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Friday 6 December - Date "If a girl gives you shit.. NEXT" (Credit:Jeffy)

Bit of an odd weekend for me. Came down with a horrible cold this all week and it doesn't clear up in time for the weekend. Had good intentions to go out on Friday night but ended up going on a date with Indian girl from just outside the city.

Makes me want to move on to my next point, game really is just about having choice/choices. Sometimes come so far down this journey that you forget what your situation was when you first started. For me, when I first got into this whole cold approach saga I was a socially normal guy with friends and had no problems with interacting with people whatsoever. Put me in a club or a street and try and make it happen and I had no chance. I had little abundance, you sometimes wodered as a young man "I wonder if I could just get a girlfriend".

Right now, that paradigm makes me laugh so much. I started this journey wanting to get more women on a consistent basis. Now, even though I am a perfectionist and I will always find problems with my performance or never entirely feel satisfied with my success I have to say I'm pretty much there (at this moment in time) fairly regular abundnace, confident in my skillset that girls are in unlimited supply. Cop & Blow happens, but you just go out and find new ho's.

Anyway, meet up a new girl for a date - make it very clear from the offset that this isn't your traditional meals, drinks, cinema type of meet up. So we agree to just chill out listen to some music parked up in my car. I quickly realise I don't like this girl at all. We make out quite a bit but she's got nothing to offer. Your typical standard 19 year old girl with no real life experiences apart from going out and getting drunk with her girlies lol.

I have no issue with that but I just get bored easily, I'd happily fuck the broad but I think (naturally) it's going to take a couple more meetups before she puts out. I realise she isn't going to put out tonight so I pretty much kick her to the curb, she's shocked and pretty disgusted.

Whilst I was delibrating what to do i.e. stick out the date for politeness, go to the club solo or meet another girl my mind was pretty much made for me. I had about 4 girls texting me during that hour asking me what I'm doing tonight etc. My thought processes are to go to the club solo and that's what I decide to do. Tell the Indian girl on the date I gotta go and she's fucked off. She realises what's up.

I think to myself, "you lose some you win some" fully expecting her to never contact me again but just goes to show how you can never predict a human (especially a girls) behaviour pattern. I decide to head over to Birmingham (I was about an hour away) and there's two huge diversions on the way home, in a nutshell It takes me 1hr 30 minutes to get home opposed to 25 minutes meaning that it's way passed entry time to get into the club. Pretty pissed off but I figure with my cold perhaps rest is not such a bad idea.

The next day Indian girl from the dating texts me telling me she had a great night lol. So weird, I fully expected her to delete my number and never call me again. In essence, she says we should meet up again, perhaps sex is on the table this time ;-) Who know's. 

Lessons:

1. You can never predict behaviours in others

2. If a girl is giving you shit or not putting out and you don't particularly enjoy her company, kick her to the curb.

3. Game should always be about you, don't micromanage what you're saying just say it how it is.

Cheers

Dev.
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Saturday 7th December - Copping hoe's in the day time - "Opening is just learning how dealing with the shit that comes your way after you open" (Credit:Julien)

Oi Oi. Bit of a naughty day game session with H34RT in the City centre of Birmingham. No is safe, day or night we are out to hit your bitches up. Joking aside, it's pretty true haha. Day game is literally like childs play for those who do fear technology. If you're a professional boxer and in your training camp you have trained 9 minutes per round with 16oz gloves with two sparring partners- imagine how easy you will find the ACTUAL fight when you fight 3 minute rounds, with 10oz gloves with one opponent. You train hard you pull easy. 

