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Adventure Times in the TO: Mastery
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I'm back. A lot more experienced and comfortable but yet not satisfied with my current progression in life, and this is one of the things I want to work on. As much as I love social dynamics and interactions things are different now. They're better. 

September 7, 2013

Last couple of days I have been slowly getting back into the rhythm of it. Experiencing flashes of what's possible. The old self per say. Tonight was no different. 

Get into venue and feel indifferent. Wing opens a pair of girls So I jump in and just talk. Mollar-dollar mouthpiece. Initially cold and get into the sway of it. She likes me and added with smooth physicality it's killing. As per usual after I establish attraction naturally I have to go into rapport and qualifiy her so I ask her about herself and mention my life and so forth. This is when she mentions she 33, married and has a 8 month year old at home. When she mentions this the vibe changes and I no longer feel a need to stay or do anything and she politely ejects.

Dip and go into another venue and force myself to talk to this fat girl who's too drunk to appreciate my effort but because I am charasmatic and pretty she stays when clearing I see she's not into me as a person at all. Eventually I start self-amusing crazy and just saying stupid shit. Silence hits because even then I am not motivated to continue forward. Eventually my wing comes and we self-amuse as she poltiely ejects. 

I don't like girls that don't have substance to them. Ahhhhh.

Go back into the intial venue and wing my friend with a girl. Usually routine as I self-amuse mixed with positive and negative expressions and slight physicality. All signs lead to it being solid as hell as her friends leave her by herself and she stays. All I need is time at this point. I qualify and build rapport and go back into attraction and amusement for my own time. She's has a similar personaility and is reciperating. Eventually her friends come and motion to her to go to the dancefloor and the friends tell me to come but my girl says she'll see me later while I already said I'll come and she says come but I ditch instead. 

I should have stayed in set and not ejected. Time is my ally. The friends liked me and it was an inevitable. 

Spend some time just chilling and shooting the shit with this girl and my wing. Jokingly open girls with the help of the girl. It was a fun. After a while it felt like I was using her as a tool so I leave.

Me and my wing go in on these two girls and it's on with both girls. We are in the kill room, which is where aggression is rewarded. I haven't been here in awhile so I do my usual chase and don't get super physical with her and because my wing is super physical with his girl my girl is off put and ditches me to get a drink. I walk away and use the washroom and run into her. Crazy girl. Use the washroom and grab a water and run into my wing and he mentions they're down but he's hestiate because hes is fat. I motion to do it anyways and we check out the other room and it's dead as it's 2:15am already. As we're standing we see the girls again and I engage mines this time more aggressive and do my usual chase me as I dance stuff. She's into it a lot and grinding on me and when my wing leaves the friend motions to the my girl that she can stay because she wants to leaves and my girl is down. When my wing comes back he mentions we should go outside for fresh air and I oblige. We get outside and because I fell into a trap the same trap I have many times. Because my game is very self-amusement and attraction based unless I actively qualifiy or build rapport once the girl is more in a logical mindspace the attraction dispates and I'm just another emotion instead of a person. So once we go outside it felt like momentum died and I didn't know what to do or say and awkwardly talked about her dog and afterwards although her friend was down at this point my girl bid us and goodnight and they both left.

As much fun as it is to beast and tear shit down, I must qualify and get to know the girl. Otherwise I am just a fleeting emotion and not a person.  

More to come....
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Is this the REALLLLL untitled?
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^ Don't troll. It obviously isn't.

September 11, 2013

It's Dante's bday so we do it up. Meetup with the boys and drink beforehand and fuck shit up. Meet a girl, troll the girl, have a dance off with girl, get her number as she leaves. Troll everyone. Dance more. Fun night.

I got to stop drinking. We're all alcoholics at this point. Not good. I blame Flipmode for this. He made me drink his beer.

Free tour tn. Excited. But got a lot of work to do so fuxk.
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September 12, 2013

Freetour and then hit usual spot. Getting into the routine of it. I have a lot of bad habits ingrained that I have to slowly unwind. But it's all good. Part of the fun of it.

