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Ozzie BC Alumni- Top lessons/discoveries learnt in the field
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Thursday 21st - Solo, Birmingham - One of the citys toughest clubs. "Train hard, pull easy"



I just love these clubs, they are the best training environment to go to. Going solo makes it even more challenging but when you realise how to manage fear and the negative thought pattern (NTP) system training and playing independently is the name of the game.

Had work first thing this morning, no wings to go out with the logical solution would have been to stay at home. I had a mountain of tasks to complete this morning with work but I still decided to go out even if it was just for half an hour, I think the growth and lessons you can achieve just by short solo bursts are invaluable. On a side note, I think anyone who's become a pimp in this game will have had to go through stages of catching ho's alone.

Whilst on the topic of being a pimp I really should stop thinkinf of girls of just ho's. Reading Rosebudds book and now reading iceberg slim it's really shaped my paradigm to every girl is just a and i've fallen more in love with myself! Then again, it's not a bad paradigm, it just makes game more fun.

Hit up the hardest club by far tonight, it presents a fantastic learning experience, win or lose you get the skills when you walk out of this place it really is win-win.

Funnily enough whilst I was queing and entering the club the doorman looks at me and goes "who are you with" so I politely respond "my friends are inside" when you respond with assurity and don't make a big deal about things it's perfectly fine. He quickly jokes and says he's just joking around and then we get into a conversation bizzarely. Anyway enter the club and just before me a few guys get kicked for having weapons.. nice lol.

Enter the club.. zero fear... enter the toughest dancefloor in the place... zero fear. Feel like i'm in my living room, completely feel at ease, it's such a rewarding situation to be in because I've slowly but surely worked so hard at attacking my fears to make this possible...

Spot a challenge that looks quite difficult.. automatically comfort level drops. Perfect, that's my approach.

Head over to the dance floor, see two girls dancing on a mini-stage. Super fucking sexy. One of them looks so horny too, but also mega bitchy. A guy tries talking to them but before they get to know him.. he bails. Hmm..

Okay, time to get my two minutes, I approach straight face-on to my girl. No response from my opener, I plough a little it and light switch.. it's on. Suprisingly... her friend GRABS me. Initially I think fuck.. a cock-block, but actually she's trying to game me. I look at the friend and she's even hotter.. so I switch up to the friend and she's pretty much gaming me, asking me where I'm from how old I am bla bla. Then all of a sudden the friend starts chasing me and qualifying herself to me. Kind of competing with her friend slightly. Not bad for my first approach, stay in there for a bit and then move on to the next challenge.

Head back to the dance floor and see lots of opportunity but I can quickly spot the one my mind DOESN'T want anything to do with.. that's my approach then. Super stunning girl must be about 6" in her heels, I approach straight up in her face and hang in there, she's loving it but her friend isn't... tries to cock block which I diffuse for a while before she finally grabs her. Doesn't matter if you fail, get turned on by your actions opposed to your reactions

Really short session but always with any night out we always look to the lessons:

1. Your comfort levels will automatically drop when confronted with a genuine fearful situation - That's fine, the bigger the challenge the bigger the pay off. Approach that situation

2. Girls take a while to open up - Don't expect to "get the girl" from the opener, even though if you go out enough this will happen a fair share of the time.

3. Always get/go for the number if you talk to the girl for two minutes - build leads, you don't know what might happen

4. Always throw yourself into the most difficult/fearful situations this is where the best learning takes place - Deal with the shit after, subjecting yourself to failure and difficult situations represents the most growth of the overall skillset

5. Always make sure you set the rhythm of the interaction - With complete freedom from the outcome. 

Out tonight

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Friday 22nd November - "Fear technology makes impossible situations possible"

Putting this up a bit later than expected but work has just been manic. Had a really good night, met up with H34RT, Callum__ and Fabian. Club was empty to begin with but start getting really busy around 1am which was perfect.

