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Ozzie BC Alumni- Top lessons/discoveries learnt in the field
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 I took a bootcamp with Ozzie in February 2013 and have been going out regularly implementing the program. I thought it would be useful to list my top five or so lessons/discoveries learnt each night out to improve my growth in this game. I have been going out 2-3 nights per week since February without fail, but only took the concious decision to start listing my lessons last night. Aiming to make it short, simple and to the point. 05.04.13 1. Let go of the outcome emotionally & logically. Last night in my first few challenges I wanted the outcome emotionally. Nothing worked or stuck in the 1st hour for me. 2. Isolated & got a makeout from a girl when I saw the challenge and realised it was an "impossible challenge" (Mixed 8 set dancing crazy on the dancefloor all together). I truely let go of the outcome emotionally & logically and got the outcome. 3. Continue to approach "symtom based" and not mindlessly  4. When you made out with the 1st girl she subtly hinted that all of her friends are watching which promtped you to move her away from her friends so she couldn't see them, always try to isolate and then makeout and get more physical. 5. Your 2nd make out came after the 1st and the fear had dissapeared from you. 6. We don't bail we FAIL. On too many sets emotionally you wanted the outcome and the fear was high. You bailed too early. Take the abuse, take the poor reactions and get your 2minutes.
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"Thats where the skills are made- in the high intensity situations" - Ozzie, on program February 2013 "We don't bail, we fail" - Ozzie, on program February 2013 "Perfecionism if a form of temporary insanity; in this game become a perfectionist on the things you can control" - Ozzie, on program February 2013 Ozzie Bootcamp - February 2013 Alumini ~ see below for my field reports :) TOP DISCOVERIES IN THE FIELD http://www.rsdnation.com/node/401702/forum

 
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 12.04.13

Hit a different club with my regular wing. We feel pretty good before the night starts. Get into the club it's fairly busy, but with students going back home it's not super busy. Fuck it, enough girls to implement the program. Top five lessons learnt from last night -

1. Physicality, for some reason the last two nights I have been out I have a fear of getting up into the girls face and being physical. I need to amp up my physical game (which will in turn help me get my two minutes). There were a few interactions were the girls were totally quiet and attentive but it fizzled out because I was half-stepping my physical game. Tonight, physical straight off the bat, either they get out of my hold and walk away or they are down, automatic pilot screening shit going down.

2. Don't lose will/momentum once you pull early in the night - Common theme for me is on my 1st or 2nd approach (Early approaches when entering the club) I pul and isolate the girl. Spent about 45 minutes with a girl from out of town and then it didn't go down, not enough compliance and I think she wasn't DTF/wasting too much time when I screened her. Ditched her, found my wing and carried on approaching but not with enough momentum, I need to learn to keep on training un-emotionally affected whether I am winning or losing.

3. Trust the process, stop trying to think it's flawed - Just because I am not being succesful in EVERY approach (perfectionism kicking in) doesn't mean I am doing anything wrong, need to learn and trust the process 110%, even though it usually works! Must learn how to deal with my perfectionism mindset

4. Need to start hitting the two minute mark more consistently - I can control this in most occasions, yesterday I did a 45 minute set and a few 3 minute interactions, the rest I bailed too early. We don't bail we fail, it doesn't have to be going my way for me to be succesfull. 
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 13.4.12

Meet up with a local friend and my regular wing and travel into the City to go to a local club. We are slightly early so chill in a nice bar for about twenty minutes. Suprisingly quiet for a Saturday night in the centre of Birmingham, UK.

I'm feeling seriously tired today, been at a funeral all day and been out the night before. I take a nap before we go to the club which only complicates things for me as I wake up from a deep sleep even more tired. I make it out the house as there's no excuses post bootcamp programme. I feel tired and completely out the zone. 

