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May 27th, 2017
I feel like I hate myself - How do I change this?
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alpha123

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Join Date: 06/15/2012 | Posts: 157

I hate my lifestyle
My finances
My social life
My interactions....

It's going to take alot of work to fix all these areas and it feels overwhelming to focus on all of them.
I am focusing on increasing my income but my social life is non existant.

There are a couple of females showing an interest in my but I am not confident at all with women, so have not tried anything.
(It's at a place of work too)

I do want sex but nothing else. This part of my life is just totally non existant.
I am stuck in a negative cycle
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IamCowMOOO

IamCowMOOO

Senior Member

Join Date: 04/24/2013 | Posts: 242

You should change your name to beta123 becuase complaining online about your life to find a magic pill will not get you any where...
-Social - get a hobby meet ppl there
-Sex only girl/ fuck buddy- if can't get a girl u can't get a fb... So practice pick up... Also you're probably type of guy look at women as objects and not humans so don't do that.
and last stop being a butt-hurt neckbeard.
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bbcmindpump

Junior Member

Join Date: 08/28/2013 | Posts: 15

fiance? what a disgusting word, dump her and go lift.
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duG

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Join Date: 02/05/2008 | Posts: 1465

 Read some Tolle, bro.
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alpha123

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Join Date: 06/15/2012 | Posts: 157

fiance? what you talking about?
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GetJiggyWithIt

Junior Member

Join Date: 08/29/2013 | Posts: 7

 honestly bro you have to work towards your goals not complain to a forum iv only been going out and doing cold approaches for about 5 days now and i set a goal that im going to go out 6 days a week and just approach approach and approach i usually go out with two wings with equal or same skill level and we work together on improving our skills becuase of these last 5 days iv felt happier then i ever have i laugh and learn from my failures and i am noticing my social skills skyrocketing and now im thinking if thats only after 5 days imagen how ill be after 5 months or even 5 years that feeling drives me and motivates me more so get off you lazy ass and fix your problems dont complain to us no one is going to come out from the forums and say heres $1 million NO YOU HAVE TO WORK HARD TO ACHIEVE YOUR GOALS 
ps:i should say i started a year ago all i did was read and practice meeting and making friends in school over that year but cold approaches werestarted 5 days ago
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alpha123

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Join Date: 06/15/2012 | Posts: 157

Awesome
Thanks
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Misterplayboy

Misterplayboy

Member

Join Date: 01/12/2012 | Posts: 62

a great book is tony robins- awaken the giant within...could help you- read it
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oldsoul

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Join Date: 08/22/2013 | Posts: 66

 love yourself. love every single thing about you. the bad sides...the good sides... embrace them all and laugh at them cause they are what they make you...now accept them and be fully comfortable and start to love yourself. Cause you are the greatest motherfucker out there. For all you know.
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Reason for gaming: I love the idea of having the ability to pick women up from the spot...I've always been a confident eye to eye, body language flirt guy, I can tell they want me but I also realize that I as the man gotta give it to them.
/We need goals up this biznatch/ as of august/23/13'    

 FOLLOW MY BLOG HERE OLDSOUL'S BLOG -my experiences and field reports
- Make 50 approaches in the club 55/50 [sept. 22)
-Talk more to girls and people in general
-Study and practise day game
-Make out with a girl at day game
-Pull a lay off a club (october 19)
 

Advanced series
 -Pull a lay out of day game
 -Pull a  (i love it - dont copy my style(;   ) (november 9th)

help and encouragement is appreciated, inbox, whatever
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Tyler

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Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 8817

It's basically just classic newbie "mental noise".

I have all this as well, we ALL do, unless we had super nice parents and a happy upbringing (and even THEN we often do...).

You simply have to learn to recognize these thoughts as autopilot old conditioned thought patterns, which you can choose to IGNORE and REPLACE by using willpower to focus on more positive thoughts.

Then for a few years you go through the melodrama of "I can't buy into my new happier thoughts, waah waah I'm so sad and unique for my sadness".

Over time you just get SICK of hearing your own depression, because it's too boring, and move on.

I talk about this in the last half of this vid.



Tyler
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Yoda

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Join Date: 03/22/2008 | Posts: 1215

When you've learned that it's possible to be great and started dreaming big, it's very depressing to find oneself being an ordinary and mediocre human being.

You just need to start taking action and don't waste too much time online on forums. 

My word of advice though is to not take on too many goals at the same time and also make the use of short-term goals. Some people may be able to do massive change on a large scale, but for many people it becomes too much and they end up trying to catch nine hares, without catching none.
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