I really loved tonight whilst the fear is consistently going down each month I continue with fear technology, the raw natural skills are getting better and better - doing so much less but the calibration/confidence is on key. I'm pretty sure I read a post from Goran~ a while ago that says once you implement this stuff long-term you just get naturally confident, the skillset comes automatically and you play a pretty nice numbers game (in my opinion).

One thing that's consistently happening at the moment is me hitting on the girls friends once I hit on her. It's awesome as logically prior to this I thought if you approach one girl in a group it's going to come off as sleazy and awkward if you try hit on her friend- but damn these girls love it. Approach her friend, switch to her friend and mack on her for pure self-amusement. They chase you harder. It's crazy.

Another thing that's happening consistently is girls actively hunting me down. Girls throwing their friends into me so we start a conversation. It's pretty epic. You remove the fear, and they can smell a confident man in the room. I don’t know, maybe I am over thinking all of this but it certainly seems like it's going that way. It's pretty cool.

Fear technology = hitting up impossible challenges. There were two different challenges tonight that went super amazing.
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  • Hitting on a girl whilst she's getting chatted up in the club by another guy, the girl gets freaked out with me hitting on her and goes back to her friend - eventually to find me in the club later on in the night and APOLOGISE to me about her behaviour and actively chill with me in isolation. Six months ago or even prior to Bootcamp I wouldn't even think this shit was possible. I remember when I approached her slowly but surely her body language moved from the guy to me. It's crazy how you can pull the robbery on guys in the club. Girls have zero accountability to guys in the club. None whatsoever - you should have none either, hit on all her friends, make out with girls in front of her. It doesn't matter.
  • Approaching a girl whilst she's walking on the STAIRS from the ground floor. Picture that though – you’re tip-toeing to speak to the girl, she's already like a foot higher -It’s crazy. Not only does the girl stop but her friends are pulling her hand to carry on walking up the stairs. She's causing massive mayhem in the club causing a delay for others on the stairs.. but she doesn't see any of it.. she just sees her new reality.. Which is you! Talk for like 10 minutes and almost pull her out the club. She eventually says "come upstairs".
Instead of looking at the above of bragging rights, which is not intentional I just want to get the point across that no situation is "impossible" in reality, you really don't know what's going to happen and that's the beauty and fun of this game. She may blow you out, but you get the reference experiences she may game you off the approach or perhaps nothing happens... that's the game gents.

I've had a massive rise in my game this last month I think I’ve gone to the next level in the mastery curve I fully expect a month or so of "nothing happening" - love the process, it's the only way to grow in this game.

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  1. Girls will initially give you that "firewall", at the beginning of the interaction. This can be anything from lying about their name, putting on a fake personality or just being cold. This is completely normal, just stay in there and even call them out on it. Approach a girl on the street, she lies about her name. I call her out she maintains she's telling the truth, slowly but surely she tells the truth and gets into a normal conversation with me.
  2. A loud noise in the room eventually fades - i.e. you go to the gym and lift 100kg, you're going to struggle to begin with but eventually the human body adapts to any change. Same with game, big challenges, tough situations eventually fades and you will become competent handling these situations.
  3. Sometime there is no outcome - If a girl doesn't want it, there's no amount of game that's going to "work". Push it as far as you can - do everything within your control.
  4. Some girls genuinely have an excuse not to talk to you - Approach a girl, plough plough and plough some more. Nothing, she's too fixated on her phone, all of a sudden she apologies, tells me she was looking for her friend etc. Low and beyond her friend turns up and they are both chasing me, I hit on both of them just for the amusement. They start competing with each other for me it's pretty cool to see how badly we are under the illusion of social conditioning.
  5. My masculine polarity is becoming scary - Strip away the fear, and you have this core element of masculine energy and skills, it's quite scary how calibrated this can be when you chunk away the fear
  6. Sometimes you can't get your two minutes - Plough like a champion and there's no shame in not getting an outcome that perhaps wasn't there, have goals outside of performance
  7. Always push out your comfort zone - No pain, no growth. Approach a stunning girl getting chatted up by a really "ghetto" looking guy. Nothing bad happens, fear is in our mind only but we still must take it seriously.
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Friday 22nd November (Before the club)

