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Sluggler Day Game - From Chode To BOSS - 720 Day challenge (InField Day Game,Videos, pictures, text game)
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BorisTheBlade

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Join Date: 08/27/2013 | Posts: 18

I do agree with the direct approach on daygame. It's a really simple question? Why not? Cut your time and get the girls you really like and really like you. Indirect - just as in nightgame - is tippy-toing the issue, girls know. So why not man up?
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Sluggler

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Join Date: 09/23/2012 | Posts: 315

 New 5x5 Program...Results? Check out the vid...Deadlifting over double my body weight..Squat is increasing almost every workout incrementally.


I must say, to do this work out, you MUST BRING IT.

Its not designed for someone who wants to lose weight, but for people who have a small frame like me and want to built lean muscle mass. Also, i stopped taking protein shakes a few weeks ago..No effects on my performance so far..Or hinderence in my strenght or ability to get stronger. Ive also noticed i am still building muslce mass even without. Partly because my diet consists of clean protien.

Anyway, here is a vid i decided to shoot. Got interrupted a few times. Youll see my try for 400 and couldnt get it off the ground. I will be able to get it on monday. Plus i wasnt fresh, had already squated. 

also, you can check it out on my new blog. Gonna be posting all in field recordings, journal entries, etc there along with this thread: www.theattractiveu.com . Off to a day-2. 

Later. Everyone get out there and TAKE ACTION.


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Octavion

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 why did you stop protein shakes? 

Edit: also question for anyone I guess, just listened to some of the 2set daygame, just curious what opinions are on taking both girls phone numbers vs Just one? I mean especially in a daygame setting where you generally are not that "physically\sexually" invested off the bat it wont seem sketchy taking both girls phone number, even though obv you will be trying to "isolate\escalate" both of them when you have both numbers. (Assuming you are interested in both of them obv.) 
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Sluggler

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 @Octavion

Just decided to experient and see if i really needed the protein shakes...From the looks of it, i dont. 


LR: Pull From Day-2.....Her words..."its so big" .(In a cute spanish accent)



So i get out for my day-2. The girl is catching the metro so i walk down to meet her away from the monuments etc in the city. Its around 9:00pm. Meet up with her. 

I chat with her for a bit. And because of reference experience i know it is the right move to start baby stepping escalation right off the bat. I've waited wayy to long before and fucked up.

So after 3 minutes of seeing her. I stop her. Spin her around and tell her she looks nice. Tell her i like the colors she decided to wear and asked to one of her friends pick it out for her. Then i pull her in for a hug, and then hold her hand as we walk back to the touring area. 

I stop her in the middle of the walk way..Pull her in. Bang. In for the makeout. We made out for about 2 minutes. Hand around her ass, and hers around me kneck. Then i tell her we are putting on a show for the people around us and should keep walking. 

Btw, this girl is from Chille, so her english is pretty bad at this point. I know minimal spanish, so that should tell you something. Everything i said i pretty much had to break down for her..Told her we will work in her english.

We make out a few more times. We set and connect in front of the water. Talk about her family, mine, different things we like. Then i get up, grab her hand and start walking back towards my car..

Now, i was supposed to take her back to her house as we first talked about, but i told her... "Lets grab some food, head back to my house and pop in a movie. Dont worry about getting home. Ill take you, you dont stay that far from me. Lets roll" Then i pick her up and carry her for a little while, while she laughs giggles etc. So instead of waiting for her to say "yes" i just say tell her, and then continue along as we walk back to my car. Not giving her the opportunity to say no...

Also, ive learned that from reference experiences of MANY day-2s. 

I live about 25 minutes from where we were so the drive there, i just let her be the DJ and pick out our music. And was dancing and playing with her in the car. Just playing it cool, and being me. 

Here is where things get interesting, we get back to my place...and guess what....My fucking aunt, and grandmother are still up at 12:00am cooking for a cook-out we are having tomorrow...FUCK.

I think for a minute and just say fuck it...Whats the worst that can happen. Could have brought her through the basement door but fuck that. I walk in with her. Introduce her to my aunt and grandmother, took like 30 seconds. Down to my basement we go....People ALWAYS buy into the STRONGER FRAME. lol. Including family. ;-)



We get down there. Start to makeout with her and rub her pussy. I tell her we should eat and pick out a movie. We eat, watch a little bit of the movie. After she finishes, she climbs on top of me. I turn of the lamp..I whip it out. She gives me a amazing blowjob. Grab her hand..Lead her to my room...Bang city. She wanted to stay the night. Couldnt let her due to my people....Fuck. Cant wait to get my own place.. 

She tells me... "Its so big..I dont know if im ready yet." Panting, as i am starting to fuck her. She starts to shake uncomtrollably a few minutes through..

Woke up around 4:00am took her home. 

Takeways

Great experience overall. I use to REALLY struggle with pulling girls from day-2s. The problem was i was not escalating fast enough, and fell into the wrong frame and setting the wrong tempo from the start...THIS IS KEY with day-2s...MOST of them anyway. Some day-2s the girl already has it in her head she wants to fuck you..But more than likely, she wont have full intentions on having sex with you unless you bring those emotions to the surface which only takes some words, and escalation.

