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OrenShare

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Join Date: 05/27/2013 | Posts: 10

going out 4 days out a week (i live in a small country otherwise i would have gotten every night) about solid 2-3 months . aproching usually every girl / about 15 - 20 girls a night .
if its a good night its lower amout of aprroching cuz i usually stay with the girl for 10 - 15 than attraction dies .
im really good at getting past initial rejection / not giving a fuck about girl . sometime i will overdo it and girl will call waitress to ask me to leave (not beign aggressive just getting over her shield this may happen once a week or so . im pretty persistent and will usually won't leave until girl are realllllly ingonring me hard and i tried like 3-4 times (Im Gay , your not my type , wanna hear something crazy) . alot of times girl say " your drunk " (i dont drink), are you for real and such thing . sometime i am more successful.
i usually go for humor at least for the beginning , than i try to build more attraction but sometimes i end up making them too much funny(Dancing monkey)
in all this time i only closed few numbers . one real bad first date with about a 6 looking girl .
im consider one of the best guy with woman out of all my friends . who cant even aprroach one girl . yet im doing all this hard hard work and no fuking result .
im about to just say fuck and go to thiland for half a year ... i am about to try everything i could .
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Harland_Revelry

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Join Date: 06/14/2013 | Posts: 75

You sound like the self-paraody clones I see at the bars and clubs in my city. I remeber when I started going out for RSD, I realized I pretty much ALWAYS met a girl when I just stopped trying to internilize all of this community nonsense and was just myself. Feels good to not have to be in your head all the time.
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OrenShare

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Join Date: 05/27/2013 | Posts: 10

 i would thank you if you dont call me a clone. i dont read  material on the intrenet on how to pick up chicks . the last pick up metrial i read was the mystery method half a year ago .
i dont look at this fourm either i just go with my friend looking for girls . what you said is not my problem
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ambiguity

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Join Date: 10/28/2009 | Posts: 5327

Contrary to the "looks matter threads" that get beat to death and my take on it, I do not believe any man is a lonely island onto himself.

I believe that old saying, "god helps those who help themselves." Pissing and moaning or crying about stunners not being interested is not the approach I believe that saying is banging on about.

You got to persist regardless of pulls or rejections. The same stunner that sucked my dick on spring break is poluting facebook posts full of admiration for her fiance.

The stunners before and after do the samething but, its all declared in the name of love which likely is lust. The point is that, you need to overcome these challenges for yourself.

Find role models, blokes like Tyler or Jeffy who have been through some fucking serious shit, befriend naturals like myself or others when going out.

You want to pull stunners but, you charm everyone you come in contact with, you meet cool fellas out, you develop a high value grouip dynamic.

 got mates from Australia, all over Europe, blokes from whistler, Van, T.O, MTL, NYC, Chicago, LA - met a chick that works for playboy. Yeah, true story.


I posted this video some long ass time ago but, it may happen to be worth glancing over. Read Way of the peaceful warrior by dan millman.



Its the journey. Not the destination mate. The original post had the clip from the movie scene which delivered pretty damn good point. Chasing stunners, thinking that life will be better or forever less complicated if you had that million in the bank or stunner harem. Its the oldest lie we tell ourselves.

Mate, do yourself a favor and travel. Some the most awe-inspiring stunners I have had the opportunity to pull I met traveling.
OrenShare wrote:
going out 4 days out a week (i live in a small country otherwise i would have gotten every night) about solid 2-3 months . aproching usually every girl / about 15 - 20 girls a night .
if its a good night its lower amout of aprroching cuz i usually stay with the girl for 10 - 15 than attraction dies .
im really good at getting past initial rejection / not giving a fuck about girl . sometime i will overdo it and girl will call waitress to ask me to leave (not beign aggressive just getting over her shield this may happen once a week or so . im pretty persistent and will usually won't leave until girl are realllllly ingonring me hard and i tried like 3-4 times (Im Gay , your not my type , wanna hear something crazy) . alot of times girl say " your drunk " (i dont drink), are you for real and such thing . sometime i am more successful.
i usually go for humor at least for the beginning , than i try to build more attraction but sometimes i end up making them too much funny(Dancing monkey)
in all this time i only closed few numbers . one real bad first date with about a 6 looking girl .
im consider one of the best guy with woman out of all my friends . who cant even aprroach one girl . yet im doing all this hard hard work and no fuking result .
im about to just say fuck and go to thiland for half a year ... i am about to try everything i could .

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Tim:`How can I make this fun?
brad:This thread got Ambiguity banned, you can thank me later. Zack G: Ambiguity is becoming the Howard Roark of RSD!
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Harland_Revelry

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Join Date: 06/14/2013 | Posts: 75

Belive me I'm not trying to be a dick. I was in your shoes once. I've found out that just being a rgular guy talking about interesting topics gets me way farther than trying to "spike her emotions" then "be chill" then "start drama" or whatever the community circle jerk of the week is. 
OrenShare wrote:
 i would thank you if you dont call me a clone. i dont read  material on the intrenet on how to pick up chicks . the last pick up metrial i read was the mystery method half a year ago .
i dont look at this fourm either i just go with my friend looking for girls . what you said is not my problem
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