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March 27th, 2017
Summer Growth Journal- Business + Game + Health + Overall Development- Applying the Natural Instincts Method
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#81

Getmoneyfuckbitches

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Join Date: 11/27/2012 | Posts: 495

 I'm back in Toronto.  Was tempted to go out but didn't feel like it for a hour of gaming so late.

After Montreal and reading the Way of the Superior Man I realize that I've been ignoring my purpose, which is business.

I also realize I want more freedom and ability to live where I want.  Toronto is a nice city, but I realize I truly love Montreal more.  I need to learn french, and move there.  Montreal has hotter and better girls, delicious food, and a more relaxed culture.  Everybody is chill as fuck there.   

I need to focus on business to make the money  I need to.  I've decided I'm going to cut back to 3 nights a week(Thurs-Sat), and 1 daygame session a week(probably Tuesday).  This will allow me to fix my sleeping schedule to wake up earlier and to focus on business. 
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#82

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 Thursday Night-

Its the weekend so I roll out to the Maddys.  Its been a few days so the first few opens I do don't hook cause I don't do approach the girls properly.

Grab the free beer from the 5 dollar cover.  Chill with the crew and I focus on relaxation.

Get relaxed enough.  Chat to various girls throughout the night but the only set that really was going well was 2  girls.  My girl said they both had boyfriends...  they were using us for our personality.

Go out and street game.  Start chatting to two Asian girls and walk with them for 10 minutes, try to push for food, and then afterparty, but they're not down.  I was running weaker game in that case though which fucked my wing up.


Lessons-

-Relaxation is the holy grail, get to the venue early so I have time to sink into a good relaxed mood.
-Be aware of group dynamics, my wing said if we had switched girls we might have pulled them....
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 Wed Night-

Roll out, havne't been out since Fri night(which was pretty bad).

Walk into the venue, and I'm rusty as hell.  My opening is weak, blahblahblah.

However, I remember the golden fact "There's no reaosn why I'm not enough".

I focus on getting relaxed.

Open this spanish girl and I can tell she likes me.

At first she's a little nervous around me and flinches when I try to get physical.   She barely speaks english so there's tons of silence and durring around.  Conversatoin is boring as fuck.

I stay in set for and just chat, around the 45-50 min mark she gets comfortable with much more physicality(aka grinding on my boner).  Do a very brief makeout to make sure she's left wanting more.  

My friends tell me to try to pull.  I lead her outside a couple of times and try to get her in a cab but she's not down.

She's trying to babysit her friends with boyfriends.  ONe of them ditches for my friend. 

At closing time(after being with her for 2 hours) I convince her, her friend, and a guy her friend is with to come to afterparty at my buddys place.

Her friend and the guy ditch while they're wlaking behind us and her mood is soured.  Bring her to the place and she sees her other friend without panties on my friends bed and freaks out.

Anyways she wants to go home so we drop her off at the bust stop.  She seemed pretty chill by the end of it.  Going to try for a day 2.  

Definately learned a lot.

Lessons-
Lead hard, and baby step the pull.  
-Near closing time, make sure to increase her buying temperature.  I need to work on this.
-Learn how to influence a girls mood so she doen'st think of shit like her friends.
-Silence is golden.  I don't need to be talking constantly.

Ironically two of her friends cheated on their boyfriends, while she as the single girl didn't fuck me.  Def need to work on my pulling and closing game.  

Happy with last night though.  Good reference experience.  She was pretty hot too and had an awesome ass.  Def want to go on a date with her.
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#84

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 Sat-

Daygame-

Head downtown, and try to do daygame solo.  Hard as fuck, end up doing 2 short indirect approaches....

Meet up with a wing and open a two set briefly.  I"m really in my head after all the walking around by myself an feeling shitty(some business reasons too).  

Go home and take a nap on the subway.  Wake up feeling better, on the bus stop I open up a girl who's decent and her friend comes in.  Good 5 min interaction and happy I did that.

Daygame solo is hard, especially since I hadn't been out since Wed night.  However, I need to get this handled for my personal growth and to improve my core confidence.  I'm probably going to do some daygame solo tomororow by myself for a hour.

Todd has an awesome video I watched tonight after getting home-



Lessons-
Solo daygame is hard.  Meditate before I do it.  Make my mind my bitch.  Get the first appraoch over with ASAP.  Don't rely on feeling good to do solo daygame.

