When I get in there sober, I'm kind of like meh. After the horrible night I had last night I was feeling very non-confident.
First few interactions of the night I was shit.
However, as I got drunk and had more fun night went and got better.
Three interactions that stood out-
1. Brunnete girl who's fairly cute(like a 7). Talk to her, and we connect and vibe well and I get physical. She's being quite physical and receptive towards me. I reapproach her outside Maddys after its closed and quickly makeout. After the makeout her defenses are up. She just broke up with her boyfreind and talks about how she can't give me anything while she's in love with him. Derp derp talk. That goes to show how girls defenses can go up if you makeout with them. After that I step back and focus more on building rapport. I intro myself to one of her freinds and she comments that "wow you guys seem like you knew each other for a long time". Positive. Unfortunately failed to befriend her other cocklock freind who dragged her away. Tried to persist, but she dragged her the fuck away lol. Retarded cockblock, but I wasn't pissed since I was having a good night. Girls are pretty dumb.
2. Fairly tall hot girl who looked slightly french. Approached her, and then reapproached her. 2nd appraoched hooked her. We talk for like 10 minutes and she's constantly testing me by saying she doens't give a fuck. I realize she's just shit testing. I call her out on being aggresive which I like. Talk about how girls are bad friends and she tells me most girls suck. pretty cool girl. Unfortunately, she says she won't get offended if I walk away. I say the same to her and she does walk away. I engaged her ego which was retarded. I gotta remember a girl is the same way I was a few months back, where I'd get offended easily. Tellign girls to walk away only works if you have a lot of investment. Lesson learned though, she was really hot.
3. Cute redhead girl. I opened her with a funny opener about how lime is the cheapest mouth freshener. My buddy actually knew her. I talk to her later and she's pretty chill. Reapproach her a third time and she gives me a back massage. I knew she was looking for dick. I guarded the front door for her but she didn't come. Didn't see her outside etiher. Hopefully I'll run into her again cause she was pretty hot.
Great night of drinking. Had a lot of fun. Hit up street game later at night but nothing hooked.
-Making out with girls can raise their defenses. Be careful with making out.
-Don't challenge a girls ego. Understand a girl will walk away from a guy she likes to protect her ego. I would do the same 5-6 months back.
Try doing a few approches upstairs but nothing hooks.
Go outside and realize my ear is pain.
Go back to the venue and go the quitier downtsairs area. Do a bunch of approaches there.
Nothing hooked tonight, but I wasn't being persistent enough. I'm not very motivated right now pick up wise for some reason....
I've not been meditating consistently. I realized today I have to get back on that hard because its making my life shittier. Meditation is that one thing that can literally the change the direction of your life if you are consistent with it.
-Get Ear buds.
-Minimum 20 min of meditation a day, build up to a hour.
Going to meditate right now after grabbing some food.
First approach was me winging my buddy. I was nervous. First appraoch on the day in daygame is always a bit nerve wracking.
Second approach was me approaching this slightly older lady with a directional opener. Engage her for a couple of minutes and leave.
Third approach was a good one. Approached a girl asking where I could get earbuds. Change topics to clubbing . Then change topics more, conversation is free flowing. Talk for a few minutes but then she says that she feels bad for making her freidns wait even though she would like to chat. Durr I didn't get the number and I let her go.
Do so more short approaches later.
-Get over daygame being slightly weird. Just do 3-4 approaches and I'll feel fine. Fuck what random people might think.
-Daygame is about gaming yourself into being comfortable with daygame by doing a couple of warm up approaches. Once that's done, its not that hard to find a girl by herself that likes me, especially since there's no loud club music, no cockblocks, and not much of a bitchshield. Its sipmly a matter of spending time with a girl.
-Get a girls number if she has to go but is interested in you.
Need to do daygame 2 times a week at least. Probably going to do it again this Wednesday.
Get in, and just listen to music and dance a little for the first 30 min.
Start appraoching. First few approaches lame trying way too hard to come up with something witty.
As the night went on I got more comfortable. I'm starting to get used to higher end places now.