My performance sucks tonight, probably the worse I have done in 2~3 months and certainly the worse night since my program with Ozzie. I fail to train emotionally the same regardless of my blowouts, it seems that it's not my night but my trust inmyself doesn't carry on in the next set -> i take the failure with me which doesn't help. My wing has seen me kill it for the last 2 months and tells me that I look nervous just as I go into my sets. After hearing this on my last approach before leaving the club I go in there with this in mind and boom we are back in business. I fail to isolate her but much better, I wish he had told me this earlier in the night it would have made a great difference. I get physical straight away and it even though she is hesitant it works well. Anyway, enough rambling my main lessons learnt tonight

1. Even though I was seriously tired before going to the club it's irrelevant. Sometimes when you have a commitment made in stone you cannot break it.
2. When I am having bad nights like tonight I need to go back to the bare essentials of game - do everything in my power to get my 2 minutes, something I seriously struggled with in all interactions tonight.
3. It seems I have recently magically developed a fear of being physical, start challenging myself within 1 minute to lift the girl.
4. When I am having a bad night, stop trying to value scan the room for approach invitations, stick to the process of Cold approach PU
5. Surival-> make your goal only the two minute mark, in the tough sets where you get shit/abuse take all of that -> that's where you build the skills
6. Noticed tonight I wasn't being LOUD. Again, be LOUD, FUN AND FRIENDLY style game. - As ozzie says people give you what you give them back
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19.04.13

After my horrible night last Saturday I am ready to hit the club again. No pressure no performance related anxiety. I understand that the game is played in Cycles. I absolutely crushed it four six weeks so its my time now to taper down rebuild and get ready for the next cycle or epic growth. We get to the club and the que is huge, students are back and it looks like it's buzzing outside. Cold as fuck we enter the club and get started. I do my approaches - first was a boyfriend/girlfriend. She was a super cute oriental girl really into me before the boyfriend introduces himself as the boyfriend lol. As I chat more shit I exit and say bye the girl goes for the kiss on the cheek to her boyfriends disgust ha ha. Okay enough - here's my top lessons/discoveries learnt, it's funny how the fear kicked in soon as we hit the club and the perfectionist mindset started to come out - I actively had to address it and adapt & go back to the bare minimums. I would like to continue to work to the 2 minute mark, got it on quite a few sets last night but some I should have failed rather than bailing and pushed the interaction to the bare minimums. Great example of obstace theory/zig-zag last night. Did an easy approach away from the dance floor, crushed it, the girl was totally into me, make out. PURE BOSS with the skills from the challenges.

Set myself a target of 10 new makeouts and 2 new lays this month. (Did 7 makeouts last month 0 lays - got one make out last night 9 to go)
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1. Stand straight infront of the girl square to her and be physical - anything less i.e. from the side, tapping on the shoulder & talking is just Fear preventing you from cutting the space. At the start of the night I have a fear of going in like this but ammusingly that is what will get you blown out. Big emphasis on fun & friendly eye contact.

2. The mind is a poor master, it should only be used a servant - My mind was shouting lots of NTP's (fotune telling) at me all night. The hot girl in the group doesn't want it, she will not be receptive to your approach. On quite a few occasions the hottest girl in the group was the friendlist, she was the one who wanted it the most where the skanks just carry on dancing. Direct proof that the minds agenda is only survival.

3. It's crazy how much fear a human (and myself) produce - Havent been out since last weekend but its unreal when you hit the field how much fear your body produces therefore it's important to use all the tools Ozzie gave us on program to deal with fear to let our natural skills come out.

4. My perfectionist brain must learn to accept I will get blown out the most & the hardest than anyone else - Because of the nature of the challenges that I do, the high intensity training that I do means I will see many more blowouts and more often than most people in this game - my perfecionist mind must deal with this. I should also take comfort that I will probably be getting laid much more than everyone else in the future when my skillset and charachter growth happens in this game.

