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December 18th, 2014
Make her Chase You
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#51
QUANT

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Join Date: 04/11/2013 | Posts: 30

great post , i like the idea of being straightforward leading and not escalating nor giving ratinoalisations... is really powerful

lately i'm trying the lead-straighforward/assertive-compliments...  when you're really not afraid of her saying no/reject you, IS GOLD

i only don't like the title of the post because it sounds like a "method" and a lot of people interpreted the post as "avoid-rejections-having-fun-method"
Gravity wrote:

Oddly enough people are starting to recognize me as "that crazy guy" hahaha, so my stuff isn't even fully cold approach anymore </3
that's specially true when you"re going to better venues

in environments that are more selective people who goes there are the same all the time (a kind of peer group)

if you enjoy the night, have some social stamina and flirt with girls (old school open-attract-eject) you get lays from girls that  "already know you from few weeks ago"

you're the "cool dude"... at that point most of your lays is only by getting some logistics and pulling the trigger when you feel she's in slut mode, pretty smooth

is half-way between cold approach and social-circle-game.... and i got laid this weekend thanks this logic in a club i usally go
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#52
Gravity

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@obbi: agree to disagree for sure. I'm not sure that quote has any validity in this argument as literally 95% of the girls DL gets to chase him are all from EE.
@quant: hahaha well it is rejection proof since you're never actually going "after" the girl, tho you will find some girls who just WILL NOT have any fun, but those are the exception and not the rule. And only a few people recognize me, I've barely hooked up with any girls who recognize me on the reggs (though I seriously should start doing it hahahah)
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#53
khkrecords

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Good feedback thanks!
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#54
Gravity

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I hold the point that what we do here will work anywhere, but to each his own.
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#55

Nassim

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1. This is a fucking joke. I went to several eastern european countries (Lithuania, Hungary, Poland, Czech Republic), I got approached by girls maybe 5-10 times every night (and I was in full-PUA mode back then). Also the big scary EE meatheads are the friendliest dudes on the planet if you take the time chat with them (my roomie is one lol). You are viewing eastern europe as a western european who never went there would (girls are all prostitutes, dudes are all big scary mobsters with some teeths made of gold).
2. I think Gravity and you should get a room.
0bbi wrote:

Gravity wrote:
@obbi: agree to disagree for sure. I'm not sure that quote has any validity in this argument as literally 95% of the girls DL gets to chase him are all from EE.

the quote is very much on point believe me. i believe EE girls may chase DL all the time. but that's NYC. not EE. and that's  h u g e  difference.

for instance, let him run the same fun/butterfly game in russian clubs full of scary meatheats hunting girls that he's trying to fool around with.. OMG. or go see how giving out your phone number in daytime works there.. LOL. Totally different part of the world different people. so many countries, so many customs. and on that note let's end our back n forth.

cheers

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#56
Distant Light

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Hahahaah yea gravity is right, most of the women I mess with are EE... (Although lately been around tons of FIT americans)

Don't think I'm some fairy social/butterfly who forgets that women want men. MOST euro girls consider me "crazy" because they can't control me and their ICE QUEEN demeanor has zero effect on me. (I find it hilarious and it inspires me to mess with them more)

Also, unless these chicks flying in for 1-4 months from all these EE places are suddenly changing almost instantly then I see no difference. I've met latvian, estonian, slovokian, serbian, romanian, bulgarian, lithuanian, ukranian, etc which is uncommon to find in NY and all the same. (Actually approached a tourist mother n daughter from serbia)

As I say women are women are women, they respond to the same stuff. Its ironic my ideal type were model type russians/ukranians. ;)

P.S...Btw, I've been chased by women from all different parts of the world. (Even traditional chinese hahaha)
- Indian Singapore
- Mongolian/Russian
- White South African
- Deep South White Chick (She said her family was abit racist)
- Sudan Black Chick
- Kazakhstan/Russian
- Congo Black Chick
- Latvian

Will see though how it all pans out when I actually move to places like kiev, bucharest, berlin.
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#57
Tyler

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btw I'll be adding in more about lifestyle development and this type of game in the newbie site, so we'll see it more a part of the PUA community culture by next year.

I may do infield examples of it as well.

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#58

matts

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Join Date: 04/26/2013 | Posts: 65

If you go to ukraine better get some russian/ukranian under your belt otherwise you can pretty much cross out most girls there. and no 'wordless game' does not work well there.
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#59
therebellion

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wanna add something related to this topic

non-desperate effort:

you need to seperate effort from desperation... 

there's a difference between text gaming a girl

and sending a girl NEEDY text messages

there's a difference between Masculine intent

and chasing sex... 

at the end of the day you HAVE TO put effort in, nothing happens without effort..

but you can't be desperate... 

that is all.. 
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#60
BreakingTheHabbit

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omg. this thread is amazing!

I’ve learnt so much from this thread and i don't even get some of these concepts fully. ( I’ve been going out for 6 months solid. )

though what i did learn is this:

when i go out to the club I’m in scarcity mode (IE: i talk to easiest sets and i don't have fun in the club. i feel like there are no girls out there)

though what i failed to realize is. I'M IN A ROOM FULL OF HOES! THERE are so many more girls out there and i just didn't even see it. Like there not in my reality, not even on my radar or ras.

I KNOW tonight is going to be a good night now, just by reading this thread. Last weekend i got a huge case of AA and both Friday and Saturday was shit nights. ( mainly because I was solo)
my main problem is I don’t BELEIVE there are more girls. Since i don’t have any girls lined up right now, i feel like I’m not going to get any in the future. But i know it’s inevitable if i keep at it. Maybe not tonight, maybe not tomorrow, but someday I WILL get this.
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