Did not get laid but I did get 500 people to start dancing on the dancefloor; probably got lots of value from it but I really did not like any girls that I saw.
Fast forward to the beach next day.
1st approach. I was a bit buzzed and I went in to a 3set of girls tanning. -Hey I thought you guys were cute I wanted to talk to you (Said with confidence and unflinching eye contact)- Her answer was kind of generic as if she has been through the drill before. -Awww thank you-. Asked her age, 25 years old, and I was like..shit..then we talked about our prom experiences and I ejected. Nice to meet you, have a nice day blah blah blah.
I stayed sober the entire night.
2nd approach. This 2 set, my friend's like "Yo try what Vitaly did with the 3 questions thing". I was like...a'ight. Stroll up to this girl like a straight up BAUS. She sees me walking up, I crouch, look at her in the eyes and say "Do you find me attractive" and it came out like..DAMN SON, YOU BEASTIN'. She looks at her friend and back at me and says "haha, I guess" I'm like "Do you have a boyfriend" she's like..yeah, then I try to kiss her but she puts her hand on my collar bone and laughs and tells me that'd be cheating. I give up cause she wasn't that hot anyways. (She was 17 and had crooked teeth, her body was good though)
3rd approach. ON TO DA NEXT ONE. This 2set seating, chiiiilling. I come up and say "Do you find me attractive?" I say it in a tone like, say what you will, it don't matter babygirl. She looks at her friend like "Is this really happenng!?" and responds with a nervous wiggle and goes (I don't know) and I'm like "...Ok do you have a boyfriend"...(home dude was 25 and she was 20) I'm like coo' coo' have a nice day.
4th approach. Back at the hotel. 3 set. 28 year olds. I'm like, "Hey girls, me and my friends are having a little....."getty" at room 535, you should come." They respond with, we're gonna work out and then we'll see what we're gonna do" I ask their names, age and relationship status. My friends are getting hyped like..DUDE YOU GOT BALLS.. lol. I keep walking around like I own the hotel.
5th approach. 2 set. Swedish. 27 year olds. "Hey, we're having a little get together at room 535 y'all should swing by, we got liq." They're like "We're going to the pool now" "I was like, Ok think about it, 535" and then they're like "How old are you" "18, you" 27" they go, we're too old. I'm like, don't matter, come by later. and then they say "too old" and I yell from accross the hallway "535!"
No numbers, but definitely a hell of an experience for my first time cold approaching. I was saying things like I had been doing this for years. I completely forgot all I've seen in the instructors' videos but I did resonate with Alexander's "I'm Enough" because the girls found me attractive and I'm just a 17 year old high school kid. And they were like 6's and 7's in their mid twenties. Epiphanies.
I strolled up, grabbed her arm and in her intimate zone within 0.5 secs said "I thought you were cute I wanted to talk to you" homegirl had the anime eyes and said "haha, thank you". What followed was, due to my jitters, was a game of rapid fire, Name?Age?School?Did you like the movie? WHen I let her talk, she started investing but wouldn't look at me in the eyes, and her body wasn't facing me, she was looking at the floor flipping her hair, but had a smile the whole time. I sensed she liked me, but it died down and I ejected too fast too. EXPERIENCE IS KING
1. Talk slower, deeper voice.
2. Dominant posture and frame.
3. Let her talk, listen.
4. Contribute to bubble of emotions.
I was reading this thinking, not bad, but for first time cold approaching that's pretty killer! Obviously you are a natural, don't get your head crowded with an overload of info, keep it stupid simple and keep doing exactly what you're doing. More reference points...MORE.
Thank you for the love bro. I think my biggest problem is I'm not a good conversationalist and I talk too fast. I'll work on talking slower and deeper with my friends, also gotta work on my conversational skills. I'm not a natural by the way; I played baseball for 10 years and that's a sport of failure, between striking out and making errors, a dad yelling at you, you develop SOME confident throughout the years, so at least I have that, I can handle negativity, barely affects me.
Anyways, right after the movie, I went to the bathroom and as we're walking out we see this group of like 5 STUNNERS and my friend's like, DUDE DUDE THEY'RE GONNA GET AWAY (I always open) and I run up to them and I'm like "HEY, HEY, HEY, YOU'RE CUTE I WANNA TALK TO YOU" and she was like "No, you're not talking to me! and like dismissed me" I busted out laughing with my dudes, then I run back and I'm like "she's a fool" my friend's like "Cause this dumbass (another one of my boys) was yelling obscene things to her" I was like..no wonder! Hahahaha!
Then we're in the parking lot, yelling and dancing around like dumbasses and I hit MASSIVE STATE. As we get to the stoplight, this HB8 is next to our car (20 yrs old) and I hand her my phone and practically yell at her "Give me your phone number" and she puts it in no questions asked and says "I can't believe I'm doing this" and I'm like "what" and she's like "giving you my phone number, I don't even know you" I'm like, "Cause I'm cute" in breaking rapport (it comes naturally lol, I've never practiced it) and she's like "you're so straightforward" and I'm like "Well I get what I want" (have not broken eye contact), and she makes a face kinda like "Oh watch out badass" and then I just smile to let her know I'm kidding. Then she's like "Weren't you calling me a whore?" and I was like, "that wasn't for you, and it was my friend" and she opens her car door and looks back and says "You're an assshole" and my friend's like "MAMACITAAAAAA" and I just start cracking up in front of her. We exchanged names, shake hands, and I tell her "I'll text you" and she's like yeah you do that. It's probably a flake though because we don't anything about each other..oh well...FIRST NUMBER CLOSE :DDDDD