Slowly get into it, first girl loves me. Focus more on fun but sexy vibes and she's down. It's really early so I don't push it aggressively and stick to NIM physicality. Slow and smooth. Eventually after about 45 mins or so she says she has to go to the washroom and wants to see me later. I say cool and let her leave and continue on.

In retrospect I should have gotten her number or something but it's cool it's still early. More opportunities.

Continue in the process and unwind more and more. There's so many puas, and the worst part is I know most of them. Meh. Competition breeds excellence.

Second part of the night hit up this set with Dante and M-Star. I am warmed up and already hittng hard. Go in strong and caliberate after the fact. She gets bambi eyes and she brings up a pull-opportunity. At first I don't realize it and  don't take action. Her attraction drops but she is still interested and I try to pull her but no go. Her friends get up to leave and she invites me to come. I follow and somehow get mixed up and the rhythm gets fucked and dies. I start from scratch but her emotional state has crashed and whereas before she was outgoing and bubbly now she is quiet and reserved. I plow but am hitting walls. More wings come in and are more on and basically overshadow me out but I stick it out. It's a marathon not a race. I change girls to the girl that is fucking shit up but she's a prude and having a bad night and then Shadowz comes in and fucks shit up. I am done at this point but stick In. Meh. They leave. I smile.

Fuck. I felt my emotionally state drop during this set. This never happens. This a product of not mediating and investing way too fast.

I have an option of chilling and doing it up with the boys or continue hitting it and I automatically knew the right choice would be to keep at it. Both options are fun regardless but I did that dance and go crazy thing and I know what comes of it. Nothing.

Grab some girls hair as she walks by and mumble some bullshit as she latches on me. Bambi eyes. Makeout. Push-off. Qualify. Make out. More self-amusement. Meet friend. Friend leaves. Chill more. She leaves to go washroom and tells me to wait. I leer at Julien and Jeffy teaching students. Chill with Dante and M-Star and decide to get back at it. See girl talking to Shadowz and Falc. Go In and renegage. Both guys are being scumbags so I grab her and run. They chase but she's mines so she blows them out. Mars jumps in but to no avail. I grab and walk. Tease her about the situation. Makeout. Bring inside room. Self-amusement and rapport. Get kicked out by bouncers. Find friends and chill. More bullshit. Shadowz and Falc come back and troll hard.

My state drops and I have no idea of what to do. So I just stay in. Time is my ally. I deflect and ride the emotionally wave. No need to contribute just bide my time. Flipmode comes in and shows the girls that at least not all my friends are scumbags. Eventually the trolls leave cause they're trolls and trolls have a half-life of 24x765.

I get back to it and hit that sweet sweet zone. Where everything works. No frame battles just fun with a peer acknowledgement of what's gonna happen.

More teasing. Get a future projection about nothing happening. Tell her I am virgin and have a small penis. Laughs.

Million dollar mouth piece being used heavily. Vomit bullshit. Combined with self-amusment and challenging her is liquid cocaine. All girls need to feel a challenge and feel like you're the prize they have to work for. This way cuts through all that useless mumbo jumbo bullshit.

Eventually we all bounce outside. Logistics figured out way back. We walk and talk. Reach theirs. Girl split. Me and flipmode play Versace remix and trap it out. My girl orchestrates everything and we all split up. Get mild resistance as she's rubbing my dick. Tell her I am a virgin. Winning.

Condoms sucks. So I get a blowjob and we fool around and end up just shooting the shit and cuddling. Get to know more about her. She likes me a lot. Ask her what it was. She says I was a nice guys and everyone else was creepy as hell. Puas.

She initially tells me I have to leave when I first come into her room but I end up crashing and leaving in the morning. She has a cute little ass. I love it.

A really fun night.

Flipmode is the man.

If I open and am feeling good everything kind of just works. Which is a combination of the skills I cultivated and a over whelming presence of self-amusement with indifference.

This is not much a thing of building or cultivating skills but rather unraveling what is useless.

Gonna stop drinking. No real use.

Stick to it young jedi.

Started experiencing anxiety after the freetour. I have to be careful not to fall Into the same mental traps I did before.

Untld is back yo. Get ready.
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September 13, 2013

Hit up a movie with the boys and go out afterwards.