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"Thats where the skills are made- in the high intensity situations" - Ozzie, on program February 2013 "We don't bail, we fail" - Ozzie, on program February 2013 "Perfecionism if a form of temporary insanity; in this game become a perfectionist on the things you can control" - Ozzie, on program February 2013 Ozzie Bootcamp - February 2013 Alumini ~ see below for my field reports :) TOP DISCOVERIES IN THE FIELD http://www.rsdnation.com/node/401702/forum

 
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 Thanks for your journal; the revelations you got from your in field experiences inspired me :)
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Pridewolf wrote:
 Thanks for your journal; the revelations you got from your in field experiences inspired me :)
No problems man, glad it's helping you :)
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 25.04.13

I went out with my usual wing on Thursday night. This was only a short night for a few hours as we both had work fairly early in the morning. We hit the club and it seems a bit different than usual~ a total cockfest in the que, spot the girl kinda shit. Anyway, inside is a bit better with more girls which pleases us a bit haha. My main aim for tonight was to do the "mission impossible" sets that Ozzie taught me on program .This is to build the skills and seriously re-inforce in my head that there are no consequences to social fuck ups - nothing happens, just our mind makes these things seem very real.

That's exactly what I do, I spot the MOST DIFFICULT sets in the club and approach them first. The first is a HOT blonde surrounded by about 5 guys trying to grind with her & her friend. My wing looks @ me and says "you are going to do that one aren't you" ha. I approach her with my hands behind my head (one of the challenges taught to me on my programme with ozzie) it doesn't go great but I continue in there, repeat my lame opener. I say to myself etiher she walks or I get the girl. I stay in there until she walks away. Fucking result, toughest set tackled zero consequences.

I come back to my wing BUZZING. I remember what Ozzie kept on reinforcing to me in my programme. "the bigger the challenge the bigger the pay off" - and my comfort levels were sky rocketing. I spot the next challenge a tall sexy mixed race girl DANCING LIKE CRAZY ON THE PODIUM. I jump up to everyones disbelif (labelling!!) I survive my shitty opener, literally couldn't hear a word she was saying and like-for-like, I don't get my two minutes but jump back to my friend.
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On to what I learnt in the field~ appreciate that I may have "learnt" this in previous nights out but just re-inforces the whole mindset that lessons will repeat themselves.

1. Tackling the hardest challenge is the best way to go in this game. It automatically increases your comfort levels & you get your natural skills. - You feel like a boss afterwards
2. Fear is produced ALL THE TIME. The 1st night of the week can almost suck to start with 
3. My biggest NTP is "all or nothing" - no grey area for me in PU, either I get the girl or I totally suck. I am a huge perfectionist
4. Perfectionism is still stong in my emotional core, I want to win everytime - I must address this when in the field
5. I seem to have a new fear of approaching guy/girl groups (never had this before) - so I will address this in the field and constantly start to approach these groups 
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"Thats where the skills are made- in the high intensity situations" - Ozzie, on program February 2013 "We don't bail, we fail" - Ozzie, on program February 2013 "Perfecionism if a form of temporary insanity; in this game become a perfectionist on the things you can control" - Ozzie, on program February 2013 Ozzie Bootcamp - February 2013 Alumini ~ see below for my field reports :) TOP DISCOVERIES IN THE FIELD http://www.rsdnation.com/node/401702/forum

 
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 26.04.13 

Friday night in one of the best clubs (in my opinion) in Birmingham. Full of hot women, literally tons. Automatically puts you in the abundance mentality becuase you know there's a girl just around the corner that's available and will welcome your interaction. Get there for just after midnight and its filling up. Definatately not your typical PU club that your community guys will go to. Loud music, bitchy girls & mixed sets. Most people in the communtiy avoid this scenario like the plague. Let's embrace it, great place for training.

I personally had a great night in the field tonight. I learnt a lot & I felt some growth tonight - As Ozzie said to me on program a bad night is only where you don't learn anything and I can honestly say every night I have learnt something new since my program. I had a conversation with Goran~ this morning about physical game. I personally felt this was an area I have been neglecting (sub-conciously) in recent weeks and we both agree I go out in the field tonight and get phsyical OFF-THE-BAT. Either the chick is down with my gig or she is not. This shit automatically instills and floods major NTP's in my mind. "You will freak out the girls", "You will get beaten up by the guys for being like", "girls will find it too much". I take a step back remember what Ozzie told me on my programme "The mind is a poor master, it's solely designed with one thing in mind, survival" -> Makes perfect sense, if I actually look at what my mind is telling me it all comes down to "you are going to be killed so don't take part in this activity".

