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December 3rd, 2016
The Foundations Of Game
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Tyler

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THE PARADIGM SHIFTS

PARADIGM SHIFT #1: SUCCESS WITH WOMEN IS A “SKILL-SET”. IF YOU WANT THE “SPECIFIC” GIRL OF YOUR DREAMS, LEARN TO BECOME GOOD WITH WOMEN “IN GENERAL”.

PARADIGM SHIFT #2: YOUR LOOKS AND MONEY ARE NOT OVERLY IMPORTANT. IT’S ABOUT THE QUALITIES SHE SEES IN YOUR PERSONALITY, AND EMOTIONS SHE EXPERIENCES WHEN YOU’RE AROUND.

PARADIGM SHIFT #3: MEN EXPERIENCE ATTRACTION LIKE A LIGHTSWITCH, WOMEN EXPERIENCE ATTRACTION LIKE A VOLUME KNOB. (attraction happens fast. It is always easier to get a new girl to like you than change an existing perception.)

PARADIGM SHIFT #4: WOMEN CATEGORIZE YOU AS “LOVER” OR “PROVIDER”, AND HAVE TWO MODES OF BEHAVIOUR DEPENDING ON WHICH ONE YOU ARE.

PARADIGM SHIFT #5: WOMEN ENJOY SEX AS MUCH AS MEN DO, AND WILL HOOK UP IF YOU DON’T HAVE A JUDGEMENTAL “DOUBLE STANDARD” ABOUT SEX.

PARADIGM SHIFT #6: TRADITIONAL DATING IS USUALLY LOGICAL, AWKWARD, AND SLOW. WOMEN MAKE DECISIONS ABOUT SEX EMOTIONALLY AND QUICKLY, AND DECISIONS ABOUT RELATIONSHIPS LOGICALLY AND SLOWLY.

PARADIGM SHIFT #7: THE STRONGEST POSITION TO GET A GIRLFRIEND IS TO BE THE LOVER AND THEN SHIFT INTO THE ROLE OF PROVIDER IF YOU CHOOSE.

PARADIGM SHIFT #8: FIELD EXPERIENCE IS KING. NEVER SPECULATE ABOUT WHAT WOULD WORK WITH WOMEN, GO OUT AND TEST IT FIRSTHAND.

PARADIGM SHIFT #9: REJECTION DOES NOT EXIST. ALL FAILURE IS FEEDBACK, AND BUILDS YOUR BASE OF REFERENCE EXPERIENCES.

PARADIGM SHIFT #10: BECOME ABUNDANT WITH WOMEN. IT IS THE ULTIMATE SELF-FULFULLING PROPHECY.

FEMALE PSYCHOLOGY:

1- Want sex but have to pretend they don’t to create a non ego threatening narrative to their future beta male husbands
2- Zero accountability to guys they just met
3- Respond to value and emotions in the moment
4- Test guys to see if they’re congruent
5- Exhibit themselves by dancing and spending hours getting ready
6- Want to have fun and pump their own state
7- Desperate for validation and will often have sex for it
8- Simultaneously the most secure and most insecure
9- Tell themselves they go to club to dance, secretly open to meeting the right guy
10- Frustrated that guys can't "just be cool", get hit up all the time but by the wrong guys, also can be oversaturated with cool guys in big cities
11- Open minded to sex at times, harder at other times
12- Lifestyle of a pro hottie

INTERACT AS A MAN TO A WOMAN – INNER GAME

1. Transcend Social Conditioning
2. Cultivate Core Confidence
3. Center Yourself In The Present Moment
4. Draw State From Within
5. Have A Strong Sense Of Reality (who you are, what you value, what vibe, what boundaries, unflinching / unwavering)
6. Feel A High Sense Of Entitlement
7. Walk Through The World With Ease
8. View Sex As “No Big Deal”
9. Addict Yourself To Positivity
10. Assume Value (Be The Buyer Not The Seller)



INTERACT AS A MAN TO A WOMAN – OUTER GAME

1. Master Sub-Communication
2. Dictate The Vibe
3. Communicate Playfully And Free Associate, Not Logically And Thinking Ahead
4. Self-Amuse, Don’t Seek Reactions
5. Use Qualification And Disqualification
6. Assume It’s “On” But Calibrate To Her Feelings
7. Be Clear In Your Intent
8. Have No Agenda Or Outcome
9. Build Up Social Momentum
10. Lead

PUTTING IT ALL TOGETHER: THE “HOW TO”