Approach street two-set. Isolate mines. Self-amuse. NIM physicality. More bullshit. She's having fun. Sexy as fuck. I give up and let her go eventually ecause I don't feel like this is going nowhere. Entitlement issues. Uh oh. Chill out. Eat. Go out to bar. Feel awkward.

Apparently diving back into this shit has brought back some of the same issues I was dealing with before, which I don't know is a consequence of not going hard at it or because of some unresolves issues. Only continuing to go out will resolve this.  

Self-amuse and hit the zone. Shadowz tells me to troll a girl so we all troll her. I pump my self and get talkative. Every girl serves a purpose. Eventually I eject and approach a girl. Self-amuse the entire time. I am unrelateable as a person because I don't attach her to the emotions. It's me vs her. She becomes defensive and acts flighty. I eject because I see it's not happeneing and I am having way too much fun to be here and take her shit. So I leave and join the boys. Talk shit with the boys. Girl looks over. Ignore. Whore. Get a fucked up text from family. Ruins nights. Goes home and mediates. Sleeps.

September 14, 2013

Hotseat. Eat food. Link up with boys at telly. Isolate chick. Vibe. Dictate rhythm and self-amuse. Girls leave. Too late to get in club so streetgame. Everyones drunk. Ditch. Reunite. Game. Lost Mars and Mills. Game with Vin. Approach tons. Build my state and vibe. Has fun. Opens two girls. My girl is country loves me aa we walk and talk. Man-women + self-amusement + intent. Vin leaves because he's girl won't fuck him on the spot. Stays with girls. Girls loves me. Introduces to friends. Bounces to grab food. Talk to other girl while in food place. Social proof. Gets food while not hungry. Walk outside with girl and say I'll walk her home. She obliges. Then mentions she's taking a cab because her feet hurt. I mess up and say I live in the opposite direction. I bring up drinks at hers. No go. Plow. No go. Offers number and says she likes me a lot. Gets number. Hugs her bye. Gets reference of what not to do.

Everything was good as would be expected. Calm and relaxed with everything assumed. Even when my wing left I stayed in and kept going. Assume positive ending and remember to say what ever it takes to get back to her. Full responsibility.

Not hungry so gives homeless man food. Trolls girls and tell them about a puppy named Charles that my friend brought me for my birthday. Purely to get emotional. Works like a charm. They read vibe not words. Approach a lot. Asians hate me. Jokes. Asians are just racist. Bounce from one set to another. No fucks given. Use girl and throw her away like tampon. Self-amuses. Friends yells at girl to go in club. Say bye. Walk away. See her a bit later. Renegage the friends. Dog story. Emotional. Bambi eyes. Bouncer comes to let her in. Say bye and leave. See later but say fuck it and ditch. Fun times.

Linkup back with boys. Troll these trolls of girls. Keep at it. Reach mcdonalds. Guy's girlfriend gives me bambi eyes. Don't do anything because I feel sorry for homey. Wait at busstop with falc. A guy asks us for directions. See girls in his group. Say witty comment when I see a window to one of girls. Works. Girl initiates. Challenger her. She steps up. Isolate. Qualify. Man-women + intent + self-amusement. Guys know what's up and grab her. Two-seconds. Grab her and ask where are you going? Stay with me. No. Afterparty. Leaves. I smile and walk off in the sunset.

State is not good. I hit state during streetgame and was this gimmicky personfide personality instead of me. When I dropped out of it I almost pulled the country girl and did that bait and switch at the end. Either state is a safety mechanism to protect my ego during streetgame or a way for my body to cope with the long winded nature of streetgame. Further research is needed.

Hotseat. Exciting. Can't wait for day2.

Although I can troll I have to cut back and relate to the girl if I want to get laid. My energy is only going to isolate her if she can't relate to it. Big lesson from Julien.

I'm starting to get back into it and I can say it's a lot of fun.

Merging sets and opening at will is awesome. Opening while in set is bomb and acts as social proof.

