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April 27th, 2017
How to have a funny,vibing conversation?
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Andress

Andress

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Join Date: 03/02/2013 | Posts: 61

 Hi,im going out more regularly atm and my opener is hi,what is your name? or saying that i saw her/them when i was with a friend so i liked them and i had to come to talk to them.
After that i follow with questions about her,what she does,what she likes,her age... and thats how i hook the sets usually.The problem is that in rsd instructor videos they never have this boring conversations,its much more funny their way(especially julien´s way,its my favourite instructor).I like them because they lead,can ignore what the girl wants or say and get their way.Yesterday a saw a post in this forum about a swedish guy that i liked a lot too,but i dont know how to be like him,a guy that is having fun,makes the girl laugh because of their attitude more than what they specifically say,that leads and doesnt care about anything.
Btw here is the video : 


How can i do this myself?I dont know if i will become like that only by opening lots of girls or if i have to change something on myself before opening.Any thought?
I would go to a bootcamp,buti live in spain,im a student with no job,and if i had it it would be a shitty one with bad wage.
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UWJLL

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Join Date: 07/07/2013 | Posts: 7

Stop being a Robot and laugh
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UWJLL

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Join Date: 07/07/2013 | Posts: 7

Stop being a Robot and laugh
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sapmi

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Join Date: 03/23/2009 | Posts: 320

Most conversations that lead to sex are nothing special, getting to know each other, the odd joke. Stop comparing yourself to other people (rsd instructor), focus on being an expressive individual. Fear of rejection and feel of not getting the girl stops you from expressing yourself 100% Lower your standards! Your attitude should be "everything that comes out of my mouth is pure gold"  (only if its 100% truthful) If you upset her (this shouldnt happen often if you're socially well adjusted), you can always apologise. See her as human being, not as a sex object you have to "get". You shouldn't be focussing on what to say next, your main focus should be on her, and whether she is winning you over or not.
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pdjunkie

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Join Date: 09/30/2012 | Posts: 86

 This is one of my biggest sticking points. When I talk to anyone, it always starts with the usual boring interview mode where I ask a lot of boring questions, then I don't know what to say anymore and the conversation dies. 

I can't be c/f. It's like it's not in my personality. It's like I'm hardwired to be a serious logical dude.

How do I overcome this?
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Andress

Andress

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Join Date: 03/02/2013 | Posts: 61

 I just watched some Julien´s videos and he says its ok to do that,and most of his game is like that(even if he doesnt show that in his infield videos).Starting from 4:55

I guess its cool then :D
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This is Sparta

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Join Date: 06/23/2013 | Posts: 9

fuck dude I am in the same boat as you. I usually end up talking to them about dumb shit and the convo dies quick.



There were 3 days in my whole life where I felt 100% unstoppable, I swear every chick on the street was looking at me like they wanted to me.

Whats killing me is that I have never been able to turn it on or off, it just happened to me those three days and never again. I wasn't intoxicated either which is whats killing me, so I know its in my brain. I just cant get to it on tap.
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