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guy-idan

guy-idan

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Join Date: 06/19/2013 | Posts: 225

hello.

im 16 years old. i would say im at i pretty bad time in my life. i dont have alot of friend. have only like 2-3 good friends and like 2-3 friends that i hang out some times. not alot. close to not at all even.
i have no girlriend, i dont have alot of friends that are girls. i have only fucking 1-2 . pretty sad.

im at the point in my life that i need to be loose and just ENJOY . go to parties, have fun with friends AND girl. the problem is - we have no girls. i dont know how i got in this situation . i feel like shit.

i feel like im just wasting my time. i see people from my school uploading pictures together from pool parties and girls and im just at home on skype talking to friend and just on facebook.
FUCKING PATHETIC. 

im just wasting my timeeeee. im so pissed of right now i can kill some 1.

any ideass? thanks in advacned 
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Sunny667

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Snakeeye

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you are 16, 99% off all 16 years old feel like shit, its a part of growing up, chill, when i was a 16 i was still a virgin,
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Gamer37

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Snakeeye wrote:
you are 16, 99% off all 16 years old feel like shit, its a part of growing up, chill, when i was a 16 i was still a virgin,
True this.  

When I was 16 I would always complain about not getting enough sleep, but when I actually got enough sleep I would find some other stupid excuse for feeling like shit.  It passes bro.  Do yourself a favor and make the most out of this time by doing your own thing and bettering yourself.  Get good grades, work out, keep cardio up, learn about subjects you're really interested about so that you have some idea of what you want to do when you're older, choose awesome hobbies, etc.  

Whatever you do, don't sit around feeling sorry for yourself.  
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H34rt o' beast

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Join Date: 07/28/2013 | Posts: 188

 I wish I could go back to being 16 with what I know now. Chill out. you're fine. definitely don't go on a killing spree. Just be more sociable and you'll make friends.

Its good that you're angry. Its good that you feel restless and like you're wasting time. You can use those feelings as leverage on yourself to motivate the hell out of yourself to do whatever the hell you want. 
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bigjew629

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Things I did when I was 16-19 (from 19-21 I did the same but eliminated 3 cuz I thought I didn't have the time):
1) sleep my way to a 2.5 every semester in school while writing revenge fantasies
2) Play video games
3) Go to the gym
4) Watch either Dragon Ball, South Park, Daria, Wrestling, The Man Show, Boy Meets World. Tape recorded whatever I missed then watch ALL of em during the weekend.
5) Sit around feeling sorry for myself and if I felt especially dangerous, cut (this was towards the end of High School actually).

Aaaaaaaaaaand thats about it. Thats how it was for from 10th grade until I finished. No dating, no parties, no sports, no going to shows, nothing. VERY antisocial, A LOT of unnecessary screentime. Way too much, in fact. Couple things I should have done different:

1) Take up Bowling again
2) Get better grades/do more productive things with my writing
3) Get a part time job so I could save up for a car
4) Get my driving licence earlier
5) Do more cardio/burnout sets at the gym instead of just going for size.

But then again don't forget that some ppl have shitty parents. I was with my dad who had just divorced from my mom and he wouldn't let me do anything. Curfew was 9 until I went away to school. After coming back from school he had the audacity to still give me a curfew for some reason this time until 2 AM. Until his death he monitored who I was friends with and if I met a chick and she wasn't jewish he wouldn't let me date them. As I said this happened all the way until he died when I was 24.

So if you have crappy parents who are placing unnecessary limitations on you, don't be afraid to grow a set and move out of home. Yea it will suck and you won't have money, but you will respect yourself a lot more and won't have to make up for nearly a decade of lost time like I had to.
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What's a 16 yo doing on RSD?? You should be doing homework.
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guy-idan

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  Sunny667: its acctualy not the case. i acctualy love my self. but i couldent agree more with what elliot says in the video.

Snakeeye: ok tnx

Gamer37: your right tnx.

H34rt o' beast: yeah your right. i need to take all this anger in a positve way so it will motivate me to keep on going . thanks man.


bigjew629: thanks for comment. for my luck- the parents thing is not the case. my parents let me do alot of things and theyre very loving and carring but still letting loose sometimes when they need to. not alot of parents are like mine so i acctualy need to be very GRATEFUL.
i have a hobit. im going to gym 5 days a week. taking it seriously. want to be bodybuilder and compit.


Solstice: come help me with themmmmmmmmmmmm
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Critical

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Join Date: 07/20/2013 | Posts: 12

Just be more social, spend more time hanging out with your friends. If you're not happy with your social life you have to be the one to take the initiative and invite people to do stuff. Call up the friends you don't talk to very often and ask them to hang out. Hang out more with the few girls you do know, invite your friends to do stuff and then tell the girls you know to bring their friends. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and go do something positive, like other people have said you are only 16 the fact that you're already trying to imrpove yourself at that age is awesome :D
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