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January 21st, 2017
Summer Growth Journal- Business + Game + Health + Overall Development- Applying the Natural Instincts Method
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#41

Kahlua

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#42

Getmoneyfuckbitches

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 So after three night off I'm back.

Hit up Maddy's.

Me and firefx2 decide we want to drink a moderate amount tonight since we already have a drink included with our ticket.  Im in a lower consciousness state of mind after eating shitty food so I'm cool with it.

Have a beer before I get to maddy, and then drink a beer in maddy as I warm up with Kahlua.  Drink a few more drinks through the night and I'm moderately drunk in a nice state, not wasted though.  

As the night goes I start to have longer sets.  See a lot of people I know too which is awesome.  Toronto crew + some people from school.

Notable sets-

1.  Cute girl with her friend.  Me and firefx2 on this.  Everythings goign awesome but some chodes are trying to get photos with them.  We decide to leave to let the chodes blow themselves out.  We were at the bar but when we looked back the girls were gone(probably cause they got bored of the chodes).  I see the friend again and talk to her really quick.  I grab her number but its not solid.  I don't see her again.  I texted her but no reply.  All good though,  I need to walk her out of the door to make it solid.
2.  A girl and her freidns.  This girl is constantly avoiding eye contact but I keep talking bullshit.  She's slowly flipping over but she goes to find her friends.  I then see her again and then start tlaking to two friends includind a bday girl.  I'm just talking shit and they like me cause I'm more interesting then just sitting there.  I leavfe to get the beer.  I see the original girl when I'm talking to another girl and just merge sets and watch them awkwardly talk to each other lol.  Don't see her or her friends again later in the night.  
3.  Some girl and her friend that were talking to my buddy, I started chatting up the friend.  Her friend was pretty friendly with me but said I wasn't her type(shit test).  She said she wanted a blonde guy.  Anyways, I knew she was shittesting me so I was like "let me intro you to my buddy" cause I didn't give a fuck.  Grabbed her hand and we went to find him but then she left to find her other friends.  Did'nt see her again.  Gotta keep a firm hand grab cause even her friend asked me why I lost her.
4.  Street game, two nerdy but cute looking girls.  Chat with them for 10 minutes and wlak them down.  Try to get 1's number but she wasn't down, probably cause I asked at the last second.

I did guard the door for a few minutes, but not long enough.  I need to get to the door at like 1:45 unlike today when I got there at 2:10.  Also got a couple of girls to do the head massage on me which was cool.  Also it was rainy so the streets were dead.

Lessons-
-Stay in set.
-Guard door.
-Grab numbers from all girls you talk to more than 10 minutes.  
-Grab numbers in the middle of the interaction at a high point instead of hte night.

Major Realization(because of alex hotseat and going out)-

Girls find me more interesting to hanging out then just sitting by themselves cause girls are boring as fuck as compared to me.  So essentially I'm bringing value by just opening my mouth and talking about whatever stupid shit I think about.

Tomorrow is going to be sober in the ent. district.  Going to be fun for sure.  
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Friday May 24

 Me and Kahlua went to a pretty shit bar/club.  

At first I was kind of pissed about it since the girls weren't that hot.  But the night went on and got better.

Initiially in the night I was pretty stifled and in my head.  

Slowly got warmed up with quick approaches until this french girl hooked.  She was a butterface. 

Lead to dancefloor, grind on her and get a boner, and try ot makeout but no go.  But that got me into a relaxed mindset.  

Me, Kahlua, and his buddy start chatting up three girls.  Have a good 10 min interaction with them and focus on one girl.   The go downstairs to dance.

Interact with them downstairs a few times.  Feel I'm losing them, Idk why but I feel under pressure.  Do the boyfriend screener on my girl(is that guy your boyfriend) .  She says no but I'm still not sure if she has one.

I see them later but don't walk out of the door.  Maybe its me being too harsh on myself but I felt later on I  felt under pressure and I was stifled.



I chat up this one cute black girl multiple times through the night.  Shes melting in my arm because of my charm and wit but unfortunately her friend already has two guys lined up.  I Should have stuck in though.  

Me and Untld chat up a couple of cute girls for 10 min, my girl tests me but I endure the test and its fairly smooth sailing from them.  Our other friend(Shadowz I think) comes in and wings us with a third girl.  I leave for a sec to check on the french girl but some other PUA is on my girl.  Gay as fuck lol.  

See french girl again and I don't want to walk her out cause she's not cute.  Should have still done it and gone for the pull for the reference experience.

Do some street game with Kahlua where he forces me to stay in set with two girls who literally had 10 freinds.  Stuck in for like 15-20 minutes and walked with them for a bit.  They lived really far away and it was impossible to engage them with the massive number of friends so I ditched.  Still good to get the reference point.

I realize I spent most of the night in interactions with a few girls.  But I kept switching between them and I didn't walk any groups out of the door.

