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January 21st, 2017
Why am I not succeeding?
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#11

Mikeler

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Join Date: 03/27/2013 | Posts: 156

freshstaus wrote:
keep in mind success in pickup isnt the total amount of lays or numberclosing 80% of the girls you open.
Success in pickup is saying whatever shit you want, being unstifled, having fun, and not being reactive to the girl.
 Number one reframe of the week. Good post.
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#12

JaegerLover88

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Join Date: 09/14/2013 | Posts: 1339

r0cky wrote:
JaegerLover88 wrote:
tiddiefoggers wrote:
Your balls. Their tits. Their teeth.  The color of the sky. The homeless guy out front. For fucks sake man, waffle it the fuck up. Grow a god damn pair.
There's a difference between lacking balls and simply just not knowing what to say
You only run out of things to say when you start giving a fuck about them. If you werte forced to talk to an ugly girl, would you give a fuck what you open with?

Very good point there
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#13

PlayAllReals

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Join Date: 07/20/2012 | Posts: 93

This use to happen to me until one day something just clicked and my results just starting going up, up and up to now these girls are pulling me home. So just keep going out and appoaching girls, this problem after a while will autocorrect. Time wise for me it was about a year and 3000 approaches to get to where I am at now.
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Join Date: 01/18/2013 | Posts: 58

OP i know what your problem is. The fact that you opened this thread already proves that you care about their reactions and think before you approach the girls.I wont go into details, but will just let you know how to fix this. You should try just walking up to the girl instantly, no thinking beforehand, and just start talking about the most random shit, but talk about what you actually want to talk about. Talk about things you find interesting, like you talk with your best friends, and dont let her reactions make you stop talking. If you talk about some boring subject like a price of a bag, everyone would die of boredom, you need to speak with enthusiasm, and show interested in the subject you are talking about, so the girl will feel your energy aswell, and enjoy the conversation. Also remember, you can literally talk about anything, just not some boring shit you dont really want to. Personally i always open and talk about sex throughout the whole conversation, because it pumps up my state and makes my goals clear. I would quite game in a week if i would have to talk about clothes or bags, hairstyles, with the girls.
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#15

JaegerLover88

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Join Date: 09/14/2013 | Posts: 1339

And is it true you have to make sexual comments, light sexual gestures when approaching and talking to women in order to avoid the friend zone?
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#16

themightye

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Join Date: 10/18/2013 | Posts: 0

don't worry about striking a conversation keep your focus on the girl and getting her...
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#17
Torien

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Join Date: 11/25/2012 | Posts: 128

These videos are a great starting point. Good luck OP.
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#18

Supervizor

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Join Date: 07/12/2013 | Posts: 101

A funny way to open if you don't know what to say is to purposely use a cheesy pick up line that YOU think is funny. For example:"hey girl are you a beaver?" ...pause for reaction... "cause DAAAAAAAAAAMN". Say it in a funny voice like Chris Tucker would and you'll make yourself laugh. If you're having fun with it then they will laugh - don't wait for their reaction. From there you can go on to anything like "hey, I'm Steve" or "who are you?" or do a cold read- such as guessing their occupation or something - i.e. "so you look like you're a pharmacist / lawyer / doctor/ etc." Play around with some stuff.Another thing I like to do is use Borat voice. Pay a compliment like "I like your bag, it is niiiice! High five!"Write down a list of funny self-amusing shit on your phone and when you go to the club you can look up your examples and try some of them.
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