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DL and gravitys make her chase you game is 10 times as effective
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#51
hkmt

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Gravity wrote:
Hkmt:

1. Short interactions are the key to investment. When you bounce around the venue and she sees that you DO NOT NEED to speak to her because you can just go hook up with 8 - 12 other girls in the venue she begins TRYING to get you as you have become the popular choice in the club. Again I bring fun unlike anyone (including people that are actually on drugs hahahaha) so yeah people want to crowd around me...

2. Based on my experience 9/10 no matter how savvy the guy is it will be a blowout. Besides that once the girls meet me I've heard them RESIST their entire social groups and keep them in there, just because I was within proximity. But let's say it does happen because I won't deny the possibility, who honestly gives a fuck? There are other hot girls in the venue that are literally just waiting for me to do something. I don't give a shit about any one girl because I have enough options.

3. The girls always come back to me. Never experience them just suddenly bounce out of nowhere, and even if they do they come find me later.

4. I am much more stimulating than anything in that venue. This is what happens when you create the fun for other people, ALL THE ATTENTION IS FOCUSED ON YOU. And again who cares? I can just go out the next night and pull... I hardly ever give my number out but because I frequent certain venues people are all starting to recognize me and coming up to me asking "were you at xyz last week? omg! do you  remember me???" 

I see that community conditioning has really hammered into everyone that the more time you spend the better it is. I and every other pua I have ever met have proven this to be wrong. There is no such thing as the "solid" set, you could spend 10 hours with her and there's still a very good chance she won't text you back. It's just the way it goes. I keep my interactions short so I can dance the night away, I really don't give a fuck cuz to me pulling is a matter of time and not so much a matter of skillset.


One more thing when there is a mix set, how do you approach? Go meet the dudes first or meet the girls? Its one of my main sticking points...
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 Bumping. Great thread topic. I've found in my experience 'the make her chase you game works incredibly for me in clubs that are well lit, and not too loud to wear you have to yell to hear yourself talk. On wed night I decided to be completely non-outcome dependant and do tons of fun approaches with everybody. Got a nice little frenzy/make outs by the end of the night. Landed a nice 8.5 number/day 2.

Approach tons of sets.

Short, light interactions.

Re-approach later (important)

Have tons of fun no matter what.

Have nice grounded energy as you approach, relaxed, good eye-contact.

be PROCESS-ORIENTED, not outcome oriented, this is a great shortcut to gaining state faster.

If u hook, LEAVE with her at the end of the night. Even if it's only to walk her to her car.

Go for food, number, or kiss close. Isolate if possible.
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 Gravity is here in NY right now...

Funny his boy was raging at one point ALONE in the center of the club, in the span of I think 5mins THREE different chicks approached him. 

HKMT
No actual guideline, the main fact is to just say whats up and make sure he too is having a good time. Remember your not hitting on no one nor trying anything, just having fun socializing. Many times I actually chat with the guy for abit just to see what he's about since you never know how we might connect...
-  Might know a cool event
-  Might have some group activity planned in the future
-  Might have a cool apartment
-  Might know other hot chicks

Last night, while with gravity, this girl who somehow knew me was with a guy who INSTANTLY I say what up to, 30mins later he's on the sofa rocking out with me and cracking up at how awesome I am. Later on, I go to smoke outside and across the street this mixed group opens me. Dude doesn't even know good english but we still vibed and I end up giving the chicks my facebook since they want me to come to peru at some point in my life, hahaah.
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To be fair, this is what Brent Smith started teaching even before RSD was founded and it must be a strange coincidence, because I've seen people repeat his teachings ad verbatim many times on this site and in this thread.

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Distant Light wrote:
 Gravity is here in NY right now...

Funny his boy was raging at one point ALONE in the center of the club, in the span of I think 5mins THREE different chicks approached him. 

HKMT
No actual guideline, the main fact is to just say whats up and make sure he too is having a good time. Remember your not hitting on no one nor trying anything, just having fun socializing. Many times I actually chat with the guy for abit just to see what he's about since you never know how we might connect...
-  Might know a cool event
-  Might have some group activity planned in the future
-  Might have a cool apartment
-  Might know other hot chicks

Last night, while with gravity, this girl who somehow knew me was with a guy who INSTANTLY I say what up to, 30mins later he's on the sofa rocking out with me and cracking up at how awesome I am. Later on, I go to smoke outside and across the street this mixed group opens me. Dude doesn't even know good english but we still vibed and I end up giving the chicks my facebook since they want me to come to peru at some point in my life, hahaah.

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Yoda wrote:
To be fair, this is what Brent Smith started teaching even before RSD was founded and it must be a strange coincidence, because I've seen people repeat his teachings ad verbatim many times on this site and in this thread.

=)


Yep, huge fan of brent smith, I'm part of his facebook group which is why you may have heard a handful of quotables... (Which the level of positivity is ridiculous)

Ironically though, it was rick h DYD talk that actually made me check out brents stuff since I realized they were good friends. Had it not been for him I would've never explored "not chasing" and from there I realized this was an area that was still very unknown in terms of what is possible. I still think its unchartered territory in terms of what is possible because time and time again my personal experiences shocks me. 
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Distant Light wrote:

Yoda wrote:
To be fair, this is what Brent Smith started teaching even before RSD was founded and it must be a strange coincidence, because I've seen people repeat his teachings ad verbatim many times on this site and in this thread.

=)


Yep, huge fan of brent smith, I'm part of his facebook group which is why you may have heard a handful of quotables... (Which the level of positivity is ridiculous)

Ironically though, it was rick h DYD talk that actually made me check out brents stuff since I realized they were good friends. Had it not been for him I would've never explored "not chasing" and from there I realized this was an area that was still very unknown in terms of what is possible. I still think its unchartered territory in terms of what is possible because time and time again my personal experiences shocks me. 



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 Yep that was an awesome video of rick h...

Again rare for men to experience such a dynamic and even more ironic is that there is a 3rd guy who I personally know, he was on DYD and moved to NY maybe 2 years ago. Ran into him at one of the top venues, turns out he is probably the only well known guy that I personally know that lives a RIDICULOUS lifestyle...
-  He used to go to the hottest venue almost weekly (the place literally had ALL hotties as rsd nathan's old intern would say "there is nothing under an 8 here" and it's also where I met pdidy)
-  He does the typical U.S social circuit (Coachella, Sundance, Hamptons)

By this time I had already been living the life I live BUT seeing others who live different lifestyles compared to me always fascinated me and ironically many of brents friends live similar over-the-top lifestyles.
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 haha, I remember when I almost got killed doing that "beasting" nonsense.
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Guys why you put so much effort in try to fit/uunderstad/relate to/ etc the way Gravity see his method. Its HIS way of seeing it. You have to develop your own. Take whats works for you[after trying obviously] and discard the rest.
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