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January 21st, 2017
Summer Growth Journal- Business + Game + Health + Overall Development- Applying the Natural Instincts Method
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#61

Getmoneyfuckbitches

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Join Date: 11/27/2012 | Posts: 495

 Fri Night-



All my wings are at a college bar so I hit it up.

Its not that great, but decent enough.

I actually had a fuckton to drink last night, and I was still slightly hazy.  However, if it wasn't for my supplementation and drinking cocunut water I would have been 10 times worse.  Meditated for 20 min today, and then for another 15 on the subway.

Anyways, not feelign that great.

Did a decent number of approaches(10+) but wasn't persistent enough.  I need to honour the 4 times rule.  

The one noteworthy one was on this chubby girl whose friend was with my buddy.

I basically rubbed up on her, hugged her, and used her to get a boner and get warmed up.  I left her later when my other wing came in to replace me.  

Maybe I should have tried to pull her for the reference, but whatever, I really wasn't into her.  

Went home without much street game, since i had a lot of work to do.  

Lessons-
-Honour the 4 Times Rule at all times.  Especially with college girls they need time to warm up to you.  
-Physical contact with a chubby girl will always relax me.  Great way to warm up.  
-Next time, just pull a girl you are not into for the reference experience.  She would have probably given great head anyways...
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 Sat Night-



I wanted to go to a high end spot but ended up hitting up Maddys since I didn't want spend money and wings were there.

Maddys sober is not always the best spot for me.  

Have a bunch of shortish interactions throughout the night.

End of the night I start doing a little better.  Push my limits in terms of enduring tests.

I open a three set and two of the girls are massively shit testing me.  I pass pretty easily and stay unreactive.  

My girl first is hating on me majorly but then opens up slightly.  

Another girl is also hating on me, but I can tell she's doing it in a fun manner.

I fuck up later by not being engaging enough and lose my girls interest completely.  Also, there was a 3rd girl I should have engaged when I saw the opening to firmly "get in" the group.  Plus she seemed the friendliest There were two guys there too but they were random dudes.  These girls were looking for the dick, hence the shit testiness.  

Stayed in there for a long time through all kinds of shit tests.  These girls were hating on me biting a lemon, my girl tried to be racist but she guessed the wrong race, hating on me for not having abs.....   It was actually pretty fun because we were all enjoying the back and forth banter and shit talking.  I leave after a certain point because my girl is ignoring me completely but I stayed for in a long time and I flipped it aorund until I fucked it up by not engaging her when I should have.  

Go outside and talk to a girl waiting for her friend.  Boring ass convo, and I didn't lead it enough,  Plus wasn't physical enough either.  In the prior interaction the girls provided the spice by shit testing which made the interaction fun.

Lessons-
-Engage the girls when you see a break in their defenses. 
-Group dynamics, I should have engaged the 3rd girl when possible cause I would have definatley gotten in with her(3rd girl was hottest, most friendliest too).  
-Enduring shit tests is like building a muscle.  Girls get wet for the unreactivity.  
-When a girl is very chill but friendly, find ways to self amuse myself.  

Overall solid night.  

I need to start hitting up more high end venues to make my game better.  I've decided this week I'm going to skip my drunk night and go to high end spots Thurs.  Maybe Friday too.  I'll go solo if I have to.  College spots are all good, but going to places with the hottest women with the most intidating atmosphere is the best way to become centred fast.  
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Sunday Night-



Go out with the aim of simply having fun at the Sunday night.

Gravity is there perfect.

We just had a fucking blast dancing.  

FUN FUN FUN.

Had some short interactions here and there with chicks.  Messed up a few girls hair.  Danced with some chick and her friends for a bit but didn't see her again.  

Overall the night was great.  A small group of guys essentially made the venue awesome, because we just went crazy on the dancefloor.  Girls were orbiting around us too, and hot girls would make eye contact with me.

Tonight was awesome because even though I wasn't really going for the girls, they were opening a lot easier because I was bringing the fun.  Hot girls are addicted to fun, its like crack to them.  

I'm probably going to hit up some daygame tomorrow with the boys.

This week I want to hit up high end spots on Tues, Thurs, Fri, and Sunday if possible.  Maybe Sat if a connect I made tonight pulls through for me.
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Hey man where are you based? seems like you have a good drive to go out and make this happen. Keep going man
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#65

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Didn't go out today since it was rainy.  Worked on business and then hit up the gym. 
Starchild. wrote:
 
Hey man where are you based? seems like you have a good drive to go out and make this happen. Keep going man
Hey I'm based in Toronto.  

Thanks for the kind words, I'm improving fairly decently each week and I'm confident I'll have a rotation by mid-August.  I love the internal changes happening to me.  
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 Tuesday Night-



A good friend of ours was leaving.

We decided to drink and go to Sneaky Dee's.  It was dead there.

Me and my friend have a good talk.  He had some feedback to give me-

-Think less.
-Don't half step it.  Commit 100 percent.
-Ignore my mental chatter.  

Walk to some other random bar, I'm a little drunk but not too bad.  Just had a few drinks.

Talk to this cute girl, and then switch to her other cute friend.  ITs going well but I realize my friends are all gone and I try to find them since my buddy's leaving and I want to hang with him.  

Eventually end up finding them outside the Tues high end spot.  

Chill outside there and we're all macking on different girls walking by.

At first I'm uncomfortable but then I start talking to this cute brunnete girl.

She's over the rope but  I get physical.  I make out with her just for the fuck of it.  

