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September 21st, 2018
Distant Light Rants & Ramblings #1 (Long)
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#91
Naughty by Nature

Naughty by Nature

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chrome_bumper wrote:
DL has maybe 4 or 5 extremely long posts with very similar titles and "themes" so I'm not sure if I'm responding to the correct thread or not.

While I can't say I've read the OP very carefully, it does seem to be describe some form of, for lack of a better term, OCD 24/7 social circle game with maximum drama, interspersed with episodes of anonymous sex with eastern euro and puerto rican chicks.

The OP is often incoherent and rambling (no offense, I'm just being honest), so I must confess that I don't really know what his broader point is specifically. I'm just taking my best stab at it.

A stable, mature adult would want this lifestyle about as badly as they would want a hole in their head. Documenting, and instigating crying jags from unstable drunk party chicks serves no purpose except to stoke one's ego, particularly in the absence of any meaningful accomplishments or even the pursuit of them.

Anyway, I'm not even sure why I'm responding to this thread, esp. since the OP makes about as much sense as  a dennis rodman haiku.
LOL, especially the last line.

Check out '2000th Post: Distant Lights Philosophy Of An Attractive Man'

He's got some amazing insights in there. I don't do any of this club and party shit and frankly am not all that interested in that kind of stuff. But I'd love to hear DL elaborate on how to utilize this 'No Chasing' paradigm for day game or any 1-on-1 setting.
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#92

chrome_bumper

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Join Date: 10/16/2010 | Posts: 361

A lot of these posts are like salt tablets administered by experimenters in white lab coats: the placebo effect is in full effect here. If you actually and genuinely BELIEVE that these posts help you, then they WILL help you. But it's not the post or the "amazing insights," it's actually your confidence in your abilities after you read them which is critical. Does that make sense?

Let's put it another way: if you get fired up after reading a post, and have complete faith it will help you, and act upon it, it really doesn't matter what you read, nor who wrote it. IT IS THE FACT THAT YOU TOOK ACTION after reading it which is important.

You extracted something useful from DL's post, and that's great. So act upon it, and consolidate it. Otherwise, poof, it's gone.

FOR ME (not for anyone else), what I get out of DL's post/s is this: young kids with no responsibilities enjoy drama and occasional sex while being supported by their parents. It's not very useful to me.

FOR YOU, you got X, Y, and Z out of it. That's great. The key is that you feel good and confident afterwards, even if the actual material is more or less incoherent.

PS: Dig the potstickers and chicken wings in soy sauce!
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#93

Woodchuck

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Join Date: 04/27/2013 | Posts: 204

 whatve been the biggest resources in getting you to where you are? im in ny right now and i wanna lead a life like that.

also im 18.. do you think if i had the connections id be let into bars/clubs granted im cool enough?
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#94
Distant Light

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JohnM
Give your # whenever, its up to you...

Its funny a girl i ran into demanded i take her friend number and later in the night i was refusing to give my # to one girl because i accused our interaction being BS and too formal.

Onetwo
My life before was like most decent guys...

Knew only girls I was actively TRYING TO FUCK and wings. Sadly I had over 100 COMMUNITY GUYS #S which was more than actual women I knew. Now I have less than 10 hahahaha.

steveadrian
I think i got what you were saying hahaha

Yes it can be altered and you can actively control YOU in the gray area.

Textergmr
Sorry bruv no one asks me shit I speak nothing of it although some girls have met my mother, no one cares besides you ;)

It was funny the 1st few times now you make it seem like some BS to debunk me. Ironically, I may just live here forever since I get to spend quality time with my brother and his fiance. If I moved out I'd never see my family and i save money.

Naughty by nature
I guess you get it, i just post, dont care about negativity (at times it helps me be even clearer) because i love my life right now.

Difference between a day2 and an invite is that its not 1 on 1 nor a date. She is just chillin with you. You were probably gonna do it anyway and if she flakes no biggie because if you didnt invite 10 girl atleast you can go out alone doing it up.

Hahahaha your example did sound hilarious but yea hahaahah "picnic times with the crew what are you up too???? Bring your cheeks!!!!!" #NoLowSurvivalSkills

My daygame is very chill and straightforward, I'm almost bored as if i am saving energy. Get to the point, she is interesting, screen hard ok she might be cool "here is my #" i will see you. Randoms are randoms plain and simple.

chrome_bumper
Fair enough...although many guys spend 2k+ to be in the same environment i get into for free so yea of course no one wants to live like me... ;)

Ironically my NON-Party chicks text me most which honestly i will say i never followup on because its not my thing. This is why chica i was gonna date i had to cut off...I loved her and still do but if we dont mesh we dont mesh no biggie. She understood and now were done. HOWEVER, i know one girl trying to meet up with me HARD, but we don't mesh.

The whole live with parents joke is old now, that is totally irrelevant to everything I do. Thats a logistical thing which actually doesnt even hinder me. You trying to use it as a way to debunk doesnt work, it actually shows I was abit resourceful as every chick has took ME HOME.

P.S...Only 2 girls I ever opted to take home due to their situation BUT only 1 i ever actually brought back home.