As USUAL H34RT is late. I park up and head over to the street to see what's happening. My comfort zones are absolutely fine but I wouldn't say they are super high. I hit the streets and they're nice and busy. I make myself a promise, the first remotely hot girl I see I have to approach. No problems. Of course, I make this promise to myself and what do I see... This walks down the street (with probably slightly smaller tits and slightly darker skin)

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All of a sudden the fear symptoms rush into my body. Nice. Let's work with them. I walk behind her "tap-tap". Boom. I'm in. Before I even say anything (verbals) I just gaze into her eyes naturally. She know's what's up straight away. I'd say emotionally hooked from the get-go. She crosses her legs and just stands there and starts talking to me. We joke arounda bit and I realise I have some fear symptoms - Not sure why, perhaps because it's my first approach of the day or because I'm solo or perhaps because she's so fucking hot. It goes away within one minute of the interaction and I just build, build, build from there.

We keep talking and she says "Do you want to walk with me" - I agree but tell her to come for a drink instead. She complies. I pull her by the hand and head over to a quiet coffee shop. Sit at the table and I am queing for coffee for AGES. Anyway, head back to the table and start talking some more. Initially I think she was emotionally hooked but then logic started pouring into her brain. When I pulled her for a insta-date she said "I'm kinda seeing somoene" - My response "It's fine" - and pulled her by the arm anyway :). I remember almost getting into the trap of over-gaming when we were having a drink trying to generate those positive emotions i.e look how good my game is etc. But I refrain and realise that she's with you on a mini date, she already likes you chill the fuck out, focus on outside the performance mantra and start gaming yourself. It works a treat. (Note:just follow the damn fundamentals and everything else falls into place)

We talk for about 45 minutes and she starts to really get into the conversation, opening up talking about interests, her home, her hobbies all that shit. She starts to invest more and engage me which is a great sign, I create a vaccum of silence to make things slightly awkward to "flip the script". H34RT arrived in the City and is texting me up, I talk some more and work out logistics and it's pretty ace for the weekend. We agree to meet up again (tomorrow). I take her number but completely foget to text her mine. Eventually I remember and she hits me back within seconds and we get a conversation flowing - she's really into it. Hoping to fuck her brains out now!

I decide you can never put all your eggs in one basket and it's always best to keep on approaching new bitches. 6 girls is better then 1 girl. Meet up with H34RT and we get down to business.

I hit up loads of girls in different situations. Get some customary blow outs of girls just knowing what to do and give the "DURRRR" response and run away. Some are super into it and are like "Damn".  Training yourself to be completely free of out the outcome is so key in achieving consistent comfort levels. Never let a bad reaction or a good reaction boost your process orientated paradigm.

Tons of lessons learnt today for sure. Did about three hours in total, a really good session.

Lessons

1. Girls are open to anything. I said it last week, I will say it again. You just don't know what these girls are up for. They have zero accountability to guys they know and neither should you. They're horny sluts walking around in the day dreaming about some cute guy to step up and take them home with them.

2. Go for impossible situations in the day. Treat some sets as your challenges. Girl sitting down next to a few other people on a public bench. She's busy chatting on the phone, I go in straight up in her face and tell her what's up. She's loving it. She's on the phone but she pretty much stops talking to her friend or whoever and is fixated on our conversation. At one point in the interaction I think she is talking to the person behind the phone but she's like "no, I'm talking to you". It's literally insane on what our minds (because of survival and fear mechanisms) thinks we are going to be successful in. Never trust your mind, it's geared for survival only.

3. Get up in the bitches face - One of the approaches I hard stop the and she LOVES it. She takes out her headphones and we are literally Face-to-Face in the middle of the street. We vibe for a bit but she's like "fuck, I've gotta go to work, I'm running late". I pull her in and get the digits and she happily complies. I think to myself "flake city", too much of a quick conversation and this will buzz out eventually. Get home to a couple of texts from her asking where I live, where I'm from etc. Crazy.

4. Blowouts and rejections are key to success - Quite a few girls in the "pick-up" community term rejected me today. Weren't interested to talk to me, carried on walking, were unavailable, too old etc. Some girls are going to love you regardless how many mistakes you make, some girls are gonna hate you regardless how slick your game is.

