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December 9th, 2016
Approaching girls COLD as opposed to SLIGHTLY WARM (AKA she gets in proximity or eyes you...)
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Seedro

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*Strap on your flame cannons, I'm recommending for noobs to STOP cold approach if they notice after enough references of being a loser that it's too hard...*

"Slightly warm approach" I guess I'll call it, is an indication that you are TRULY losing your egotistical beta ideal that you will ever find "love".. or a monogamous and correct relationship that is permanent...

With slightly warm approach vs. cold approach... you DO NOT waste time on the girls that show you no attention, because, the fact is... IT'S HARDER...

What kind of pathetic male wastes his energy on a girl that doesn't want him?

Not only does it fuck you up WITH THAT GIRL... it fucks up ALL THE OTHER GIRLS THAT WERE EYEING YOU...

They now see you as another chaser loser guy that wastes waaaay too much energy picking up females as opposed to being a hero in his life. You can now only fuck the left-over females that are sooo horny they are willing to fuck a pure CHASER (or they force you to give them security due to your presence, or joy from your charisma... or money from your bank)... and only then they will pick the LOGICALLY BEST CHASER...

This is why complete fuck-up males who truly take the "chasey" frame will totally obliterate males who have better game, are better looking... more witty... or have more experience with women in general, or sexually... That's only the top of a lower tier. However, the fuck-up "chasey" male is at worst the bottom of the TOP TIER.

It's an upper eschalon of game for guys who are busy in their life, the easiest way to get laid, by far, and the most engaging... it gets the hottest girls... it FORCES you to be doing something TRULY GREAT with your life...

It's always better to tell a newbie to go and be as much of a hero as he can possibly be (the key is ignoring group think and trusting YOUR path to being a hero. No; you can't feed the homeless and be a fireman and pull models... although that will certainly get you some 7-8-9's consistantly...), then just chill in the club feeling like a fucking hero pulling girls like magic... rather than scrape around like a bottom-feeding tard learning how to babble with bottom-feeding tards until it randomly clicks that he's a bottom-feeding tard and starts to work on not being a bottom-feeding tard...

Start working on not being a bottom-feeding tard NOW... all your energy should go to not being a bottom-feeding tard... then your cum will be built up and you'll need a release... and trust me, at this point... your inner game will be real fucking tight in comparison to before you started this path.

Real. Fucking. Tight.


From this point you will finally have that decent reference experience of a girl eyeing you, or getting in your proximity, or RUBBING HER FUCKING ASS AGAINST YOU (Yes, this happens, if it's not happening for you I don't think you are nearly as internally dialed as you should be). That POSITIVE reference experience (girls like it when entitled heroes game them, did you know?) will be worth 1000 approaches before you pushed yourself into the hero frame.

Use your results with women to gauge how much work you need to do on yourself so you can ALWAYS properly feel entitled.

Only a sociopath can fake entitlement... heroes and sociopaths get the top-tier stunner girls. Period.
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4j-CL7A7B7k - Chemical Integration vid
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http://www.rsdnation.com/node/443667 - Building an army of bad bitches, one boring office broad at a time.
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/455130 - Be a hero, get chased, less cold-approaching, more warm-approaching.
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Runn089

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I don´t know dude, let´s see a total noob apply this, work on his non-game stuff in life and transform from a chode to a rich and successful chode.

I can see the point if you´re already cool/good with girls, Distant Light´s Lifestyle (from what I understand) is built around non-cold approach.

I just can´t envision a world where a newbie becomes good NOT doing cold approach AT ALL. It´s pretty much giving up because it´s too hard and thereby setting a horrible frame, that is "you have to be successful in your life in order to get girls" cause we all know it´s bs.

If you´re in the club self-amused and doing stuff that builds up your state I think that for most guys cold approach is PART OF THAT - not because they want to fuck every girl they talk to, but because it´s part of an enjoyable process - expression includes cold approach cause it contains so much fun experiences (challenging yourself, drawing the girl into your reality after initial resistance etc.)

Let´s see what guys from both ends from the spectrum think, really advanced ones and newbies alike (newbies that try it of course, KJ probably think it´s the best idea ever anyway)...

But hey, I like the classification "slightly warm". After all if a chick keeps looking at / dancing in front of you you do have somewhat of initial value...
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Seedro

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I recommend everyone does cold approach at the beginning... a newbie will have a hard time even knowing what a good or bad sign is, this is true... some people will get their results and be the exact amount of hero they want to be... some people really don't want that responsibility and don't even WANT stunner girls...

A lot of this forum IME does indeed want the stunners, and values high quality women over high numbers of average women.