Before I hit the club meet the Indian girl that I met a few weeks ago. Go over to her house to chill. She invites me over as she has a free house. When I get there she's dolled herself up looking like a tidy little Ho. Talk some shit for a bit and end up making out and fooling around. I look at the time and it's game time, I have the opportunity to fuck her again tonight and risk not going out or just going out and hitting the next stage of my development with success with women. I realise and know that there's little value in staying and fucking her so I leave her house early and hit the club.

When I grab her and go for the kiss she says "I've never met a guy so self-assured as you". This led me to start thinking about my whole journey.. Your new identify sometimes makes you feel that you were always like "this". It's nice to go back and see the progress you've made - you realise that following the process long-term yields big growth, but you have to look at things over periods of time opposed to daily.

Some may find this strange and I can agree with your thought processes. Most people I know get into game to find a new girlfriend. They want to find her as quickly as possible so they don't have to go out anymore and face their fears of cold approaching situations that seem daunting. Perhaps this was my thought processes when I first got into this but as you go deeper and deeper into mastery of success with women you start falling in love with yourself more than the girls. You get turned on way more by your actions than the girls specific reactions. One of the biggest advantages of learning the actual SKILLSET is you have complete faith in your ability to put a shirt on, go to the club a few times a week and know you will catch a new ho. No girl is special and there's hundreds of available girls out there.

Saturday 23rd November

Night off from the club, spend it with my Primary. Get some nice food, watch the boxing and just chill all night. Nice deserved break. It's good to strike a balance between training your balls off and chilling the fuck out.
 
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Thursday 28th November - Date, massive bad luck

Meet up with a girl I have been talking to, probably our third meet-up. Pick her up and she's dressed like an uber lol. I absolutely love this girls physical appearance. She's cute but with that slutty appeal, massively attractive to me.

I pick her up and we talk for about ten minutes in the car before we start making out. I can tell she's a bit nervous/shy because we are in the car and she's probably scared of being caught etc. I diffiuse the situation and tell her it's all good. Things get more heated so I decide to park up in a completely private place (so I thought!).

We drive to an area where it looks desserted.. pitch black, a place that you wouldn't even expect to find animals roaming about at night. It seems perfect. I tell her to get into the back of the car and with some light resistance and me persisting more and telling her it's going to be alright, she jumps in the back. Happy days.

We jump in the back and we start going at it hard. I take my jeans off and she goes down south on me. Perfect head too. I turn her on a bit and tell her to pull down her knickers - she complies.

I grab a condom and it takes about five minutes to open the damn thing - no idea why but this particular condom wrapper was fucked. I decide to grab another. Only issue is, the condoms are in the front of the car and we are in the back and I have my damn trousers down. I pull them up grab the second condom and it's all good.

We carry on making out and I am super turned on and wrap the new condom on. The bastard thing splits. Fuck sake. At this point I think she will be freaking out but she's absolutely cool with it, no issue what so ever. I have several condoms so it's no big deal, just frustrating.

I get ANOTHER condom on and it's all good. To my disbelief a fucking car pulls up and decides it wants to go down this damn alley that we are parked near. She now starts to freak a bit but I diffuse the situation but the moment is kinda gone.

I tell her to suck me off and bust a nut in her mouth. When I drop her back home she tells me I owe her next week.

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Some may find this strange and I can agree with your thought processes. Most people I know get into game to find a new girlfriend. They want to find her as quickly as possible so they don't have to go out anymore and face their fears of cold approaching situations that seem daunting. Perhaps this was my thought processes when I first got into this but as you go deeper and deeper into mastery of success with women you start falling in love with yourself more than the girls. You get turned on way more by your actions than the girls specific reactions. One of the biggest advantages of learning the actual SKILLSET is you have complete faith in your ability to put a shirt on, go to the club a few times a week and know you will catch a new ho. No girl is special and there's hundreds of available girls out there.
 