So its important to escalate. Not anything crazy or trying to be "flashy", but just baby step the escalation, be cool and normal about it.. Like holding her hand. then Giving her a warm hug. then Kissing her check. then Stopping her. Looking her dead in the eye..Makeout..Tell her she looks nice. Ive learned Its OKAY to compliment on day-2s. Just dont come from a place of seeking a reaction. And really mean the compliment, not just saying something trying to get the girl to like you(Which is reaction seeking)

Anyway, gotta handle some family stuff during the day. Out tonight!

Later

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Slugger you naughty boy! I do not approve of your behaviour towards women! Haha. Love it.

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Swizzle

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Join Date: 04/29/2012 | Posts: 477

That girl is really cute. Definitely my type. And you brought her to your families house proving you don't have to have your own place and a million dollars in the bank to have sex with hot women.
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seban

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Join Date: 06/08/2013 | Posts: 3

Hey bro,
Sluggler wrote:

So instead of waiting for her to say "yes" i just say tell her, and then continue along as we walk back to my car. Not giving her the opportunity to say no...
That is a very important thing when taking the girl home i think.
A few days ago i was on a day3 with a girl. And while just "walking around" we ended up near my front door. I just sayd 'this is where i live, lets come in for a few minutes'. The girls stoped, asked 'why?' and clearly hesitated. But i didn't give the opportunity to say no and just opened the door and went inside. And had sex

Sluggler wrote:

So its important to escalate. Not anything crazy or trying to be "flashy", but just baby step the escalation, be cool and normal about it.. Like holding her hand. then Giving her a warm hug. then Kissing her check. then Stopping her. Looking her dead in the eye..Makeout..Tell her she looks nice. Ive learned Its OKAY to compliment on day-2s. Just dont come from a place of seeking a reaction. And really mean the compliment, not just saying something trying to get the girl to like you(Which is reaction seeking)
Being normal and escalating is key :) putting your arm around her while walking also is a very good move. Just control yourself not to do it in a "your my bro" kind of way lol
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Sluggler

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 Starting to feel like....

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Friday Night


Out friday afterwork for daygame. It was pretty brutal. Approached probably about 50 girls. 3 Number closes. They are all probably flakes. 


It was fun though being solor, shattering my past reality of approaching females during the day time. Love it.


Out friday night with wing. Hit the streets. Started opening sets. Blowouts due to everyone heading to their bar or destination for the night. Got invited to hang out with a few girls. Had to eject because being under 21(January cant come fast enough!)

Towards the end of the night it starts to get better around the 1:00 am hour. Started hooking sets. One of my wings noticed how i now allow girls to game me instead of "trying so hard" to game them.

Instead of me going for the girls number, ill just let her game me and give her my number then she sends me a text at that moment. Even though its the same thing, i guess it makes the girl feel less "slutty" by taking my number then calling or texting me vs. the other way around.

Hooked this really cute black chick from Seattle with a phat ass. I let her game me. Number closes me. Then texts me a few minutes later.

Then...I see a STUNNER. Just my type. Leggy, latina, fucking hot. I told my wing...Theres my girl. She was walking past with a group of people. I go up. She was VERY hesitant and did not want to stop. I pretty much made her stop. Opened her, while her friends looked on from about 20 ft away. I told her i noticed her from a far off and how she is just my type, and how i go out a lot and i dont meet girls i like that often. She thinks im lying. So i tell her she doesnt have to believe me, but im just being honest...

Benefits of being sincere in the game. From me being in this same situation before i know her friends are ready to go, and she doesnt want to be left without them. So i adapt to the situation, ask where they are headed, and then tell her ill walk with them. Stick out my arm and she grabs it. 

We walk and talk and her guy friends in the group were chill and didnt try to amog or blow me out. We talk she tells me she is from new mexico and in the city until december working as a intern. We connect a bit.

When we get to the spot, she tells me she wants me to come inside with her and bring my friends. Fuck...Cant do it. Those bouncers were not going to let me in being under 21, unless i was willing to pay them, but fuck that. So i just tell her to take my number because i have to get back with my friends. She takes out her phone takes my number and calls my phone right then and there so ill have her number. 

Texted her later on during the night. She hits me back a few minutes later, tells me she is headed home. We chat for a bit. Then i tell her ill talk to her tomorrow. She sends a smiley, wishes me a good night. 

The situation proved so much to me:

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I can now attract and get the girls I WANT. From going out and taking action consistently.

- Becuase i now have abundance i am not extremely needy or desperate. 

- I am socially aware from reference experiences and know when and what the right move is to make.(For the most part. Im sure there are still some situations i will face in the future that are new to me).

- I dont try to prove myself to a girl or qualify myself, but let her qualify herself to me according to my standards. 

- Dont care if a girl doesnt like me.

- I now know how women have abundance but they dont meet a legit cool, non-needy, non-desperate guy often. 

- I dont try to do "flash game" anymore. I use to try to do shit i here Tyler or Julien talking about, or something i seen in one of their in-fields. Now, I just play my own game. Chill, taking action, grounded, escalating, push pull, and ultimately going for a pull or a day-2. Then deciding whether the girl deserves to be in my rotation. Thats it. Simple as that.

Meanwhile.....


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Will i try to seduce other South American women? Lol. Funny..

Out tonight.

Later



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 New VBlog: Being Sincere + Funny Chode Monologue




Blog Post:

theattractiveu.blogspot.com/2013/09/being-sincere-when-picking-up-women.html

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