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dave7-

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Just had some flakes past few days, and I'm thinking thoughts like "girls have zero integrity" and "maybe they're just robots who have emotions." 
 
But I guess it comes down to an "attraction" thing? If girls were REALLY into you then they'd cancel their other plans to see you. 
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Matt_RSD

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Girls have options. That's why you need to showcase you are that fun guy and who lives in abundance. Easier said than done but it comes with a shitload of experience it looks like.
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dave7-

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So you're saying they're not androids, they actually care?


immortal24 wrote:
Girls have options. That's why you need to showcase you are that fun guy and who lives in abundance. Easier said than done but it comes with a shitload of experience it looks like.
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Starno

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dave7- wrote:
  If girls were REALLY into you then they'd cancel their other plans to see you. 
 Except for some special reasons, but otherwise yes. Now, girls are not robot with emotions. It's just that as we already said, they have many options. You have to be the best option at the moment, if you want her to go with you (here you're talking about dating). Imagine that one day you have these options :- Go out with friends at the best party of the town- Go hanging out with your best friends to some bars, and joking around.- Go to a * your favorite sport* match ... And then, you have someone that you only know a little bit who texts you the same day : ˝ hey, what are you doing tonight, let's meet .... ˝. What do you think you're gonna do ?  You'll accept only if you find this option having more value than all the other ones.;)
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dave7-

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So they're fucking androids I knew it!




Starno wrote:
dave7- wrote:
  If girls were REALLY into you then they'd cancel their other plans to see you. 
 Except for some special reasons, but otherwise yes. Now, girls are not robot with emotions. It's just that as we already said, they have many options. You have to be the best option at the moment, if you want her to go with you (here you're talking about dating). Imagine that one day you have these options :- Go out with friends at the best party of the town- Go hanging out with your best friends to some bars, and joking around.- Go to a * your favorite sport* match ... And then, you have someone that you only know a little bit who texts you the same day : ˝ hey, what are you doing tonight, let's meet .... ˝. What do you think you're gonna do ?  You'll accept only if you find this option having more value than all the other ones.;)
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Mackiavelli

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don't look at girls as one giant entity you goof, it's also good to take your own actions into account and see how maybe you're causing people to react, what kind of vibe are you putting across? is your heart in the right place? everyone in the world is different and unique
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Maybe I'm an android?!



Mackiavelli wrote:
don't look at girls as one giant entity you goof, it's also good to take your own actions into account and see how maybe you're causing people to react, what kind of vibe are you putting across? is your heart in the right place? everyone in the world is different and unique
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I know how you feel OP ;(
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dave7- wrote:
Maybe I'm an android?! 
Maybe. I agree with Starno. It the value being considered. Girls are also cautious about making themselves vulnerable and getting hurt. I read this in a really cool article. It talks about 3 emotional desires chicks have. Status, Connection, Security.1. Status (Feeling important or superior, feeling challenged)
2. Connection (Feeling understood and appreciated, shared values and experiences)
3. Security (Feeling safe and reliable, trust)The girl really just doesnt know you. If you spent a fuck load of time with her, she would get to know you. But the fact that she doesnt, she puts herself at a risk at hurting her ego and self image.  
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i'm pretty sure my sister is an android!!
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Everyone makes decisions based on what they think will work out the best for them. You're saying girls are like androids, but so are you and everyone else here. The girl looks at you contacting her and says, what's the risk vs loss of spending time with this random guy compared to people I already know are cool and will have tons of fun with?
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