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January 20th, 2017
Tired of going out, dating, everything.
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Olivier

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Join Date: 10/04/2012 | Posts: 167

 I feel exhausted, like I have to do it everyday and that makes me tired and wanna stay home after a year and a half.
It brings me in my head...

One part is like 'go out anyway, you're just in your head'
Another is like 'chill, take a couple of days off, it has to be fun"

Some input please.
It's also that here in Brussels most of the girls know me and are stuckup. Yes, making money to move somewhere else ;)
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Dr Destruction

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Nah man I love the grind, that stupid voice in your head that tells you to just relax...

I see alot of the same girls all the time too, because I day game 7 days a week, at the same time, and at the same locations, again and again.

There's just something about burning shit down, that's very gratifying. Just take motivation in preparing for the other places your saving up for. I lived in a 1,000 people town for a year in the middle of nowhere, and the only thing that got me through was preparing to live Seattle...

Now whenever I run into mall cops who routinely linger around my approaches (just waiting for a hard blowout, so they have reasons to eject me on harrassment), I tell myself that I'm just preparing for PHX/Scottsdale, and once I'm there I'm preparing for NYC...

Just mind games like that.
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Reco

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Meeting women is not a job. If you're not having fun, why continue? ...To reach some imaginary level of greatness so you can brag to your buddies about how much you're getting? The true level of greatness is how actualized you personally feel within yourself.

It's ok to take breaks.  
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bigjew629

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If you're not having fun, why continue? ...To reach some imaginary level of greatness so you can brag to your buddies about how much you're getting?
You have no idea my man lol.

Just take some dam time off if you don't like it.
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nestea

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tough to say, if you have always been social and going out was never an issue then maybe you just need to chill. no big deal. you might sit home 3 days in a row and then day 4 you are like "tonight im going the fuck out sonnnnnnnn"
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Reco

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bigjew629 wrote:
If you're not having fun, why continue? ...To reach some imaginary level of greatness so you can brag to your buddies about how much you're getting?
You have no idea my man lol.

Please do enlighten me...
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 You're doing it for the wrong reasons. You do it to feel happy through the ego and not self-esteem. Don't believe me if you don't want but this is how it is.
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Distant Light

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ACTUALLY LIVE YOUR LIFE and stop aspiring to "cold approach mastery"...



An I say this as a guy practically fucked up his time at acting school just to TRY and become good at pickup. Although no regrets but if I was how I am now in acting schoool I would've got competent so much quicker and would've had some crazy experiences. Stop going out to "pickup" go out to have a fucking place and give people opportunities to havea  fun life too.
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Insanity2.0

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 Whelp dude if you have been going out fr so long you should be in love with it already.

Plus it should be a habit and not something you DO by now.
Like just go down and get outside. Meet people you don't know like its a normal thing.
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Olivier

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Distant Light wrote:
ACTUALLY LIVE YOUR LIFE and stop aspiring to "cold approach mastery"...



An I say this as a guy practically fucked up his time at acting school just to TRY and become good at pickup. Although no regrets but if I was how I am now in acting schoool I would've got competent so much quicker and would've had some crazy experiences. Stop going out to "pickup" go out to have a fucking place and give people opportunities to havea  fun life too.
Thanks for peoples comments but this one resonates with what I learned just a couple of days ago. I went out anyway and I realized how fun of a guy I am to be around with. 'pickup' is like going out to get girls. Being out and giving them a possibility to meet you is a whole different thing.
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Jacob Black

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Olivier wrote:
Distant Light wrote:
Being out and giving them a possibility to meet you is a whole different thing.

I think that's all that Pickup is and has ever been.  It only seems like trying to get girls in the beginning, but that's an illusion.
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