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should i go indirect because its outside of their reality?
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Nj

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Join Date: 03/29/2012 | Posts: 249

 most of the time when i approach...they say to get lost..even if i just say hi....my wingman says..we should start with oen ended questions and ..also go indirect...kind of routines...
but my opinion...is this,,,why should i try to adapt to her reality....why should i be lying...also even f i go indirect if she was never ready for fucking..so fast then why will she when i go indirect and later show my intentions,,
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This is Sparta

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Join Date: 06/23/2013 | Posts: 9

I am new here and quite honestly don't know much better than you. However I think your thinking too much about this shit.


Its all in how you are saying "hi" I think. The delivery is very important. I think your problem is your literally going directly to them but making it obvious. There is a way to go indirectly and still be direct if that makes any sense.


Anyway I don't know jack squat either, this is my second post but it seems like a very helpful forum. Glad to be here. Hope someone else can help you.
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Jailbait Warrior

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Join Date: 05/03/2013 | Posts: 112

That is probably because you are approaching like a fucking creep or really weak like a bitch

If your approaching looks like this then it is obvious why. Or if you have no hygiene and look like a homeless guy asking for change. Let go of outcome, when this sort of thing happens you are usually seeking to take value from the girl. A good way to get past this is to play the 30 second game with your wing. He countsdown from 30 and you have to approach before it reaches 0. Therefore your only criteria for success is that you approached and you aren't aiming to get any value [result] from the girl.

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Getmoneyfuckbitches

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Join Date: 11/27/2012 | Posts: 495

 Is this daygame or nightgame?

Try different things out.  I know a guy who does very well with direct day game but he's a very romantic type of guy, for me its incongruent to go in direct during the day... not my style

Guys who can't do direct daygame but do it anyways are the worst since they creep out girls, boost their egos, etc. without actually getting any reuslts.  
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Join Date: 11/01/2011 | Posts: 871

The words really don't matter, you can go indirect or direct it depends on your personality and what works for you. Try both out and see how you get on. In my experiences in the field the girls that are into you - are into you. Regardless whether you go direct or indirect.

In stead of worrying about the words, worry about more important things such as:

1. How close you stand next to (the closer the better i.e. the more direct)
2. Your eye contact, strong eye contact is also direct
3. Physicality (also a great form of directness)

Finally - my experiences have shown me Physicality is the best screening of women. I have been direct many times with a girl and she's stood there talking to me and then I've escalated and shes like ughh no lol. When a girl is receptive to my physical touch its a pretty good screening mechanism that they are down :)
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You're asking the wrong question. It's not about the method, it's about what you're subcommunicating.

Direct or indirect a girl will know my intentions and what I'm about regardless of what I say.

Some things I focus on when I open:

1. Short, piercing breaking rapport tonality
2. Intense eye contact
3. Bringing a challenging playful vibe to the interaction

Again, it's not what you say, it's everything you are saying to her beyond the superficial.
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