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December 6th, 2016
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dv8

dv8

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Join Date: 08/01/2013 | Posts: 96

My name is dv8. I am new to posting here but been lurking around for a while now. I went a bit nuts with this post. You might as well get used to it.

The basics about me:

In my 30’s
Openly Married (bi wife)
Day job involves training women in technology
Learning Cold Approach
Grew up in cali, moved east coast as adult.


Goal in life (outer purpose): always work to create social pressure free zones for sexual exploration for both men and women.


If you ask me a question, I will answer it. Period. But, please know that I won’t answer social dynamic related questions (i.e. “how do I?”) via PM. Please create a post so that we can share the knowledge with everyone. I am at times harsh on forums, to be sure, but its because it is funny to me primarily and ultimately helpful to you. Grow a pair, ya dig? 

Above is really all you need to know ‘bout me and you can really stop reading this post

now!










ah the magnificent power of now eh?


...but if you like reading (as I do) here is the long version of what I’m about:




Why I came looking for RSD and what I hope to find and to give back:

I first sought out RSD to learn the mechanics of cold approach pick up. Eckhart Tolle (thank you Tyler for introducing me to his work) tells us that we have both an inner and outer purpose. My outer purpose (although I didn’t call it that in past) has always been to explore sexuality and bring it out in people (typically but not always in women). I have known from a very early age that our society is fucked when it comes to sex and it has always bothered yet fascinated me.

From a very young age I was able to talk to girls about sex, make them feel cool with it and they would in tern let me experiment. To that end I have had very few close male friends but rather lived most of my life in the sea of femininity that is woman. I truly love women. I have always surrounded my self with them, and from this ecosystem of femininity I have been able to do a lot of fun shit, threesomes, foursomes etc. I have sort of been like their gay guy friend except that I always had masculine polarity down so I could fuck them....I’m not gay, at all (not that there’s anything wrong with that!), but have had gay dude type access to women my whole life (if that makes sense). I worked the night desk at a sorority during college freshman year, for example. I have seen women at their best and worst. It’s hard to describe, I have always just understood (and accepted) girls and been able to talk to them in the way they liked to be talked to, when it comes to sex that is while maintainng male to femal polarity

So why am I here you may be wondering?

Well, while I am good with girls, real good, as odd as it is, it hadn’t ever occurred to me that I could intentionally pick them up, like off the street. The women in my life had always just sort of been there. Work, school, living arrangements, hobbies and the like have just always kept a lot of women around me. I have always picked jobs that keep women around me and that keep me in contact with the public as well. I have always been in big cities, abundance.

For whatever reason, I was always good at getting the women around me to talk about sex, and truly enjoy doing so. One thing would inevitably lead to another and we would hook up. Over time I got it down to a science. I never understood why guys thought “sluts” were so bad. I also never fell for the “good girl” as that I had seen enough early on to know that all girls were interested in sexuality. All girls. There are so many other sides to a girl between and good girl and many of them will fuck the shit out of you. Women are dymanic.But I never really thought of targeting (that sounds fucked but whatever) and going out and just picking up the specific women I found hot. Lack of imagination, which is odd for me. Anyway...

When I first found RSD, I was like “holy fuck, if I could add this to my game I would be next level”. See, once I am cool with a chick I can bring out her sexual beast no problem. I figured that if I could learn to cold approach pickup my shit would be unstoppable. I would be able to approach any woman and potentially be getting her to express her sexuality in short order. A sort of outer purpose efficiency boost!

Turns out that beginning to learn cold approach changed my whole life. I found areas in my life where I was not strong in my frame. I found fears that I never knew where there. I found a world that absolutely fascinated me and seems to go hand in hand with my outer purpose, exploring sexuality and brining it out in myself and in others.

I would watch the videos, read your posts and then hop on the T (subway) and try it out. I would go into work (not a good idea by the way) and try it out. I would try it at the bus stop, Harvard Square...etc.

Sure as shit I got results.

You see, I quickly found that I have much to learn from all of you and much I want to share as well. You wont see me asking too many questions in terms of “how do I?” as that I learn from finding the answers on my own or rather just trying to live it and try shit. Just know that you have all already taught me so much while browsing this site over the years.

I do get a bit short on the forums because I find it funny. Grow a pair. But if you really get your panties in a bunch PM me.

I would also like to share with the community in a few areas that I find lacking now that I have decided to step up and contribute (time to give back). I think that guys are unfortunately responsible for a lot of the hang ups our women have when it comes to sex, and if we would better understand and release our women from these social binds they would be much happier. We would have better (and more) sex as well. I will post about this often.

We need to create social pressure free zones when it comes to sexuality. On a macro level society would be a better place. On a micro level it happens to also help your game. I plan to write more about this idea over time.

My goal with my involvement with the forums / blogs is to share what I have learned over my life around women (I am not having kids, so this is feels good to be able to pass on) while encouraging you to go out there and talk about sex. Make it normal. Make it ok. Make it part of public discourse in a positive way. We will all have more of it if you do. Imagine if every time you saw a gun in the media it were a pussy. A nice, wet, tight pussy. Wouldn’t that a better world?

At the same time I will continue learning cold approach from you all. A win win as I see it.
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Lupino-

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hi
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Waffler

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 This is great man, keep on being the change you want to see and others will follow suit! I find that with attractive people talking about sex is pretty comfortable for both of us, but it gets awkward for both me and the girl(s) if it isn't such a visually pleasing lady that I am having the conversation with. No idea why that is but I think it is because attractive people are more comfortable with their own sexuality, so the topic is not such a taboo. Regardless, I like that you are doing and have noticed that your previous comments in other threads have been insightful, so here's a big THANK YOU from Waffler.
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xcontrax

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Join Date: 03/28/2013 | Posts: 89

Didn't read all that but sup brah
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Luchesi

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Way too long brah. I'm new too. Hello.
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sexuality

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who cares
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sickunt68

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 welcome
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 welcome
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#8

TheFinisher

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Join Date: 05/17/2011 | Posts: 861

This is an awesome introductory toast. Oh, I meant post.

Nice to see some fresh content around here. Awesome post.

I share a lot of the same views. Learning rsd concepts has broadened my horizons and gave me an inner perspective.

Women are awesome.
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dv8

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Join Date: 08/01/2013 | Posts: 96

 
justgowithit5 wrote:

What's the dynamic of your relationship anyway, your wife can fuck any girl she wants without your knowledge and you can do the same?

Our dynamic is straight forward. She can fuck anyone (guy or girl) without my knowledge and I can do the same. But, in practice we usually talk about it. Typically beforehand if possible but definitely afterward.

I always welcome questions. Thanks for reading my long ass post. I will work on my editing skills.

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killaB

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Join Date: 10/01/2010 | Posts: 69

Could you give some examples of ways that you break the social pressure? This is my major sticking point atm...I can get good convo and fun but I can tell they are never truly relaxed...I think it's mainly a lack of physicality early on so any physical tips would be great too

Thanks
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