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July 20th, 2017
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Good attitude towards flakes man

These teach you the most, a lot more than the ones that just giver you the amber light. Plus... It's only been a few days. I forget to text some girls for weeks.
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Amazing shift during the night and recognising this is a pretty advanced skill
Simply switching off the results focused mind into a PROCESS FOCUSED MIND is fucking key

I don't think I need to tell you where u went wrong but I thnk it's important to give you more insight into your night and why what happened
Seems like you started off expecting certain reactions from girls and when they don't come you get slightly pissy or frustrated

"I didn't get enough IOi's so I left" wtf are you expecting to happen? I don't even know where to start with this.. Did she not instantly get down on her knees and give you a blowie? I guess she just was t into you, oh well, give up

"She wasn't hot enough so I left" this ties in with the IOi's comment, stop looking the environment to validate you. Her looks need to be irrelevant, especially if you want to pull a stunner.

You been getting certain results from the clubs and tonight, just as you recognized, it wasn't coming. But you knew it.
This is symptoms of your first plateau.

Awesome for leading her out and that feeling of discomfort is also known as growth!



Remember, attraction is a function of time. Forget her first reaction as an indicator that you are still doing well at the whole game thing. Fuck that preservation and start to embrace this new evolution.

Use your first few hours in the club to LET GO at being perfect at this, be shit at this, reject any value a girl has based on looks, value all the the same and his includes guys


Approach all!keep it short and sweet early and speak to every one as equal, have faith in the night. Shut off that value taking mindset of "is this improving me?"




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 nice
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 good shit
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