What I need to work on is screening girls and then sticking in with one group, and walking them out of the door and to the bus stop/restaurant/afterparty/cab.  Basically being decisive.  

The Natural Instincts Methods works though, I spent a good chunk of the last couple of nights in set with cute girls.   Watching Kahlua in action showed me just trusting the NIM will lead to awesome results, he was in set with a gorgoues girl all night.  He has barely been out recently and he's just killing it after his bootcamp.  

The main thing I've realized is that Tyler's six steps for like 5 minutes, and getting physical quick usually works very well in relaxing me.  After that I can switch back to a more relaxed style of game.   For example, rubbing my boner on that french girl basically put me in a very relaxed mood.  

Lessons-
-Screen for boyfriend around the 5 min mark.  
-Focus on one group to walk out of the door with, and get numbers from the other solid interactions.  
-Don't psyche myself out if a girl shit tests me by withdrawing attention.  Just proceed as normal and keep chatting her up.  
-End of night, push myself hard to stick in set and get to an afterparty or food spot at the least.  

Really starting to realize that there's no reason why I'm not enough.  
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Getmoneyfuckbitches

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 Saturday Night-

Went to the shitty bar we went to Fri night.

Pretty stressed at the beginning of the night, took me 1.5 hours to relax.

Notable interacctions-

-Blonde 7 and her brunnete friend.  Was starting to win over the blonde but brunnete kept cockblocking and biegn retarded.  Tried reapproaching a few times.
-Short brown girl.  Was in set for a while a couple of times and then didn't see her again.  

I had a lot of other interactions too that were short, didn't have a long interaction at all the whole night.  

Did some street game by myself after outside bloke and 4th, just a few blowouts.  

Lessons-
-Go to better venues.
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 Tues Night-

Hit up tues spot.

I'm not comfortable at this high end place.

Still have a hard time pushing myself as hard as I could here.

The music was horrible tonight too which made it less fun.  Usually good music makes me have fun and a good time.

Took good amount of action after 1 am though.  Hit up a good number of sets.



Notable interactions-

1.  Three hot girls, plough through, girl tries to push me away and tells me to go away.  Go back in later and she still tries to get me to fuck off.  Pretty sure she tried to get rid of me 4 times.
2.  A couple of afghani girls, just plough my way through until they leave.  I was just verbally spewing out shit.  
3.  Black girl, I"m actually doing well with her but her guy friend comes and start grinding on her.  See her later and she opens me at the  door.  I should have tried to pull for afterparty, she was clearly into me but I was taken by surprise and froze up and let her go.   At the least I should have chilled with her and her friends after the club.

Another funny thing, I told these girls near the dj booth that I dind't like the dj and they freaked out and told me to fuck off.  As Falc said tonight was "glorified elevator music".  Even the bouncer loved the DJ lol.....  That shit is good for a lounge or a chill time but I wanna have fun.  

I opened some hot girl.  One of my buddies told me she gets paid 150 a night to just show up and talk to guys.  Chat her up and she immediatly asks me who I"m with lol.

I did open a good number of really hot girls.  

Lessons-
-Go to high end venues 3 times a week at least to get used to them.  Right now I struggle to feel that I'm enough at these places.  No matter how much I tell myself that there's no reason I"m not enough,  I get into my head, struggle to have fun, and just feel like I'm not worthy.  I know its bullshit but I just need to get used to these kind of places.  
-When a girl reopens at the end of the night, push it hard and go for the afterparty. Massive failure on my part.  Need to take my oppurtunities when they come.
-Focus on the process if I"m feeling stifled, I was feeling fairly comfortable by the last 1 hour of the night but I need to focus on taking action earlier on in the night.
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Hey dude are you paying entry to these high end venues?

Ive stopped goin out in toronto cuz its garbage mostly every time.

If not its expensive as fuck.
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Join Date: 07/06/2011 | Posts: 1681

I know the DJ that was playing that night, dude wtf is wrong with you! That DJ is sickkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk!
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Getmoneyfuckbitches

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TapArtist wrote:
Hey dude are you paying entry to these high end venues?

Ive stopped goin out in toronto cuz its garbage mostly every time.

If not its expensive as fuck.

Usually I pay 10 but got in free yesterday.

Its all about networking.

If you don't drink you can go to good places in Toronto and spend less than 30 bucks a week on cover very easily.  There's guestlist at many places too.  If you can't afford 30-40 bucks a week to go out get a job.

Venue selection is the key though.  There are really good places in TO but you gotta find them.
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Gravity wrote:
I know the DJ that was playing that night, dude wtf is wrong with you! That DJ is sickkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk!
His music is good for a lounge setting but i'm a in a club.  You can't go crazy and dance to his stuff.  I wouldn't mind listening to it when I'm just chilling though.
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