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September 18th, 2014
How likely are women to cheat on a self fulfilled Alpha male?
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Energy18

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 This whole cheating thing has been messing me up ever since I started looking into it.  I'm done feeling like a little bitch about this. I'm going to become a self actualized guy and live for my own fulfillments...or fuck it, maybe I'll just get a cat. lol. It's time to let go of this fairy tale and accept that "You can never trust women" as said by Julien. But what if you were a self actualized guy, living from self happiness and self fulfillment, and had a girlfriend who didn't like going to clubs or frequenting bars. Does this lessen the chances of cheating occuring significantly? Or would she seek out others regardless of her lifestyle or who I am? Also I don't want any bullshit feel good stuff. Just honesty.
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Iam.

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Girls and guys cheat It doesn't matter who you are thats how the human animal works yo
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Tyler

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A girl who is into having a boyfriend it's pretty low.

Girls who are into being the "it girl around town" it's still pretty high, but lower than with a chump.

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json718

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Energy18 wrote:
 This whole cheating thing has been messing me up ever since I started looking into it.  I'm done feeling like a little bitch about this. I'm going to become a self actualized guy and live for my own fulfillments...or fuck it, maybe I'll just get a cat. lol. It's time to let go of this fairy tale and accept that "You can never trust women" as said by Julien. But what if you were a self actualized guy, living from self happiness and self fulfillment, and had a girlfriend who didn't like going to clubs or frequenting bars. Does this lessen the chances of cheating occuring significantly? Or would she seek out others regardless of her lifestyle or who I am? Also I don't want any bullshit feel good stuff. Just honesty.


Hey dude.

It's okay, everything is okay.

I went through this the whole last year with my ex Gf, kept on thinking and wondering if she'd cheat.
It got me to a point where it was a self fulfilling prophecy. I kept asking her and asking her.

Just reframe it - do what you want to do in life. The woman is not your life.

Broaden your experiences there are SO many. Women. Food. Cars. Beaches. Pools. Hotels. People. People. People.

It's tough what you're going through, but you'll find the way. Stop dwelling on her cheating, I learned the hard way.
Honestly I am glad to have went through it, now I've learned so much more and am happier by myself. Women are so sweet when you connect with them emotionally. So sweet beyond description. They are really what holds the world together when there is all this hatred, they give love value.

You are the man. Most people would not even vent out how they feel, but you're already there.

Next step is to take action and shape your life how you want it.
With experience comes new ways to see things, instead of being stuck to cheating as such a bad thing, you can grow and understand the love we all hide deep down.

At the end of the day,
Just look at the mirror and smile
everything is okay.
:)
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Manwhore

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 He'd probably give her permission/consent. 
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Tobias

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Manwhore wrote:
 He'd probably give her permission/consent. 
Such a good answer. 

Also another thing to consider more so than is the guy this or that is... is the woman a self actualized woman who is centered with integrity and doesnt want to cheat because it violates her own code. 


But that might not sound as great as you think. A girl who wont cheat on you may just break up when they are ready to fuck soemone else or change the rules of the relationship to open. 

One time i tried to get a 3 sum with an old girlfriend and her best friend for months... i couldnt figure out why it wasnt happening eventually i found out she had a boyfriend i never knew about in another city. Anyways she WOULD not cheat. So i told her to call him up and broke up with him. She did and spent the night then the next day got back together with him. Haha thats not the best example of a woman with integrity i guess.. but the point is its the situation.. you can see if a woman is safeguarding herself by choosing her situations. If she is a girl who is avoiding scenerios that can turn into sex shes doing well... Just like you if theres the girl at work that u know u like and u know she likes u and ur the last two at the work party still up... then you know you are failing... you should never be in that situation in the first place u should have went home or somewhere else a long time ago just like you should not be hanging out in a mcdonalds if your on a strict diet. The imagry and smells of food are going to continuously bombard your willpower until you give in. 

Or alternatively get over it... who cares what she does with her own body. You dont own rights to it... keep her into you if you want by enticing her free will to wnat you so bad she doesnt want to ever waste time on other chodes and if she does.... who cares? life is full of ups and downs everything gets better and worse soemthing doesnt have to be its greatest all the time inorder to be valuable or important. 
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depends on the girl
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Elamanopiskelija

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Energy18 wrote:
 It's time to let go of this fairy tale and accept that "You can never trust women" as said by Julien. But
No, no buts!
What kind of question is that anyway, fantasizing about stuff that you can't prevent
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Energy18

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 Thanks Tyler. When I'm ready to go exclusive I'll choose a girl who stays home and reads at night as opposed to going to clubs I guess. lol.
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CANM

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I will never, never, never understand why a guy would ever bring his exclusive mongamous girlfriend to a club or date a girl who still goes to the club WITHOUT him.

Total chodery. The only reason to every bring a girl to a club is if she's a fuckbuddy and you're trying to get a threesome going.
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CANM wrote:
I will never, never, never understand why a guy would ever bring his exclusive mongamous girlfriend to a club or date a girl who still goes to the club WITHOUT him.

Total chodery. The only reason to every bring a girl to a club is if she's a fuckbuddy and you're trying to get a threesome going.
Who cares. I could care less if a girl breaks up with me or cheats on me, since I could easily get a new girl. Worrying about what your girl is doing without you is far more chode. Weak, weak sauce.
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