5. Subcommunication conveys all intent - No need to verbalise! No need to verbalise anything. When you get your fear and comfort levels consistently down, your body language automatically will tell the girl what's UP!. You can even go up to the and say "hi" and she will be like "i'm too old for you" or... "damn, hi". I always thought in the day time especially that I'd have to go up and be super direct to convey my intent. WRONG.

6. Treat day game the exact same as night game - Hit up the girls and say whatever the fuck you want to say.

7. Game is all about internalising key fundamentals - Once you get to a good standard it's all internalised in the sub-conscious. You don't need to logically remember anything you can just fire and spit out game/deal with situations without thinking. In the absence of fear your natural skills come through. As Ozzie would say the human body adaps to situations given time, when you first start you get the awkward silences.. after a few months they don't become akward anymore and you fill the gaps. 

Cool - that's me done. Loving the process/journey, opposed to the results. The act of getting to this stage in game has been far more fun and rewarding than actually getting the girls. It's coming up to a year (in February 2014) a year since my bootcamp (time goes so quick) and I am still really motiviated to take myself to the next level. I'm hoping for big growth in 2014 and whilst I'm still actively in the game I will give it my all whilst still trying to maintain a healthy balance in life.

Cheers

Dev.
 
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Saturday 7th December - Copping hoe's in the day time - "Opening is just learning how dealing with the shit that comes your way after you open" (Credit:Julien)

Oi Oi. Bit of a naughty day game session with H34RT in the City centre of Birmingham. No is safe, day or night we are out to hit your bitches up. Joking aside, it's pretty true haha. Day game is literally like childs play for those who do fear technology. If you're a professional boxer and in your training camp you have trained 9 minutes per round with 16oz gloves with two sparring partners- imagine how easy you will find the ACTUAL fight when you fight 3 minute rounds, with 10oz gloves with one opponent. You train hard you pull easy. 

As USUAL H34RT is late. I park up and head over to the street to see what's happening. My comfort zones are absolutely fine but I wouldn't say they are super high. I hit the streets and they're nice and busy. I make myself a promise, the first remotely hot girl I see I have to approach. No problems. Of course, I make this promise to myself and what do I see... This walks down the street (with probably slightly smaller tits and slightly darker skin)

All of a sudden the fear symptoms rush into my body. Nice. Let's work with them. I walk behind her "tap-tap". Boom. I'm in. Before I even say anything (verbals) I just gaze into her eyes naturally. She know's what's up straight away. I'd say emotionally hooked from the get-go. She crosses her legs and just stands there and starts talking to me. We joke arounda bit and I realise I have some fear symptoms - Not sure why, perhaps because it's my first approach of the day or because I'm solo or perhaps because she's so fucking hot. It goes away within one minute of the interaction and I just build, build, build from there.

We keep talking and she says "Do you want to walk with me" - I agree but tell her to come for a drink instead. She complies. I pull her by the hand and head over to a quiet coffee shop. Sit at the table and I am queing for coffee for AGES. Anyway, head back to the table and start talking some more. Initially I think she was emotionally hooked but then logic started pouring into her brain. When I pulled her for a insta-date she said "I'm kinda seeing somoene" - My response "It's fine" - and pulled her by the arm anyway :). I remember almost getting into the trap of over-gaming when we were having a drink trying to generate those positive emotions i.e look how good my game is etc. But I refrain and realise that she's with you on a mini date, she already likes you chill the fuck out, focus on outside the performance mantra and start gaming yourself. It works a treat. (Note:just follow the damn fundamentals and everything else falls into place)

We talk for about 45 minutes and she starts to really get into the conversation, opening up talking about interests, her home, her hobbies all that shit. She starts to invest more and engage me which is a great sign, I create a vaccum of silence to make things slightly awkward to "flip the script". H34RT arrived in the City and is texting me up, I talk some more and work out logistics and it's pretty ace for the weekend. We agree to meet up again (tomorrow). I take her number but completely foget to text her mine. Eventually I remember and she hits me back within seconds and we get a conversation flowing - she's really into it. Hoping to fuck her brains out now!

