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December 8th, 2016
Julien's Eye Contact Exercise (Are These Eyes TOO Creepy???)
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matt_c

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Julien posted this video:



So I did a little eye contact exercise. Here's what I learned.

- Making your eyes look intense has nothing to do with using your eyes. It's all about your mind's focus. When you make the subject more and more one tiny little point, and focus on the "essence" of that tiny little point, and be extremely present to it, your eyes NATURALLY become intense. You don't have to try and widen your eyes or stare hard, just let something in your field of view consume your mind's focus and your eyes will do their thing.

- Your eyes will never look intense when you're not present to your visual field. It's also, from my perspective, impossible to be present to your visual field without being present to your body & breath first.

- Your intensity hits a whole new level when you (as Julien said in his video), try and PROJECT yourself onto what you're focus on. Like he gives the example of "headbutting" him. It's kind of "woo-hoo", but the best way I can describe it is when you try to make your reality CONSUME the thing you're looking at. To overwhelm the point of focus with your. Like you might imagine being almost INSIDE a girl's pupils haha.

- Here's a video of my exercise... It's kinda gay to watch... just me with a shirt on. But you can definitely see my eyes become intense as my focus grows. I learned so much from this. I suggest you do it as well!

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 i couldn't click the youtube video because i was already a bit gayed out by julien's demonstration and from what i can see in the caption you have no shirt on. lol
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matt_c

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^ LOL

Yep. I was like "fuck this video is gay". Well, here is a quick image:

Normal vs. Intense...

http://imgur.com/55hq9oJ
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Why do this if you are enough already? 
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 many people take what rsd as gospel .... yes juliens eye contact video was weird as fuck
ofcourse you topped that off no shirt guy ;)
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You forgot to talk dirty into the camera.
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LOL... Great points!

I know that you personally go out A LOT so this isn't necessarily directed at you, but a lot of people seem to forget the concept of FIELD TESTING new material!

Instead of asking around if your eye contact is "too creepy" why not simply go out and FIELD TEST it? :)

Nothing will ever be "too creepy" if you learn how to calibrate it... (If you sense the girl tensing up and being uncomfortable, ease it back.)

It's all about putting the pressure on her and then taking it off.

PUSH - PULL!!! ;)

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Watch UFC weigh in staredowns before a night out.
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Looks like Julien got the laser eye idea from vampire diaries.
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 I like the video man, and yeah you should definately go check how that works out in the field.
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Julien wrote:
LOL... Great points!

I know that you personally go out A LOT so this isn't necessarily directed at you, but a lot of people seem to forget the concept of FIELD TESTING new material!

Instead of asking around if your eye contact is "too creepy" why not simply go out and FIELD TEST it? :)

Nothing will ever be "too creepy" if you learn how to calibrate it... (If you sense the girl tensing up and being uncomfortable, ease it back.)

It's all about putting the pressure on her and then taking it off.

PUSH - PULL!!! ;)



hahha julie you are sooo gay
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