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hoodbgoode

hoodbgoode

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ayooo!!!!
I'm back after a 2 year hiatus!
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hoodbgoode

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10.27My new wing C and I are headed out to do pickup 2nite. At last, I have a wing. AT LAST, I got that motivation back, the ability and vehicle, and I'm ready to do game.FYI in this journal im doing the distant light method thats centered around bringing the epic party to the club, instead of doing constant approach after approach.We get to the club and the line is long. Looking at the ratchet hoes in line I'm all like...yo C let's leave and go to somewhere with a mixed crowd with dem PAWGs.We hop in our cars and streak across the freeway out to the beaches, were there are a few bars and lots of people. It's plesantly and surprisingly good. It will do for the year that I am here.Strollin down we head to the Saturday night spot BRIX and it is onnnn and poppin!!!WE post up in the cut next to the bar. I am trying to tutor C a little bit - honestly he aint that bad. We are just chillin for a bit...I don't want "chillin" to be "choding" so I start talking to a few folks. We wander around the bar...not bringing the party yet. I'm still in a frame battle with the bar. I'm dancing a little bit and kicking around.I see a blond woman eyeing me and make my move. We have a teasing convo. I ask a lot of questions (weak) and tease her how we don't have anything in common. A decent set...shes maybe a 6 nothing special.I take a couple drinks and head to the floor. Slowly I get looser and stop giving a fuk. Wild things happened!!!-Girls coming up and grinding on me- one kinda busted chick trying to get my attention- Girls kissing me on cheeck- Girls hanging around the party group in the middle- Guys practically pushing me into groups of girls as "an opener"- lots of dancing and fun- girls looking and smiling at me- girls side-eyeing me and dancing up next to us while chodes watched on the sidelines and were full blown jelly I was in the middle of the party group in the middle of the dancefloor . EPIC. I dont think I've ever had so many IOIs and approach invitations in one night. I see the effing light now.Ill need to work on how to actually convert these girls into lays...but a promising start. me and C went fukin nuts all night.
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"what were doing is that we are making people feel comfortable to do w.e they want to and that makes them so happy and when we leave these girls are on a withdrawllike even if i leave the dance floor for 2min in bath room the energy goes half" 
  • goals for nxt nite: be careless and cocky, practice that "big cock game".
  • During my 3 pulls in mexico and damn near all my bar interactions they were looking for a bad boy
  • how would you be if exhausted from sex? if girls spent every night fighting to fuk u? create that feedback loop
  • imagine how dudes getting it left and right would laugh at all this pickup obssessed stuff.
  • above all be the guy who is fun, not deep to be around, which she can just fuk for fun.
  • once you bring the energy, let girls game me, pick me up, take me back to theirs.
  • Accuse hot girls of trying to and molest you. Put them in chaser mode.
 All in all, be the life of the paty, open boldly and flirt while also letting them game you and chilling. lead her around the bar and let her pull. Abundance will come to the point that you don't even care.be that cocky, partying, chased, careless dude. think about what has actually worked for you in past and build off that instead of taking all this outside advice. as a black male, shaved head, earrings, and stubble my look might attract girls who wanna fuk a thug. passage i readWhen women perceive a guy as being attractive, and he gets constant reinforcement from women that he is attractive, his whole set of behaviors change. Not only is he physically attractive, but usually, the set of behaviors that he naturally acquires as a result of being attractive are the same set of behaviors that many women find attractive.Where does this leave unattractive to average-looking men? It leaves them in turmoil. Not only are they physically unattractive, but their behaviors stay unattractive because they don’t get any positive reinforcement from women. If they received positive reinforcement that they are attractive, not only would they be more willing to behave the way that attractive guys behave, but they would acquire those traits naturally, not giving it a second thought, and they would have no use for game.
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Thurs night 10/31 HalloweenGod where do i begin. I was just...awful tonight. I'm better than this and I know it. PU is something that takes balls and aggressiveness and...I lacked a lot of things. I'm just gonna list what I did wrong. I was a cop and looking decent, getting IOIs but I just couldnt do anything with it.
  • - Not living up to the center of the party (letting the venue dictate my frame, falling out of state on the packed dancefloor)
  • - Not being sexual with the girls that I talked to, opened, approached
  • - Not dancing my ass off and ignoring judgemental eyes
  • - Not opening the girls that kept giving me looks, touching me, giggling at my costume
  • - Creeping out the 1st girl who gave me an IOI (she kept moving away, this is after she opened me..wtf)
  • - Choding around at the bar
  • - Drinking (CANNOT afford to get a DUI, cannot take in the extra calories, waste of money. The only situation i ever want to drink is if it will directly help to get the lay)
  • - General self doubt
  • - Being unable to be sexual, mindless lame chit chatting with chicks
  • - Ended up leaving early
 This isn't going to cut it. I did not act like I owned the bar, like i was irresistible, like I was fearless and ready to fuk.Considering Im shaking off more or less 2 years of rust...its to be expected I guess. I'll bounce back tomorrow night.To succeed you must fail.Overall night grade: D
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saturday 11.2

