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no_girlfriend

no_girlfriend

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Join Date: 07/26/2013 | Posts: 217

Welcome to my FR Journal!

Location: Stockholm
Lays: 100+  
Infield: Since 2008
Age: ~25
Goal: Go out 4 times per week, write about it and learn the lessons
Additional goal: Post theory videos

UPDATE 2014: Can YOU succeed as a HARD CASE? - A little bit about my history.

It feels a bit awkward to open up but:

I was a hard case. Had no female friends. Played World of warcraft 10 hours a day some periods. I cried a lot for not having a girlfriend, i thought i would be alone forever. 

I viewed myself as extremely ugly

Because i still believed in hollywood love, i  took some action. My first attempts consisted of me sitting in the forrest for 2-3 hours (seriously) mentally preparing to call a girl from school and ask her out on a date. I had printed out a manuscript so i would know exactly what i would say. I tried this with 5 girls, no success and i cried like a fking baby. It caused me huge mental pain. I wanted to kill myself. 

My only criteria for a girlfriend was "if she loves me, i will love her back forever". Didn't care if she was 300 pounds and handicaped. This was my mentality.

After my first lay it took a year until i got my second lay.

Now, many years later, things are very different. I don't have three-somes with victoria secret -models, i still have a lot to work on, you are never "complete" in my opinion, But every week my fk-buddys in my "rotation" have dinner + great sex with me. And they are actually young, hot and fun. Every now and then i also sleep with new girls, u can read about it in my journal.

When i compare myself to 6-7 years ago it kind of shocks me. I still have some notes from that period: My mind, the thoughts that go through my head, the way i view women, my behavior, it's all so very different. I truly have become another person.

I believe my personal transformation came from 3 things mainly: ALOT of cold-approach pickup + pickup/self help-theory + surrounding myself with people from the PUA-community instead of my old passive peer-group.

Life can be fking brutal, but u CAN thrive, and when u do, u will enjoy the fruits alot more than some guy who had it easy.

Two videos that I'm gonna watch before going out:




 
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ASS SPANKING-journal www.rsdnation.com/node/489205[=5]

"Most men act like ugly girls: don't make waves, don't risk the loss, and don't treat her like merely one of your social options. Bad call. The women smell it. They feel it, like loser-water splashed all over them. They smell the underlying vibe of your every movement: I hope I don't mess this up. This neediness - the perception that you aren't treating them like they are women, like you are a man - is at the root of so many failed pick-ups" - Future

"Losers makes excuses and feel sorry for themselves, winners knows there's a solution and are willing to put the time in" 
- Tyler
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no_girlfriend

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Join Date: 07/26/2013 | Posts: 217

 24 july - pulling in stairs

Went out with 2 buddies of mine, one newbie, one more experienced who came later.

Sat down at an outside area beside 2 girls with my wing. HB8 and HB7. I opened and my friend sat down next to the HB8, (asked him if we could "change places"... normally this means "u stole my target bro" in our secret pua languish, but this guy is new and didnt know the open-choose-rule i found out later). I sat down next to the 7 and was a bit pissed, but decided to make it as fun as possible instead. Started chatting up the HB7, and after a while i took up some blancet from the sofa and created a "cabin" for me and hb7 with the blancet on our head. We talked about bullshit nonsence, at i realised how key this is as i was there inside the "cabin", cuz my good friend had a very flat conversation containing "what do u study.....?". 

This was sooo early in the night and it started to get crazy. Hilarious. I was spanking her ass, pulling her hair. She said some wierd thing like "wanna have sex at the toilet? just kidding." I kinda knew she wasnt kidding :P..... i remembered some video of julien earlier about not beeing able to fuck the first 2 hours (actually he said generally that's the case, witch is true...) and felt somewhat challenged to fuck this girl this early. First i said "lets go to the bar", with the intension to isolate her from the friend and go to the toilet. I looked around and realized that it wasnt possible cuz the guards where close to the toilet (tried before when guards are standing like that close the toilet, they interupt and ruin the fun).