Your boy is back. These whombats better watchout.
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Bam! Good shit homie. We gettin' back in the motions like two young jedi masters
untld wrote:

Apparently diving back into this shit has brought back some of the same issues I was dealing with before, which I don't know is a consequence of not going hard at it or because of some unresolves issues. Only continuing to go out will resolve this.  
Man I've feeling the exact same thing. The thing I realized is this... THIS time around we have all the reference experiences of doing this stuff in the past. That's the difference

I think the fear chemicals are being summoned because our body is scared of going back to how things were before (deep immersion in game). Last time we had a bad experience going full out in game and our body is scared of pushing us in that direction. The key is to recognize WHERE we may have made mis-steps in the past and adjust accordingly. Be more real, follow the NIM, etc. etc. I think that's the key for feeling congruent at this point
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September 18, 2013

Young homies birthday. So we chill it out and be social. Usual venue. Usual crowd. Get at it. Slowly but surely. Meet girl. Girl likes me. Self-amuse too much. She hates me. More approaches. Go outside and take breather. Approach more slowly.

Like Julien said I can self-amuse but I have to make it relateable to the girl in some context, essentially including her in the party.

Meet blonde with Shadows and troll her. Random french dude making out with friend. Spike his girl's emotions, grab her and makeout. Pfft faggot. Mumble bullshit and isolate. Makeout and tease. Amplify emotions. Lead hard and isolate again. Tease more. Tells me I smell good. Winning. Grab hand and lead to alleyway. False time constraint. Lead. Makeout more. Grab hand and bring behind dumpster. Makeout, whip dick out and push her down. She grabs penis and looks up and says she's not a whore. Tell her I don't judge. Be serious. Lose emotions. She runs off.

Next time more fingerbang instead of rushing to close. Good shit regardless. Sees opportunity and takes it.

Back in. More approaches. Has fun with boys. Dances with girl. Girl loves me. Everybody loves me. Goes outside to catch breather. See Mars jump in taxi with girls. Laughs. Get called over to taxi and told to hop in. Yolo. Hops in. Realizes this is a custer-fuck immediately. No leway or forced loop when I am sitting jn the front. Signal taximen that afterparty is at the rapement. Get there but whores don't want to get out taxi. Typical. Plow. Plow. Plow. Plow. Plow. Whores leave. Walk home in cold.

Next time if not certain don't jump in. Whores are gonna be whores and I could have slayed that dragon.

Good night regardless. Exciting shit.

More uses of br and bedroom tonality. More expression on face.

Felt anxious during the night which slowly dissipated the moment I stopped giving fuck and trying. Trolling with Shadows is a problem as it creates this weird energry. Gonna have to step back from it.
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September 19, 2013

Hit comedy show. Meetup with boys. Usual venue. Usual process. Create hub. Hub fun. Girls + boys = fun. Meet chick from last week. Self-amuse. She has to leave so get her to text me for later. More hub. Talk to chick. Game chick. Slow and steady. Future pretense it. Create hub. Wing comes in a steals her. Don't follow up. He pulls. Butthurt. Mellow. Make new friends. Troll girl. Meetup with boys. Crash afterparty. Goes home alone. Eats rice cakes with raw honey. 

Simple case of not renengaging and losing a girl because of it. Durrr. Learn and forget it. Normal process of learning through negative feedback. If you lost her you never had her. The last couple of days have been really good and although like tonight some have been shitty in terms experiencing a bunch of bullshit it's good for me. You can only learn by fucking up a lot. 
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September 20, 2013

Flaked on date. Feels nothing. Watches fail compliation. Gets into state. Goes to new venue. Akin to other high-end venue. Every fibre of my being is telling me to leave. Stays. Chats up people. Has fun. Real fun. More fun. Looks back and laughs on how her even misconctructed this environment as scary. Streetgame in rain. Chat up girl with girl in poutine shop. Really expressive and story telly. She loves me. Black dude sings Whitney Houston. Loses everything. Leaves. Goes back to wing. Girls scare me so I want to leave. Flippy tells me to stay and get the reference. So I do. They're adorable once you peel back the ratchness. Troll. Goes home. Eats meat. Sleeps. 

