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dv8

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A fellow community member asked me to share a bit of my experience with threesomes.
I’d like to post a few of my notes...


Being in the presence of greatness here at RSDNation I feel the need to qualify myself a bit before we begin.
I have yet to pull my way to a threesome in one night. Others here I am sure have, and even often.
I look to those of you that know more to step up and share your wisdom, as I too am here to learn from you.
A goal of mine is to increase the efficiency of my threesome process.


Here is part of that process...





Always Maintain an Ecosystem of Bi-ness Around You

The more bi women you know, the more threesomes you will have. Period. That's it really. Know bi girls..

All of my threesomes have begun the same way. Hook up with a girl and then talk with her about being with other girls. I do it every time. Once she indicates an interest (and most do if you talk about it correctly) and we have hooked up a few times, I introduce her to another girl that I know that is bi. It’s simple really. More times than not we all hook up shortly after that. You can do this to arrange threesomes and moresomes, you do the math. It is retardedly simple really. But you gotta bring up bi-ness first and often.

If threesomes are your goal, a good tip is to always talk about bi-ness with girls whenever you can. The more you bring it up and give them a chance to tell you, the more bi girls you will know. The more you know...the more you can call upon. You will (to them) seem like the man too because often girls don’t know many other girls they can play with freely. Its still a somewhat closed subject, even amongst girls. If you can make it safe for her to tell you, and even know other girls who are down...you are “that guy” and you will have threesomes. Lots of them.



“Tell Me About Your Favorite Threesome”

I typically say this to a girl after we have had sex a few times. I do it more for shits and giggles these days but it does have a practical use. I always bring up bi-ness wherever possible to maintain my ecosystem of bi-ness. I will admit to you guys though, that I actually just like pulling taboos out of girls. I like getting them to give up their secrets. Become the guy that can do that and they will often let you help them try their fantasies.

Another way to do this is to compliment one of the many openly bi women in media (Lady Gaga for example) for being openly bi. I always make sure to sub-communicate that I expect her to be ok with it, and that in my world it is normal. Because it is. You can then watch her response and go from there. Many girls will open up and just say they too like girls just because you mentioned it. It is really quite easy.



A few words on “Bi-ness”—Most Girls are like Gay Guys

Bi..not bi...whatever. Here is what you need to know. Most women like playing with tits and kissing other girls and have fantasized about it. If they are removed from any social pressure that tells them not to, you will find that many women are more than happy to lick a titty. They just don’t all like pussy. Sorta like gay guys...

You see, most women ARE like gay guys. They want dick mostly but will play with a titty if it is there. Women love other women’s bodies (as do gay dudes, notice designers are often gay). Most gay dudes I know actually like touching boobies. Its the that freaks them out. Girls are the same way for the most part. Assume this to be true and you will have more threesomes.

This shit is normal for girls. They have been dressing, undressing, grooming each other since little girls. They are way more comfortable with each other than we dudes are with each other. They just don’t all think you are comfortable with them being comfortable with each other. It is same as the fear of “slut”. Make it ok and they will show you some crazy shit....



Don’t fear your woman’s bi-ness if you want a threesome

A good number of my threesomes were with girls who’s bf won’t let her have one. Guys seem to flip shit when a girl tells him she is bi, I don’t get it. It is very common too. Even in my posts here I am already hearing it from guys “I couldn’t compete with girls” so I don’t like bi girls...

If you want to have threesomes, you need to have abundance. Dudes with abundance don’t fear other dudes and they sure as shit don’t fear girls. Get over that shit.

Bi chicks are your friends. Bi chicks make great wingmen too...fyi



Don’t Talk About Threesomes

You have a bi girl and are trying to get another girl that you know is bi to join you two. You must not say it is for a “threesome”. I’ve fucked this one up too. They won’t do it if you talk about it directly (usually). Always have another reason for her to join you and your girl, even if it is clear it is for sex.

She will know what’s up but will have that crucial reason she can use to rationalize it. Just have her over for “wine”, not “to fuck”. Its like the pull. You are bouncing her from the club to show her something you have at home not to fuck her. Same thing here.



