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December 6th, 2016
My experience of NOfap + alexander method, READ THIS
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AmasingSkills

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So Ive been a constant reader and student of RSD, Ive watched almost all free videos over 1.5 year period, Ive gone out alot, Ive tried different methods, having intent, having no intent, structure, none structure, about everything.

I also have a friend who attended the alexander hotseat and basicly told me its the best thing he's ever done, he also sent me the alex videos about the different skills.


5 months ago I came over this post: An Amazing Motivational Story of How Not Jerking has Changed My Life With Women rsdnation.com/node/207026/forum 

My first thoughts was: "lol bullshit", "placebo", "so not jerking it made him a chick magnet? HA yeah right!", "troll", and all that shit.

1 month later, I decided to give it a try.

This is the honest truth, this is 100% of what Ive experienced, Im not trolling, Im not lying your ass, I PRAY that you yourself go and try this shit, it might not work for everyone, for me personally this have given me more results than anything else in the community ever.

Ive never been that obsessed with porn, basicly it was just a thing "I did cause I could", cause of my high speed internet, I used to watch 5-7times a week when jerking it, never thought it could give consequenses.

I decided to not jerk it for 3 months, not watch porn, I blocked all the sites and I deleted my whole collection. The first 2 weeks was a fucking pain in the ass, your mind works in very funny ways making you rationalising all kinds of shit just so you can stroke it. "Nah just one session.. wont do much!", "man why am I doing this!", "this is bullshit!" were constantly running thru my mind, but I kept at it, I refused to touch it.

About 20 days in, I started to notice some very interesting stuff. My voice became deepr and more "stable", I felt way more centered, I felt fulfilled, more assertive, more confidence, more "dont give a fuck". During this period I also hardcore studied Alexanders stuff and this natural instincts method, NOfap really helped me understand why this method is so god damn effective and ALL YOU EVER NEED, actually, it is my belief that all the other stuff is completely unnessecary and many times hurtful for your game.

Let me explain why:

You all know the most important concept of this method is: "there is no reason why Im not enough", why is that? Basicly speaking, it is a mindset which points you towards a state of mind that is indifference. Indifference is incredibly attractive cause it kills your needyness, it kills your needyness for validation, it kills your thought patterns of "having to do stuff", it kills every little feeling if tryhard-ness there is.

When you dont feel this compelling feeling to act a certain way, to do this or do that, all that is left is emptyness, when you have emptyness your mind is 100% present and fine tuned to take things in as they are and respond accordingly, your mental RAM isnt occupied figuring out what to do, what to say, how to come off as cool or funny, all your faculties are 100% on and in a straight line, what you see is what you get, no second thoughts, no self consiousness.

You basicly get out of your head and into your body, you start to feel this subtle "tingly feeling" in your muscles, the mind shuts off, your eyes become relaxed, your facial muscles losen up, you feel good, you feel relaxed. You can do anything, you can sit in a corner, or run around on the dancefloor, it does not matter, what does matter is this feeling of complete relaxation and indifference.

When you achive that, girls will notice, oh trust me they will notice. Walking down the street you will start notice girls giving you the eye, the smile. You will walk past a couple of girls sitting down and they will become quiet, then you turn around and you see them all looking at you and you wont really care, it wont do nothing for you, cause they cant give you nothing, you dotn feel "validated", you couldnt really care less cause you are emotionally fulfilled by yourself, you are self-validated, you dont NEED anything, but you appreciate it.

Girls will start grinding up on you on the dancefloor, they will pull you in start kissing you, when you have this state of being everything becomes supremely easy, the game is over and you have reached everything you ever need to be good with girls.

This is what "identity level change" is refered at, its what "masculine polarity" is, its what "unreactiveness" is, the main thing to remember is that this is easy to achieve, you can do it today, or tomorrow, its not really anything you work to get, instead you let go and come into alignment of your body and how you naturally are meant to be.


Why did noFAP help me with this?

What nofap does, basicly, is they repair your dopamine receptors, and yes theres a big risk they have taken damage due to high speed HD inernet porn with super hotties. Basicly the male brain isnt evolved to see 30 different super hot babes within 1 hour of masturbation. If you regulary whack it to porn chanses are you are hurting yourself.

Im not saying everyone has a problem with this, what I am saying is that alot of people will notice LOTS of benefits of quiting, LOTS AND LOTS AND LOTS. Why?

Dopamine is basicly what gives you confidence, motivation, drive, "alpha-ness", "dont give a fuck" - attitude, the alpha males in different apes have the most dopamine receptors, when one raises in status they get more receptors which makes them come off as extremely dominant, confident, relaxed and the females will pick up on this instantly, due to the behaviours that follows.

After some weeks I started feeling this, basicly it hit me that I had been numbing myself for years due to porn, I always felt kinda "slow", or "foggy" in my mind and I couldnt figure it out, cause as a child I always felt so chill and happy, and motivated. Porn basicly numbed my dopamine response, it damaged my receptors and when you cant use all of your dopamine, game becomes extremely hard, its so damn hard to be assertive, confident and relaxed when your dopamine levels are fucked up, its almost impossible.