Woodchuck
Start becoming "competent" at socializing aka "cold approach without chasing"
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#95

TexterGmg

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Join Date: 01/28/2013 | Posts: 290

 if no one asks you, that means you do not have deep conversations with girls and its just superficial bullshit like hey how you doing, what you doing tonight etc. prob doesnt last more than 5  to 10 mins cus if it did, the girl would figure you out. 
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#96

chrome_bumper

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DL, I'm not calling you out so much as I am trying to figure out what the fuck it is that you are actually doing. Your posts are rambling and incoherent and therefore simply impossible to make heads or tails of. You can call us cynical, but there seems to be a large dose of exaggeration and self aggrandizement which serve no other purpose than the aforementioned.

My only point is simple: your posts, if I were to impose some coherence, and a "message," is irrelevant for self-sufficient adults: we can't have our parents supporting us for the rest of our lives. Even if we could, it wouldn't be wise. We'd essentially be adult sized infants incapable of any emotional growth or capacity to fend for ourselves.

It's not a criticism of YOU, it's a self evident point that IF your goal is to enter the dick measuring sweepstakes (and there doesn't seem to be any other purpose to your posts), then you can't cry "foul" when people reading your posts supposedly taunt you about your living situation (mentioning your living situation is not the same as taunting you about it btw).

Simple translation: you're not the "man" as you implicitly claim you are, you are a child searching for validation from the internet. That doesn't mean I hate you, it's just the truth. Make of it what you will.
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#97

chrome_bumper

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Exactly.

All of the "self amusement" and "avoiding chasing" and other such games is a way of avoiding anything even approximating a meaningful relationship. Such as: what sort of ambition do you have? What sort of career do you have or want? What's your TRUE identity?

"Uhhh, let me finger fuck you!" "Yeah, no, here, take a shot!" "Let's go fuck in the bathroom!"

DL's inner game is completely fucked, and he is massively over-compensating to avoid looking at himself in the mirror.
TexterGmg wrote:
 if no one asks you, that means you do not have deep conversations with girls and its just superficial bullshit like hey how you doing, what you doing tonight etc. prob doesnt last more than 5  to 10 mins cus if it did, the girl would figure you out. 
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#98
Seedro

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So all I have to do is read Green Eggs and Ham by Dr. Suess and I'll learn as much about game?

Wat.

Yea his posts are a rambling mess... and mine are becoming more and more rambly... I've become more and more rambly the better my game is... less and less willing to correct myself if I make a mistake but my point is understood...

Back in my total aspie days I would agree with you that not only are HIS posts rambling nonsense... most PUA stuff is rambling nonsense... but an aspie can trust results, the more rambly the more results IME... logical aspie conclusion? Some kind of correlation, testing required. <3

I also want to hear about YOUR ideal life that is so superior to his... it's great to insult the lazy trust fund baby lifestyle... I do it all the time...

...the difference is I offer my alternative lifestyle which will FIX the trust fund baby bullshit in the long haul IF I insult the trust fund baby ideal at all... (I only tell people that I'm close with my ideals on social order for now, however)
chrome_bumper wrote:

Let's put it another way: if you get fired up after reading a post, and have complete faith it will help you, and act upon it, it really doesn't matter what you read, nor who wrote it. IT IS THE FACT THAT YOU TOOK ACTION after reading it which is important.


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http://www.thescienceforum.com/new-hypotheses-ideas/23360-chemical-integ...  - Stay ahead of the curve of males by staying evolved... evolved = get poose (updated April 17th, 2013)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4j-CL7A7B7k - Chemical Integration vid
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/256096 - My important game ideas compiled
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/443667 - Building an army of bad bitches, one boring office broad at a time.
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/455130 - Be a hero, get chased, less cold-approaching, more warm-approaching.
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#99

champ

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Thats cool shit  DL.  After going out so much would you say you're a good judge of character now from meeting so many people going out over the years? Are you more accurate than not most of the time in reading new people you meet? What I mean by reading people is like do you quickly know what you have in common with a new person you just met through cold approach? Also what I mean by reading people is can you quickly tell you and that girl are gonna get along? Or do you have to spend like 30 minutes or more to know that you like her if not sexually but at least as a friend?

DL you talk about screening the girls. Do you quickly and easily understand new girls/people you meet whether through your networking/social circle or cold approach? One of the ways I mean by understand could be are you accurate in acessing another girl's personality and acessing whether your own personality and hers will get along and have fun together vibing/joking around? What are some specific things about a girl that you meet through cold approach that makes you want to hang out with her again?  

What are your insights on Indicators of Interests or IOI's? Which IOI's (not obvious ones like a girl telling you she wants you or asking if you're gonna take her home) in your opinion are the most "telling" that a girl likes you enough to have sex with you whether it be that night or in the future?

DL when you're screening a girl what aspects of a girl  (non physical like her personality, like do you look to see if you and her have a certain value in common for example you and her liking a certain brand of alcohol or you and her liking a certain restaurant or whatever common value or if shes a good dancer) make her compatible with you to have sex with her? What is a question or questions you like to ask a girl that help you to get to know her well?

DL what do you think are the 3 most important things or most important thing to establishing rapport with a new girl you just met through cold approach?

Much much thanks for all the value you provide the forum DL.  Thanks n take care.
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I've hung out with Black Hipsters before and it's pretty much no different to this - Very "gay friend ends up with at the end" type of game. Kinda like Alex without the beer and aggressiveness. More "homo eroric" dancing, aloofness and pretending to be in a different bubble to the rest of the patrons. I usually bypass DL's threads on that basis, since we have two completely different outlooks on things. However, many ways to skin a snatch so it's all good and this is what you'll see if you're in high end venues and a social circle popping bottles.
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