I decide you can never put all your eggs in one basket and it's always best to keep on approaching new bitches. 6 girls is better then 1 girl. Meet up with H34RT and we get down to business.

I hit up loads of girls in different situations. Get some customary blow outs of girls just knowing what to do and give the "DURRRR" response and run away. Some are super into it and are like "Damn".  Training yourself to be completely free of out the outcome is so key in achieving consistent comfort levels. Never let a bad reaction or a good reaction boost your process orientated paradigm.

Tons of lessons learnt today for sure. Did about three hours in total, a really good session.

Lessons

1. Girls are open to anything. I said it last week, I will say it again. You just don't know what these girls are up for. They have zero accountability to guys they know and neither should you. They're horny sluts walking around in the day dreaming about some cute guy to step up and take them home with them.

2. Go for impossible situations in the day. Treat some sets as your challenges. Girl sitting down next to a few other people on a public bench. She's busy chatting on the phone, I go in straight up in her face and tell her what's up. She's loving it. She's on the phone but she pretty much stops talking to her friend or whoever and is fixated on our conversation. At one point in the interaction I think she is talking to the person behind the phone but she's like "no, I'm talking to you". It's literally insane on what our minds (because of survival and fear mechanisms) thinks we are going to be successful in. Never trust your mind, it's geared for survival only.

3. Get up in the bitches face - One of the approaches I hard stop the and she LOVES it. She takes out her headphones and we are literally Face-to-Face in the middle of the street. We vibe for a bit but she's like "fuck, I've gotta go to work, I'm running late". I pull her in and get the digits and she happily complies. I think to myself "flake city", too much of a quick conversation and this will buzz out eventually. Get home to a couple of texts from her asking where I live, where I'm from etc. Crazy.

4. Blowouts and rejections are key to success - Quite a few girls in the "pick-up" community term rejected me today. Weren't interested to talk to me, carried on walking, were unavailable, too old etc. Some girls are going to love you regardless how many mistakes you make, some girls are gonna hate you regardless how slick your game is.

5. Subcommunication conveys all intent - No need to verbalise! No need to verbalise anything. When you get your fear and comfort levels consistently down, your body language automatically will tell the girl what's UP!. You can even go up to the and say "hi" and she will be like "i'm too old for you" or... "damn, hi". I always thought in the day time especially that I'd have to go up and be super direct to convey my intent. WRONG.

6. Treat day game the exact same as night game - Hit up the girls and say whatever the fuck you want to say.

7. Game is all about internalising key fundamentals - Once you get to a good standard it's all internalised in the sub-conscious. You don't need to logically remember anything you can just fire and spit out game/deal with situations without thinking. In the absence of fear your natural skills come through. As Ozzie would say the human body adaps to situations given time, when you first start you get the awkward silences.. after a few months they don't become akward anymore and you fill the gaps. 

Cool - that's me done. Loving the process/journey, opposed to the results. The act of getting to this stage in game has been far more fun and rewarding than actually getting the girls. It's coming up to a year (in February 2014) a year since my bootcamp (time goes so quick) and I am still really motiviated to take myself to the next level. I'm hoping for big growth in 2014 and whilst I'm still actively in the game I will give it my all whilst still trying to maintain a healthy balance in life.

Cheers

Dev.
 
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"Thats where the skills are made- in the high intensity situations" - Ozzie, on program February 2013 "We don't bail, we fail" - Ozzie, on program February 2013 "Perfecionism if a form of temporary insanity; in this game become a perfectionist on the things you can control" - Ozzie, on program February 2013 Ozzie Bootcamp - February 2013 Alumini ~ see below for my field reports :) TOP DISCOVERIES IN THE FIELD http://www.rsdnation.com/node/401702/forum

 
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For some reason the picture didn't upload above, anyway like this but slightly smaller tits and slightly darker skin.

