the interaction went... And you can't control what she's thinking about you when you walk away. My question I usually ask students I work with is "Why didn't you pull her then?" So seriously... ask yourself that. If she was really that into you, why didn't you pull her? Why did you stop at getting her phone number? If you give me some more details about what actually happened and on several different occassions, I might be able to drill down to where your actual problem is. Honestly, I think the initial text you are using is pretty lame for starters. You could try something like this... "Hey I had a really great time last night. It made me appreciate how rare it is to find someone who's funny, genuinely attractive, and just all around cool to hang out with. But enough about me. Tell me something about yourself. :)" or Just text her your name right when you get her phone number...  Could be a million different things man. 
 The interaction wasn't "amazing" but it still was pretty damn good....Lots of strong eye contact, flirting(man to woman, not friend to friend) and physicality. The reason I didn't pull her is because she was there with 6 of her friends for a Bday party and it wouldn't have been appropriate. The way I usually get a girl's number is by saying "I would get your number but I'm sure we're gonna run into each other again", and she will say "oh no, I can give you my number" and then I text her right then and there so she has my number.
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LamborghiniMosser

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Join Date: 05/27/2012 | Posts: 236

whoareyou3 wrote:
Majik218 wrote:
It really depends on how "amazing" the interaction was. You might see the interaction as amazing because a really hot girl is actually talking to you or whatever made you think it is amazing... which is completely fine. But the thing is, you don't know how the girl actually thinks the interaction went... And you can't control what she's thinking about you when you walk away. My question I usually ask students I work with is "Why didn't you pull her then?" So seriously... ask yourself that. If she was really that into you, why didn't you pull her? Why did you stop at getting her phone number? If you give me some more details about what actually happened and on several different occassions, I might be able to drill down to where your actual problem is. Honestly, I think the initial text you are using is pretty lame for starters. You could try something like this... "Hey I had a really great time last night. It made me appreciate how rare it is to find someone who's funny, genuinely attractive, and just all around cool to hang out with. But enough about me. Tell me something about yourself. :)" or Just text her your name right when you get her phone number...  Could be a million different things man. 
 The interaction wasn't "amazing" but it still was pretty damn good....Lots of strong eye contact, flirting(man to woman, not friend to friend) and physicality. The reason I didn't pull her is because she was there with 6 of her friends for a Bday party and it wouldn't have been appropriate. The way I usually get a girl's number is by saying "I would get your number but I'm sure we're gonna run into each other again", and she will say "oh no, I can give you my number" and then I text her right then and there so she has my number.
 What I've learnt now is that if you don't actually at least making out with the chick there's a high chance of her flaking.
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Resmat

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pro tip: daygame numbers are really flakey as well 
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zero2hero

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Join Date: 01/13/2012 | Posts: 66

"I'll usually text them this  "It was nice meeting you last night... you seem like a really cool girl. Hopefully we'll run into each other again sometime."
VERY wishy washy words...hopefully,sometime seem like - definately not words of power.Never say "it was nice meeting you last night"-are you 75 and went to Bingo?Lame bro.My two cents worth is it's all won or lost in the first 30seconds or less.Sub communication.Study and develop that shit.I agree with Brent smith on texting.It should used to set up a meeting,nothing elsePerhaps you could check out his stuff.(it's pretty advanced and of course like all others you have to have a sift through to find the gold)Some practical questions.Did she ask for your name or did you give it?Did she ask about you or did you give it up for free?See where I'm going with this?Ultimately she should ask you for your number.That is game.   
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#7

screamer

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Join Date: 07/10/2012 | Posts: 57

Unless you have really slick text game, the # is only as good as the quality of the interaction and the meaning you attached to taking the #, and even then there's a big element of randomness. If you were really hitting it off, there was attraction, and then talked about doing XYZ and got the # so that you could contact her to do XYZ, you'll have a much lower flake rate. If you just made meaningless small talk, there wasn’t any chemistry or attraction, and then you took the # and left, you’re going to get flaked on 100%.  But even with a solid interaction, it’s never a sure thing. She could have given out her # to 10 other guys that weekend, and you get less priority or flaked on because another guy who she liked more hit her up. Or she could have a BF, have just been drunk and impulsive, was just being polite, was just seeking validation, or a million other reasons. Guys get dead #'s any time, any place. Nightlife can be a lot more chaotic and be complicated by drinking, but otherwise shouldn't be any more flakey than any other # you'd pull off any other kind of cold approach.
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Flipmod

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Join Date: 05/26/2013 | Posts: 128

Yeah most numbers are super flakey but also try getting better text game to engage those "on the fence" chicks. Manwhore forums are great for these. As an experiment, I would try getting 3-4 #'s a night and then running text game splits to see if you're fucking up your numbers
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thafunky

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Join Date: 04/30/2013 | Posts: 708

Fuck. This happens to me a lot. Lets hope for some PRO insight and learn cause this is affecting my game badly!
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