I relate so much to this. I think it's because you're doing Ozzie style, just as me. By doing this shit, we get, i dunno, like so much more than just learning how to talk to women.

I don't know about you but every time I go out and do this shit, it's like my brain got re-wired. Such an amazing feeling.

It's like bodybuilding. You get in because you want the muscle. Then, you stay in because you love going to the gym and pushing it hard. Muscle become just a cool bonus. But the love is in the hussle.

Lovin your journal man :)
 
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@17 thanks for the comments man  loving the support - I know what you're trying to say. It really just shifts your focus in the process related paradigm opposed to results based.

The husle is just awesome - constantly pushing it harder, creating ways to make your comfort levels drop to spike the growth.

I've just seen your thread and you mention a cool book, power of habit I'll check it out and add it to the reading list.

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Saturday 30th November - Day game, "Constantly being on and in the zone"

An interesting one - my best friend collects me from my house, he's not into game or anything like that at all, just a cool regular guy that gets enough women through social circles and occasionally cold approach. We head over to a small city to do some shopping. No focus on day game what so ever, but he knows that I like to cold approach and is fully supportive of the idea.

It's just crazy.. once you hit a good peak in fear technology, it's hard to explain but just imagine you have no fear.. nothing holding you back. You hit up every situation you see (not as a serial opener or a lame pu guy) but with really good calibration, confidence and a good skillset behind you. I don't know how longer I can keep this up but it just feels like I see a hot girl and I'm in there. No negative thoughts, no gush of fear to ruin the interaction it's like my "best self" coming through.

So we hit the shopping centre for shopping and it's fully of hot bitches. I always like to think of day game of a place of going about your daily business and hit up girls as and when you see them, opposed to walking around looking for girls in a creepy manner.

So I see a really cute skinny Indian girl and It's game time. Approach her and I startle her a bit and she jumps. Slowly calibrate and start talking and she's a bit apprehensive to begin with and it looks like this isn't going anywhere and she's a "no" girl. Stick out the two minute rule and it completely turns on it's head. The flip scripts and she starts gaming me hard core. She uses a line "let's stop with the pleasantries now, lets get to business, what's your name, where are you from, how old are you" Lol.

Must spend about half an hour talking to her, she tells me how she's single, hasn't met any cool guys, her passions her hobbies. The problem is = i've been doing this for so long now I hear the same shit from all bitches. They all have their own passions, their own issues with guys not being cool enough and un-intentionally I kinda switch off and my body language drops a little. She calls me out on it, asking me if she's boring me, apologies to me - it's quite an amusing scenario how far the script really switched.

If it wasn't for my mate I would have taken her for a coffee and chatted more and worked logistics but bare in mind my buddy isn't into game and we decided to hit the shops (perhaps wrongly) I take the number and agree a date in a few days.

I'm going to try and get a pic of her and post it on here as she's truly fucking gorgeous.

We carry on shopping and I see one of my old wings that I used to game with and all of a sudden it's a bit of a party. I just kept building and building. To my astonishment my reality get's blown each time I approach on HOW OPEN THESE GIRLS ARE to just WALK AWAY with a brand new guy they met. There's NO WAY we know what these girls are down for. Jeffy talks about this in the video about his van, I mean who the fuck would think girls would just jump in a van with a guy they just met? Wel, it happens son.

Next approach, blow out city, drives me to the next approach - full on interaction. Girl has "bambi eyes" from the start. Isolate her around the shopping centre, get physical and lightly touch/hug. Take her to a coffee shop,but she wants to grab dinner.. I'm like I'm with my friends and he's driving so it's impossible. Grab the number and I'll add her to the funnell.

Do some more approaches, get some blow outs of girls not even wanting to stop/talk which is abolutely fine - you have no control over a lot of this.

