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March 26th, 2017
Wing games a girl that I was interested in. I'm pretty pissed right now
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#11
ambiguity

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Join Date: 10/28/2009 | Posts: 5327

Resmat wrote:
 on one hand i accept that this is just my ego etc. but it's also pretty depressing, this is a girl I really liked.. I still haven't come to terms with it. As chodey as this sounds, it hurts. I don't even get time to cold approach that much anymore..

Well, really liking a doesn't change the fact. it just means your idiotic and ignorant liking a slut.

We all know, 'sloot gonna sloot.'

OP is not doing it right.

My advice would be do what I do:
 
Befriend naturals, pull stunners, and SMOKE SHOWs before uploading pics you fucked around in paint to be a cheeky bastard.
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#12
PIMPIN

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 You put the relationship on "Hiatus"? You mean to tell me you study so much you don't have time to fuck a girl here and there. Go suck a dick you deserve to get your girl stolen. Like some girl is gonna wait around for your nerdy ass.
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#13

badmotherfucker

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Join Date: 12/26/2008 | Posts: 314

You didn't pull the trigger. he did.
Lesson learned.
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#14

Anti Cool

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Join Date: 04/07/2013 | Posts: 218

 wing sucks. i would stop winging with him. 
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Powerhouse

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my girlfriend fantasizes about stuff that would freak you out

girls just want to have fun buddy
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#16
Swanny

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Join Date: 11/20/2012 | Posts: 252

I don't expect other people to live by my values and standards of what is acceptable behaviour. If I did I would live in continual disappointment.

Like DL said, reframe it as a good thing. Tease the fucker too. If someone steps out of line around me i tease them into feeling guilty. Maybe take it further and have fun with it and brag to your wing how you got them together and you are like a pimp version of Cupid or something. Tell him to make sure he doesn't suggest the have a hiatus or you'll steal her back etc.

Then go out and get some hotter girls and stop using studying as an excuse. Don't tell me you can't spend 30-60 minutes away from studying to meet some girls.
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#17
dcampo3

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Join Date: 05/01/2012 | Posts: 1988

damn
that had to be the chodiest thread ive read in a while.

Chillax man.. get some more girls maybe? you can always try to fuck that girl your wing is seeing . I mean.. if you think you deserve it then do it lol
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#18

psychopathic

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Join Date: 08/28/2012 | Posts: 906

Yeah, pretty dick move on his part. He chose a girl over your friendship. That was his decision and not the actions of a cool guy with an abundance of women in his life. 

Move on. Find other girls and hang out with other people. Do not dwell on it.
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#19

Jon Snow

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Join Date: 04/18/2013 | Posts: 233

Not sure why everyone is on OP's case. Yes the "hiatus" thing is kind of dumb, but I think he's right in the fact that a true bro wouldn't try to hookup with a girl he knows his friend has a strong interest in. I don't think he's mad at the girl, just disappointed by his friend, which is understandable I think.

Don't take it this badly though. The whole "hiatus" thing is kind of lame though. I'm sure you could have made some time to see her at least once a week.
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#20
Blue x Light

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If you CLEARLY told him about your intentions with that girl you should cut that "friend". He doesn't seem like a friend anyways if you're calling him a wing lol.

If this provides any insight.. Personally I would never hook up with a chick that a FRIEND is into bangd her or not unless he's cool with it. For me I'm generally cool with friends hooking up with girls I've been with or seeing. For instance I have certain friends I'm close to and love because they "get it" so to speak and I wouldn't mind at all if they hooked up with “my” girls. Of course there’s a group of certain girls I like a lot, am close to or interested in exploring/seeing relationship wise that qualify pass fuck buddy chemistry. However these girls are always up for grabs even for not so close “friends” since it doesn't matter because I don't OWN HER. If she decides to hook up with acquaintances of mine, friends/close friends she cuts herself off from future possibilities of higher levels of intimacy with me or in other words LESS TIME with me which is naturally screening for BOTH of us (also screened herslef out from potentially being the mother of my kids which is a huge loss for her). I also know she will be missing out on next level intimacy, the shit most people will never experience in their lifetime (Think spirit sex, experiences of oneness with another human being that destroys belief systems and forces to reconstruct new ones.) Missing out may be the wrong word here depending on the girl because some girls don’t even want nor are ready for “real” love because they are satisfied with the superficial and there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. However for me I like it deep.

At the end of the day it doesn't matter. Cycle of natural screening continues. Get rid of the idea about owning women like they're property.. it's a sick social conditioned mind structure.


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