THEN i came up with the most sick MacGyver idea i had in a while. I said, lets go buy ciggaretts (i dont smoke). So she resisted a bit at first, but then when told her friend and left the club.
Me: Lets take this way, *walked towards an alley*,
She: noo, that's not where the shop is
Me: it's a shortcut (hehe)
*Found some wierd stairs that led down to a locked door
Me: come here. *I walk down*
She stays up there and says "whyyyyyyy?"
Me: Because i wanna touch you, and i can't do it up there.
After a while she comes down and we starts makeout, grabbing and spanking her ass, shes rubbing my cock outside the pants and im pulling her on the outside of pants, shes moaning a bit. Im trying to escalate but she interrupts and walks up the stairs again. So i try to get her down again, but 3 dudes come by who obviously wants a peice of the show. I was like, "come here lets go", she asked where, i said some other place, and ya, she didnt follow, so i went back to the nightclub.

When i get back alone her friend thought i assraped her and dumped her body somewhere so she was really pissed at me, i said "she is 100 meters away talking to some dudes". She cant find her and comes back even more pissed. So i go out to grab her, she was still talking to the 3 dudes outside, particularly one, and i got a bit jellous ^^.... But she followed me back to the club, and now the angry friend apologized, and some other dude who apperently also was her friend bought me a beer for the effort. Nice!

So nothing fun really happened after that, i got needy when she talked to the other guy outside and she could obviously feel that. 

Me and my more experienced wing chatted around with different girls, danced around and had fun, and a bit later it was this one bitchy girl who i teased quite a bit for beeing too much of a princess ^^ Ended up with me passing by her and "*cough* white trash*cough*". Unfortunately the guards saw that and she freeeeeaaaaaked out ofcourse so i got thrown out from there. WOOPS. Yeah that's pretty much the whole night.

Good stuff:
-I went hard for the F-close
-I opened very quickly in the venue
-Physical right from the bat
Bad stuff:
-I drank some alcohole
-I got needy

25 july - Wieeeeeeerd girls
Went out with 2 other friends this evening. Nothing really clicked this night. Did some approaches both on the dancefloor and bar area. I was talking to this one chick, she was 25 yers old. I thought she was kinda hot but my friend didnt agree :P... However i was talking to her close, touching, kissing a bit, then we where talking about something boring at one point so i just stuck out my toungh and did a vertical movement just for fun. She freaked out and said "Oh, everything was good until that point". I was like "wwwttffff??" However, nothing more with her after that.

Also another wierd thing happened. With one hot chick on the dancefloor, i did a dominant "come here", she came and i pulled her in close. She asked how old i where, i answered, and she said "too old" and RAN away. LOOOL. Shouldnt even answered the question, just said something else (shoulda coulda woulda)

Yet another wierd thing, my friend opened one chick. Her friend stod with her phone texting. As a joke i took my phone and bounced it into hers. She freaks out aswell, even though she smiles i can see it in her eyes, and says "come here for a while". I'm like "why girl, u wanna talk to me? I stand right here".
She: "u dont do that to me, ok?"  she's doing a motion with her phone*
Me: "what? are u a princess? Are your name Madeleine? (name of swedish princess)"  
She: "listen, im not interessted in anything tonight, ok?"
Me: "dont worry girl, me neither"
She: "Oh, i know, guys always want something"
Me: "Nope"
*Her friend interupts and sort of drags her away*

Then i get a text from a chick who im sopposed to meet on saturday, she asks if she can come over, im like "sure come". So i take an somewhat earlier bus and goes home just to realize she's not coming cuz taxi is to expensive and it's so late blablabla.... 

Good stuff:
-Physical right from the bat
-Somewhat calm even though some wierd stuff happened
-Didnt drink
Bad stuff:
-Could have opened more
-Shouldnt take the bait when girls throw tests like "how old are u"

ALRIGHT, it's friday night, lets have some new adventures!!! See ya
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ASS SPANKING-journal www.rsdnation.com/node/489205[=5]

"Most men act like ugly girls: don't make waves, don't risk the loss, and don't treat her like merely one of your social options. Bad call. The women smell it. They feel it, like loser-water splashed all over them. They smell the underlying vibe of your every movement: I hope I don't mess this up. This neediness - the perception that you aren't treating them like they are women, like you are a man - is at the root of so many failed pick-ups" - Future

"Losers makes excuses and feel sorry for themselves, winners knows there's a solution and are willing to put the time in" 
- Tyler
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no_girlfriend

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 26 july - lots of bambi eyes and some ass spanking

Went out with 3 friends of mine to the same place as on wednesday. Arrived pretty late, like 23.30.