The night is great, I don't pull or get any makeouts (which is very rare for me now) but I learn a shit load & everygirl gets clawed straight off the bat. SUPRISINGLY ZERO girls freaked out with my over physical nature. Of course my perfecionist mind will DISLIKE any resistance in the future but my mindset is "I rather get blown out for physical de-escalation, rather than being verbal and getting blown out" -> I literally talked shit with most of the interactions but was super physical and dominant and got away with poor verbals. I remember on one small chick I was literally yanking her towards me with the claw, zero negativity. Fucking love it :)

Big credit to Goran & Ozzie (of course) for instilling that at club level, physical game is King. Let's go to what i learnt tonight :)
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1. The mind is a poor master, if we follow our mind we will know exactly what slavery feels like. Prior to my night my mind was telling me & in the club that being too physical will result in blowouts - survival mechanism in my mind working at it's best. The mind is rarely correct in fortune telling the outcome

2. Avoidance - this links in to the mind again and it's easy to fall in the trap of avoidance if we are not conciously aware in the club. "See hot girl, look around for another easier set that doesn't scare us or give me the symptoms of fear" = avoidance (conciously push myself to approach the hardest set first) I also saw in my wings of 'state-pumping' which Ozzie taught me is also avoidance. "Get to the club, most my wings will scream, be loud, pump their state up" = short-term state pump but very quicky a LARGER crash and PU performance goes down. I should and will always "get to the club, spot the hardest sets, approach until I attack fear and my performance will slowly but surely increase in the long term"

3. Physical game receptivity - Clawing the girls and getting physical straight away does NOT lead to blow outs in general. Girls love it. They may not give you amazing reactions or suck your dick straight away but the mere fact they stay in your claw & in your presence is enough to re-inforce PHYSICAL STRAIGHT OFF THE BAT. Either they are down with my gig or they are not. Minimising game to the minimum 

4. Fail don't bail - A classic problem I am running into EVERY week. My perfecionist mind makes me want to bail before I get rejected. Probably 3 of my interactions were going perfect tonight (perfectionism) i.e. not amazing reactions but my perfectionism fear got the better of me and I bailed. Next time I am out I will FAIL rather than bail. It doesn't have to be going my way for me to be succesfull

5. Openers & Tonality - Skill based learning which is a small part of this game but NATURALLY I found myself talking in breaking rapport, asking short questions whilst being super physical which worked great :). I liked how I would say the opener (lame opener) tonight and just pause and await for the girl to fill in the gaps.

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27.04.13

Instead of going to the club tonight I take a different approach. There's quite a few boxing fights on tonight and I am a huge fan. I decide to hit some of the girls up I've been meeting since going out & setup two dates - The first is typical logistics nightmare. She drives but doesn't drink, lives at home with her family and ten million brothers. We meet up go to a bar for a drink, it gets too quiet then I start bouncing her around to different quiet places. It's clear the attraction is there, lots of chemistry and shes pretty fucking hot too :) - I catch my self eye fucking her a few times during the date but I know nothing is going to happen due to Logistics nightmare. I suprisingly learnt quite a lot during this date and it was very useful - Lessons:

1. Girls are actually chodes - When you sit there & get investment from them on a date they ask the usual chode "boring" questions us guys in game try to avoid. E.g. how many brothers do you have, do you enjoy work, what you been doing - and it's perfectly normal to ask these normal questions this date firmly re-inforced this into my head. "It's ok to be just ok"

2. There are plenty of available girls who actually don't have the men in their life they want - She was telling me how she's been single for years, this girl is pretty hot too, doesn't get approached much on nights out but has plenty of options within her friend circle that doesn't really intrest her -> so many single availabile girls out which put me in a further abundance state lol

3. I have all the natural skills for PU - I must have talked and enjoyed an interaction for 2-2.5 hours, without "going into my head" - my natural skills were coming through and this was because I was in a comfortable situation where I had no fear blocking my performance.

