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May 28th, 2017
Once you've achieved your standard of success, then what?
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dave7-

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 I've achieved what I've wanted to out of pickup, because I've banged a few girls, madeout lots of times, went on lots of dates, had advetures in different cities. It's beyond what I was trapped in before pickup, which was how could I bang more than one girl in a year. So now I'm kinda of stuck in limbo or something, can't decide what to do. I guess I'm wondering what other guys have done when they are in this situation and head space?
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therebellion

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 Find another level and achieve that..
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Hyperion_Dark

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Umm, if you've achieved everything you wanted then shouldn't you be leaning back, enjoying your lifestyle?

That's the whole point.
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therebellion

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 ^ no.. not its not.
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dave7-

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I'll definitely consider this, thanks.
therebellion wrote:
 Find another level and achieve that..
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Hyperion_Dark

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therebellion wrote:
 ^ no.. not its not.
Yes it is. That's the logical goal and not some nebulous mystical "neverending journey" nonsense.
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Roccosifreddi59

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my opinion is whatever you want it to be "see the world through your own eyes" kind of thing, there is no right or wrong thing to do its a choice imo
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Armatron

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 Find your sticking points and work on them. Everybody has em. I'm getting plenty of action now. but My sticking point right now is w. upper-tier girls (9's,10's) I can approach fine but then I can often get stifled because I have some entitlement issues. Mostly from not approaching/hanging w enuff of em. There's always another level.
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therebellion

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Hyperion_Dark wrote:

therebellion wrote:
 ^ no.. not its not.
Yes it is. That's the logical goal and not some nebulous mystical "neverending journey" nonsense.

^ Evidence you've never been good at anything.
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dave7- wrote:
 I've achieved what I've wanted to out of pickup, because I've banged a few girls, madeout lots of times, went on lots of dates, had advetures in different cities. It's beyond what I was trapped in before pickup, which was how could I bang more than one girl in a year. So now I'm kinda of stuck in limbo or something, can't decide what to do. I guess I'm wondering what other guys have done when they are in this situation and head space?
Go enjoy life...

I wasn't going to go out today until I realized nicky romero, hard rock sofa, and richie hawtin were all going to be djing tonight. I can literally select who I want to go see dj for free. Tomorrow, either going to the 1st opening of a rooftop party in brooklyn or hanging with one of my female friends (who I mess with) and her social circle at another rooftop day party. No more chasing "cold approach mastery" and trying to get 1% better at daygame so I'm on the street trying to open sets. 

I realized, people should just get competent at this and from there just continually make their life more and more exciting. No reason we should be wasting our weekends doing a shit ton of daygame after a certain point. June 1st one of my gals shot me an invite to one of my favorite underground groups... (I was actually at the event in 1st video and 2nd video I recognize a few of the tall gals ha!)





The past 2 years have been much more enjoyable and fufilling than all my other previous years constantly trying to get better and better at cold approach. (Have zero to show for it) Nowadays, I can't go "off the radar" because there are people who genuinely enjoy/value having me in their life beyond some dude who can potentially fuck them
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dcampo3

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well.. aint distant light a heck of a wise man?

lol

how about building a business? im trying to learn internet marketing and be freaking rich as hell. I am starting a project wanna join?
Internet marketing mastery.. its like a whole freaking journey just like pick up lol
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