First 30 mins was just relaxing, drinking (NOOO) and talking to a wing of mine that i hadnt seen for years. 

Midnight hit, and i start doing approaches to left and right. I'm very physical from the bat and this creates some attraction.

Me: Hey, who are you! *dragging hb8 close*
Her: Hey, im XXXX, *bambi eyes*
Her friend: She doesnt wanna talk to you!! *trying to drag her away*
Me: U look cute, how old are you? *lazer eyes*
Her: Oh thanks, 19. *still bambi eyes*
Her friend freaks out and starts dragging violiently. At this point i should have started yelling at her friend "JESUS CHRIST, A MOMENT PLEASE". But i didn't.... too much of a =)
*she gets dragged away*
I say a few words to my wing, then re-open and say "well, if ur friend dont let me talk to u, atleast i'll take ur number"  takes her number. As she writes the number her friend starts whispering in her ear and i guess it was something like "fake fake fake". And the girl deletes the number and writes down another one..... SICK... and ye, it was a fake number. Then i say kiss me, she does a weak kiss, im like "thats not proper one" *proper kiss*. It blows my mind how this girl obviously is pretty attracted to me (unless my attraction-radar is wrong) and still doesnt wanna give me a real number. 

Another situation. Out in smoking area.
Me: Heeeeeeeeeeeyy! *grabs in hb8 close*
She: Hey *bambi eyes*
(I felt i should have kissed her by this point)
Me: what's ur name?
She: its XXXX
Me: U smell good, *smells her hair, kisses her cheek*
Her friend: Hey we where going to the dancefloor, come with us!
Me: i'll come later, and then i'll dance with youuuuu *pointing and lazer-eye the hb8*
Later when i come down to dance, i pull her in close again, this time she resists and shows me her wedding ring, and says "Sooooooooooooooorrrryyyyy"
I'm thinking.... fuck it... next

Yet another situation. Open a mixed set with 3 girls and 1 guy. These peeps are really nice, and i kind of entertain/talk to the whole crowd for a bit. The dude looked a bit alpha but wasnt teasing at all. It goes amazingly well. Then I drag the hottest girl, Hb8,5, close to me and start getting physical. I pull her hair, we chat a bit, she rubs her ass against my cock, i kiss her neck. I go for the makeout but she resists, i say "not infront of your friends?" she says: "it's not that" I say: "I wanna dance with u girl"
Then im like, "LETS GO DANCE" to the whole group, but only my wings come with me, and the mixed set says something like "we're coming soon, see u there".
Later with her on the dancefloor i think i go a bit to far. Spanked her ass 1 or 2 many times, and she takes a step back, im still not totally congruent with the spanking ass shit. 2 mins later I'm like "why do you hate me?" She comes back in close and says "I don't hate u". I try to escalate a bit more, doesn't work so i bounce out. Should have numberclosed, sometimes girls like that just need a day2. However i didnt.

Now it's 1 am and pretty much every set in the venue has been opened and pushed, was only like 10 sets in the venue. So me and my 2 buddies who are still left decide to do some streetgame. However we decide to call it a day. On the way home my other wing texts me where he's at, so i go there and meet up with him.
When I arrive at the club it's 2 am. We do some dancefloor game and some opening in an outside area. Nothing really clicks for me, so when my fuckbuddy texts me at 2.45 she's on her way home, I tell my wing that and head to her place. I feel a bit bad about this, because my wing and i talked about doing fast extractions to his place around 3-4am. He lives in the city and it's usually very effective and alot of fun adventures.

