Posted April 21st, 2013 at 10:08 PM
My Name is Oozz. This is my story: 4/20/12 - Saturday Night Night starts off and I am supposed to meet up with two different groups of girls I met last week. I tell the girls to come meet me at the venue, no responses, I'm surprised. It's dead we leave to our second venue and will come back later. Bounce to the second venue, its about 11:15. Plenty of attractive women, but feeling off. I have no eagerness to approach, despite the women. We grab shots and flirt with the bartender, she thinks I'm cute. Still feeling off, my group's energy is low, They are looking for me to bring the energy. I need to get social, I start approaching: 1) Audrey, White, Dirty Blonde Hair - HB8 - 5 set standing, 3 girls 2 guys. Walk in between the group, lean into her ear ,and introduce myself. She's nervous to talk to me. She's rocking back and forth, I grab her hand andI tell her I'm not a creep. We laugh ,she calms down. I start spewing my resume at her, she is loosens up. We chit-chat, build rapport. I'm very attracted to her, but I'm getting bored. It's still early, the pace of the conversation is slow. She has good logistics and I should stick it out with her, but I 'm just not feeling it and eject. 2) Random Middle Eastern Girl HB6/7 -4 set walking, 2 guys 2 girls. They are holding hands train style and walk in between our group. She had checked me out hard from across the room. Her train stops near me, I assume they are proxying, and I open immediately. My approach is too bold, she is attracted, but uncomfortable. I tell her I'm a nice guy and what-not, just trying to smooth it out. She is attracted and polite, but uncomfortable moving the interaction forward so I eject. 3) Nadia, Tall Blonde Cougar - HB7/8 -Single Moving Nadia reminds me of a maneater, tall, large breasts, and long legs; probably 33-35. She moved between me several times earlier, but was holding hands with a a older buff gentleman. This time she was alone. I put my arm out and stopp her. She's appalled, and tries to move through me. I cup my arm around her waist and nudger her closer to me. I tell her my name and she tells me hers. I ask her if she can spell my name, and she proceeds to spell it. I tell her she's a good speller. She giggles. She tries to leave, I pull her back and in tell her I am not finished talking. She sizes me up, I stay strong.. She is attracted andI curious, but I'm still off. "I'm teetering." I take the interaction nowhere. I do not want to hang out with this girl for some reason. She can sense my lack of intent and begins to turn away. I tell her to find me later, she says ok. It's 12:00, the girls I am supposed to hang out with still have not hit me up. I'm annoyed by this and reactively text them both. 4) Mega hottie, Tall Black Hair - HB10 This one is a stunner. The crowd is parting as she walks through I jump in front of her and introduce myself. She tries to blow me off, but the interaction proceeds: HB10: Can I help you? Me: My name is xyz. HB10: I have to find my friends. Me: Don't leave, we just met. HB10: No seriously. Me: No seriously. I hold her hand and begin to push forward. As we banter I move into her, she doesn't step back. I felt a strong connection, but It's hard to recall what happens next. We somehow depart. It's 12:15, After paying the bartender leans in, asks for my name, and my reason for leaving. We go back to our original venue and it is a mecca of hot girls. Why have I not been coming to this place before? We are there for my friend's friend's birthday, he says hello. She runs up screaming and hugs him. He's social proofed. I steal a bit by poking her and shooting for a hug. We don't know each other very well, but she politely obliges. She's there with a group of attractive middle eastern women who are dancing stiff, as if they didn't enjoy the music. They stay stare at me, I wait for an intoruction, but it doesn't happen. I get a text from one of the girls I was supposed to meet up with, HBColombia: "Sorry I didn't see your text earlier. We are having a sleepover tonight, but I will defintely go out next weekend." I'm super dissapointed, but I choose not to respond to the text. She's lost her spot on my team, I'll have to put her on the mass text for next week. Let's hope she comes out, she was beautiful. I'm happy she texted me back, but ver dissapointed we couldn't meet up. 5) Frenchies, Blonde, HB5 & HB7 -2 Set Dancing They are dancing next to us, I know they will open well. I introduce myself, they don't speak enligh (Fuck me). I'm trying to joke with them, but the language barrier and loud music makes it difficult They are at least somewhat into me because they are trying hard to speak with me. I'm still off, and I begin to overcompensate by going over the top with dance moves.They are polite and entertained, but I eject. I really wasn't in the mood to deal with the language barrier, but it was probably an excuse. At this point I started feeling better, I felt like every girl in the venue was staring at me, but everone appeared stiff. There are many attractive women around and I approach like a madman. 6) Frency, Black Hair, HB9-10 -Single walking OMG this girl was gorgeous as well. I don't know where the influx of amazingly hot women is coming from, but I sure do appreciate it! We make eye contact as she is walking and she knows I am going to approach her. When I do she just giggles. I introduce myself and she leans close to me. She tells me her name as well, and we hold hands. With our hands clasped together we try to communicate, but her english is horrible and the music is BLASTING. Neither of us can really hear each other, but there is definitely some physical chemistry. I recall saying something like: Me: Let's go dance HB10: I have to go find my friends Me: Let's go dance and then find your friends HB10: I cannot understand you talking fast Me: Let's dance and then you find your friends HB10: ummmm... Me: It will be like a movie, we'll dance, fall in love, find your friends, and then get married. HB10: You talking very fast, I cannot speak the english good I literally facepalm myself. I'm getting annoyed by this lost-in-translation BS, and I begin to realize all these hot women are from another country. I honestly don't mind, and under normal circumstances I would have been more emotional mature, but I chidishly get frustrated and eject. 