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Sunday 8th December - Date with Indian gir from day game yesterday (above) leads to LMR

Bitch is stunning, turns up looking exactly like this with not as much legs showing and slightly darker skin



Evening time
  • Girl texts me asking me to bring my friend along to the date. Trying to sell the idea of a double date.
  • I completely dismiss it and tell her to come alone 
  • I get the feeling she may flake but she doesn't
Date
  • I get to the bar slightly early and chill spot a cool place to relax
  • Girl arrives looking sexy as fuck. Tight wet leggings, no huge amount of leg showing but a low cut top. I always tell my girls to wear heels and they all do as they're told and she complies
  • Date goes fine, I create lots of akward silences to create a vaccum and she's forced to fill the blanks. Invests a lot more
  • Tells me how ballsy she thinks I am for approaching her
  • I enjoy the moment, just be myself and engagage the in conversation. On several occassions I call her a or a with no "performance related" agenda and she LOVES it.
  • She tells me how for some reason she loves being called a bitch/ho
  • I tell her how I love bad ass Indian ho's and how it turns me on when girls are "bad" opposed to "good girls"
  • Tell her I'm not interested in a relationship when the question crops up. She seems fairly fine with 
  • She orders two alcoholic drinks (I get the first, she gets the second round - I don't drink anyway)
  • She tries to tell me how she's drunk after two drinks (great sign, usually girls will say I'm so drunk.. and then it's bang city and it happened because she was "drunk" lol
Pull
  • I think she actually seeds this one. Tells me how she knows some great street food. We both agree to go for a walk.
  • I'm super in screening mode now (I've invested like 1.5 hours and time is scarce for me usually, so I want to see how down this is)
  • I hold her hand outside and she's fine with it but slowly pulls away.. no big deal might just mean she's not into that type of physical contact.
  • I pull her back to my car and agree to give her a "lift" home.
  • I go for the makeout in the car and get the cheek.
  • Slightly confused as I'm like do you know who I am?! (I get all the Indian girls haha!)
  • Anyway, no big deal. As Jeffy says treat it as traffic lights, a mere cheek is an amber keep going
  • Talk, talk, talk and then drive back to her apartment.
  • Talk some more in my car and she invites me upstairs for a coffee (Suprising as she wouldn't make out in my car, perhaps she's more down for the lay in her apartment
Her apartment
  • She goes to make me a coffee and takes a while - I assume she's telling me about her flat mate (I later find out that's the case)
  • She comes back into her bedroom and she sits completely opposite me (bad vibe, lol)
  • Chat shit for a while and I get impatient as either this IS or ISNT going down tonight
  • Pull her hand and throw her on top of me on the bed & go for the makeout. Get the makeout but a really light one
  • Straight away she says "you remember, yesterday when we met in the street, I told you I was seeing someone - I wasn't lying"
  • I nod, and tell her I know she wasn't lying
  • Logically she's trying to do EVERYTHING within her arsenal not to get with me but emotionally she's there for the taking
  • Talk about sex, favourite positions and I describe to her in detail how I'd fuck her from behind with her sexy tight ass in my face
  • Start kissing her neck and turning her on
  • Slowly the lights go off and she's all over me, making out super hard and clothes are going off.
  • Pull down her knickers and enter my tip into her pussy. She loves it
  • She get's LMR and stops it a few times. This repeats about five times - to the point where it's 1am and I have a 5am start for work and get super annoyed
Closing remarks
  • She talks about how we have unfinished business, tells me to call her when I am in the City again
  • Tells me how she's not happy with her relationship/whatever it is etc.
  • She asks me several times if I'm single. I look at her in the eyes and tell her I am
  • She tells me she thinks I'm lying and that I would have no problems with getting females
  • I tell her I'm shy (quite fucked off with the whole situation)
  • Last chance saloon I grab her and put her on my dick. She is sitting on top of me and my dick is rubbing against her and she loves it
  • I lift her legs up in the air and put them on my shoulder and she says "I just don't trust myself around you, I'm so attracted to you, but my concious will kill me"
  • I tell her I'll be gone in a few hours and she complies, looks like it's on again.
  • She gets into her head again and I call it a night. Just not my luck it seems
Lessons
  • Women love sex, they will do anything for it if she's available. Sometimes you can get in a shitty situation like I did above but the lessons you learn ensure you grow (even if it's just your dick growing!)
  • Women have zero accountability to guys (even their boyfriends/whoever they are seeing)
  • Always frame the relationship so you are the lover & then switch to the provider if you really want to and you enjoy her company
  • The best way to become the lover (IMO right now) is to escalate quickly - first date. If you get the cheek, or the no, it's all good - no problems. You need to go for it. Some girls may reject it initially and come back on the next date and let you fuck them or some girls may allow you to fuck them that night
  • You can never calibrate what girls are up for - social conditoning is so full of bullshit it's unreal. Yes they are happy for you to pick them up on the street and fuck them the very next day, just take the responsibility off them and constantly put yourself in situations when you can fuck and take the initiative
  • Girls love it when you treat them like sluts/ho's
On a side-note, for pure self-amusement and no agenda, I start calling her a filthy for cheating on her boyfriend (just to see how far I can push the envelope) logic tells you that she would be horrified and kick me out, far from it, she loved it, if anything it turned her on even more. Weird.