Good stuff:
-Opened ALOT in the first venue
-My wibe was really good
-Spanked some ass
Bad stuff:
-Arrived too late at the first club
-Should have went for numberclose atleast on one more target.
-Gave up too early, game night is GAME-NIGHT, not give up and fuckbuddy-night

ALRIGHT. Saturdaynight coming up. Me and my buddy's gonna ROCK IT
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ASS SPANKING-journal www.rsdnation.com/node/489205[=5]

"Most men act like ugly girls: don't make waves, don't risk the loss, and don't treat her like merely one of your social options. Bad call. The women smell it. They feel it, like loser-water splashed all over them. They smell the underlying vibe of your every movement: I hope I don't mess this up. This neediness - the perception that you aren't treating them like they are women, like you are a man - is at the root of so many failed pick-ups" - Future

"Losers makes excuses and feel sorry for themselves, winners knows there's a solution and are willing to put the time in" 
- Tyler
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no_girlfriend

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 27 july - Whiskey-pistol & the YES!!-men

I was out with 2 friends of mine. Met 2 girls on the way from a closed club. I opened them by asking if they where going to this closed club, they said "yes" and i said "it is closed, come with us to this other place". They joined us and i was physical from the bat with one of them, but i got a kind of wierd vibe from her so I stopped it.

Entered the venue. First 20 mins i hanged out with the girls, then left. I opened a 5set of girls, pretty hot. My wing pulled out a water-pistol with whiskey and we started shooting the girls in the mouths with it. It was fun but nothing really came out of it, whenever i tried to talk directly to a girl, she talked back for a while, then kinda took some steps away from me. 

Next approach was a pretty cute girl sitting down. Hb8. Instead of teasing her and shit i just went straight for report and beeing physical at the same time. We went on talking about Hentai porn and how i had "tentacle gloves" at home ready for her when she's coming. I love this kind of over the top conversation, and this time the girl contributed to the fun with her crazy ass fantasy so i was pretty impressed. At on point after had looked in her eyes deeply and went for k-close wich faiiled.... she said something like "ur really trying" wich is kind of true, i was trying, im always trying to close in some way, my wing said once "well atleast ur problem is not that ur too passive". I kinda remembered this statment back in my mind and decided to "slowplay" it a bit. Talk talk talk, and then phonenumber. We'll see how it goes.

Me and my buddie also ran around alot yelling "YES!". It became kind of the theme of the night and it was hilarious!. Opened girl yelling YES!, answering texts on the phone with "YES!". Yelling made me kind of unstifled.

I did alot of wierd-ass approaches, here's some of them:

At one point I was kind of bored and wanted to try something different, so i opened a girl in english and claimed to be from new york when she asked me. It was alot of fun to joke with her for beeing typical swedish girl, and "trying to pronounce" words of my own languish...., but also kinda wierd having to make up different stuff. Anyways, i ejected after 5 mins because i felt it kinda went too far.

I also saw a girl that was really my type when it comes to appearence. I was afraid to approach her and couldnt push myself. Luckily my friend pushed me to do it, and i blew it kinda hard, didnt even talk directly to the girl i wanted, but to her friend. 

Also opened another hottie, like HB9, wasnt afraid of that one, but i couldnt "be myself" while doing it.
Me: Have u seen this video right here, it's really wierd
She: U'r wierd
Me: Thanks
Her friend was like "go away blablabla".
Me: "im not talking to u, im talkin to her". 
Later on the dancefloor i see this chick again and her friend goes like "go away!"
I ignore her friend and do a "hug-kidnapp" on the HB9. She respondes well, but gets violently dragged away by her friend. 

Later in the evening me and my wing starts dancing to 2 girls, one i pretty hot probably an 8. The other one ugly as shit. We starts to dance like crazy, and all of a sudden we stop in the dance and just look at eachother, pretty wierd actually, i pull her in close and continue dancing. Nothings really happening in terms of escalation, she's too focused on dancing, i go for the k-close, but no go.