Nightgame-

Hit up the Ossington area but my friends wanna bounce back to Maddys.... Waste of time.

Hit up Maddys and its pretty much 1:30 already.  Do some street game with the boys.  Chat up various ladies.  Had one girl who seemed to be into me but her bus came and I couldn't convince her to ditch it.  Talk to a few other girlies with my buddy...

Catch bus home.

Lessons-
Stick to one venue otherwise there's too much wasted time.  
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 Wed Night-

Get into the venue.  Lots of AA etc.  When you go out 2 nights a week its way harder to get into the right mindset.  See the girl I made out/walked to my friends place on Wednesday with but she's on some good looking tall dude.

Some hot brown girl I get intro'd to by my friend, but I hesitate and she gets pulled by another friend.

A little butthurt but near the end of the night I"m starting to finally open up.  

Open up two girls, its going well.  Suddenly I feel a tap on my shoulder.  Its the latina girl from last Wed.  I think she's trying to pull me.  Walk with her and her friend back to outside her friends house, but her friends goes to crash and my girl says I cna't go in.  Chill with hour for a hour, makeout, lead her for some food, but she's not down to let me in or to come to my friends place.  Leave pretty late.

Lessons-
Lead harder.
Try to get in somehow "I need to use the washroom".  Or pulll to an alleyway.  Take decisive action instead of being a spectator.



Sat night-

Its my bday weekend so I'm drinking.  

Get to the venue, and I suck at first.  Even while drunk my verbals and subcomms are sucking.  However, I remind myself to relax and that "There's no reason why I'm not enough".  Also remind myself to just enjoy the night.

Starts getting better.  Doing well with some girl until I mocked her job in Human Resources.  She walked away.

Chatted to various other girls, went to bloor street to street game.  Hook two pakistani girls, my girl seems down for afterparty but her friend isn't so they grab a cab.... shouldn't have let her chat to her friend but should have kept pumpng emotions.

Open a blonde girl.  Hooks strong and she's immediatlly telling me I'm funny.  Talk to her for 5-6 minutes.  My friend gives me the hint to pull and keys so I pull her back.  

Make out with her, but every time I went for her vagina she recoils back.  I should have whipped my dick out... I got done to my boxers but I def should have whipped the d out.  She says she has to leave after 40 minutes.  I need to work on my closing/LMR game.

Lessons-
-Try tickling her.
-Try backmassage, take off her dress.
-Instead of putting the focus on her body, put the focus on mine(aka take my dick out).
-Play to win, street game pulls mean I have to be fearless in escalation instead of beign a permission boy,. 

I've been out like 4 nights since I got back from Montreal, and I've pulled 2 out of 4 nights.  However, I haven't been able to close.  
I think because of the massive action I'm putting into business my personality and inner game are strong because I"m on my path.  Even though I feel rusty as hell, by the end of the night I'm doing well.
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 Sun Night-

Night 2 of drinking for my bday weekend.  Got pretty drunk.

Go to Sunday nightclub.  ITs a hard spot to pickup girls cause of how loud it is.  

I focus on having fun, and just hit up a ton of girls.  I'm just having a good time.  Try to makeout with a girl too soon and she freaks out a little lol.

After wards, we game on the street outside the club for 40 minutes.  Have some good interactions but my wing tells me I'm pushing for the afterparty too soon.

Fun night, and we debrief after.  Talk about some cool stuff.

I think I've had a realization.  Alex style chill game is amazing for girls you already feel entitled to.  For them, its the best form of game because its exactly how its supossed to be.  But I have a very hard time bringing that same kind of game to hotter girls in crazy enviornments.  

For hotter girls though, its hard to have that feeling of "there's no reason why I'm not enough" unless I push it through physcality/making otu with girls.  I"m sure in the future I will have that , but right now I really have to force it.

I see why Tyler follows his 6 steps.  If you're getting physical with hotties/or even making out with a girl at the club you'll be 10 times more comfortable with a stunner.  But if you're chill then its hard to build that entitlement because I havne't had those positive references with those intimidating hot girls.  By forcing the physicality you force your brain to get with the program.  

Lessons-
Cool insights about game, I can see how Tyler's game can be great for some clubs and street game, while Alex's chill style is incredibly effective in other situations.  
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