A much better night, this time I actually brought it out.

Go out, meet up with wing, we start breaking it down as he went out last night and I didn't. Unfortunately he's gonna be around for another month or so only, afterwards I'll be on my own. We work on his problem points, I'm pointing out what he needs to change and how to improve.

We then hit the dance floor, ignore the sidelined nodding chodes and start acting a fool with high energy jumping and partying. Never fails to get girls looking!!!

My wing ends up getting danced on, grindined on with a chouple of chicks, he's really good at this crazy dancing stuff, better than me lol. I'm proud of his progress, the guy is consistently going out, getting to the venue first, chilling and vibing. Now we need to work on his approaching.
We circle the bar and after dancing mixed in with wlaking its time to approach

1) i see a georgia girl (UGA / UF game was today and I go in) teasing her and complimenting her spotted purse ( I do this too much, just lame ways to open chicks. I'm thinking I should probably be more direct and flirty) She reacts well and starts laughing at my teasing, but her BF comes by. This happens a lot over the course of the night lol. I'm workong on my eye contact and not much else, bad approach.

2) Hot girl wearing a metal spike necklace. This broad was BADDD....light eyes, lightskin, dark hair. I went in and she was barely paying me attention...you know how hot girls are. I was trying to flirt and she wasn't really having it. I wasn't physical, persistent, and sexual enough. You know that hotties barely give you any signs sometimes. I won't lie, this was intimidating and I bitched out after a while because she didnt seemed to be into it.

3) Two set of girls chilling on the side under a speaker. Started to step up a little bit here and confidently approached them, draging wing along. They started to dig it at first,

Me: Wassup with your white coats?
Them: We're doctors
Me: Oh really?
them: laughing - no we're nurses
me: Cool, nurses are way sexier
        Can yall treat infections?


We flirt, i try to pull them to a quiter location. They don't bite. I need to work on my leading skills...even offtered them a drink and no dice. Ehh thats some suspect behavior.....


4) See a girl ordering shots for a group, try to talk to her, she hardly pays attention. See another girl dancing at bar, laugh over 70s and 80s music for a while. These honestly dont really count as approaches.


5) See a girl with a feather tattoo, try and hang in there and persist after opening her, get cold shoulder and she turns away. Wing does me proud by immediately opening her friend and sticking. it sticks so i tell him he needs to hang in there.

6) Go out and one of the better sets, 2 drunk country girls sitting at a table. Man Im on them, sexual flirting, trying to tease her. She is country as hell and mildly shit testing me ( I feel myself backpedaling a tiny bit, behavior). But I stay in there, meeting her super drunk friend, teasing her, making her smile. Flirting and tellling her shes a horse girl (grew up on farm) == shes wild, untamed and free.

Also married. Damn Jax.

Set fizzles out after me trying to push it, flirt, kiss her


7) best approach of night, spot a skinny hipster girl, open, flirt unashamedly, soo sexual with this broad  and looking her in eyes. She feels it too, staring wide eyed back. Take her hands gently and look at her. She starts smiling. I ask her things about herself ( gotta stop doing this)..i tell her to tell me something about me if shes a psych major.

She says im  really smooth lol. I tell her its because I go for what I want.

She giggles and says she's with someone.


We end up leaving the bar after a while (more dancing) and immediately realize our mistake. It's 1 am not 2 am. daylight savings time. Bars arent letting us back in. We meet a fellow brotha, try another bar, doesnt work. Try another bar, we get in.

8) I'm angry at myself. 2 blondes sitting next to us, catch them looking. Open them, compliment their tats. They look at me expectantly. They want me to bring the party and be sexual. Man I can tell these girls were down, and were expecting me to

LEAD


Which i didn't do. I pussed out and left. I'm really upset about this approach in particular so I'll be creating a thread on the main forum to ask a question.