Good stuff:
-Did some approaches
-Amused myself
Needs improvement:
-Get used to open HOTties
-Get through the initial wierdness of an opening into comfortbuilding and normal conversation

That's it, see u on wednesday =) baaaiii
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ASS SPANKING-journal www.rsdnation.com/node/489205[=5]

"Most men act like ugly girls: don't make waves, don't risk the loss, and don't treat her like merely one of your social options. Bad call. The women smell it. They feel it, like loser-water splashed all over them. They smell the underlying vibe of your every movement: I hope I don't mess this up. This neediness - the perception that you aren't treating them like they are women, like you are a man - is at the root of so many failed pick-ups" - Future

"Losers makes excuses and feel sorry for themselves, winners knows there's a solution and are willing to put the time in" 
- Tyler
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no_girlfriend

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31 july - Biceps-opener, some makeouts and ass spanking

Went to a nightclub with 2 buddies of mine. We had crazy fun. I put on a cap and shaved my beard in a certain way in order to look really white trash. Used a dialect from up north, it was hilarious. So my first 5 approaches was basicaly just joking with people about me beeing this truck-driver character. It made me come into state. I also invented the "biceps-opener" witch means I just stand silent and show off my biceps to the girl or the group. This shit makes me smile right now because it's so retarded and funny. As u might guess i drank some beer ^^. 

Next up i start talking to my friend, joking around.
Me: i'm so tired of these hot girls, i wanna take home the fattest chick i can find...

So i start running around the club opening fat chicks, and going for the less attractive ones in the groups. REALLY INTERESTING to see how much I CHANGE when i talk to a girl i really think i DESERVE on every level. I could say obnoxious shit without hassitation and the girl just loved me even more, I could look her directly in the eye without a single thought in mind. Started talking to one a bit too fat chick on the dancefloor, can't remember what it was about but she was REALLY cool and funny, i guess this is an example of a girl showing HER BEST SELF, in comparance to some chick that feels she's above me and just acts bitchy. So chat chat chat, makeout makeout makeout spank and grab her ass, her boobs etc...., and then we carry on dancing in different directions, didnt see her again.

Another chick on the dancefloor, maybe a 7, quite cute, dance dance dance, talk talk talk, closer closer, makeout. I wanted to take this girl home. SO I MICROMANAGED. Started talking to my friend on the dancefloor for maybe 2 mins, turned back, GONE,  didnt see her again. Even went looking for her later before leaving cuz i wanted here number, GONE.

So i step it up now, talk to 2 girl, both hb8. One has boyfriend, other has girlfriend they say.... I say, u ever had another guy with u? She gets SUPER OFFENDED, and starts pushing me away and says "LEAVE". Im like, "girl u cant push me, its against the law", She gets even more pissed, asks me to leave. Im like "i can dance wherever i want, u dont own this place". Looking her in the eyes, face close. She says "U love ruinings peoples nights??" I say "I love ruining your night", She grabs her friend and runs off. I kinda felt good for standing up for myself when she pushed me, IMO ur not allowed to push people around, BUT  i also lost state from it because it felt kinda intense.

After this shit i just stay another 30 mins, before i leave. 

Good stuff:
-REALLY amused myself
-Biceps opener
Needs improvement:
-Beeing able to be that SAME GUY with a hottie, as with a fatty
-Stop micromanage shit

1 august

Didnt go out because no wing avalible, I now realize that's an excuse and next time i'll be happy to take the opportunity to go out on my own.

EDIT: fixed dates
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ASS SPANKING-journal www.rsdnation.com/node/489205[=5]

"Most men act like ugly girls: don't make waves, don't risk the loss, and don't treat her like merely one of your social options. Bad call. The women smell it. They feel it, like loser-water splashed all over them. They smell the underlying vibe of your every movement: I hope I don't mess this up. This neediness - the perception that you aren't treating them like they are women, like you are a man - is at the root of so many failed pick-ups" - Future

"Losers makes excuses and feel sorry for themselves, winners knows there's a solution and are willing to put the time in" 
- Tyler
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Brainz

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 Thanks for directing me to your journal! Your example of self-amusement with your biceps opener is very similar to how I self-amused by finding humour in the game itself (especially being in the social/anthropological sciences AND PUA!). I think we're on the right track, we just have to learn how improve at self-amusing ;)
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approach.
1. your future self will thank you
2. there is no other fucking option 

i feel pitty for drunk chodes. dont be one

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Brainz wrote:
 Thanks for directing me to your journal! Your example of self-amusement with your biceps opener is very similar to how I self-amused by finding humour in the game itself (especially being in the social/anthropological sciences AND PUA!). I think we're on the right track, we just have to learn how improve at self-amusing ;)
Happy i could provide u with some good information, this is something im currently focusing on, so yeah, lets just keep on banging the guns :)
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ASS SPANKING-journal www.rsdnation.com/node/489205[=5]