7) I Gotta Pee, Dirty Blonde Hair, HB8 -4 set moving Coming out of the bathroom I see a train of cute girls going into the women's restroom. Some are cute, but the back one is extra cute. We make eye contact and I jump in front of her and introduce myself. She keeps telling me she needs to pee, but I plow through it. We keep talking and I try to get her to come dance, but she says she needs to pee first. At this point I really believe she needs to pee, I tell her "ok, I'll just catch up with you later." I opened anyone standing ear me. Slowly I can see that many eyes are focused on me. Mental masturbation aside, the women are just watching me go to workwork. I don't think they had ever seen anyone approach with such... relentlessness. No set went particularly bad, almost all lasting for at least 3-5 minutes, but no strong connections were being made. 8) Cougar, Black Hair, HB8 -5 Set Dancing Open a cougar that had been checking me out, or so I thought. I approach and she tried to reject me with silence. I plowed forward, and got a resposne but the intereaction was flat. 9) OMG, Blonde, HB10 -4 set moving A group of Hollywood blondes come walking in. I get excited, as I don't normally get to game this many attractive women in one night. The most attractive one of the group is at the end of the train. I snatch her hand from her friends and introduce myself. She yanks her hand back and ignores me. I stop her with my arm, and raise my voice saying "My name is XYZ, I want to meet you!" She's stunned at my approach, and introduces herself. We are vibing, but her friends drag her away in less than 1-2 minutes. By now I've tapped the place out, and want to re-approach. I re-approach a blonde, we start dancing, turns out she is friends with the girl who needed to pee. Turns out they are both friends with another girl I had spoken to at the bar. They are polite, but the set goes nowhere. The HB10 french girl proxies me ont he dance floor, she is looking for me to re-approach. I move in to say hi and we start dancing. She introduces me to her friends, but I had already approached all of them invidivdually earlier in the night. I'm unable to isolate, and the set dies out. The OMG blonde comes to proxy me, but before I can re-open my friends approach another group who I already approached. They tell my friend something about how they already met me and "Is this what I do?." It was about 1:30 and I made my exit. Very dissapointed that I did not close, but will definitely be back next Saturday. I return to the other club. I enter the venue and immediately re-approach Audrey. She is talking with somone, and stares at me when I come in. I say something witty, but she laughs with resistance,. She's seen me approach every girl in there. She's attracted, but says something negative framing me as a player. 10) Brazil, Brunette, HB8/9 -2 set standing I make eye contact with the bartender from before and walk up to say hi. Before I get there I see two girls, one of which is attractive. I open her and escalate quickly. She leans into me very close, but we can hardly hear each other I don't even try to communicate and begin dancing with her. Her friend is just staring at us, so I lean over to her friend and respond: Me: I think your friend is cute, do you mind If I talk to her? Her friend brokenly mutters some english and I realize they can hardly speak english. I try to plow w/o any verbals, but that takes me only so far. I try to talk, but it goes very poorly. I continue to plow, but they end up just moving across the room. I receive a text from one of the girls I was supposed to hang out with, she tells me where she is and half-assedly invites me. Not a promising opportunity, but It wasn't the greatest night and I was really expecting to smash tonight. I force the meet-up and head to a third club. It is about 2:00-2:15 when I get there. She tells me she is leaving in 20 minutes and I get frustrated. Why would I even come here if you were leaving in 20 minutes? She is cuter than I remember. She tells me she is playing host to some friends, and introduces me. The guys are not very friendly. She was acting very distant, which bothered me, but we catch up for a bit and I drag her to the bar. She says she doesn't want to drink anymore, and the interaction went downhill from there, Looking back I can see that I was probably being too pushy. I politely escort her back to her friends and she scurried out of the club giving me a big hug, which I awkwardly reject. We head home and I open 4-5 sets as we are getting food. Nothing special. Notes: -Too much approaching can be bad. Assess the situation a bit better before blindly approaching everyone -Find the girl you want to hang out with and hang out with her for as long as possible. -Be comfortable with silence. -Lower expecations. -Be comfortable leading the interactoin into any direction. -Always Re-approach. x4 rule -Don't force anything, be congruent with the emotional state you are in. My first post and it was a long one. Be back soon. And since everyone else is doing this, I mine as well.
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