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Nothing but **Crickets** from the 10 in my previous post...Oh well, you live and learn. On to the next.
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Nothing but **Crickets** from the 10 in my previous post...Oh well, you live and learn. On to the next.
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Setting the Pace

invited tenessee girl ( girl who im in a "open" relationship with) over today.

She arrived. Greeted her and we hoped in her car to go get milkshakes.

We get to my basement. Chat for a bit and i immediately start escalating. She gets turned on. Gives me a lmr i push through. She claimed i only invite her over to have sex. Why dont i just come to her place?

Her parents are always around at her place so its nearly impossible to do anything without risking her dad walking in on her blowing me.

She basically wanted reassurance that i dont just invite her over to have sex.

I let her know we can be more free at my place, and enjoy each others company more sense we dont have her parents hovering over us.

Bam. Done. she complies. Start taking her clothse off. Bang her across my bed.

The bad thing about this chick is...She was a virgin when i met her. So the sex is pretty bad. But eh, someones gotta be her first.

There is pretty much no major enjoyment in sex with her. The blowjobs suck. She doesnt know how to give handjobs. She cant kiss. and she doesnt know how to have sex period. Of course not, she is a virgin.

But for me it sucks, and i dont enjoy it. I would say i enjoy her company more than anything and her feminine energy. She is a really good girl and different from your average "club" girls. During our sex i was just trying to get my nutt off with her and be done. In fact when she comes over i dont even want to fuck..Honestly.

But ultimately this relationship with her is DEFINITELY means to an end.

After sex, we talk for a bit and i had to let her know the deal.

I basically told her i do see other girls, and i go out with my friends to pick up girls. I even broke it down to her how i do it..

I even went as far to say i text, dance, and meet up with other women...i told her we both are 20 yrs old. We have so much of our lives to live, so many different people to meet. We need to explore life right now, and enjoy our these moments.

She agrees and she actually said she felt closer to me after this conversation...Amazing what honestly does. I can bet if she had seen me in the club, day game, etc with other women, she would probably flip out.

but because i was a fucking man and told her the deal that i WILL be seeing other women, it was a different perspective for her. instead of being lied to she felt the honesty.

I asked her if she was going to break up with me now, and she says.. "Why would i do that? I like you a lot. your fun. different than me. I really like that."

She ask me would i be mad if she started seeing other guys.. I say yeah i would care, but ultimately i would not be mad at her.

She starts to cuddle with me and talk about romantic things etc. She says the only thing that scares her is if i meet a new girl i really like...I say nothing...Thats just the risk she's taking..

In a nuttshell. I was complete congruent with myself, open and honest, and WILLING to risk losing her. Because i know what i want out of my life right now in the this moment, and its NOT to be in a  serious relationship..Now that she knows this. we can still hang out, meet other people, do our thing and be cool.

So i thought id post this to let guys know to be congruent and honest...even if it will risk losing something. You must be congruent to what you want in life and be willing to take that risk. If not you will be fucking miserable and unhappy.

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Going to be using this. haha. Love it.

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Todays Events:

-New video blog(

- Work.

- Crushed it in the gym. from 9:00 to 10:30. Chated with a friend in the gym and two cuties. Rolled out.

- Working FIERCLY to transfer from my current community college to a University in the Area. Finally got all required documents in and now just waiting on my admissions decisions. Words cant explain how pumped i am to start college next semester at a University!

- Currently i am working on creating a documents/blog post/journal entry that has all of my goals, values, and aspirations i want from my life. I really want to focus on aligning myself with my goals and where i want to go.

- I am also working on a bad habbit i discovered about myself. And that is trying to get validation from girls. For example, if i dont text a girl or get a text during a whole day, i feel the need to text someone just to validate myself and feel wanted. And if someone does text me(from reading previous messages) i can see myself coming off as needy and anxious. Its really interesting now that i am present more i can actually observe what is going on inside of me and watch my thoughts. I REALLY improve myself in areas of negativity i never knew existed.

- I realized this about myself and working hard to pull myself away from this needy behavior.

Anyway, Cant wait to go out and pimp it tomorrow,Friday and saturday. Its memorial day weekend. Gotta get my Allergies under control they are KILLIN me around this time of year.

Anyway, check out my vblog on my blog. Leave feedback if ya want.


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Todays Goals:

Find my Amanda Seyfried....


Love this girl...Watched a few interviews with her, and not to mention her movies. Definitely the type of girl i want to meet.  Not just because of looks but she is wholesome, expressive, not a medie junky or always in the media for something crazy, she is humble..just a really great girl overall. She has pretty much every quality that attracts me to a girl.

Anyway, had to make that apart of my journal so when one day i post a pic of a replica of her you guys will know whats up. ;-) ha.

On to tonights goals..

Hitting up a club tonight for "college thursdays" as usual.


1. Have a fucking BLAST.

2. Dont seek reactions

2. Dont be needy and desperate, making desperate attempts to get attention or to get a reaction from the girl.

3. Don't just get non-quality makeouts, but makeouts that actually come from a connection and not just "randomly" happeneing. Not that i dont want random 1 minute makeouts but i would honestly prefer to have a connection first..Just me.