"Most men act like ugly girls: don't make waves, don't risk the loss, and don't treat her like merely one of your social options. Bad call. The women smell it. They feel it, like loser-water splashed all over them. They smell the underlying vibe of your every movement: I hope I don't mess this up. This neediness - the perception that you aren't treating them like they are women, like you are a man - is at the root of so many failed pick-ups" - Future

"Losers makes excuses and feel sorry for themselves, winners knows there's a solution and are willing to put the time in" 
- Tyler
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 2 august - Sober night with no actiontaking

Went out with 4 buddies to a nightclub. Got inside and did my first approach.

Quite cute girl, got in close, huging, some kisses, started talking bullshit. Sadly i dont remember much from this interraction other than that she bounced off to some TEXAS guy in a hilariously huge COWBOY HAT. Dude wearing that hat derserves it ;)

Did some dancefloor approaches, 2 of my wings got quickly deep in a 2set with really cute girls. Talked to some guy friends who knows my wing. As i was standing there next to them i realized I 'm beeing a dumbass not contributing to the conversation, (because in my mind I only cared about getting girls) so decided to vibe with the guys abit and see if we could get a fun conversation. Worked out great. After that i felt kinda off. None of the guys i where talking to was ready to go approaching with me, and i thought i wasnt ready to approach on my own. This is HUGE and i need to fix it. 

Went to the dancefloor alone and danced with 2 girls. When they reacted good i imidietly felt better (bad sign). Tried to escalate with one of them but it was kind of hard to separate them, they allways kept eyecontact with eachother etc.

Went for a lone walk outside to McDonalds and ate some dirt. on the way back i sat down  for a while to meditate. I was basically waiting for my friends to get out of the set/waiting for the club to close so we could do street game. However as i sat there 2 guys came up to me with music and we talked for a while. We increased the music and started dancing but one of the guys hands reached for my pocket. They probably thought i was really drunk because of the dancing and yelling on my part  LOL. I'm like "wtf are u doing? He's like, "We are just dancing, cmon!", Me: "i gotta go, bye". I wonder if it was the same guy that pickpocked my brothers friends, it was in the same area. 

Did some dancing on the dancefloor with wing and some rdm guy. We didnt know the lyrics so we just sang retarded sounds as if it where the lyrics. Did maybe 2 halfharted approaches on the dancefloor.

Club closes. I sit with my buddie outside the place watch girls leave. I saw so many approached i wanted to do, but didnt do. Yeah, pretty shitty
When it's time for street at 3 am, i just end up talking with my friend for an hour while walking around. It was an interesting conversation and i was engaged in it, but kinda bad we didnt do what we where sopposed to.

Looking back at this FR-journal I can see that the bad nights come when i dont drink, wich only means that i need to stick to non-drinking more consistently if it's gonna work, because it have BEEN WORKING in the past ^^.

Good stuff:
-I went out
-Didnt drink

Needs improvements:
-Need to start opening more on my own and not rely on pickup buddies in the background
-TAKE MORE ACTION
Quote from username Brainz: just approach. if you do you'll love yourself tomorrow. if you don't, your life will suck forever
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ASS SPANKING-journal www.rsdnation.com/node/489205[=5]

"Most men act like ugly girls: don't make waves, don't risk the loss, and don't treat her like merely one of your social options. Bad call. The women smell it. They feel it, like loser-water splashed all over them. They smell the underlying vibe of your every movement: I hope I don't mess this up. This neediness - the perception that you aren't treating them like they are women, like you are a man - is at the root of so many failed pick-ups" - Future

"Losers makes excuses and feel sorry for themselves, winners knows there's a solution and are willing to put the time in" 
- Tyler
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3 august - Another sober night

Went to the club with 2 buddies. Did like 3 lame approaches with instant blowout. Some hit me, so i gave her the finger. I dont no why bitches have been acting voilent towards me lately. 