1. Open
2. Create attraction
3. Recognize and pass congruence tests
4. Do an instant date
5. Get physical
6. Get a number
7. Handle logistics
8. Take her home
9. Escalate to sex
10. Bounce in a way that leaves her happy about the experience, choose to see her again casually, or move towards relationship

DIFFERENT STYLES OF PICKUP

1- Minimalist Game (do nothing)
2- Self amused (pump your state in front of her)
3- Hard to get (make her chase)
4- Aggressively sexual (get up in her face and escalate)
5- Cool friendly guy
6- Asshole
7- Short interactions and work the whole club
8- Fast pulls
9- Social circle and lifestyle based
10- Late night street game as people pile out of the club
11- Daytime
12- Online

Final Thoughts: Your Journey

1. Fashion, grooming, style (congruent to your personality and depending on where you live and go out)
2. Gym & Nutrition
3. Reading
4. Sleep
5. Meditation
6. Travel
7. Mastermind Group
8. Mastery Attitudes
9. Outcome, Purpose, Action
10. 30 Day Challenge, True Enjoyment Of The Journey



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#1

Bushido1

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You motherfucker should stop working!!! Dig in it!!! :P

Just kidding, keep working hard so others can get motivate by that.
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Tyler wrote:

DIFFERENT STYLES OF PICKUP
8- Fast pulls
I'm looking forward to learning more about INSTAfucks later this week during bootcamp.  There's a new club in the city with about five different toilet stalls not including the female restrooms.  Unload in her mouth and make her kiss everyone in the club, especially any bootcamp students of other companies if they happen to be there like last night
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I actually prefer it that way, as it's what makes each of us so unique. Your DNA is one of a kind. It has never been produced before in human history, and never will be duplicated again in the future.
Dr Destruction wrote:
But I sleep on it and reframe it. The next day, I'm tougher and stronger so I thank God for all those painful situations. It's the medicine I need.  It's not a life or death situation bro. Most important question you can ask yourself is.... Why are you letting other girls, other guys, and situations control how happy you feel? Why are you giving them permission over you're life? Man up.
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Thanks Tyler, you're awesome. It's easy to get lost in the latest theory speculation and forget the foundations if you don't have them in front of you.
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Dreay

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Awesome roadmap, great reminder thx :)
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 AWESOME!!!!!!!!
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Fucking awesome tyler. Its the basics but I love it.

Thanks!
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Beautiful
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damn owen, you look ALOT younger then you did in 08 lol.
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Altair wrote:

Tyler wrote:

DIFFERENT STYLES OF PICKUP
8- Fast pulls
I'm looking forward to learning more about INSTAfucks later this week during bootcamp.  There's a new club in the city with about five different toilet stalls not including the female restrooms.  Unload in her mouth and make her kiss everyone in the club, especially any bootcamp students of other companies if they happen to be there like last night


Nope it's 2,4,5,6,7,11 for me JJ.

You the ultimate minimalist and while I like to work the room lol. Like you said to me before, they might get on your case for choding around cuz you don't approach 8's and below.

LOL do that GGH shit haahahaahhaa.
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Dr Destruction wrote:

Altair wrote:

Tyler wrote:

DIFFERENT STYLES OF PICKUP
8- Fast pulls
I'm looking forward to learning more about INSTAfucks later this week during bootcamp.  There's a new club in the city with about five different toilet stalls not including the female restrooms.  Unload in her mouth and make her kiss everyone in the club, especially any bootcamp students of other companies if they happen to be there like last night


Nope it's 2,4,5,6,7,11 for me JJ.

You the ultimate minimalist and while I like to work the room lol. Like you said to me before, they might get on your case for choding around cuz you don't approach 8's and below.

LOL do that GGH shit haahahaahhaa.
I actually reset it to approaching 7s+ after accepting the fact that I live in this city.

One of the wings actually did the Go Get Her pick her up on the dance floor, spread her legs, and have her hump your chest move last night on a married woman.  Two bouncers stopped me the last time I did that move.  They thought I might accidently drop the girl and get the venue hit with a lawsuit
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Dr Destruction wrote:
I actually prefer it that way, as it's what makes each of us so unique. Your DNA is one of a kind. It has never been produced before in human history, and never will be duplicated again in the future.
Dr Destruction wrote:
But I sleep on it and reframe it. The next day, I'm tougher and stronger so I thank God for all those painful situations. It's the medicine I need.  It's not a life or death situation bro. Most important question you can ask yourself is.... Why are you letting other girls, other guys, and situations control how happy you feel? Why are you giving them permission over you're life? Man up.
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