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March 24th, 2017
90 DAY GET LAID OR DIE TRYING CHALLENGE!
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bigjew629

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This is not one of those if you make one mistake you have to start over again challeneges, the goal is set for 90 days from the beginning date
Oh that makes sense now. In that case good luck.
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#12
StelliesBeast

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Just do it son :)
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Fuck it man, I'm there with you. I'm doing the exercise, diet and meditation already. This Sunday night it's time to start doing those approaches. I've been monking it out at home for the last two and a half months since I discovered RSD, but now it's time to actually get out there. I've tried to get some friends on board, but I realize that they buy too heavily into societal conditioning. I did a totally pathetic approach to get blown out a while ago and they thought it was the craziest shit ever. I can't even imagine how they would react if it worked. No, doing this, it has to be to make myself stronger. Time to go out solo, have some fun and get the ball rolling.

I finally feel after years I am in an 'upward spiral' finding RSD, learning and adopting healthy attitudes and useful delusions. The Power of Now was a GREAT recommend as well. I'm not circling the drain anymore. I started a new position at work and have had some of what could be considered objectively rough or chaotic days. I reframed them in my head with this new positive mindset and now nothing is bad, it's a victory or a lesson.

I'm with you NotSoAverageJoe. Today I was struggling with wanted to fap my life away some more, but you've inspired me. Time to do this shit. It's going to be a fucking blast. Regular life is nothing hard to deal with now, time to up the stakes and start approaching.
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Armatron

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NotSoAverageJoe wrote:
 

DAILY:


Violin practice, as a hobby, 1 hour daily

SOBER - NO DRINKING


LET THE CHALLENGE BEGIN!!!!

Replace violin with: guitar

Replace Sober with: jack daniels.
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NotSoAverageJoe

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So many peole can play the guitar its not impressive, playing the violin is
Nope, sober ,or at most 1 or 2 beers
Armatron wrote:

NotSoAverageJoe wrote:
 

DAILY:


Violin practice, as a hobby, 1 hour daily

SOBER - NO DRINKING


LET THE CHALLENGE BEGIN!!!!

Replace violin with: guitar

Replace Sober with: jack daniels.
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#16

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u know u dont have to do all that to get laid right?
I dont understand. is the goal to get laid or to become a better human being?
Cuz if ur only goal is to get laid then the ONLY thing you have to do is interact with ppl.
Getting drunk will probably help u get laid if ur new to this so i really dont understand weather or not u really wanna get laid.
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#17
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You're coming from a wrong headspace: Too many habits to implement and 9 of the 10 won't help you get laid directly and will only pay their dues in the very long-term.


Meditation is fine, but I wouldn't start it right now. It takes a lot of time to yield results and right now it's just another drain on your willpower.

Gym will probably help you because it pumps your testosterone, but shouldn't be your main priority right now.

I don't think anybody with an active lifestyle has to do cardio. (I'm biased though)

You want to learn violin because it's more impressive? If you would've ever tried to learn an instrument you would know that it takes a long ass time to get good at this. The effort you have to put into it is in no way in proportion to how much you could impress people. The only reason to learn an instrument is that you feel the effort weighs up your own joy of playing it.

Eating good food: yes

Going out: Absolutly. More if possible. Make sure you get some wings that approach a lot.

Staying sober is a good idea. It will make it harder in the short-term though, UNLESS you have already established some control over your emotions.

No porn: Won't hurt unless staying on top of it distracts you from the things you should do.

Reading is also not necessary now and costs a lot of time. In terms of helping to get laid no book I've ever seen stands up to the RSD material. Get an actionable product instead like Foundations or Evolutions, splice out little things you want to implement and then work on them one by one. I wouldn't watch too many youtube videos right now. They're all over the place and what you need right now is a structure.

