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December 10th, 2016
Teenager, high school, need advice
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IReadyrSoul

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Join Date: 06/06/2013 | Posts: 19

 Hi, my name is Gustavo, Im from Brazil, 17 years old.
First of all, my english may not be as good, but I will do my best. 2nd, this is not a victim mentality post, I just need someone to tell me a way.

Okay, lets go. I'm in the last year of high school and suffer from some social anxiety, especially at school. It's been some time since I kiss a girl and I want to fix things.

I have thick glasses, which makes my eyes giant, I have essential tremor and a light level of obsessive compulsive disorder,but that is enough to make me worry a lot about my appearance and an average amount of acne marks (fourth month of accutante, no more acne, just marks). 

I also have some periods of depression, which got me to thinking about suicide, Im a little better at thi point

Im already called ugly by a girl, telling to her friend :/

Despite all this I can still find me good looking and attractive sometimes, and some ugly girls were attracted to me -lol 

My social circle is pretty snall. Basically, I have two close firends, one hs a girlfriend and the other is the biggest chode you ever seen in your life.

As I've said, I'm 17 years old, and can not go to night clubs, besides being very rare for a party to which I can go.

I repeat, this is not a victim mentality post, but I need an advice, 

What can I do? Day game cold approach is possible? Since I've seen a lot of guys saying to others to relax and not to cold approach in my age in posts about high school

ty already
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Tigereyes

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Join Date: 04/04/2013 | Posts: 524

Go to the gym, relaaaaaaaaax, and approach girls of your age range
cheer up
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JohnM

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 At the moment what do you do with your time after school is over?
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'Jonathan'

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 Get a job, Go to the gym save up for contacts, eat healthy, just greens and meats no grains no cheap carbs (if it has carbs and its cheap domt eat aka grains rice potatoes etc.)

if you live in a city do some daygame and lie that your in first year of uni in another city and your taking a year off

Relax i was 17 2 years ago just enjoy life dont game your school mates chat with them tease them fuck around w/e but domt game them. In highschool jt really is about who is Cooler in the whole grade then its who's cooler in the whole crew/clique its a fucking retard jungle dont worry about it

Keep at it and before you know youll be railling chicks on the regular 
your lucky most people start in there 20's and 30's
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'Jonathan'

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 sorry i wrote that on my phone
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la leuce

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 Ugly brazilians don't exist.

You're a senior now? How long until you graduate? It matters.
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Nyal

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Sup man
I've been in a similar situation.
Basically I worked on my personality, become more fun orientated and stuff.
It's been 3 months and so far it's paid off. I've made tons more friends and now get invited to partys and stuff.
Work on your looks, but also be social.
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IReadyrSoul

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JohnM wrote:
 At the moment what do you do with your time after school is over?
In the afternoon I play online poker, I can help a bit at home with the money. Just going to sleep too early (7:0 pm) because it is very tiring. My days of the week are basically this, school until 1:0 pm poker until 6:0 pm.  I repeat everything the next day.
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IReadyrSoul

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Jonathan wrote:
 Get a job, Go to the gym save up for contacts, eat healthy, just greens and meats no grains no cheap carbs (if it has carbs and its cheap domt eat aka grains rice potatoes etc.)

if you live in a city do some daygame and lie that your in first year of uni in another city and your taking a year off

Relax i was 17 2 years ago just enjoy life dont game your school mates chat with them tease them fuck around w/e but domt game them. In highschool jt really is about who is Cooler in the whole grade then its who's cooler in the whole crew/clique its a fucking retard jungle dont worry about it

Keep at it and before you know youll be railling chicks on the regular 
your lucky most people start in there 20's and 30's

ty man, I live in a big city, I will probably do some day game and start at the gym anyway.
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IReadyrSoul

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la leuce wrote:
 Ugly brazilians don't exist.

You're a senior now? How long until you graduate? It matters.
Yes, they exist, and Im not the only one hahah.
6 months to graduate now. We will have a graduation trip in october with some parties.
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IReadyrSoul

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Nyal wrote:
Sup man
I've been in a similar situation.
Basically I worked on my personality, become more fun orientated and stuff.
It's been 3 months and so far it's paid off. I've made tons more friends and now get invited to partys and stuff.
Work on your looks, but also be social.
ty man. Im not so ugly without glasses, but I can not use contact lenses :/
my personality is not that bad, but I am a little anxious, but after a few hours at school I get into a little more relaxed state
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