Life is good right now, growing in all areas and I just can't complain. The girls are getting HOTTER and it's become EASIER to attract high quality ho's. 

Cheers
Dev
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Nice work Dev. You did pretty well.
 
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Cheers boss. Looking forward to hitting it up with you this week. Fri and Sat yeah?

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Yeah mate Friday & Saturday!
At the usual. Will text you.
 
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Friday 13th December - "Winners don't wait for chances, they take them"

Birmingham! Meet up with H34RT, Callum__ and good old Fabian for a night of cold approaching. Probably stay out until 3am hitting the streets after the club dries out so a good little session. On another note going out consistently has taught me how late you have to stay out if you actually want to lay the girls you meet the same night. It's like all of a sudden around 3:30am these girls are open to the next chapter of the night, when I get home at like 3:30am I have texts from girls saying they're leaving the club what's next etc. In the words of Alexander~ IDIOT! Should have stayed out that little bit longer.

On another note, cold approaching and meeting girls in the day time is really working well for building leads at night time. Forget the marketing hype from companies that sell daytime products that sell the notion that the girls during the day are "classy and don't go out" - same girl that go out at night and act like the same ho's you meet during the club. So I have a bunch of girls I met out in the day time that are open to meeting up during the night for after parties etc. Good way to build leads.

Messed around quite a bit tonight, pushed the envelope and approached the fearful situations or the situations where you think just "wouldn't work". You're always pleasantly suprised a lot of times these situations go REALLY well or these situations are never as bad as you think at first instance.

Hook about three girls tonight that are super into me but just couldn't get it done due to logistics/other situations. The first one a rough sexy Indian girl on the street before we hit the venue, was quite a fun interaction. Asking me questions like why I decided to approach her, am I drunk - actually stole her from another guy so the situation/energy was already there. I didn't have to do much. Second was a sexy mixed race girl I pulled away from her group who was texting me late at night to hook up. Third haha, was a Spanish girl who allowed me to chill with her for a while before dropping the bomb shell that she's already seen me get with her friend tonight (mixed race girl) And the one that pissed me off the most - a super sexy Indian girl begging me to approach her, so I do, and we talk for a while and it's super on, anime eyes, and her friend starts giving her shit for talking to me over the guy she's out with tonight. Goes horrible.