4. Form connections vs just being one of those typical club guys that is just playing his card all night until he gets lucky with one girl.

5. Push through any and all shit test.

6. Close atleast 3 hotties of my choice and set up day 2s. Get the number for hooking up purposes.

Will be posting back either later tonight after the night is over or tomorrow.

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Last Night. Thursday May 24th 2013.

Went out with three buddies to a club. Apparently Tom Cruise's son was Djing tonight so as you can imagine it was crazy and packed.

First get into the venue one of my wings is in his head. Ha. I know the feeling, but it doesnt happen to much nowadays. Especially in a night club for me. Thanks to all the meditation, being present etc. Thanks Tolle.

My other wing goes in two a two set. I force my wing that is in his head to get in there...He gets in, and comes back to my withint like 3 seconds.

We go upstairs, see a group of girls looking over the balcony looking at the dance floor. a 5 sets. I pull my wings in and i go after the girl i want.

"Hello....(eye contact)...Where've you been all my life?"

Girl responds..Laughs a bit..Joking at her. She tells me her old high school. Told her i went there too. Hug. She laughs and knows im kidding because it was a all girls school. "Wish i would have gone there" ha.

Picture girl comes through, takes a pic. My two wings ejects themselves, the other friends are ready to go now..fuck...Im just getting started with my girl...Let her go, figured ill see her later that night.

Got into about probably 10 more sets. Just walk ups....One girl was with her friends, walked up..and just kept looking her in the eye with a serious face... "Hi"...She would say Hi back..."Hi"....She would say high back again. haha. I did this about 4 times until all her friends busted out laughing...I was in.

Pulled her to a isolated corner. Chatted up, she tells me how she wants to meet Tom Cruises son...OH THE SOCIAL PROOF this kid gets. Bet he wouldnt last a day in the "get your elbows dirty" style cold approach. ha. Im better than that kid, my mindset.

Went for the makeout, maybe to fast. Turned me to her cheek. No go. Eject.

By this time club starts to get packed. I see girl from the balcony again she is dancing with all of her friends..

Hand of God....She complies...Pull her end and we begin to dance..she puts my leg between her legs so i am rubbing her pussy.

Its on...

I spin her around and move this chode that was standing up against the wall out the way. Spin her around so her ass is on me. Grind hard again..

"Not bad.." I tell her.

She laughs and starts to go harder.

In for the makeout..Shes loving it, for about 10 seconds until her friends appear..FUCK. Where are my wings when ya need em..

Her friends pulls her away, like literally pulls her from my arms. Tried to win the group over. Not happening. Saw her later that night with some guy leading her through the club. Fuck. Thanks wings. haha. Gotta love em.

Had a few more good sets. The club was so loud and paked til it was hard to even hear yourself. It was CRAZY for a thursday. Luckily the club is 4 floors so me and my buddies hit up some other floors.

Got into a few more sets.

Older milf. See her coming down the steps while im coming up.

"Where have you been?" Playful vibe. I pick her up off the steps and carry her to the dance floor near by..Her boyfriend shows up..Fucking pissed. I role out, and let them handle that.

See another girl at the bar... In.

"Hello..who are you?"

She immediately starts to qualify herself, her boyfriend is the DJ. Staring at me. I still continue to chat her up. Her breathe smelt like cigs. Told her it wasnt pleasant. She laughs, tells me mine smells good. she eyes her boyfriend he looks and then she runs off.

Next set, oriental girl at the bar on the basement level which is usually not that crowded. As always, I was self amused having a BLAST.

Approach, my friend wings me. Ask her, her name. She says Tory. I tell her we have the same name. She gets all excited. In for the hug. Kiss on the cheek. Tell her my name. We chat up for a big. I try to put her arm around me. She is having a drink. Another chode friend shows up. Jumps in front of me. She gets excited to see him. Runs off. Try to pull her away. She wasnt coming, just made me look desperate. Rolled out.

Hit up a few street sets, nothing to much going on on the streets on thursday. Chat up some people. Walked up to a random blonde just grab her and hug her. and spin her around. She was with like 5 other girls and one more girl. They all come dap me up like they knew me. haha. They were heaed into the club. Let them go.

Anyway, overall not a bad night. Achieved just about all of my goals i wanted too. I still think i seek a reaction to much in some sets. Especially with 9s and 10s. I can tell when i do, when i dont seek a reaction, i actually get a reactions or great reaction from the girl..When i do seek a reaction, just makes me look needy and the girl doesnt respond, or responds negatively.

On about 5 hours of sleep up at 8 am for work. Plan to go out again tonight. Pimp It!

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Todays Goals - May 24th 2013 Daygame

Daygame this evening at a popular indoor mall in the area.


1. Approach ALL.

2. Learning to enjoy the process of approaching and opening.

3. Get 1 to 2 instadates.

4. Get 5 SOLID number closes. Regardless if she flakes or not. the goal is to get a SOLID romantic connection and close for the number if a instadate is not possible.