Lessons

1. There's no way you will ever know what girls are open to. They have zero accountability and will walk/fuck/date a guy they just met in minutes.
2. Game is about choice, not manipulating the interaction. When you get a girl she want's it on some un-conscious level, you can't control the outcome regardless how good your game is.
3. Rejection and failure are to be embraced with success
4. Day game is so easy when you hit the hard club approaches in fear technology
5. Do the same in the day as you do in the night. Get up in the girls face square on and and talk to her. There's no difference.

On a side-note I remember my eye contact being so in point in the first interaction, without me even actively managing it. It's becoming internalised which is cool. Plenty of blowouts too but that's the beauty of the game.

Out tonight, back soon.

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Saturday 30th November - "Giving the girls the lottery ticket"

So deluded. When I approach I feel like I am giving the girls the lottery ticket lol. Had a fun night from the earler session of chatting ho's up in the day I was already pretty much in the zone. Fear & comfort levels nice and low which makes a big difference going in to the club. One important benefit of going out regular is your lack of performance related fears prior to a night out. When I was only going out a couple nights per month you automatically have this pressure to do well on a particular night. Good article by Tyler where talking about how the game is played in cycles, you have really monster crushing nights, normal nights and poor nights. The very fact is, it doesn't matter when you go out consistently as you constantly get new girls.

Meet up with H34RT, Callum__ and Fabian later in the night. Club is pretty busy from 11:30 onwards so there's plenty of girls to go about. It's a general audience night club instead of high-end. I wanted to do high-end tonight but with four/five guys you practically have no chance, next time for sure.

Enter the club/dance floor, I feel like I am at home. Quite a sad thought really thinking that a loud crazy dance floor is the same as being at home. I have no agenda/outcome tonight, none at all. I really couldn't give a fuck if any of the approaches went well or not - I really don't need the girls for anything. I view all my nights out now as practice sessions anyway, like a football player practicing on the field, he doesn't care if he misses 10x as it's all learning experiences.

H34RT picks my first challenge and fair enough it looked like a pretty difficult challenge. Tall white blonde stunner of the club. Probably the hottest girl there tonight. She must have been about 6'3 in her heels - lol, I feel the fear. On top of that, she's dancing with some guy too, just them two so this is going to be quite a reference experience I think. I make the decision to just approach the girl and ignore the guy. Good old line "Approach and then deal with the shit afterwards" - in essence there was no "shit" to deal with. I approach her and she gives no signals or reactions, she just listens and all of a sudden this dime piece is up in my grill. I start dancing with her and make out with her - I pull her outside the dance floor and all is going well. But the lame dude she's with actually follows us off the dance floor ha. Now, this wouldn't be so weird if he was trying to steal the girl back but he was doing absolutely NOTHING. Not talking, not pulling just following us like a creep. She tells him to go away and he complies eventually. 

So, I have a solid 8 on my hands that's literally on me like a rash and is super into me. I look at the time and it's like 11:45 ugh. Would have been perfect if it was later in the night but it's just too early to pull or do anything. Chill some more, relax by the bar get to know her, get the digits and keep talking some more. Let her go back to her friends with the hope I can find her later. Good approach, the bigger the challenge, the bigger the pay off. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

Carry on stepping up to girls in the club throughout the night and got lots of "blowouts" or did I? My only criteria for success is approaching and getting my two minutes. Which I did on most of interactions tonight except the two really tough challenges that H34RT pointed out

a) A guy and a girl in a big group together, approach and he's the boyfriend so it's pretty tough to grind it out as the girl is actively jumping towards the guy opposed to talking to me
b) Approaching a stunning Indian girl and I have a pretty good feeling he was the over protective brother who got pretty aggressive straight away telling me to fuck off. There wasn't much interest coming back from the girl so I bounced. 

Ozzie rules = only leave if they physically push you away or you are told to fuck off. Everything else is fair game, good enough for me.

Chat up a sexy Indian girl, her friend comes to cock block, looks at me and says "you're kinda cute so I'm going to walk away and let you talk to her" lol. Crazy bitches. Plenty of other situations that are hitted up.

