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October 19th, 2017
People get offended when u disagree with them
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#11

Macavity

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Join Date: 08/25/2009 | Posts: 2454

I just wrote some long ass response because I go through this so much but it got deleted. Fuuuuark. 

Dont worry you're not alone. Check out that thread called "The Glass Wall" by Dr.Feelgood i think it was. Search for it. 
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#12
o2high

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Join Date: 06/08/2012 | Posts: 475

Ya man, thank u. I realize the problem is me, im to blame on this one, not everyone else, and i want to fix it so so i stop fucking up opportunities with hot chicks. At work there was this cute girl coworker of mine that offered me sunscreen. I said no thank you and told her sunscren can be bad for u if its loaded with chemicles, which it was. She didnt want to talk to me after that and she kind of avoided me.

There are countless other examples where I put people off because my opinion didnt gel with them and I was being too open about my beleifs. Which is why i made the thread.
Zero-Zero-Zero-OneQ wrote:
"The setting and the people u are talking to may have a close minded, warped, very narrow fake view of reality. They may not be ready to listen to new ideas and may be too set in their ways to learn new things. Its like trying to pour water into a cup that is already full, they must have a completely empty cup to be ready for new ideas/ways of thinking."

It's funny, but don't close minded people say this sort of thing. The baby with the rattle screaming "I'm right. Listen to me!" or whatever.

I say love the reality they live in. You don't need to expand their's. They just want you company, validation and dick. Give them good emotions and your cock, my friend. That's all they want!
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#13
o2high

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I will check it out. Would be interested in hearing ur response maybe u can just summarize it. 
Macavity wrote:
I just wrote some long ass response because I go through this so much but it got deleted. Fuuuuark. 

Dont worry you're not alone. Check out that thread called "The Glass Wall" by Dr.Feelgood i think it was. Search for it. 
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#14

Zero-Zero-Zero-OneQ

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Join Date: 07/02/2013 | Posts: 243

WHAT THE FUCK! She was offering you her cunt. Sunscreen = "Fuck me in the ass in the boss's office."

This is actually true because the man you will one day become can do this. He can convert sunscreen to violent anal with 'infield'. I await you ascension and footage, good sir!
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Adioso

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Zero-Zero-Zero-OneQ wrote:
WHAT THE FUCK! She was offering you her cunt. Sunscreen = "Fuck me in the ass in the boss's office."

This is actually true because the man you will one day become can do this. He can convert sunscreen to violent anal with 'infield'. I await you ascension and footage, good sir!
FUCK REALLY???? WTF?? 
I Honestly did not know that .......
But shit son if you misinterpret = sexual harrasment 
Office = Not safe
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#16
fac316

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Join Date: 07/20/2012 | Posts: 141

thats y for us noobs they should be advocating routines, being a 20 + yr virgin your not going to be able to speak your mind b/c your mind is filled w/ refrence experiances of being a pathetic loser.
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#17
o2high

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Im in my mid 20's, not a noob, more like intermediate, but i do have ref exp as being a pethetic loser...
 this is just a major blind spot/sticking point that i need to work on.

I used to be extremely timid, shy, quiet, weak, insecure, afraid to express myself or even have an opinion.

I remember at a bday party in 8th grade, 2 really cute 7th grade girls asked me if they could suck my dick and fuck me upstairs in a empty room. I was too prude, nervous, insecure, so I hesiated and said no.

At the end of high school those 2 girls eventually fucked every douchebag in town while I remained a virgin till 22.
They avoided me when I was around and I always saw them with "assholes"

Now a few yrs later im the opposite of who i was, usually the most confident, outspoken, polarizing and loudest person wherever I go. A bit of a narcissist, can be a douche but choose not to be 99% of the time. 

I feel like I went from one extreme to the other, now i need to find the middle ground and dial it back a bit.

fac316 wrote:
thats y for us noobs they should be advocating routines, being a 20 + yr virgin your not going to be able to speak your mind b/c your mind is filled w/ refrence experiances of being a pathetic loser.
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#18
o2high

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this; http://www.rsdnation.com/node/396354/forum,
and this; http://www.rsdnation.com/node/489263
and THIS
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i decided are the solutions to my problem. Ironically, I live in the same town this vid was shot.
Gonna print this out and read it everyday till its internalized.
testo123 wrote:
People who disagree with you all the time are not fun to hang around with.

This is especially true when meeting new people, it can come off as judgmental.

Resist the need to have your say, no one gives a fuck about your controversial opinions anyway.

WORD..Its not about whos right and whos wrong, keep it to yourself or write it down in a journal.
Being too caught up in expressing your ideas and opinions is just full chode, negativity and pethetic narcissism.
Just shut the fuck up and feel the music. People just want a fun positive vibe from u so they can have a good time. 
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#19
Phospher

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Join Date: 08/04/2012 | Posts: 1279

 You are not what you think, quoting tolle
people think they are
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#20

imthaifool

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Join Date: 02/09/2009 | Posts: 219

 don't disagree with ppl, don't argue with ppl, don't correct ppl. it's about vibing. lessons from how to win friends and influence ppl
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