Anyway, during the date I realise I'm not going to be able to get my dick out so I had dropped a text to another girl earlier in the day who txts me saying "Had two glasses of wine & so tipsy right now.. what you up to" - BOOM, Logistics paradise. I setup the date where I pick her up after shes been drinking with her friends and she agrees. I ditch the first girl (logistics nightmare girl) and meet up with this girl about 1.5 hours later. I collect her around midnight and we go for a random pointless drive where I waste thirty minutes talking absolute fluff. I pull over get more flirty with her and I see this girl is downnn tooo fuck. We start making out and I start to rip her clothes off in the back of my car whilst shes all over my dong :)

Quick lessons learnt from this date:

1. Girls are horny and providing you have logistics on your side you can hook up in your car with ease
2. I had to be super dominate and physical - to get the girls clothes off, putting her hand on my dick, pulling her knickers down etc etc - Women are just not programmed to make any moves at all.
3 Small talk is okay - my 1st meet up with her we didn't even make out so it's not a biggie like i used to think (Used to think if I didn't make out on first date it's pointless never see her again etc)

So I come home and I stick the boxing on, I see two missed calls / txts from a 3rd girl (the hottest of them all, who has a BF). She asks me "are you out tonight"? I'm super honest with this chick all the time and I tell her I've just met up a girl and she went down on me. She gets kinda pissed but turned on at the same time - she tells me I  should have met her instead & how she's out tonight and the night life kinda sucks where she is. I ignore her texts as I am super in the boxing (lame :P i know!) and she texts again "pick me up, bring a condom" followed by a series of booty calls. Will probably see her tomorrow and see what I can do haha.. :)

That's it from my dating adventures! Enjoy :)
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02.5.13

Meet up with my regular wing & we hit a club in Birmingham,UK. I feel pretty energised I rested up a few hours before coming out despite having an early start with work. I was really keen to build on my "getting-physical-off-the-bat" motto from last week. After we left the club my wing gives me some solid advice. He says I have been approaching much less in the last few weeks. He's actually corrrect now I logically think about it - I had so much success for two months after Programme where I was pulling off the 1st or 2nd approach of the evening & doing this consistently. Perhaps in my sub-concious I am not wanting to approach in volume because I don't want to fear rejection or sub-conciously I feel I am better than the guy who gets rejected. Time to put that correct in the field tonight!

Anyway - tonight I wanted to work and build on being very physical as said above & also approaching more mixed sets as it seems like I was shying away from them. The night wasn't as busy as it usually is, partially because all the students are in the middle of exams or have gone home for summer break. Lots of locals, lots of groups but that is expected in a Club of this size/type. I do some really solid challenges. I approach mixed groups for my first challenge, physical straight off the bat, my 2nd approach is big girl group, I do some easy 2-3 girls in the middle of the dancefloor. I had to fight off some friends trying to get me to leave so that was brillianty growth experience & suprise suprise, no guys tried to intervene when I hit on the girls in their group.

Anyway, enough rambling on to the lessons & discoveries learnt tonight (I found myself negatively labelling a lot more last night which is interesting as this is a new NTP)
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1. Victim mentality - it's something Ozzie spoke to us about on programme. As we develop charachter in this game our minds old identity will constantly try to pull us back into it's old identitiy as the mind does not like change - I experienced this last night where my mind flooded me with millions of thoughts on why I shouldn't go out. Ozzie told us to love that, love the conflict as it is a great indicator that we are on the right path/way in this game.

2. Claw must get stronger - I went in with the claw straight off my opener with pretty much all my sets yesterday. Even the girls who were not giving me the super amazing reactions just stood there in my claw lol. Letting me dominate them physically without any resistance. However as my fear levels raised during the first few minutes I can feel my claw getting weaker, gotta make sure it doesn't get anything but stronger. Physical game is king baby.

3. Friends will intervene MORE when you go physical straight away - Yep, found that on a few occasions now and it will be interesting to see if it re-occures. The friends intervene more and try to save the girl when I go physical. INTERESTINGLY on both occasions the girl tells her friends "it's ok", lol the girls must be loving it. I wonder if those same girls would say the same thing if I was just verbal?