Getting Things Going


You have both girls at your place. An easy way to get things going is for your girl to bring up a hidden tattoo she has (if she has one) or to talk about bra’s or compliment the girls panties if they show...etc. Have your girl get things going, it just works better that way. They will start and then you join in. Hard to script but the very best way if your girl has a hidden tattoo is to show the other girl that. Your girl is now stripping...take it from there. Ask the other girl if she has some tattoo's...and its on...



It all about the Girls

I fucked up my first threesome by being too egger and forgetting to pay enough attention to my girl. Don’t do this.

Over time I found a good rule. Make it about them and they will make it about you. In the beginning, just enjoy being there. Be a giver. Sure, let them do what they will to you, but focus on them. Let them focus on them. Don’t make it about you at all. Just enjoy, watch, help.

At the right time, they will make it about you and your patience will be repaid in kind. It also makes you seem like the man as that you can last a lot longer if you let them play first. Slow down. Take your time.



Condoms and Switching Girls

Always switch condoms when you switch girls during group sex. Have lots of condoms on hand. Girls notice this shit and its just dirty not to anyway.



The Guest Star

You talked your woman into having a threesome and you have the guest star picked and there. Always remember, fuck your girl first and the guest second when it comes to fucking. The guest is there to help you and your girl not for you to just fuck her. If you hope to have more threesomes with either of them, learn this rule. They both will notice if you don’t. Your girl always comes first.



This is not at all a compressive guide but simply covers some things I wish I knew before I had my first threesome.

Take from it what you will.

dv8
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Armatron

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Tobias

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 sweet post and advice thanks!
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 Wow...thank you for sharing your experience....and not charging $$$ for it.....that's a rare quality in the PU Community nowadays   ; )

Cheers!
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Haha amazing article, and only 13 views.

THIRTEEN VIEWS after a day of being up lol!!!

Shows what people are REALLY interested in.

Hot girl on girl action in their beds?  Naw.  Let's read some random bullshit that's more in our reality. :)

But ya man, a lot of similar beliefs on this as well, thanks for posting it up!

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Thanks for posting.

So elaborate on most girls not liking thing. Are we supposed to not encourage them to eat eachother out?

Word, getting girls you've already banged is the easiest way to lead to a threesome. I still really want to get two girls cold on the same night to agree to.
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Tyler wrote:
Haha amazing article, and only 13 views.

THIRTEEN VIEWS after a day of being up lol!!!

Shows what people are REALLY interested in.

Hot girl on girl action in their beds?  Naw.  Let's read some random bullshit that's more in our reality. :)

But ya man, a lot of similar beliefs on this as well, thanks for posting it up!

Tyler
lol yeah meanwhile some post about Julians dick is still going strong. 
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dv8

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CANM wrote:

So elaborate on most girls not liking thing. Are we supposed to not encourage them to eat eachother out?

I try not to "encourage" them to do anything.
When I am in that headspace I am outcome dependent and they pick up on it.

Let what is going to happen, happen.

That being said, I don't mean to imply that it is to be avoided. What I was getting at was that often eating is the only part of "being bi" that women object to and not to let that stop you from considering a girl bi (and thus a good threesome candidate).

Ask a girl if she is bi and often she will imagine eating pussy. Then she will say she is not bi out of fear of having to eat pussy. But...the same girl would be more than happy to be in a threesome, with another girl and will touch, kiss and grope her. My wife, in fact is like this. More than happy to be with a woman, but just doesn't like going down on them.

I worded it screwy, though. Now that I see your question I see that I could have been clearer.

I hope this clarifies it a bit.

I love watching girls eat pussy.

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 Golden advice dude! It's good to have a thread of value once upon a time.
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I've had girls being willing to have another girl eat her out, but not want to do that to her.  I've had girls bring another girl over, that she had been flirting with.  I have found it hard to go out and pick up another girl, unless the other girl does a lot of the work or originally approaches you and you bring your girl in.  If your girl is really shy and stands there bored, then it's not much of a team effort, and the other girl senses it and it fizzles out.  In other words, the other girl senses that your girl is kind of indifferent and that you dragged her along. 

Once it's on back home, make sure you pay more attention to your own girl, or she will put a stop to the whole thing immediately.  Also it is more likely that the two girls are similarly attractive, and that yours is slightly more attractive.  The other girl will NEVER be better looking than yours, or your girl will think that you will dump her for the other girl.
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 Thanks for the information. Will definitely do my best to apply it this summer ;)
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