Thats why alot of peeps get so damn good results when on coke or mdma or whatever the fuck, girls notice the high value behaviour caused by your dopamine.


Alexanders method helps you let go of all your stress so you get in touch with your natural self which will give you access to your dopamine and confidence. NOFAP will for many of you repair the damaged receptors which will make it extremely more easy to achieve this state of mind.

It is of my opinion that all the other stuff is completely unnecesary, you dont have to have "intent", you dont have to consiously worry about "freedom of intent", the claw, all that bullshit, just stop, it wont work. It will work when its an expression of your self, when you do it cause you wanna do it, not to get some kind of reaction out of it. Girls are extremely intuitive, they know when u are trying to get a response out of them, trust me, they know, and it wont work.

When you are completely relaxed and you feel fulfiled from inside, everything will work, cause you are giving value, you dont need a certain reaktion, you aint taking value, all you do becomes a kind of offering value, expression not impression.

The main thing that makes girls attracted to you is your ability of being more relaxed than them, period, thats it. If you are more relaxed than the girl, its only a matter of time before she will get aroused by you and horny for your dick, thats it. If you are stressed out and not more relaxed than them, you will become reactive and nothing you do will work as getting them interested.


Before NOfap and alex method, I had 5 lays, pretty introverted, not so confident or assertive. I went out "showing intent", "being the buyer", loud, abnoxious, clawing them in, trust me, it seldom did work, I got some good reactions and then I went home jerking it.

3 weeks into NOfap I had a girl come up to me in the club, hot girl, chatted with me for 20min and then blowed me in the bar toiled. 2 days after I fucked another girl from daygame, the week after that one I had girls staring me down at the club, making out with several of them, completely relaxed and chill, then I fucked another one. Day after went out again, opened 1 girl this evening and end up going home with her.

Now I have a married chick wanting me to bone her, I have 2 fuckbuddies and I draw more attention than I ever did, its so damn crazy I dont know what to think, its like all humans are connected in some unconsious way and that girls really can feel  how you feel just by being in the same room, if they feel you are more relaxed than them they get attracted to you, they start gravitating towards you, grabbing your ass/dick, basicly going crazy over  you.

The state of mind Ive achieved by alex method and no fap is like nothing else, I feel COMPLETE, ALWAYS, super fulfilled, relaxed like hell, its like im a grounding source of energy that just draws girls in.

Dont just trust me on this text, go try it yourself, I cant say ALL of you will get super results, but trust me, alot of you will. Stop this fucking fap nonsense and start going out applying alex material and soon enough you will have an abundance of girls and frienship.

Try it for 3 months before you dismiss it as bullshit, just 3 months and I promise that alot of you will start to see alot of benefits which will boost your game 100x, thank me later.
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Resmat

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 what if you masturbate to regular chicks and not porn chicks
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AmasingSkills

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 I have no idea actually, I figure its way better and healthy for you. All I know is what I did and what I experienced.
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AmasingSkills

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0bbi wrote:
 interesting. what about not fapping but having regular sex? what about that dopamine then?

as a sidenote i noticed that after a week of no fapping/sex i feel this primitive drive that makes sex a lot more pleasant and fulfilling. 
I think regular sex is OK and just healthy,  I did have sex during this period but I under no circumstanses did touch my penis or watch porn. 
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AmasingSkills

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 Oh and yeah, sex becomes way much better, WAY WAY BETTER when you dont fap to porn. You basicly walk around horny like an animal all the time and when you bed the girls you are VERY aggressive and uh.. "primitive" ? in bed, they love it.

Question: Dont you become needy when ure horny?
Answer: No, you dont. You become needy when you need their VALIDATION to feel good about yourself. When you already feel good, wehn you dont let their response dictate your state of being, you wont be "needy", you will be very very sexy.
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 this is the first post ever that makes any sense on this topic, congrats
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AmasingSkills

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AlexV wrote:
 this is the first post ever that makes any sense on this topic, congrats
Thankyou. Exactly what is it you havent understood before? I know Ive been in basicly the same place where all theories goes round anround in my head and I cant connect it all, but now I have.
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Bartle B

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 very good post... gonna try it 
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ImBringingSexyBack

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You have inspired me to try it again. I once did it for around 2 - 3 weeks and I did find it difficult at times because it's so ingrained... I heard some say it's beneficial in terms of hormones to jerk every 7-10 days and I think there is research out there to support this. Personally I know I have to go full No fap as it's easier.
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I did no fap a few years ago and I agree w OP. Back then was before I got in the game so I didn't experience massive results but I remember being SOO present and not giving a fuck. Even to the extent I became worrid I was becoming assexual lol. But I ll bet from no fap plus taking more initiative to talk to girls will produce results. I'm going to try iy again
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AmasingSkills

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 I know some people have experienced some weird symptoms under their "90 day challange", thins like losing ALL LIBIDO for some days, or getting depressed one day and feeling hyper the next one. Basicly the psychologists studing this shit right now says it might have to do with your dopamine receptors healing themselves, which for a period of time will make you take up even less dopamine which will result in the low libido, motivation etc.

Thing is, dont give up if you get that, its a strong sign something good is about to happen, after some days you will be on top of your game again.


Personally I did not experienced that, but I know people who has.
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