5. Escalate with hugs, kisses on the cheeks, handshakes. etc

I've found it better if i go out with SET goals to achieve for myself. Vs just going out to go out..Try it yourself. Writing down my goals, then reporting back on where i lived up to them. A good way to measure my GROWTH.


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Day Game Report - March 24th 2013

Get up with my wing. We head to the local indoor mall. Love this place. Fucking huge, tons of hotties. Great place for day game.

We enter the mall without question i go in for my first set. I usually like to keep it simple during my first interaction just to get myself going.

I also noticed that really having my voice tone grounded and centered helped. The girl can feel my presence and grounded state/frame just from the voice being solid, centered, and grounded.

Made a Vblog on that:

Open first set. Girl working in a mattress store.

Me: "Well Hello there..

Her: "Hi. Can i help you?"

Me: "Actually, yes. I'm not interested in buying a mattress or quilt. I have a little twin size bed big enough for two already. (girl laughs).

Me: "Tell me your name"

Her: " _____. Whats yours?"

We chatted for about 2 more minutes then i rolled out. No intentions just to open that first set. I usually use girls working in stores for my "warm up" sets during day game.

On to the next set:

Walk past a girl. Caught eye contact. Spin around. In.

Me: "Hello, Just thought you were completely adorable...Had to introduce myself. I'm ____."

She is all smiles. Solid eye contact.

Her: "Im _________. Nice to meet you."

Me: ________ (Said her name), How old are you?"

Her: "ha. How old do i look?"

Me: "Hm..I was thinking 22."

Her: "haha..Im 17..

I turn to run away.(Jokingly, im only 20 so not to bad)

She yells after me.

Her: "I'll be 18  in july! So its not that bad"

Me: "But..your still in High school. haha. How was prom? Did you keep your panties on?"

Her: "Haha. Foreward arent we..Well lets just say i enjoyed myself. It was great though. I just graduated. Headed to college in utah."

Me: "Great to hear. Thats what its about..Enjoying yourself. You missed out on being my prom date." (In for the hug). She complies.

We are walking togehter and then i feel we need to stop as i dont want to walk to far. So i just stop and she stops as well. Chat for a little while longer. Tell her to give me her number. She gives me her phone. Put my number in. Call myself. "Text me later ______. Your awesome." were her last words.


Walking with my wing..Spot a oriental chick in the open area of the mall. Love hot Asian women. ;-)  People sitting around with their kids etc. No thoughts, no making up things to say...I just GO IN(As usual).

Me: "Well Hello There.."

She is kinda hesitant at first. Stronger frame always win. I stick in stick out my hand of god. She shakes it. Im in.

Her: " Hi..." (Timidely)

Me: "I'm _______. Had to meet you. Noticed you on my way up the escalator. Came all the way back down to introduce us to each other. You should definitely feel special."

Her: "haha. i do. Thats really charasmatic of you"

Me: "So who are you...Whats your name?"

Her: "______. Nice to meet you."

Me:  "So what you up to?"

Her:  "Just got off work. I'm headed home right now." (I knew this was a instadate. No where to go but home. The fun is with me.)

Me: "Let me guess...You work at Borders."

Her: "Haha. Borders? Why borders?"

Me:  "Dont know..You just seem like one of those girls that like to cuddle up on the couch with a blanket, starbucks, and a great book."

Her: "Wow! You are right about that. But no dont work at borders. I love to read though."

As you see, how i went from the conversation going no where...After she nice to meet you, I always find it best to just ask "So whats up?" or "So what are you up to right now?" Just to get a context of what she is doing, is she in a hurry etc. and then go from there. Asking this allows you to take the conversation any where. You can ask a qualifying question, or make a statement depending on what she says. As you can see above.

We chat about school, college, what we do for fun. Fifty shades of grey. Then i go for the instadate..

Me: "So your headd home right?"

Her: "Yeah."

Me: "Lets grab some starbucks really quick.. We can talk along the way."

She is hesitant at first..probably cant believe she is about to go on a date with a guy she just met. How cool..

Making solid eye contact, give her a light smile, and begin to walk. She comes along.

We grab some starbucks. I was actually fucking broke. Couldnt even buy a coffee. ha. So i just got some water. Held her hand along the way. Hugged her. Really made a solid romantic connect. Told her starbucks has the best water. Their water is way better than their coffee.

We grab out coffee. Walk to where her car is parked. Grab her number. Hugged. Kiss on the cheek. Forhead. Probably could have went for the makeout. But i felt i will be seeing this girl again..No rush.

Had a few more sets after this. Including a super hot with looked like her daughter, and a friend. She hugged me like she wanted to rip me to pieces. Mostly all solid hug/number closes. Not really worried about flakey numbers. As long as i do my part, thats all i can do.

Goals Achieved:

Approached ALL.

Got 1 instadate.(Aimed for 2)

Romantic connect along with solid number closes.

Definitely enjoyed the process of just opening.

Voice/tone was grounded, centered.

Escalated with hugs, handshakes, kisses on the cheeks.


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Maybe headed out today to daygame with a wing. Family is in town though..Family first.
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