Over the last couple of days I've realized that I'm attaching my sense of self from external factors which is causing me to go down the same path I did before. One of doubt and depression. Akin to that of a newbie. But awareness brings change and I've managed to get out of that. Julien said it the best, attach your success to internal pressures instead of outer. Still kicking out the kinks but I have to focus more on challenging and  putting myself in unusual situations if I want to continue further down this path rather then busting a nut. In saying this, this means I will go back into this shit hardcore and truly become what it was meant to be. Even though idealized, this is what was meant to happen. If it ever gets too extreme or I get lost in the haze I know how to get out. Which means starting off with a clean state and building from scratch. If she ain't down, she doesn't exist. 
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September 21, 2013

Did some daygame at the lcoal mall. Completely horrible at it. Chatted up an asian my homie threw at me and was nervous and mellow. Game is a muscle and as expected will atrophy when not used. So I expected this. Warmed up with chatting up shopkeepers and so forth. Afterwards I had a really interesting talk with my landlord and meetup with a wing as we head down to the venue.

Get into the venue and get into the process. Approach a two-set with a wing. Usual process but nothing is hitting. Vibe is off and girl is not having it. Stick it out. Friend comes in. Stay in. Friend leaves. Tells girls story. Girls look unamused. Plow. Stick in. Girls leaves. Bounce back downstairs. Approach girl. Has fun. Tells story. Trolls. Friend not liking any of it so cockblocks and interrupts. Turns back on me expecting me to leave. Sticks it out. Reengages. Plows. Friend cuts me off. Chats up dude. Reengages girl. Tells story. Friend interjects again. Wonder why the hell I am dealing with this bullshit and leaves. Wings wing. Knows girl from a funny adventure. In. Talks to girl who is bland as fuck. Pumps state by hearing my own voice. Eventually she leaves. Feels nothing different. Dances with the boys. Open brown chick. Awkward as fuck. Trolls. Girl leaves. Dances more. Girl stabs my nose so I open. Game. On. Lead and isolate. Talks about the boys, Joe Rogan and bulletproof coffee. Loses steam. Friend comes in and expects girl to leave with me. Girl says no and hugs me bye. I am bemused. Girl stays as friend leaves. Awkward. Reengage. Not the same. Eject and dance with wing. Has fun. Reengage. Talk. Cuts me off and tells me to have a goodnight. Takes two steps and traps it out with homie. Leaves. Streetgame. Run into the mother of a children. Take pictures. Mother leaves. Wings wing. Girls leave. Bounce to food. Four guys, two girls. Take one for the team and go home. Makes pork chops.

It appears there's a common trend in all my sets where I just lose stream and go blank. I don't know whether this is a reprecussion of losing my social stamina or whether something else. My gut feeling it's the former, which is easily fixed by just continually going out. 

Another occurrance is I have lost my PU lens. Which I don't know is good or bad but I can't pickup certain ques that I used to be able to read automatically. They must have gone unconsious so it's gonna take some time before I refocus my RAS to pick them up consiously, which will happen if I continue going out. 

Part of night was just dealing with a lot of bullshit, be it from the girl or from her friends. But I realized that this is to be expected and that any emotional reaction to this is simply my ego getting into the way. As I have this mental conception of myself that no longer is accurate, be it the person I was 2-3 months ago, I am no longer that person and therefore am subject to a completely different subjective experience. 

The girl is simply a mirror that will project whatever I am feeling internally at that moment. If I am being a and indecesive she will project those at me through her actions. 

I'm gonna cut out all the false leads in my life. Be it girls or guys. I have no time to be wasting on anything that isn't helping me on my path. PURGE. 

I feel really humble right now. Tonight was special as it reminded me why I am in this game. The excitement of going in and not knowing what is going to happen, plus the additional benefit of handling certain variables and dealing with logisitical concerns combined with your homies is something else. I love this shit. Plus I have figured out how to do it properly and not the way I was doing it before. Internal pressure rather then external results.
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September 22, 2013

Meetup with wings at venue early. Chill and talk shit. Approach a two-set with wing. Self-amuse. NIM physicality. Focus on facial expressions and tonality. Build interaction slowly. No emotional investment for the girl. Qualify. Hit an emotional nerve. Girl goes on a rant. Invested. Play with emotions. Still early in night so dip and bounce around.