She's a bit defensive and telling me about how her and her friend need to cab back home.   I try to convince them to go for food.  Her friend's being bitchy and saying how they are lesbian and I'm figuring that its not going down.  I reply back "How do you feel about your girlfriend just making out with me".  Lol, that was a bad move cause her friend didn't see it.  My girls like "look you got me into trouble".  They left while her friend berated her for making out with me.   This was a bad idea cause my friend actually came in at the end and if I hadn't said that we might have had a chacne at pulling.

Still a good night, made out with a hot chick outside a club that I'm typically a little stifled by.

Lessons-
1.  Go hard, don't half step it.  Closer mentality and approach everything.
2.  Don't piss off the friend, just get one of my wings into the set to occupy her.  
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 Wednesday Night-

Hit up Sneaky Dee's pretty late 1 am.  Its open till 4 though and I stayed till 3 until I had to go home because of work I needed to get done.

I approached a lot tonight but lacked the persistence and didn't follow the 4 times rule.

Gayyy, its like when I'm an appraoch machine I don't focus enough on staying in set... but when I'm doing less appraoches I tend to be more persistent.  I need to learn to combine the two.

Notable interactions-

1.  Asian girl, first interaction went well and reapproached her a 2nd time.  Didn't engage her friend though.  Should have stayed in set and played to win because she liked me.
2.  Some random blonde chick I danced with for a bit, I should have walked with her to help her find her friends.  
And a whole bunch of other interactions I didn't push hard enough, or stayed in set.

I need to stop not persisting.  I feel like shit for that.

lessons-
Persist in set.  Stay in there, why the fuck am I leaving.
-4 times rule, appraoch girls multiple times.  
-More meditatoin, I wasn't present at all tonight.
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 Thursday Night-



I take a nap and wake up really late.

Get to my usual Tues high end spot at 1 am.  THis place is pretty awesome on Thursdays.  Hot girls everywhere.  

Feel a lot more comfortable tonight, yet didn't push my limits enough.  I feel comfortable here, but I'm still subconsciously not pushing as hard as I could, espeically terms of persistence, and reapproaching girls.

Open a good number of girls. 

My bud opens some girl and open the friend(hot).  I get physical and super eye close eye contact.  Tell her I have a small penis.  She was other looking for dick or arousal.  Dance with her a bit, then her and friends walk off. See my wing with her later and I approach her friend since he's dancing with her.  Her friend blows me out, but I didn't persist enough with and didn't follow 4 times rule.  I know if I stayed in she would have been flipped.   Wasn't even a real blowout.  

I didn't follow the 4 times rule enough tonight.  The venue is small so you feel that if you fuck up people will see you, but thats no excuse. I gotta hit shit up and follow the 4 times rule and persist in set.  There was one girl I persisted pretty hard with, reappraoching multiple times and she kept blowing me out.  

Also, I need to go for girls standing not girls walking.  

Going to this venue makes me realize I need to start making connections soon and befriend bottle buyers since a lot of the really hot girls are at the booths.  

Lessons-
-Always follow 4 times rule.
-In this venue find the girls standing around and appraoch them.  10X more likely to hook than a girl walking through although the girls walking through are a great way to build social momentum and warmup.  
-Start networking.  
-Don't take naps in the evening otherwise I won't wake up in time.
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 Friday Night-

Get downtown to college bar. 

I'm in my head cause of angry client who just emailed me.

Slowly warm up, being kind of a at the beginning.  

Talk to various girls and get more relaxed.  

Approach this girl sitting down whose friend is with my friend.  


Engage her and its going well, I'm slightly physical(hand on shoulder, hugs every few minutes).  

A guy comes in, I think he's being friendly so I let him talk.  In reality he was trying to steal her... It takes me too long too realize that he's jacking her, and I'm pretty shocked that he'd something like that(I know this guy).

Anyways I"m put in the reactive role and I lose her.  He leaves with her.

Appraoch girls after that.  Find this one brown chick I appraoched a few months back, and get physical wit hher.  Try to guard the door and walk her out but she walks out fast and into a cab.

Hit up bloor and spadina area for solo street game for 40 minutes.  Nothing hooks.

Lessons-
-When a guy comes into AMOG keep talking to the girl and don't let him get a foothold.
-Getting butthurt = better for my game.  Embrace the pain.  
-Roll with the right crew.
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 Saturday Night-



Meditate for 40 minutes today, amazing meditation session.  

Get out of my house super late, at 12:30.  Meet up with WRngr to check out some beach party but its dead by the time we get there.  

We hit up Maddys and get in at 1:30.  Warm up in there, talk to some ok looking girls and warm up nicely.  Endure talking to some meh girl as she basically is backturning me while occasionally turning to look at me.  I'm not even that attracted but I'm just training my persistence.  Leave after enduring 5 minutes of talking at her while she wes turned away lol..... 

Hit up the streets after for a full hour.  Hooked a girl walking on the street but I fuck up by saying I was too young and reacting to the age thing(she was 26, I said I was 22, I'm actually 19 about to turn 22).  I should have just ignored it and talked about something else.  

Chat up some girls with Untld while he's drunk.  Some more short sets.  Talk to some tall hot blonde but I feel a little non-entitled(like only a tiny bit) and I break eye contact and she walks off.  Durr.... The funny thing was that would not have happened if my mind hadn't wandered to thinking about that issue.  

Lessons-
Get out of my house early, Thurs-Sat I need to be downtown by 11 PM so I have a full 4 hours of game, instead of like 1.5-2 hours which doesn't give me enough time.
-Long meditation essentially allows me to have a deep center of relaxation, so even when I feel anxiety, deep inside there's calm and I can still talk to the girl without being weird.  
-With 25+ girls I"m 25 years old.  
-In terms of entitlement, as Alex says its a non issue.  With meditation I can virtually ignore it.  I'm enough for the hottest girls.  Basically be the too dumb guy who doesn't think about that shit. 
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