Had one good interaction with a chubby blonde girl I got physical with... Helped me get comfortable and aroused. Should have made out with her but didn't.
Some short interactions with hotties, but I wasn't persistent enough, I should have walked with them.
-Make out with 6s to get into relaxed arousal.
-Don't worry about environmental hypnosis. In an environment like this do hard opens and then be persistant as fuck. Walk with the girls if I have to.
Overall good night, did a lot of approaches and I'm slowly starting to become more comfortable at this venue. Its starting to feel like any other venue now.
Get to the venue at 11:30, have to wait 50 min to get in cause I was too dumb to walk in with girls.
Inside, warm up with a cute blonde who I don't see the whole night after the first interaction. I hate when that happens cause it was going well.
Chat up a couple of girls, decide I need to get gum. Spend too letting trying to find gum outside(like 25 min) and get back in at 1:20.
At this point, I know I have to screen hard and find girls who are down since there's not enough time.
I approach a girl, and she insta-makes out with me after 5 sec of talking and walks away leaving me stunned that a girl had balls like that. She was cute too but I didn't see her again. Should have just walked with her. That was great though since it put me in an awesome relaxed mood.
Approached a skinny blonde chick who's cute, but I'm relying too much on IOIs. I was just talking and durirng around. In hindsight it was on, and I should have walked out of the door with her.
I gotta remember in this venue, the girls who come here often are good with high arousal and will show they like you but if its her first time here she's going to be nervous and slightly evasive.
Hit up some more girls, one girl is into me but her friends not into my wing so make a call to try find girls that like us both.
Go on the street, hit up a 2 set. Wings girl is cute, mine is meh. Stay in to wing him and walk with them to McDonalds. Logistics are fucked so we leave but good experience.
We talk to two black girls. I fuck up with my girl by not changing conversation threads enough. She's amazing at frame control. My wings girl is down for him, but my girl wants to go with two other guys. Chill theri for 10 min, he gets her number. Those girls are pretty cool and funny. His girl is running some Julien game on him "Don't ditch me like a foster child". Lol.
-Walk in with girls to the venue.
-When a girl does something like makeout with you, don't freeze up and let her walk by but get on her and try to pull her.
-Don't look for a girls reaction, if she's still there, its on.
-Street game, you have to lead the conversation 100 percent.
How the hell did nobody cop the name Getmoneyfuckbitches before you hahaha
Skimmed the journ, sounds like you've got your shit together man, keep it up.
Thanks! Don't really have my shit together right now but I'm going in the right direction.
Its drunk Thursday, my drinking night of the week.
Pre drink. Have a good amount of vodka, and then one drink at the bar.
I'm pretty fucked.
Hit on a lot of girls but most of them are blowing me out.
Go upstairs and start chatting to this Spanish girl sitting down.
Her english isn't that good. But she understands enough. Very compliant and easy interaction.
Spend a lot of time with her, and the guy with her freind buys the whole table drinks.
The girls just have a couple of shots and there's still a few shots of whisky and a rum and coke left.
Well, somebody's gotta do it.
Drink two shots of whisky and the rum and coke. Now I'm wasted lol. Free alcohol = Amazing.
Anyways its late, so we go outside, I try to pull for afterparty. My girl is trying to find her friends.....
Try to pull back to my place, but no go in terms of that. Go to Pizza Pizza, and pull her inside the door to the washroom. .Make out with her. Unfortunately I didn't pull her all the way downstaris to the bathroom. Durr, I got offput by a random dude walking by saying some stupid shit about us getting it on.
Walk with her to her apartment and try to come up with the good ol bathroom excuse. No go.
Will try to day 2 her because she seemed very down for a date with me. It was pretty easy because she barely knew her friends, so I got 0 cockblocking. Plus, all of them seemed to be down for penis.
-I already had her in the first door to the bathrooms, should have just gone for the bathroom pull.
-Fun guy = Win Win Win. I showed zero provider abilities lol. Tylers latest video helped.
-NAC + Vit C before drinking, and Vitamin E + Vitamin B complex + Cocunut water after means my hangover is minimized.
-Even if every girl is rejecting you, there's always goign to be girls who like you.