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October 21st, 2017
Summer Growth Journal- Business + Game + Health + Overall Development- Applying the Natural Instincts Method
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#31

Getmoneyfuckbitches

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Join Date: 11/27/2012 | Posts: 495

 Day 24

Hit up a college bar.  Usually hate this place but I want to figure it out.  

I go in with a strong present vibe.  Not really dancing to the music.  Do a couple of quick approaches to make sure I start right.  Then relax for 5 minutes.

I didn't dance at all tonight cause of an injury, which sucks for a crazy college dance bar but  I did alright.



Notable interacitons-

-Cute brown girl, instant chemistry.  She gives me a boner lol.  Reapproach her later, dance with her, take her to the bar to get some water.  My finger is bleeding for some reason(I have no idea why) and she keeps asking me whats up with that.  I tell her I"m gonna go to the bathroom and clean it up.  When I come back she's on some other dude.  I should have just reapproached her there and stole her away, but I was a bitch.  Say her later in the night, didn't reapproach because I felt like I screwed it up(which I didn't).

-Cute blonde girl with a nice body.  Approach her as she's waiting for her friend. . They are about to leave, hooks easily.  Failed by not walking with them.  Should have walked them out of the bar and to the subway since it was late anyways.

-Two hotties, hook them easily but I'm still butthurt over brown girl.  They can sense I have a filter on.  They leave after a bit after hooking.  Had to remind myself there's no reason I'm not enough and I calmed down.

-Hottie with big ass who I reapproached twice and each time she smiled but wouldn't comply to my hi five.  Should have reapproached her a couple more times instead of pussying out.

All in all a pretty decent night,  I did a good number of approaches.  Just gotta remember not to be a about reapproaching, staying in set for long periods of time, and walking the girls out.  

I realize my improvement in game is now based upon following the Natural Instincts Method in terms of logistics, staying in set, and the 4 times rule.  My vibe is solid and I hook girls well when I appraoch the right way.  So I really have to focus on pushing the interactions and going for the close.  Need to push for pulls now, that's something I've really slacked on.  I'm in it for the sex, and that won't happen unless I make it happen.  No matter how awesome my vibe is, girls wont suck my dick on the dancefloor.

Lessons-
1.  4 Times Rule. 2 Times isn't enough, I have to get to the 4th reapproach before giving up. 
2.  Walk out with the girls if its after 1:30 and you've hooked.  The place was emptying out anyways.  Walking the girls out and getting food/walking with them for a long time is the best way to get a number and solidify it for the day 2.
3.  I should have reapproached the brown girl.  I realize I overanalysed and got in my head over her, but I learned a valuable lesson which is you have to reapproach anyways otherwise you'll regret not doing so. 

Other than game, I've been slacking big time.  Haven't done shit today other than play video games and watch Argo.  Still making decent money from my mostly passive income sources now though(300+ dollars in around 6 days).  Still not enough though, I need to get back on the hustle and be productive.  

Also my latest SEO client has us doing a small SEO project for an escort service.  Lets just say I came very close to failing no fap when doing my "research".
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 Day 25

Maddys tonight, which I kind of regret.

First set of the night, wing my friend with two girls.  My girl is like a 6, but she is incredibly boring and tired looking.  The other girl is more interesting. I  stay in for 15-20 minutes, but I can't take it anymore cause she's not cute enough for me to keep the conversation going.   Just practicing my staying in set skills by forcing myself to stay in far beyond the point I was comfortable.  Lots of silences in the conversatoin too which I didn't let me put in my head.  

After that, chat a couple more girls.  Really hate maddys sober though, and I'm not feeling it all. Firefx2's Asian girl is there so we both want to bounce.  Firefx2 opens a girl on the street and pulls her back to the frat to fuck her.  Brunnys is kind of dead, so I head back to Maddys and chat up a couple more girls.  Did open one girl who seemed receptive, but I should have walked with her but I didn't.  



Felt pretty shit throughout the night.  End of night meet up with firefx2 and do some street game.  Open up some girl, walk with her for a fair bit but she isn't down for an afterparty.  I should have walked her to her house but I didn't(felt it was creepy).  That's bullshit, I need to walk the girls to their house.