Got blown out a ton tonight, re-approached a few times and still got blown out which is refereshing as I usually "hook" sets with ease, but it's great and part of the learning process.

Lessons

1. Absence of fear you're timing is perfect - Everything is so fucking calibrated there's no "durrr what do I say next" there's no "rushing your sentence" it's like talking to your friends back at home, completely normal without any issues.

2. In the absence of fear you have core confidence - When I pulled the mixed race girl away from her group she said "i love how confident you are" - I am hearing this more and more from girls now in the absence of fear you have nothing blocking your way. No negative thoughts.

3. Hit up sets that intimidate you - Always key to do that, the benefit and growth is within these

4. Always be a sexual threat - Make sure the girls know what's up (non verbally is fine)

5. Strive to get your two minutes - buid that lean muscle. If a group pushes you away, walk away no need to plough.

6. Become an independent player - Don't rely on situational confidence (environment, wings, mood) you should always be able to approach naturally any time any place. This time last year I could never approach without a support mechanism behind me (i.e. friends/wings)

First time in a long time I approached a girl and got "blown out" and then she goes with another guy who cold approaches her, usually when there's an outcome I get it lol. She was smoking hot too! Re-approached, nothing haha.

Focus on the actions not the reactions ;-) Quick shout out to the guys I go out with (H34RT, Callum__ Fabian) some of the growth I've seen from you guys in the last few months has been inspiring, keep it up.

Out today.

Dev.
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Saturday 14th December - Day game, "You're not in her league bro"

Decided to take a trip into the local city. Cut a long story short see two girls and approach the hottest one. To my amusement the friend switches on me "You're not in her league bro" lol. After some banter back and forth and finding out what league her friend plays in she doesn't seem like she wants to engage in too much of a conversation. I remember saying to H34RT afterwards how rare that occasion is - One in one hundred would a girl or her friend respond in that way. The key to all of this is = train the same way whether you are winning or losing.

Whilst I love hitting up girls in the day, the only issue with it is girls under age. Some of these girls look so old it's crazy. So, as always H34RT is late so I decide to take a walk. See a cute girl and go for the approach, we vibe and it blows open absolutely fine. She even suggests that we take a walk to the other side of the street all is good. She then drops the bombshell she's still in school and is 16. Omg. I laugh and politely excuse myself. This exact same situation REPEATS itself on the next approach. This time, even H34RT gives his approval the girl looks old enough. It blows open beautifully and her friend even allows me to carry on the conversation and then I find out she's 16! Politely excuse myself once again.

Bounce for a coffee with H34RT and sit outside to find a fairly sexy Indian girl walk away. I run after her, approach her and vibe. She loves it, the man-to-woman communication is spot on, zero fear it's like childs play. She's sucked into the zone and loving every minute of it. Engaging me, asking questions and creating this little bubble. She's going back to work so it's impossible to pull her to an instant date location so I have to get the number which he gives straight away without any hesitation.

It's actually quite scary, if you have normal social skills you can talk to girls in the exact same way as you would at night time as you would during the day. RSD have been preaching this for years but until you actually go out and try it you just don't realise it.

Get a few blowouts, unavailable girls but carry on going.

Opportunities are endless at the moment and I'm not sure how long this will continue, I'm meeting new girls every week and getting solid connections. My issue is I work a lot of hours mid week and travel constantly. It leaves with me little free time and most my free time goes on family or actually going out a few nights a week + a few days. It sounds retarded but If I didn't go out and worked the leads I get each week on a more consistent basis and spent more times with these girls I'd get laid 10x more. For some reason, I see more value in learning the skillset then just purely building the harem. Perhaps I will spend more time staying in + getting laid opposed to building the skillset in the future. It's certainly food for thought. Right now, I'd say i'm living in good abundance, you never quite know when you will lose all your girls so it's key that you have the skillset to cop new girls on a weekly or daily basis to keep you in that abundance mentality.

Peace.

Dev.
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