We try to hit another bar, my homie goes ahead and says it's shut (this place was supposed to be open late) so night ends.

Things I have to work on

- bringing the fun into my approaches, not just dancing
- being openly flirty and sexual
- sticking and persisting in awkward sets (let them walk away or tell me to fuck off)
- asking less questions
- talking less quickly and nervously
- dont lean in to broads
- kino and touching more
- grabbing balls and stepping up


I'm on my way tho. night grade B
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hoodbgoode

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general coaching points for this upcoming week

- quit supplicating, complimenting like a chode, and quizzing girls, offer value instead and lead the conversation on a fun and sexual journey. They should be taking interest and asking you questions. if not something is wrong. If you're gonna compliment her, explain what it is that actually makes you dig it.
- tonality, tonality, tonality. The hotter the girl, the more you break rapport and speak in short, charged statements. up the cockiness. tilt that head back.
- word vomit and plow, force a girl to blow you out.
- just lead
- lose weight fatty!!!
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this level of effort simply aint cuttin it.

ill write more tomorrow but i'm pissed and frustrated
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I'm baaacck...
And this time for good. No more hiatuses, no more excuses. I'm a lot more focused, motivated, I know whats up and how to get there.

I have not 1, but 2 new wings (well, one lives in a different town). this is great. I'm going to be focusing on approaching 8 sets a night and giving everything I have to those sets.

I went out tonight for the 1st time with one of the wings. He's a shark and was approaching everything in sight, very intense. I was impressed. hes a few years younger but seems on top of his stuff.

We opened several sets over the course of the night, thankfully this guy (D) lit a fire under my ass. I concentrated on opening and pumping as much fun and emotions into every girl as I possibly could. Results were pretty decent, capping off in hooking a blonde 8 at the end of the night.

I'm trying to figure out how to fight ADD-filled girls in loud music in the middle of the club. I'll get there.

Ive really watched the 6 steps for consistency video and found it suuuppperrr helpful. I'll be focusing on going out 3 nights a week from here on out!


I'll leave with the fundamentals that I've written down in a google doc to review and remind myself every time i go out.

Fundamentals
  1. #1 = full tard. create+ emotion. mold reality. u=prize
  2. Bring Energy / PARTY, Playfulness, Tease. blast w/ fun, play games
  3. <->Flirt w/ deniability, intent. Bipolar Jerk, spin emotions
  4. Eye Contact, touch, laid back BL, aloof
  5. Cool / BR Tonality, voice projection, Get Momentum
  6. push/pull emotions, drama, teasing, humor, get rxns
  7. Ur frame, state, reality > hers. DHV w/out effort, w/ belief.
  8. hook-> stfu-> disqualify, strip validation = they chase
  9. Plow, stop lead girl, lead, be persistent
  10. non-kiss ass/nice, be authentic, extreme swag
  11. screen Logistics, Iso, pull ( u doin later?/ lets go / #)
  12. game venue&girls, frame battle w/ others, momentum, SWAG.
  13. Repeat & get Epic Rejections 1000x, no pressure.

 
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Man friday was so horrible, I don't even want to think about it. I hadd a much more positive night tonight following the 6 steps for consistency. Only 5 real sets but that's about all I had time for (well not really, i kind of choded and wasted time at the end).

I'm in this weird headspace where I'm suddenly concious of being a minority, or not good looking or tall enough, or whatever. I'm focused on losing weight and staying better groomed...well I actually have a lot on my plate right now what with trying to improve in several areas (fitness, making money online, and pickup). But I used to never be overly concious of my looks, not sure what's going on here.

I've been wastching Jeffy/ Todd/ Julien/ Tyler videos and slowly coming to a conclusion that if you're super good looking / classically attractive to these broads..and I dont quite think I am...direct game is on point. Otherwise, focusing on indirect game and making the broad chase / taking interest in you, flipping the script, being the life of the party, funny and flirty  - these are all things that I can do and get good at. So it's on from here.

#1 Irish
Circling the bar with my wing, I spy a cutie sitting down while her buddies dance. Open, spit some weak sht about how she looks bored, she smiles and laughs so I guess shes happy for the open. I weakly eject. Turn around. Stand w/ J, my wing, who asks wassup. Shake my head, imagine Nathan yelling at me to get back in.

me:Hey.
her: Hi (smiles)
me:I like your ring
her:Oh thanks...
me:Where you from? You seem country

We vibe, flirt, I tell her I think she's cute. She smiles. Seems open to a bit of a talk. it kind of stales and fizzles out though. she eventually smiles and says "it was nice talking to you". kiss, get the cheek only...