Me and firefx2 open up two girls.  One of them is down for an afterparty but the other isn't.  PLough by walking with them for 5 minutes, try hard to flip the other one but can't.  Good try though.  

After that, we opened up a couple more girls that weren't down.  

Lessons-
-No Maddys on Saturday, keep that place to once a week on Thurs night when I have a couple of drinks.  Otherwise I just hate that place.  
-Walk the girl to her place.
-Leave the venue with a girl, even if you just met her and then try to pull to afterparty/ walk her to her place.
-Don't complain about the venue.  If I don't like it, leave, but there's no point in complaining about shit.  Just hurts my own emotional state.  
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Getmoneyfuckbitches wrote:
 Day 25

Maddys tonight, which I COMPLETELY regret.
 

Lessons-
-No Maddys, I just hate that place.  




You had a few typos... I fixed them :)
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#34

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 ^ lol.  Maddys sucks shit unless you're drunk.

And tonight I learned, don't get drunk unless I"m with my best buddy Dizzbit. 

Day 26-

So I went to this college  bar for a no pants party cause my friends wnated to go.

He told me we were drinking tn.

So I had a a buzz going in and got very drunk in there.

Had an amazing night at first.  Not chasing, but basically being awesome and funny.  

Opened this one girl with "do my nipples stick out?"

She loves me, and throughout the night she keeps telling me how much she loves me and how cool I am.  I tell her to take my number, and she then tells me about her bf.

Fucking girls, using me for my personality.

Anyways, I'm being awesome around some other girls.

I open this girl, her friend pulls her away.

I try to be nice to the friend, she pushes me away.

I tell her "yo i got an injury don't push me"

Then this dude(probably the cockblocks faggot white knight boyfriend) pushes me on the groudn.  I have an injury so i cant do shit.  Go to the bouncer and he says he didn't see it.

Fucking gay as fuck.

Anyways, outside I call this cops, but he's gone.  Cops grill me and try to frame me as the wrongdoer but I stay strong. This one cop is a fucking dumbass saying that the girl is the guys property, and me talking to her meant I was messing with his property and that I should be expected to be assaulted even though I told him I wasn't hitting on her.  What the fuck lol thats so fucking misogynist, and I"m not even a feminist or anything, I just find that ridicoulosly offensive to women.  Thats the most retarded thing I've heard.  Its funny how cops are either completely feminist or misognystic, but never actually fair and in between. 

Anyways cop take down the report, even though I tell him that he's down the street.  Whatever.....

Later find out my friend saw it, if I had him as a witness I would have been good.

Anyways I"M not coming back this place ever again.

My fucking injury's worsened again, so I"m just gonna stay home and rest.  I dont care about getting women as much as I do for standing up for myself.  I need to let myself recover completly and then learn MMA so faggots don't fuck with me. 

Lessons-
-Don't get drunk, it blunts your senses and you cant see danger coming.
-Be sure to get a picture of someone who commits an assault against you.
-Have an audio recorder when talking with cops so you can record them. 
-Get eye witnesses.
-Hope the guy gets retribution by karma.  Wouldn't mind a car accident for himdevil

Anyways I"M gonna put going out on halt for the next few days and stick to 3-4 nights a week after, and dead sober.  I don't want this shit happening again.  I want to focus on other parts of my life for now.  
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Cop was a faggot and you should've demanded his badge number and reported his ass for ignoring a crime because the girl was "his property". Wtf kind of excuse is that? Do we engage in legal slavery? That was an obstruction of justice.
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#38

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 Haha yeah, I was pissed the night after.  Still, screw him for being a bitch.

The cop was absurd.  

Taking a few days off.   Will be back Thurs night.  Not gonna let this shit hurt my progress but I did need a few days to recharge and refocus myself.  
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Yeah, cop was a dumbass.

Pretty much forgotten about the incident though.  Going to go out tomorrow night.

I've decided I have too much free time, going to try filling my time with activities such as learning a language or learning coding.  Will update tomorrow once I've decided on an action plan.  
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