Lost state completely, took a lone walk with coffie and meditation, it REALLY helped wich was awesome. Came back to the bar really present and got back to doing approaches, this time i had some real interactions.

My mindset was really nice, started joking with my wing that we where "grinding XP", like in world of warcraft where u just repeatedly kill monster to go up in level.

So we kept on grinding xD. But not before long a i've been texting for a while, internet game, says she's coming to the club i'm at. She shows up and she's not skinny as her pictures suggested, in fact she was quite fat... Said hi to her friends, drag her out of the club. She was drunk and she kept repeating the same thing over and over like a fucking tape recorder. "I need to call my friends", "Im not going home with you", "i need to turn back home now". Really annoying. Everytime she said something i started pointing out random things like "look at this blue car", "luck at this fked up comercial".

At my subway station the resistence kept going, and i soon became to realize that "yes, even though she followed me all the way here, she's not going to my place". Started making out and touching in the street,. We heard some people coming so i walked into some stairs leading to a locked basement door. She followed. makeout, touch, suck cock, came in her mouth. 

Interesting how everything changed from that very moment i came.  I didnt want her to come home with me anymore, and she could sense it. 

Waited with her for her train back and we said goodbye. 

Good stuff:
-Went out
-Did some meditation to get back in the moment
-Sober night
Needs improvement:
-Left with a girl i didnt like
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ASS SPANKING-journal www.rsdnation.com/node/489205[=5]

"Most men act like ugly girls: don't make waves, don't risk the loss, and don't treat her like merely one of your social options. Bad call. The women smell it. They feel it, like loser-water splashed all over them. They smell the underlying vibe of your every movement: I hope I don't mess this up. This neediness - the perception that you aren't treating them like they are women, like you are a man - is at the root of so many failed pick-ups" - Future

"Losers makes excuses and feel sorry for themselves, winners knows there's a solution and are willing to put the time in" 
- Tyler
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#9
no_girlfriend

no_girlfriend

Senior Member

Join Date: 07/26/2013 | Posts: 217

7 August

Rolled out with a buddy. Decided I was atleast gonna do 15 approaches. Had some good interaction.

Eventually I started making out with a 6. Pumped my state a bit. Started talking more and dancing. Some good interaction, opened some hb9+ girls that where outside of my current comfort zone. Had a good time but felt I could have tried to escalate more.

Outside the club after it closed beasting continued. Started talking to another hb9. I was numb to rejections at this point so i couldnt care less about what i was saying. seemed to work. She, her friend and some guys I knew where on their way to a cab for after party. She was hugging me and shit, asking me t join. Problem was the girls wanted to bring like 4 chodes, so I took the number and ejected. In hindsight I should have been ice cold and stay with them, beeing the first in the too small cab etc... Lesson learned. 4am hit and I went home.

Good stuff:
-Approached some hotties that got my heart pumping
-Approached a lot
-Didn't drink
Needs improvements:
-Try to escalate hot girls
-Stay ice cold and take what I deserve (hb9 leaving in cab)
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ASS SPANKING-journal www.rsdnation.com/node/489205[=5]

"Most men act like ugly girls: don't make waves, don't risk the loss, and don't treat her like merely one of your social options. Bad call. The women smell it. They feel it, like loser-water splashed all over them. They smell the underlying vibe of your every movement: I hope I don't mess this up. This neediness - the perception that you aren't treating them like they are women, like you are a man - is at the root of so many failed pick-ups" - Future

"Losers makes excuses and feel sorry for themselves, winners knows there's a solution and are willing to put the time in" 
- Tyler
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#10

iseeu

Junior Member

Join Date: 03/07/2013 | Posts: 14

 Good stuff, I love spanking ass :D.

Your journal describes a problem I've been having in the (very) few approaches I've done, the friends.

I feel like this is really my biggest problem once I open someone, I do not know how to deal with annoying cockblocking friends, I do not know how to respond when the girl I open is receptive but her friend is being a little or trying to pull her away from me. I mean, what do you say to some who shouts to you to go away when the girl you're targetting doesn't mind you at all ? I myself completely panic/eject when this happens to me and I get out of state.
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