...but we've all seen these dudes that no matter what, no matter how much they approach, they NEVER get better... there has to be a reason for this... also a reason why guys who are really good slip... their skills are identical... but the reason they are slipping is because they aren't on their path to being a hero, thus they start losing to top-tier males in-field, but their skills still grant them access to the average girls and they become satisfied from that...

To pull big numbers, no, you don't have to be a hero. To pull stunners, you do have to be a hero.... or a sociopath... and a "hero" version of a sociopath (antihero), at that.

IME all stunner girls have one thing in common, they prefer fucking men who are heroes... you CAN fuck them if you aren't a hero, this is what makes it so difficult to figure out that they prefer heroes...

Average girls, ironically... may prefer NON-hero men, more average men, since they are more comfortable.

This forum in general is made up of people who are nearer to a hero than to an average dude (we have the balls to admit we are failures in the area of our life that allows our DNA to pass on... hows that for hero-level-humbleness?)... my game is always fucked up when I slip into not living up to my hero potential...

Again, I'm not asking to wait for results in group think terms of being a hero (nobel peace prize or no pussy! lolno...)... I'm waiting for you to get horny with the hero frame...

The only results you need is that you've shown yourself as a hero for a large enough chunk of time to gain that much more entitlement and to deserve that much better of a girl...

...obviously the longer you hold that hero frame and more often you keep that hero frame + the more intense and intelligent your hero method is, is how much these girls will respond to your entitlement.

My major underlying premice is that women can detect if you are logically deciphering the world around you and are in the process of modifying it in one way or another, either for more suffering, or more joy... the more you do in general is your "X factor" or your inner game level.

It's really not that unrealistic of a premice, since the average female does less in the logical world outside of this very "idiot-savant-esque" testing of a males potential... I'm basically admitting a womans lifetime experience testing males congruence means I CANNOT pull the wool over her eyes like many PUAs think... and when a PUA THINKS they are pulling the wool over a girls eyes, it's probably because she was horny and let it happen. Thus tricking those males into thinking being a hero/antihero doesn't matter.
Runn089 wrote:
I don´t know dude, let´s see a total noob apply this, work on his non-game stuff in life and transform from a chode to a rich and successful chode.

I can see the point if you´re already cool/good with girls, Distant Light´s Lifestyle (from what I understand) is built around non-cold approach.

I just can´t envision a world where a newbie becomes good NOT doing cold approach AT ALL. It´s pretty much giving up because it´s too hard and thereby setting a horrible frame, that is "you have to be successful in your life in order to get girls" cause we all know it´s bs.

If you´re in the club self-amused and doing stuff that builds up your state I think that for most guys cold approach is PART OF THAT - not because they want to fuck every girl they talk to, but because it´s part of an enjoyable process - expression includes cold approach cause it contains so much fun experiences (challenging yourself, drawing the girl into your reality after initial resistance etc.)

Let´s see what guys from both ends from the spectrum think, really advanced ones and newbies alike (newbies that try it of course, KJ probably think it´s the best idea ever anyway)...

But hey, I like the classification "slightly warm". After all if a chick keeps looking at / dancing in front of you you do have somewhat of initial value...

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http://www.thescienceforum.com/new-hypotheses-ideas/23360-chemical-integ...  - Stay ahead of the curve of males by staying evolved... evolved = get poose (updated April 17th, 2013)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4j-CL7A7B7k - Chemical Integration vid
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/256096 - My important game ideas compiled
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/443667 - Building an army of bad bitches, one boring office broad at a time.
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/455130 - Be a hero, get chased, less cold-approaching, more warm-approaching.
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ApproachMachine5000

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eh, i didn't understand one single word in this topic. Seedro, i'm assuming english is your 2nd language?
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ApproachMachine5000 wrote:
eh, i didn't understand one single word in this topic. Seedro, i'm assuming english is your 2nd language?



No, he's just really weird.
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#6

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OP makes a reasonably good point: some girls will just naturally feel some attraction to you just from seeing you, the same as you naturally feel some attraction for some girls just by looking at them. Being able to figure out which ones are naturally attracted to you is a good skill to have, because it means your approaches go easier for those girls.

Of course, this presents a problem if a girl has not even noticed you in the first place; she hasn't had a chance to become attracted. This is why pre-opening things (peacocking, social proofing, merging sets, etc) is valuable: (1) to get girls to notice you before you approach, and (2) to get girls who had no opinion of you to have some positive opinion for you (to get girls to go from "cold" to "slightly warm").
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 so.many.words.wasted.
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Skillful

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Basically, what I understood from your post is to open girls who give you signals and not go for the ones who dont communicate with you.
But how tight would your game be if you didnt care about what she thinks and you just approach with a good vibe and push it through, not fearing anything. And if it doesnt work, then fuck it, try the next one.
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Swanny

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Cold approach is fun.
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