This is why I dislike direct game, it puts all the power in her hands.

#2 Bestie

See a cute blonde, smile, open, chitchat, quick convo about how we are new besties, she smiles and laughs, digging it. tell her i'll see her later in the night (which I did)...

#3 Artsy
Indie, artsy looking cutie standing on the dancefloor. Open. Smile. Vibe. Flirt. compliment her tattoo

me: I like you tat...are those bats?
me:*look closer* birds
her: Hahah *giggle* yess
me:Wow you have a lot! Show me

She does, pointing out all of her tats. Was really feeling good in this set, she was super cute, if a bit thin, and seemed really receptive. however, J, winging and dancing with her friend, apparently got distracted. Chubby friend swoops in, cockblocks, pulls her away. arrgghghhgghh

#4 Miami

We're outside, on the patio area. 2 girls walk past, tan, lean, got dudes ogling. I open and ask them if they're from Miami...lol not sure why. It actually half hooks, J swoops in and takes the convo in a different direction, they say a few lines and swoop out.

#5 Bestie Part 2

See 2 cuties, one is the blonde from earlier (the bestie girl). Open, Vibe. This is the best and longest set of the night, lasting like half an hour at least. J wings, and isolates the other.


We chitchat, they tell us where' they're from, I tease and make fun as much as I can. Flirting a bit, teasing as much as i can. she tells me about her job and what she does, I buy a shot cause its her bday.

I'm trying to go indirect, get her ot shit test me, but she's way to amiable and I'm unsure if she's intersted. I'm too passive to hit the escalation window. Eventually her friend drags her off because its near clsoing time.

I did try and isolate, got a bit physical, but I just couldn't...get her to shit test, take interst, chase..any of that. she really didnt ask many qs about me.



J and I end up goign to another bar, i run out of steam and the night ends soon after anyway.

We're planning to spend the weekend in orlando next week, more bars, targets, and just trying something new.

Takeaways
- I must master indirect game, being sexual while making the girls CHASE ME.
- gotta be more agressive and contineu to work in my opening fury.
- need to optimize my style, lose weight, get more attractive. I'm planning braces later on in the year.


I have a long way to go.
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Post Austin BC Note Dump


Friday
Difference between 11 pm and 1 am game
Early in the night things are different; be social, approachable, have fun and bring the party
Nathan recommends dancing, getting loosened up and having fun
Later in the night demanded more and saw little, consistency is everything
Open, command attention and disarm the friends / cockblocks. The best defense is a good offense.
Opening is like dancing, go through the fundamentals. Turn her around, square up, and start leading / pulling her here and there. Don’t hover and hunch shoulders
Not being sexual enough, not putting yourself on the line, being too cutesy
Where is the burning desire? Intent, Purpose?
Consistency and pushing yourself across 3-4 hours is a huge issue
Bringing the intensity, rising your energy with the venue. The more sexual you are, the more physical you get naturally
Right here, right now
Nathan angry because I took no risks, tried to play it safe. Play it safe and be friendly / dancing monkey, and you will not get laid.
It is not direct vs indirect. Both are part of good game. Being smooth comes from lots of lays and knowing how to react when girl goes in an unexpected direction.
Screen upfront by playing to win, not to not lose
1st 30 secs is everything, she judges conclusions. Hold sexual tension. Dominate with eye contact
Quit thinking about the pull, cause it’s a byproduct. You can want but not entitled to it. Only entitled to desire as a man and wanting a woman.
Express who you are and what you’re about. That’s your job with every approach.
Scared to lead
Channels: animation, being witty, physicality (not lame palming). Moving them around.
‘push pull’ is a loaded concept, its part of mixing it up. Don’t keep pressing same button.
Stop obsessing about the pull, it’s a byproduct of everything else.

Saturday
Need more desire. That’s really it.
Honesty, desire, intent and purpose
Continuing to believe you’re the shit, believe what you’re selling.
If you see it as hard, difficult, or a chore, you aren’t going to make the progress.
And stop thinking that you have a long way to go, because you don’t.
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Guess who moved to Austin TX...
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