The last couple of nights I haven't been able to get the girl to emotional invest and therefore I would just do all the talking without her fullfilling the other part, thus running out of steam. So I qualified on a specific topic which got her more invested and elicited her real self to come out as opposed to the bullshit state personality, to which Is a lot easier to communicate to and get to know, not to mention game.

See more beasts. Go chill outside with Shadows. Approach black girls. Girls are scantily clothed and are cold. Whores. See girl with head band. Make comment. Introduce myself. Apparently I know girl and hug her. Friends love me. Chat and shot the shit. Dip inside. Chill with the homies. See friend and approach. Take funny pictures with her cat ears. Tease and qualify. Figure out logistics. Other friend comes in and immediately qualifies herself. Icy. Tease and qualify more. Invested. Physicality. Figure logistics. Self-amusment. Future pretense us chilling. Lead to couches. More comfort and self-amusement. Bounce to find other friend. Get dragged around club by girls. Feels like a bawse. Run Into the homies. Ditches girls. Chills. Ditches homies and finds girls. Girls talking to guys. Pfft. Ignore dudes and reenegage. Chodes vanish. Turn to right and see the girl they looking for is standing in corner with guy. Point it out. Join group. Has fun. More comfort and rapport. Girl future pretenses us chilling. Agrees. Qualifies more. Guy asks what's up with girl. Friend says she's a and has done this to three other guys. Explains to guy that girls are butterflies and can't be tamed. Laughs. All go back Inside. Dances with girls. Grind. Has a lot of fun. Friend is being and keeps trying to disappear with dude. Friends have to keep eye out for her. Not to mention that guys on the dancefloor are creepy as fuck. Fucks shit up. Isolates both but can't put in work on mines. Dances asexually.

In the past I would have just seperated them but that rarely works, especially in this situation. So I just mediated the situation and hoped some other cool dude would jump on the friend but she kept blowing dudes out. Fuck. Eventually a wing comes in. Girl is in loves with me and asks if friend and immediately introduces herself. Laughs. Wing enegages friend. Puts in work.

Whatever frame you set at the beginning is the one that will adhere to the throughout the entire interaction. So I set one of her chasing. Which is easy. Some dl shit.

Dances in group. Loses self to dance. Interaction stalls. Spinning plates analogy. Same emotion in the span of long period is what fucks shit up. You always want to stack as many emotions as you can in a interaction. Offering the range of emotions.

Part of me is referring to NIM method where time is your ally. As long as you are In you are good. Which is good and bad. As it doesn't emphasize leading that heavily inside the venue. Which prosed a problem in this specific interaction. But this is simply something I have to recaliberate. 

Wing realizes this and brings up smoking. More isolation. Group goes back in. Same framework. Same situation. Go downstairs. More isolation. Back upstairs. Eventually we all dip. Indecision. A friend leaves. Perfect ratio. Bounce to grab food. Shot the shit with both girls. Solidify emotions. Talk to craney. Craney fucks shit up. Have the option of either pushing/forcing the close or leaving it for a different date. The fact that it's now 3:30 am and I have work in 5 hours made my decision a lot easier as I grab my girl and hug her bye. She insists we grab dinner together this week. I oblige. Talks game with wing. Goes home and jerks off. 

Brad said it's the best. Any mistake in the interaction is simply one of not leading hard enough. 

Girls are assholes. The friend basically used the guy to get free drinks all night, molley and cab fare home and didn't even fuck him. The air of which she spoke about it was interesting as she spoke about it as her putting in work and getting paid and therefore making it completely reasonable. I just laughed at it all. Cause he was the third guy she did to this tonight. 

I am finally coming at this from the right place and therefore am in love with it. The last couple of days have been really fun. Like really fun.

Playing way more with facial expressions, tonality and state control. Mediation is a key factor in all of this. A wing mentioned a product that will help me speak more deeply so I will check that out. 

There's only one way to get good at this shit and that's by going out. Everything else is irrevalent.
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www.rsdnation.com/node/243341
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