Lessons:

1. No fear = no outcome.
2. Be present to the physical symptoms of fear i.e. lose legs, heart racing etc.
3. The blonde girl approached shattered my reality.
4  Always approach first and then deal with the shit (opposed to predicting what may or may not happen)
5. A fight will never happen, you can always diffuse the situation
6. Always step up to the ho. No excuses
7. Be shameless in getting girls/intent = Approach one sexy indian girl and then start talking to her friend. These girls are also shameless they will talk/allow you to chat them up after they just saw you talking to their friends.
8. Focus on performance  = it goes down
9. There's no way to avoid rejections




 
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Friday 6 December - Date "If a girl gives you shit.. NEXT" (Credit:Jeffy)

Bit of an odd weekend for me. Came down with a horrible cold this all week and it doesn't clear up in time for the weekend. Had good intentions to go out on Friday night but ended up going on a date with Indian girl from just outside the city.

Makes me want to move on to my next point, game really is just about having choice/choices. Sometimes come so far down this journey that you forget what your situation was when you first started. For me, when I first got into this whole cold approach saga I was a socially normal guy with friends and had no problems with interacting with people whatsoever. Put me in a club or a street and try and make it happen and I had no chance. I had little abundance, you sometimes wodered as a young man "I wonder if I could just get a girlfriend".

Right now, that paradigm makes me laugh so much. I started this journey wanting to get more women on a consistent basis. Now, even though I am a perfectionist and I will always find problems with my performance or never entirely feel satisfied with my success I have to say I'm pretty much there (at this moment in time) fairly regular abundnace, confident in my skillset that girls are in unlimited supply. Cop & Blow happens, but you just go out and find new ho's.

Anyway, meet up a new girl for a date - make it very clear from the offset that this isn't your traditional meals, drinks, cinema type of meet up. So we agree to just chill out listen to some music parked up in my car. I quickly realise I don't like this girl at all. We make out quite a bit but she's got nothing to offer. Your typical standard 19 year old girl with no real life experiences apart from going out and getting drunk with her girlies lol.

I have no issue with that but I just get bored easily, I'd happily fuck the broad but I think (naturally) it's going to take a couple more meetups before she puts out. I realise she isn't going to put out tonight so I pretty much kick her to the curb, she's shocked and pretty disgusted.

Whilst I was delibrating what to do i.e. stick out the date for politeness, go to the club solo or meet another girl my mind was pretty much made for me. I had about 4 girls texting me during that hour asking me what I'm doing tonight etc. My thought processes are to go to the club solo and that's what I decide to do. Tell the Indian girl on the date I gotta go and she's fucked off. She realises what's up.

I think to myself, "you lose some you win some" fully expecting her to never contact me again but just goes to show how you can never predict a human (especially a girls) behaviour pattern. I decide to head over to Birmingham (I was about an hour away) and there's two huge diversions on the way home, in a nutshell It takes me 1hr 30 minutes to get home opposed to 25 minutes meaning that it's way passed entry time to get into the club. Pretty pissed off but I figure with my cold perhaps rest is not such a bad idea.

The next day Indian girl from the dating texts me telling me she had a great night lol. So weird, I fully expected her to delete my number and never call me again. In essence, she says we should meet up again, perhaps sex is on the table this time ;-) Who know's. 

Lessons:

1. You can never predict behaviours in others

2. If a girl is giving you shit or not putting out and you don't particularly enjoy her company, kick her to the curb.

3. Game should always be about you, don't micromanage what you're saying just say it how it is.

Cheers

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"Thats where the skills are made- in the high intensity situations" - Ozzie, on program February 2013 "We don't bail, we fail" - Ozzie, on program February 2013 "Perfecionism if a form of temporary insanity; in this game become a perfectionist on the things you can control" - Ozzie, on program February 2013 Ozzie Bootcamp - February 2013 Alumini ~ see below for my field reports :) TOP DISCOVERIES IN THE FIELD http://www.rsdnation.com/node/401702/forum

 
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