4. Perfectionism/Failure - As my previous notes suggest my biggest issue is my perfectionism. I am not hitting my two minute mark consistently. I should be able to control my two minutes in most situations. After two minutes fear goes down and interactions usually improve.  Thinking back I got my two minute + in the 1st interaction but probably not much more. I am bailing on the sets where I don't think it's going my way. Tonight I will stay in there for two minutes until I get told to fuck off or pushed away.

5. Without fear you can become a maniac - A girl slapped my ass on the dance floor and I had done some pretty good challenges. Next thing I know it - without thinking I had clawed her and up in her face lol. I think my super quick reactions freaked her out a bit too and also me.. without fear it's like we have no blocks/paths
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 03.05.13 - Birmingham, UK Club.

As I continue writing my field reports I am slowly but surely trying to improve my writing style so that people can gain more value from my insights and findings. This is a working in progress so bare with me on this one.The last few weeks I have been noticing a common patern. Ozzies system/programme is built on a foundation technique of two minutes. The program expresses that if you last two minutes in any interaction, your fear levels naturally subside allowing our natural skills to come through at the expense of fear symptoms. As a long-term result PU performance will go-up.

I have been failing to hit my two minute mark for the last few weeks. It has been frustrating me because the two minute mark is something I CAN CONTROL. I'm not trying to play god here, in most situations I should be able to last my two minute mark, whether I get a shit load of abuse thrown at me, my performance sucks or the girls are not into me - I can last my two minutes in most situatiations. As a result tonight was all about bringing it back to basics and lasting my two minutes in each fearful/symptom based approach.

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So, as said above all about hitting my two minute mark PERIOD. Either the girls tell me to fuck off or I get pushed away. Otherwise I stay in and get my two minutes. I was very succesfull last night. I hit my two minute mark in 80% of my interactions. I failed in one or two because the friends literally dragged the girls away or I was perhaps 5-7 seconds away from the two minute mark. I learnt a ton in fear technology tonight - When you consistently hit the two minute mark, fear does just FUCK OFF. When you symptom based approach and last two minutes our natural skills come through and you SEE OPPORTUNITY to hit up the hottest girls! I got a make out (quick-flash make out) tonight so that's 3 for this month (7 behind target for the month) and I need two more lays.

Anyway - what I learnt

1. The two minute mark is fucking key  - When you don't last your two minutes (because of Fear, performance related fears or perfectionism) you take your fear into the next set. Fear is perpetulated. And this seriously fucks up performance during the course of the night, you stop approaching. When you last your two minutes no matter how tough your skills are built in that situation, your natural skills come through, fear is reduced and PU performance goes up. I want to become a perfectionism in getting my two minutes. Some may be reading thinking two minutes is easy - but in a high intensity environment like the dancefloor it's anything but.

2. Fun & Friendly - Ozzie drilled this into me and the other student. Be fun, loud & gay friendly :). It makes absolutely no difference if you are fun and friendly or super direct/alpha bla bla. Whatever happens happens. With the right mix of physical game you will stay out the friend zone. People give you what you give them back - give them fear/nervousness expect it back.

3. It's okay to make a poor first impression - It really is. Fucking unreal how bad your first impression can be. I was approaching all my sets with my hand behind my head "is this the best club in Central Birmingham?" - lame line, lame opose - total chode. Makes no fucking difference! After a minute or so I'm flirting with the girls etc etc. Doubt they would even remember my "opening line"

4. Some girls are just not going to like you-- On one of my sets that I didn't last my two minutes the girls SAID NOTHING. Literally NOTHING. I still pushed it to the core, 1m30s. Unfortunately sometimes there's aboslutely NOTHING you can do if a girl doesn't want it. On to the next one, in this case the grass is greener.

5. Absent physical game -  I've been trying to get physical off the bat in the last few weeks & succesfully. Unfortunately last night because I was so focussed on my two minutes I completely neglected physical game - without physical game, no sex lane :(. So next time in the field I will ensure i get physical either straight off the bat or within 1 min.

My make out was pretty flashy tonight, group of Indian girls checking me out "full on"  - puts me in my head a bit, hot blonde walks past checks me out, claw her in and make out lol. Just for the personal record book haha
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