Take the time you save from reading and join more social activities. The more time you spend interacting with other people, the better get your social skills and the better gets your short-term swagger, which will be ultimately the thing that will pull you over the hump and get you laid the first time.
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RockNRollPUA

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NotSoAverageJoe wrote:
So many peole can play the guitar its not impressive, playing the violin is
Nope, sober ,or at most 1 or 2 beers
Armatron wrote:

NotSoAverageJoe wrote:
 

DAILY:


Violin practice, as a hobby, 1 hour daily

SOBER - NO DRINKING


LET THE CHALLENGE BEGIN!!!!

Replace violin with: guitar

Replace Sober with: jack daniels.

I beg to differ, se exibit A:


And Exibit B:

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Focus more on getting than all the self help stuff lol
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#20

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LOL!, thats alot of HABITS TO TAKE IN just to get LAID. Don't want to be negative, but i have a feeling you wont be able to go through all that if were going to be realistic. And if your GOAL IS to get LAID, most are not even necessary.  Although, for self development purposes those are great
I did a similar challenge last year, where I DID NOT CARE ABOUT PUA SKILLS but I JUST TO GET LAID AND HAVE SEX like DICK IN HOLE SHIT.

To me the essential factors TO GETTING LAID not SELF DEVELOPMENT.

1.-No Porn or masturbation (so you feel TRULY MOTIVATED TO FUCK)
2.-Approach more girls, got to open more doors.-- if you want to get laid fast and don't want to waste time, just go for seated and stationary sets. Moving sets are now a waste of time to me and dont lead to anything. (1 solid number to 20 approaches shit if your good).. and i dont even do group sets in the COLD APPROACH DAY GAME.(waste of time)..
=(In terms of where i do approaches? I LIKE to talk to girls in close ended environments such as charity events, net working events, classes, etc) >> This here alone got me laying girls consistently because ITS SOO EASY to get a date from these girls due to the enviroment.. But you can also do cold approaches but your going to have to do more approaches due to less compliance and possible flakes.
3. -Start # CLOSING and ASKING girls OUT in your approach (I get LAID MORE in dates than in ONE NIGHT STANDS) So if you WANT TO GET LAID, go on DATES/DAY2s.. I do this by asking girls for coffee and drinks. So simple.

-Then in your DATES/DAY2
All i think about in dates..
=is MULTIPLE VENUES, logistics of getting back to your place and her place.
=Physical escalation and a default way to get that KISS.
=Do sexual framing shit, where you accept her sexual side. This is easy, just saying how she's bad, how your non judgemental, talking about sexual shit once your comfortable.


I feel there is too much FOCUS in the Cold approach to # which is already simple in itself. THE DATES/DAY2 IS WHERE YOU INCREASE YOUR CHACNES OF  GETING LAID. and probablly where most of the time people get LAID. There will be LESS RESISTANCE from girls in your escalation/sex talk and even "LMR" when she's on a day 2, since your not so random anymore.

Same night lays- too much logistics shit to work on.
Altho
If im looking for same night lays i SPECIFICALLY LOOK FOR SLUTS/ GIRLS WHO ARE DTF and i always go for an after party(as an excuse), and just walk them out to the club.
ALthough, most of my LAYS are never from clubs... Cold approaching at clubs is too much of a number game to me.

Thats it mate. I do not even have a method anymore. Just be my self, your already enough (as mentioned here 10000X) and follow the game plan above. thats it. This is about GETTING LAID though, like AS FAST AS POSSIBLE which in your case 90 days. All the other "healthy habits" w/e didn't do shit for me in terms of putting my dick inside a vagina.. like i guess i felt more confident and healthier.. lol. Like who cares about improving your game skills but CARE ABOUT GETTING SEX.
I swear to god, if you just go to "filtered" venues, ask girls out, go on DAY 2 where physical escalation is so EASY. I GURANTEE you WILL GET LAID by the END OF THE MONTH!.
Source: Been laying 2 new girls a month from this shit.

Ps- one thing i would keep is the work out thing. You MUST work out.
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