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May 30th, 2017
Why Young guys haveing troubles to get good at this?
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#21
Van wilder

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Join Date: 01/07/2013 | Posts: 494

Yeah i see the op points here!
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#22

2inner

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Yeah, i am not talking about naturals or other dudes who start fucking chicks at age 1.

I am talking about normal young dudes like me and you,who started game bettween ages 16-22 years old who had a few or non existanst sexual life then.

As a broke student guy in a semi europe cool country i feel lack of depth ( traveled, financially) in lerning curve as someone who has the finincial ability to travel,learn new things,go constantly in clubs etc etc.

Lets face it,The profile of guy who get good at this is :A guy who is over 24+ years old,finincial ok,had chode friends before the game,was chode in terms of relationships(ex, had 1 girlfiend in his life etc).

The evidence is in Field reports section,go see guys like Psycopathic and ilb and compare to the dudes i mentioned here before.
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#23
Jailbait Warrior

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Just because you are young and suck doesn't mean everyone else will too
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#24

2inner

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Jailbait Warrior wrote:
Just because you are young and suck doesn't mean everyone else will too
Dude Accept this first for your self:

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DeNiro

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 I'm pretty happy with myself right now. Twenty one and I found out about RSD at 17. It got me laid, got me friends and got me undepressed. I still do drugs and drink too much but there is still time to fix that. 

At this point, more than even going out I crave gaining more experience in life. I feel like I'm finally starting to fill up and become a real person. And girls can tell, it's sick. I really lacked this depth even a year ago. 

Even though I have not had stunning success with RSD so far I am so happy I found out about it early. I am saving as of now and for the next few years to come so that I can pay for a year up-front at the Mansion in Vegas. Provided it still exists that is. And then, I do believe after a year I will be something worth talking about 
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#26

la leuce

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You got a fat ass I'll admit it.

I'm probably the most "qualified" to speak on this.

It really doesn't matter though. For the most part younger people take little action and get little results.
ceoarob wrote:
 Um, 

IDK if I agree.

I was 16 or 17 whenever I started out with this stuff. I got good, but I was inconsistently good and didn't know what I was doing that "worked", so I did things that didn't help my results with chicks. 

But the thing is, I learned to be a VERY VERY social guy, but I was still having a lack of clarity in my Game so to speak. 

Then, when I was 20, I took a bootcamp - technically two bootcamps in a short period of time. And the thousands of "reference experiences" became crystal clear in my mind about how/why they worked or didn't work. 

And my results shot through the roof, and things got good....phenomenally good. 

But, I also had alot of life experience (well traveled, financially successful, etc. etc.) that would come to a man who was probably in his 30's or 40's.

On top of that, I dropped out of college to pursue business stuff, so yeah. 

I just think that you need:

1) Right mentorship - doesn't have to be bootcamps, it can also be hanging out with people who are better than you, etc. 
2) Right location to grow - I doubt you can get better at game in New Brunswick, North Dakota vs. Vegas/NYC/LAX/Miami/London/big city. Technically, you can, but location is important.
3) Dedication to going out / dedication to hitting up chicks hard - You just gotta be willing to do whatever it takes to get yourself mentally, emotionally, and spiritually to that point where you cross your own individual barrier to success so that all of this stuff "makes sense" for you. After I did it, I just got to a point where it felt like a huge weight was lifted off my shoulders beacuse I knew that I could go anywhere in the world and have the "adventures" that I wanted to have. So yeah.

Alot of the guys who I know that are good are young. You don't HAVE to be old in order to get good at this shit. However, alot of my friends in college have trouble getting out of Univ. because they can barely afford gas to get downtown...let alone pay $3000-4000 dollars a month to fund a "baller" lifestyle. So yeah. There are people I know who do it super on the cheap as well. They are just dedicated. 

The single biggest advantage that I learned that I have vs. these old guys who are "late to the game" is that my mind is EXTREMELY pliable and flexible. My mind is still growing which means that I still have brain cells that can learn things at an ultra-fast rate. Also, even though I might have less "experience", that also means that I have less "bad experiences" whenever it comes to dating/relationships which means that I'm more likely to be inhibited in my growth and I can create "good experiences" faster. I don't have a "set" world view beacuse it's constantly changing. 

However, on the flip side, I also have a very strong sense of self which is always growing and always evolving. However, it's very strong because I "know who I am" so to speak. Paradox, but yes. 

But then again...

I'm tall (6ft 3), rediculously good looking, Black/African American, awesome, and have a golden voice. So I guess I should put a disclaimer...

DISCLAIMER: Results not typical. 

Cheers.
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#27
ceoarob

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thx boo
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#28

DarkRain

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Join Date: 01/26/2013 | Posts: 11

 I'm 18, had some amazing results. One of my friends is 21 and has fucked over 200 girls, he's pretty normal (well... lol)

Lack of depth is something I've definitely noticed though. That has been the main barrier these last couple of months. 

I believe the age difference in game level isn't actually something inherent with age, it's simply the amount of responsibility a man takes for himself and his actions
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Socialist

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Join Date: 12/11/2012 | Posts: 119

 Probably one of these:

- Addicted to Validation (this will bottleneck your game)

- Success Barriers

- Lazy
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